FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.

Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier

I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually closed my single profile down because I couldn't take anymore of the abuse that I was having to face from mainly men on here xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox me there name lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox me there name lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it? "

I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?

I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!

Well they had been verified a couple of times all be it a while ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Inbox me there name lol x"

Shall do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it? "

I really don't know I was called an std whore a racist a fucking slut/slag, fat c**t. And these messages sometimes were from people I had never spoken to it was their opening message x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?

I really don't know I was called an std whore a racist a fucking slut/slag, fat c**t. And these messages sometimes were from people I had never spoken to it was their opening message x"

Ive never experienced that these were obviously pouting because i didnt reply earlier on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?

I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!

Well they had been verified a couple of times all be it a while ago"

Maybe just horrible people and would seem like a timely miss on your part as cant imagine they would be nice people anyway!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?

I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!

Well they had been verified a couple of times all be it a while ago

Maybe just horrible people and would seem like a timely miss on your part as cant imagine they would be nice people anyway!!!

I certainly wont lose any sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it all, but it's likely to be the guy alone on an old couple profile, although I have had abuse from couples & fems in the past. Some people just don't get no or real life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't make sense why theyd say any of that in the first place. They're not helping themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had no response from messages (including you p69) lol, but there's no need for that pathetic behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had no response from messages (including you p69) lol, but there's no need for that pathetic behaviour."

Nice little dig by there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most women dont answer or acknowledge messages which doesnt help

no excuse for abuse though but give attention seekers a platform, some anonimity and a a way to tease ... its bound to happen.

ive had abuse from women too so it goes both ways though i thing men who sit on here cock in hand prob snap abit sooner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inbox me there name lol x

Shall do xx"

Ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inbox me there name lol x

Shall do xx"

Ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh n don't worry I just got told I'm a twat and have anger issues and should keep taking happy pills

Oh n everyone he's spoke to on here says I have anger issues lol

I love it, I must be soo popular and interesting coz loads of knobs talk about me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well miss p I'd be quite happy if I were as 'fat' as you.

You can block em too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass me their names so I can tell em to fuck off. No need for that! And I did enjoy cable guy lol

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?

I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!

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Fucking tit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why men pretend to have couple profiles. It may be a swinger site but has to be attraction. If they don't like you move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.

Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier

I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that?

It's THEIR loss MissP. You're lovely. It's sad that some people seem to take pleasure in abusing others. Please don't let them spoil Fab for you...keep smiling anyway, you have a friend here. Big hugs. Rich. XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

inbox me too there name / cheeky bastards - hugs Hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really dont understand why ppl throw abuse at end of day its supposed to be a fun site, if a certain person or persons isnt to someone taste then it should be accepted and also understand women are bombarded with messages and messeages can get lost.

Anyway chin up peeps its the weekend wooo hooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. It didnt upset me but i just dont get why people do it. And yes....my weekend of afternoons starting today booooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"inbox me too there name / cheeky bastards - hugs Hun xxx "

I cant as im outside your age filters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really dont understand why ppl throw abuse at end of day its supposed to be a fun site, if a certain person or persons isnt to someone taste then it should be accepted and also understand women are bombarded with messages and messeages can get lost.

Anyway chin up peeps its the weekend wooo hooo

weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a bunch of narrow minded fickle idiots who think you should be honoured that they messaged you, obviously throwing their toys out of the pram because you didnt respond within 100th of a second. Their loss and your gain. You dont fall into the trap of having to meet face to face which must be a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name & shame happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had any abuse off single guys . Few wiered messages but never abuse ? Poppy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never had any abuse off single guys . Few wiered messages but never abuse ? Poppy xx

Nor me.....this was a verified couple ive never experienced it from single men and they are the ones who seem to get a bad name on here

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By *ichy99Man
over a year ago

cardiff

i dont see any logic to it, if a message gets deleted or i dont get a reply (which is very often) i dont see the need to abuse anyone, its just childish and dickish behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there's a lot of it about....!

Witnessed a good friend here endure over a week of abuse, and it was vile.

The user simply kept making new profiles, making it harder to sort out.

Unecessary and infantile, mostly it's highly disrespectful, because they just want to TRY and hurt you.

People find it all too easy to forget that stuff that may go on here, can indeed have a knock on effect on you in RL.

Good job you're thick skinned MissP,

As with FAB - gotta take the rough with the smooth......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Sadly there's a lot of it about....!

Witnessed a good friend here endure over a week of abuse, and it was vile.

The user simply kept making new profiles, making it harder to sort out.

Unecessary and infantile, mostly it's highly disrespectful, because they just want to TRY and hurt you.

People find it all too easy to forget that stuff that may go on here, can indeed have a knock on effect on you in RL.

