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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know different women prefer different things and apart from not being dicks as advice, is there anything that could help men get started on this site.

Because without a verification it is near impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get offended if a lady isn't interested. We can't be everyones cup of tea. Remember not to take yourself too seriously and have a laugh. Happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be funny n polite & move on if your message gets no reply or if you're told no thanks. Oh & whatever you do don't post needy or whiney updates or forum threads, now thats got to be the biggest ever turn off X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be funny n polite & move on if your message gets no reply or if you're told no thanks. Oh & whatever you do don't post needy or whiney updates or forum threads, now thats got to be the biggest ever turn off X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be funny n polite & move on if your message gets no reply or if you're told no thanks. Oh & whatever you do don't post needy or whiney updates or forum threads, now thats got to be the biggest ever turn off X"

Whiney? Bit judgemental there, will take it on board.

Sorry won't post again

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

There's ya first lesson bruv lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's ya first lesson bruv lol "

Cheers cuz lol

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"There's ya first lesson bruv lol

Cheers cuz lol"

It's cut throat... Go to socials n clubs best way...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's ya first lesson bruv lol

Cheers cuz lol

It's cut throat... Go to socials n clubs best way... "

Not when you need a verification to go to most of them buddy, don't think some people read the question properly lol

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Having some pics on your profile helps. Sell yourself, make your profile stand out above the other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be funny n polite & move on if your message gets no reply or if you're told no thanks. Oh & whatever you do don't post needy or whiney updates or forum threads, now thats got to be the biggest ever turn off X

Whiney? Bit judgemental there, will take it on board.

Sorry won't post again "

That's it jump to the attack, I wasn't actually on about this thread

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)


"Having some pics on your profile helps. Sell yourself, make your profile stand out above the other guys "
Sounds like you work down the jobcentre lol half the people don't even read the profiles mate unless you got veris for them to mull over,you could be the most amusing,charming fella on the planet n it dont mean jack shit in my view sorry folks...

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Also the way some people behave/comment on forums puts others off from replying too. I know we all have our own opinions but it's all about preferences at the end of the day. Happy hunting I wish you well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's ya first lesson bruv lol

Cheers cuz lol

It's cut throat... Go to socials n clubs best way...

Not when you need a verification to go to most of them buddy, don't think some people read the question properly lol "

Are you a Liam Neeson fan???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

Having veris don't mean shit... I only slept with 5 people but because I got social veris all of a sudden I'm fucking to many lol I'm quite shy and picky xxx

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. "

Love fulfilling fantasies xx epic

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. "
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was for people looking for quick,easy sex with no strings,I'd join Jane whats her name otherwise n some people can't do public photos coz they like to be discreet for whatever reason...Not everyone feels the need to live out their private lives in the public gaze n publish what we get upto see do we....

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. I thought the whole point of a swingers site was for people looking for quick,easy sex with no strings,I'd join Jane whats her name otherwise n some people can't do public photos coz they like to be discreet for whatever reason...Not everyone feels the need to live out their private lives in the public gaze n publish what we get upto see do we.... "

Wat like fucking someone over a police car bonnet

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. "

That's right hun... Quick sex Aarrgghhhhhh couldn't think of anything worse xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. I thought the whole point of a swingers site was for people looking for quick,easy sex with no strings,I'd join Jane whats her name otherwise n some people can't do public photos coz they like to be discreet for whatever reason...Not everyone feels the need to live out their private lives in the public gaze n publish what we get upto see do we.... "

Haha. So you see no difference between a MF quick fuck and swinging?!?!

For me swinging is about clubs, socials and actual 'swinging' whether it's a MFMF, MMF or group sex.

Can't do public photos at all? I didn't say face photos and unless you've got pretty distinguishing body features where's the harm in a torso shot? Silhouette? Best feature photo?

If that's a dig at my profile then it pretty much smacks of jealously that I'm more 'successful' on fab than you.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. I thought the whole point of a swingers site was for people looking for quick,easy sex with no strings,I'd join Jane whats her name otherwise n some people can't do public photos coz they like to be discreet for whatever reason...Not everyone feels the need to live out their private lives in the public gaze n publish what we get upto see do we....

Haha. So you see no difference between a MF quick fuck and swinging?!?!

For me swinging is about clubs, socials and actual 'swinging' whether it's a MFMF, MMF or group sex.

