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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand it either why not just be honest its the best way to be I think

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Amen Sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hear hear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amen Sister! "

H u flushing them lush boobs at me again

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Amen Sister!

H u flushing them lush boobs at me again "

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amen Sister!

H u flushing them lush boobs at me again

Always "

That's my girl

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I own up !!!! I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I own up !!!! I'm single "

Me too

Now where are those married women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we set Andy's single profile up that is the first thing that I wrote "

Well let's be honest I am in a relationship". Like you said women get to make their own minds up then as to what they want to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site. "

well said maid....honesty is the best policy

I've been there where the wife's turned up and im the single one who's done nothing wrong..But I become the biggest bitch walking.it's not a nice situation to be in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people lie about their age too. Not naming anyone but can be rather off putting when you expect to meet a 45 year old and he is obviously a lot older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people lie about their age too. Not naming anyone but can be rather off putting when you expect to meet a 45 year old and he is obviously a lot older "

That they do huni I personally don't see why they do way I see it if one is looking after one self surely it's better to be told u look gd for ur age rather then lie. That's my motto anyway xx

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

It's not just women who do that lol. Guys do it as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just women who do that lol. Guys do it as well lol "

Guys I was on about hun I've yet to meet a lady who's has lied about her age if I'm honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met someone who was a fair bit older that stated. Didn't look it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fem that is

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Ok, you got me... I admit it... I'm married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, you got me... I admit it... I'm married! "
and lead a double life, you and deidre

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By *aidinwales OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rainbows End


"It's not just women who do that lol. Guys do it as well lol

Guys I was on about hun I've yet to meet a lady who's has lied about her age if I'm honest xx"

Lol I know a few fems that do xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just women who do that lol. Guys do it as well lol

Guys I was on about hun I've yet to meet a lady who's has lied about her age if I'm honest xx

Lol I know a few fems that do xx. "

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Our ages are spot on, its our names and location we lied about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site. "

I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.

I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible "

Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely Life insurance is the best policy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.

I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible

Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X"

I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.

I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible

Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X

I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies. "

I had the same but lucky it was only 6 months.

wife turned up and i knew nothing.

that's why I decided to do clubs and partys as much more less hassle.happy to say it's been well over a year now and I have bounced back

you will get there hun but like you said I for one don't trust no1 and i dont believe anything no one says anymore.

chin up hun ur worth more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if a certain person I met had been honest

maybe I wouldn't have met

but after meeting 3times

Then finding out seemed pointless then

The damage had been done

As I was honest about being single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.

I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible

Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X

I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies.

I had the same but lucky it was only 6 months.

wife turned up and i knew nothing.

that's why I decided to do clubs and partys as much more less hassle.happy to say it's been well over a year now and I have bounced back

you will get there hun but like you said I for one don't trust no1 and i dont believe anything no one says anymore.

chin up hun ur worth more "

Defo agree. Parties and clubs are easier. If it wasn't for friends I'd met through here I would of been a wreck. You know, I would still be oblivious to his marriage if I hadn't found out myself. He never volunteered the information.

Let us honest peeps have fun and the liers stick with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.

I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible

Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X

I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies.

I had the same but lucky it was only 6 months.

wife turned up and i knew nothing.

that's why I decided to do clubs and partys as much more less hassle.happy to say it's been well over a year now and I have bounced back

you will get there hun but like you said I for one don't trust no1 and i dont believe anything no one says anymore.

chin up hun ur worth more

Defo agree. Parties and clubs are easier. If it wasn't for friends I'd met through here I would of been a wreck. You know, I would still be oblivious to his marriage if I hadn't found out myself. He never volunteered the information.

Let us honest peeps have fun and the liers stick with each other "

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

I know xx I was chatting to this lady on a single profile the other day giving it all the come on bla bla etc etc... At the end of the night she was like right I'm off to spend time with my husband... I was like ok mmmmmmmm I mean at least she was honest but still she could a said at start..... It was like finding sprouts in my Christmas stocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know xx I was chatting to this lady on a single profile the other day giving it all the come on bla bla etc etc... At the end of the night she was like right I'm off to spend time with my husband... I was like ok mmmmmmmm I mean at least she was honest but still she could a said at start..... It was like finding sprouts in my Christmas stocking "

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