Good job you're thick skinned MissP,

As with FAB - gotta take the rough with the smooth......

xx"

Advise your friend to filter new profiles. Then the person who is dishing out the abuse won't be able to message straight away and will get bored

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol"

See this is the bit i dont get.... they obviously thought you were good enough to ask you to meet then when things didnt go their way you suddenly became an ugly c*nt. Theres no logic to it

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By *ichy99Man
over a year ago

cardiff

"I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol

See this is the bit i dont get.... they obviously thought you were good enough to ask you to meet then when things didnt go their way you suddenly became an ugly c*nt. Theres no logic to it

its the childish nature of people is all, a full on case of throwing the dummy out the pram from not getting their own way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol

See this is the bit i dont get.... they obviously thought you were good enough to ask you to meet then when things didnt go their way you suddenly became an ugly c*nt. Theres no logic to it

But dont they realise how ridiculous they make themselves look xx

its the childish nature of people is all, a full on case of throwing the dummy out the pram from not getting their own way"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Absolutely no idea what happened to my last message all that posted was a load of faces lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok mine keep posting twice half the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok mine keep posting twice half the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ok mine keep posting twice half the time lol "

I just thought it was an echo

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

"I never had any abuse off single guys . Few wiered messages but never abuse ? Poppy xx

Nor me.....this was a verified couple ive never experienced it from single men and they are the ones who seem to get a bad name on here

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Thanks for putting um straight missP69,I was scratching my head wondering why us singletons got blamed by some when you clearly stated it was a verified COUPLE from the start.....hope you have a good weekend sweety&we'll all give um some stick if they bother you again,just tell us who they are ok....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ok mine keep posting twice half the time lol

I just thought it was an echo

Lol

I have issues and like repeating myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ok mine keep posting twice half the time lol

I just thought it was an echo

Lol

I have issues and like repeating myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ok mine keep posting twice half the time lol

I just thought it was an echo

Lol

I have issues and like repeating myself "

Too much of the cucumber

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Fat? Jesus not much hope for me then!! LOL....F**k em obviously weirdos, just smile and wave haha. Have a great weekend xx

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

I had a real nasty one of a single fem didn't respond just reported her and she got kicked off the site simple

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been trying to reply to most messages. Not going to bother anymore because 50% of men respond to a no thanks with abuse. What a bunch of saddos. I have been called a mong, granny, spoilsport, in just the last few hours. All get reported but does anything ever happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally take it that if someone doesnt reply they arnt interested?

I bet that most single women on here get 100s emails and sometimes don't get time to reply to them all?

I have also found that be patient can be very beneficial lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope they get thrown off the site.

Or maybe we should all abuse them. But no we're better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of the two faced fuckers are posting on here cheeky as fuck or what ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.

I went through a phase when i replied to every message but found that a lot of people automatically assumed that it meant i wanted to meet. You cant do right for doing wrong on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few of the two faced fuckers are posting on here cheeky as fuck or what ? "

Whats all that about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few of the two faced fuckers are posting on here cheeky as fuck or what ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't take rejection ?

It's more than likely that any woman on here has had shit load of abuse from single wannabe guys and are so pissed off with it that they've given up on replying to all of the mail they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.

Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier

I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that?

not sure they were looking at the right profile...you are sexy Hun. Juicy looking tits and hips mmmmm- not surprised desperation drove them insane. You rock

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Wisbech and A47 corridor

"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.

Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier

I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that?

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. Successfully people are never abusive and always aim to inspire others. I ignore any abusive messages as they will be from hopelessly inadequate individuals . Only time wasted is theirs. Happy for them to waste as much as they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.

Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier

I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that?

Name and shame them .. this is supposed to be a tidy site .. people like that need to be named and shamed .. if they cant be nice then dont bother being on here xx

Hope your ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey, you must have been very busy to have spoken to 'most' of the women on this site in the two weeks you've been here to make such a sweeping statement!

After reading your other Forum posts and your status I think it's a bit ironic of you to call others arrogant and unsociable!

It's single men like you who are likely to appear on quite a few block lists after comments of that nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah bless someone aint getting any action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm, another one for the block list me thinks! D.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

You don't do yourself any favours really do you! From this post alone you've added yourself to the block list of a few very decent women who may have given you a chance had you not been so rude and arrogant yourself.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

That's utter rubbish I'm afraid.

I've got two good female friends on this site (well, one now as one left due to abuse).

They were getting over 30 messages a day. Some were from friends they wanted to interact with - that takes up time. The rest (say 20) were ones they had no interest in, often because it was badly written and/or downright offensive!

Imagine writing 20 "no thank" messages back. Even just cutting and pasting 20 messages would be tedious in the extreme.

Plus the fact I've seen how badly lots of guys react to a polite "no". Really horrible.

It's not rudeness or arrogance 99% of the time, just the practicalities of being a woman on here.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

It's not rudeness or arrogance 99% of the time, just the practicalities of being a woman on here."

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