Can't do public photos at all? I didn't say face photos and unless you've got pretty distinguishing body features where's the harm in a torso shot? Silhouette? Best feature photo?

If that's a dig at my profile then it pretty much smacks of jealously that I'm more 'successful' on fab than you.

"

Lolol

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. "
Always wondered why I was blocked but I suppose my profile does give the game away a bit n suggest that I'm only l©©king for a bit of nonsense with not too many strings....oh well forward n beyond..

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

Not having a dig at anyone I'm sure you'd know if I was n sex is sex to me no matter what tag you put on it,it just varies with who you have it with n photos can be recognised by things like decor in a room,a certain area as well as little things like beauty spots etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. Always wondered why I was blocked but I suppose my profile does give the game away a bit n suggest that I'm only l©©king for a bit of nonsense with not too many strings....oh well forward n beyond.. "

Almost tempted to unblock you to check why I've blocked you but I can pretty much guess that you don't meet my standards on numerous levels.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. Always wondered why I was blocked but I suppose my profile does give the game away a bit n suggest that I'm only l©©king for a bit of nonsense with not too many strings....oh well forward n beyond..

Almost tempted to unblock you to check why I've blocked you but I can pretty much guess that you don't meet my standards on numerous levels. "

Tee hee muscles n tattoos

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. Always wondered why I was blocked but I suppose my profile does give the game away a bit n suggest that I'm only l©©king for a bit of nonsense with not too many strings....oh well forward n beyond..

Almost tempted to unblock you to check why I've blocked you but I can pretty much guess that you don't meet my standards on numerous levels. "
I can guarantee I don't meet your standards as you so lovingly put it so there's no confusion there n all I said is people want different things but too often that results in people getting stroppy n yet another slanging match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. Always wondered why I was blocked but I suppose my profile does give the game away a bit n suggest that I'm only l©©king for a bit of nonsense with not too many strings....oh well forward n beyond..

Almost tempted to unblock you to check why I've blocked you but I can pretty much guess that you don't meet my standards on numerous levels. I can guarantee I don't meet your standards as you so lovingly put it so there's no confusion there n all I said is people want different things but too often that results in people getting stroppy n yet another slanging match "

My issue is you confusing swinging and what appears to be one night stands. I'm very aware of what swinging involves and easy sex it isn't. The attitude you and the OP show about Fab and 'easy sex' is what creates this whole bulk delete and 'fancy a fuck' angriness. I wasn't taking a Pop. You brought up you wondered why you were blocked.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

looks like yet another thread thats gonna get pulled for descending into a slanging match lol!

Why cant guys just accept they get blocked, and move on?

FYI... contacting someone who's blocked you in the forums can get your profile banned!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My god...

What is wrong with people on here seriously! Wasn't having a go, meh meh meh is from South Park, and can't have public photos cause of people only viewing photos and not talking..

Disgusting people on here fair do's apart from the small minority that don't think with there sexual organs.. Good one folks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's ya first lesson bruv lol

Cheers cuz lol

It's cut throat... Go to socials n clubs best way...

Not when you need a verification to go to most of them buddy, don't think some people read the question properly lol

Are you a Liam Neeson fan???"

He's man man crush lol

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)


"Personally I'd see the 'meh meh meh' and think this guy is just looking for quick/easy sex and delete message and block. To not have any public photos is slightly odd.

Actually describe what kind of things you want to get up to, if there are fantasies you want to live out etc. Always wondered why I was blocked but I suppose my profile does give the game away a bit n suggest that I'm only l©©king for a bit of nonsense with not too many strings....oh well forward n beyond..

Almost tempted to unblock you to check why I've blocked you but I can pretty much guess that you don't meet my standards on numerous levels. I can guarantee I don't meet your standards as you so lovingly put it so there's no confusion there n all I said is people want different things but too often that results in people getting stroppy n yet another slanging match

My issue is you confusing swinging and what appears to be one night stands. I'm very aware of what swinging involves and easy sex it isn't. The attitude you and the OP show about Fab and 'easy sex' is what creates this whole bulk delete and 'fancy a fuck' angriness. I wasn't taking a Pop. You brought up you wondered why you were blocked. "
Ah no worries kgirl that's cool,same yuh wasn't having a go just saying we all got different ideas n likes n I'm not the easy sex or fancy a fuck type but not a swinger or dogger either just a normal(ish) tidy bloke l©©king for some-one special with a similar outl©©k as myself....hence I'm still yuh! lol

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