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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks miss you no who you are lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 20 messages a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation is never attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am nice so I always do

If its to say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. We block and delete desperate attention seekers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks miss you no who you are lol?"

I sat all day yesterday waiting on u...There is no point in messaging me at 1 am in the morning...

i am not sat waiting with legs akimbo on tap....

so have a nice day..and u have a cheeky to call people time wasters....tut tut...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you do get a no thanks but mostly silence. You cant be everyones cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to any mails sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, most guys who approach haven't read my profile, don't string a decent message together & have no clue about conversation. I delete routinely. On the few occasions in recent weeks where I have agreed to meet for that first coffee, most have failed to show. Coffee 1st seems to be a thing of the past & I'm saddened about that, because it means no play meets for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always reply even if it's to say no thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always reply even if it's to say no thank you x"

Must take you hours, it would me, I'd have to give up my job lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

They never reply to me lols except for a special few and im crap at randomly messaging the ladys i'm to nice to send a message that's straight to the point like fancy a shag the only meets i have had was at the social and a special friend who i had a short fling with before joining here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always reply even if it's to say no thank you x

Must take you hours, it would me, I'd have to give up my job lol "

Nope doesn't take much just to say thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone takes effort to read my profile and message I will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't mention any names, and it's no-one who has posted on this thread, but there are women and couples who say that they will reply, even to say no thanks, but actually do not reply, even when a message is sent replying to a meet request. I realise that some people have so many messages that it would be really difficult to reply to all, but please people, no more BS!

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By *tsallaroundMan
over a year ago

merthyr

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they dont read my prifile they don't deserve a reply. Block and delete simple. If they think thats rude well its rude not to read profiles. Mine clearly states I will block if you don't. Not wasting a second of my time on numpties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes due to other commitments and the sheer number of men that message some women. It isnt always possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This ^

But also read the profile to see if you match what theyre after. Occasionally push your luck, as said recently "rules are there to be broken". If you have a half decent profile you're more likely to get a response. Tailor your message to the person so it doesn't look like you're spamming all the ladies.

Never pretend to be something you're not. If you do manage to meet you're only going to get found out and told where to go.

One thing I'd like to ask though. How important is a face picture attached to the message if there are pics on the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I don't reply to men either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do reply to the interesting ones....the same old do you want a fck i jus delete....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite simple the better you look and younger you are the better chance of a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really

But if I get a message saying hi

I know 100% they haven't read my profile or put any effort into messaging me

So exactly why should I take time to reply ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...I reply...but mostly its to say, 'thanks but no thanks' or 'have you not read my profile'!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its quite simple the better you look and younger you are the better chance of a reply.

"

excuse me young man I prefer my men to look and be real men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they dont read my prifile they don't deserve a reply. Block and delete simple. If they think thats rude well its rude not to read profiles. Mine clearly states I will block if you don't. Not wasting a second of my time on numpties.

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this!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk tidy to them and you might get a reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk tidy to them and you might get a reply lol"

Touchè

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk tidy to them and you might get a reply lol

Touchè "

Lol true tho I learnt my lesson my first few weeks on here u won't get a reply to "hi" this ain't pof lol am blocked by most women for saying hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk tidy to them and you might get a reply lol

Touchè

Lol true tho I learnt my lesson my first few weeks on here u won't get a reply to "hi" this ain't pof lol am blocked by most women for saying hi "

Ah well youre not on my block list....yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet I could be in 5 min if I wanted pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bet I could be in 5 min if I wanted pmsl "

We shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bet I could be in 5 min if I wanted pmsl "

If I recall you were a right twat in the beginning & universally blocked by most, it's nice to come across a guy who takes all thats thrown at him, learns a lesson & chages for the better as a result. You seem like a really nice guy nowadays & I enjoy chatting with you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This ^

But also read the profile to see if you match what theyre after. Occasionally push your luck, as said recently "rules are there to be broken". If you have a half decent profile you're more likely to get a response. Tailor your message to the person so it doesn't look like you're spamming all the ladies.

Never pretend to be something you're not. If you do manage to meet you're only going to get found out and told where to go.

One thing I'd like to ask though. How important is a face picture attached to the message if there are pics on the profile? "

If there's a face pic attached I will always make the effort to reply, I think they deserve that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank peach for the second chance I am a tidy guy we been chatting for about a year now ain't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they don't !

They're not supposed to talk with their mouth full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course they don't !

They're not supposed to talk with their mouth full "

Legend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There r some ass holes about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank peach for the second chance I am a tidy guy we been chatting for about a year now ain't we"

Yep, it was nice to have a guy say sorry for being a twat & do something about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's how I roll lol keep the peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do reply back but you have to be a gent. There are to many time wasters and it does make things harder for nice guys to chat. But definitely always read the ladies profile first and don't just message because you like the pic of there boobs. There are some amazing ladies on here and you will get thete fella be consistent and nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do reply back but you have to be a gent. There are to many time wasters and it does make things harder for nice guys to chat. But definitely always read the ladies profile first and don't just message because you like the pic of there boobs. There are some amazing ladies on here and you will get thete fella be consistent and nice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being disappointed in the beginning I set up a fake female profile for a few hours as a test. Didn't even have any pics and wasn't amazingly desirable, just normal.

Holy shit, from that test, I truly appreciate every single reply I get, to the point I will even send another "thankyou for the reply means a lot"

To a

"Thanks but no thanks"

It truly is shocking the amount of mail women get on here.

Hats off to you all for replying nicely to the mingers (me) aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being disappointed in the beginning I set up a fake female profile for a few hours as a test. Didn't even have any pics and wasn't amazingly desirable, just normal.

Holy shit, from that test, I truly appreciate every single reply I get, to the point I will even send another "thankyou for the reply means a lot"

To a

"Thanks but no thanks"

It truly is shocking the amount of mail women get on here.

Hats off to you all for replying nicely to the mingers (me) aswell"
tha was a good idea....now you know what we see day. An day out....

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

I'm always pleasantly suprised to get a reply even a 'no thanks' but I do realise that the ladies especially the hotties get a lot more messages than myself....probably more in a day than I got in 4 months lol but thats life I guess. Try not to draw attention to yourself coz some hypocrites here block you for that mate but that may be a blessing in disguise so dont despair&keep the faith...up the city!

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

Yes they do lol

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By *ichy99Man
over a year ago

cardiff

some do some dont, simple fact of life really

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"thanks miss you no who you are lol?

I sat all day yesterday waiting on u...There is no point in messaging me at 1 am in the morning...

i am not sat waiting with legs akimbo on tap....

so have a nice day..and u have a cheeky to call people time wasters....tut tut... "

Told you gigs one big cock..... Lol

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

I just like being polite and friendly I don't read profiles..... So if I say hi and no reply just carry on regardless..... To much emphasis on reading profiles n shit.... I can't even remember Wat my own profile says..... But that's me....

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl

If you can't be arsed to reply to desperate single men, do as we do and filter them so they can't message you in the first place.

Fuck all to reply to then!

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Nope. We block and delete desperate attention seekers. "

I need attention but please don't block me xxx

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

Always suspected that some blokes were masquerading as hot young women on yuh too,simple init no pics&no veri....good idea bfuck'd that's well out of order....ffs!!!

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By *untime biatchWoman
over a year ago

ova by ea wales

I always reply if they are shitty messages .... they get them back after all im a biatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to reply to fellas that have made a effort to read our profile and that sound interesting and send a face pic even if it's a no thanks. x

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