FabSwingers.com forum: single men discreet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok having just read a post, do single men mess it up for others because they are not discreet enough I believe they do, but what do you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some single men are but the odd few definitely aren't!!

I was told that one man asked a meet what she thought of me, even though he'd met me 18 months previously and then proceeded to give details of something that happened during our meet. It was quite a funny story but you had to be there plus if he was that desperate for something to talk about he could have told it without mentioning names

He's still on Fab so needless to say he was told to keep his gob shut in future!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its strange I have always been discreet but others who arnt seem to get the meets but everybody I know say discretion is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the post?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What was the post?"

That's not being discreet, sorry keep that to my self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh i see a chance to boost your own popularity by making yourself seem more discreet that others lol

How does anyone become more discreet than anyone else??? Or do some guys walk around wearing tshirts with fabswinger logos and knocking on peoples neibours doors telling them what were all up to? Lol

Dont single guys have it hard enough without other single guys trying to make it harder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its strange I have always been discreet but others who arnt seem to get the meets but everybody I know say discretion is the way forward"

But do they get a second meet? They certainly wouldn't with me. Living in such a rural location as this, discretion is extremely important to me.

I know I show my veris so you can see who I've met and I have no problem with that, but I really don't appreciate details of my meet being discussed with others.

Maybe I should have been flattered that he had nothing better to talk about 18 months down the line

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ahhhh i see a chance to boost your own popularity by making yourself seem more discreet that others lol

How does anyone become more discreet than anyone else??? Or do some guys walk around wearing tshirts with fabswinger logos and knocking on peoples neibours doors telling them what were all up to? Lol

Dont single guys have it hard enough without other single guys trying to make it harder?

Why should I tell you the post I read in not trying to boost my popularity dont need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh i see a chance to boost your own popularity by making yourself seem more discreet that others lol

How does anyone become more discreet than anyone else??? Or do some guys walk around wearing tshirts with fabswinger logos and knocking on peoples neibours doors telling them what were all up to? Lol

Dont single guys have it hard enough without other single guys trying to make it harder?

Why should I tell you the post I read in not trying to boost my popularity dont need to "

Discretion on fab is the same as many other areas in life, full of grey areas, women talk about the guys they have met between eachother for safety reasons im sure lol people will always discuss meets in some degree or another or do we all start getting pre-meet non-disclosure contacts written up for potential meets to sign before we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was having a chat with someone only yesterday

And was told he'd been chatting to someone I'd met

Obviously by the way he told me it was about our meet

Not happy!

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By *heep2405Man
over a year ago

Newport

I've met a few at socials and meets, but don't talk about this to anyone else that's not on the forum, being quite about it, is the best way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhhh i see a chance to boost your own popularity by making yourself seem more discreet that others lol

How does anyone become more discreet than anyone else??? Or do some guys walk around wearing tshirts with fabswinger logos and knocking on peoples neibours doors telling them what were all up to? Lol

Dont single guys have it hard enough without other single guys trying to make it harder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the first people I ever met spent all night talking about previous conquests and even showed me very intimate pictures. Needless to say, I never saw him again.

Charl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the first people I ever met spent all night talking about previous conquests and even showed me very intimate pictures. Needless to say, I never saw him again.

Charl"

Wow really? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess ive underestimated some of the people on this site, i actually have to be discreet as part of my work so find discretion comes very easily to me, i really dont see why some guys would use names or even show pics ffs :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess ive underestimated some of the people on this site, i actually have to be discreet as part of my work so find discretion comes very easily to me, i really dont see why some guys would use names or even show pics ffs :-/"

I think you may have done. I was shown pictures one woman had in her friends only by someone I met for coffee. He was deleted from my friends list as soon as I got home!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what I'm getting at, you like me need to discreet for work and the pics in my friends file I have their permission but I wouldn't go showing them round to anybody, and that's what I originally was getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not...

women are alot worse at discretion ...

I've had abusive messages calling me all the names under the sun as they have been with someone who doesn't like me...

But if all they need to talk about is me on a meet crack on

The people who tend to moan about discretion is a must are the worst culprit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the first people I ever met spent all night talking about previous conquests and even showed me very intimate pictures. Needless to say, I never saw him again.

Charl"

I have had that to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe it or not...

women are alot worse at discretion ...

I've had abusive messages calling me all the names under the sun as they have been with someone who doesn't like me...

But if all they need to talk about is me on a meet crack on

The people who tend to moan about discretion is a must are the worst culprit

I ask for discretion but I'm definitely NOT a culprit. I don't message or want messages from other women about any man I meet on here

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