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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm really struggling with everything on this site right now, I love meeting new people at socials and clubs but when it comes to 1on1s or meets people seem to now be interested.

Once I say I will defenity meet some and we arrange time and date I put that time asside for them. Why do single males/females/couples talk the talk but when it comes to walking the walk they can't put there shoes on!

Is it just me? Am I really that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it can be like looking for a needle in a haystack

For every five meets you arrange, four fall through

Maybe it's the summer holidays, maybe it's just a bunch of timewasters, maybe my feet smell

Who knows? But I won't let that put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who don't show up or tend to not walk the walk are those that are purely fantasisers, looking for a kick while the wife watches the soaps quite possibly if they're single males. Some women again try and use this to fuel their erotic minds but in reality have no intention of going ahead, getting their own kicks from the feeling of being wanted. Unfortunately it's what this site attracts, which makes it harder to find the genuine people.

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Sometimes it can be like looking for a needle in a haystack

For every five meets you arrange, four fall through

Maybe it's the summer holidays, maybe it's just a bunch of timewasters, maybe my feet smell

Who knows? But I won't let that put me off "

It maybe because I work till 5 and only have limited time to offer people...but what annoys me is that time I put asside, for one person then they don't show up! Then iv had to turn someone else down for nothing! Doesn't seem fair!

Plus all I want is sex!!! Lol

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it can be like looking for a needle in a haystack

For every five meets you arrange, four fall through

Maybe it's the summer holidays, maybe it's just a bunch of timewasters, maybe my feet smell

Who knows? But I won't let that put me off

It maybe because I work till 5 and only have limited time to offer people...but what annoys me is that time I put asside, for one person then they don't show up! Then iv had to turn someone else down for nothing! Doesn't seem fair!

Plus all I want is sex!!! Lol "

Don't we all

Some people seem to think that we can meet at the drop off the hat, whenever and where ever, but time is precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had the dogging meets pull out on me

I think it's the no accommodation that pulls you down as the majority of 'single' guys are probably not or live in a house share. That said if you accommodated you'd be a lot more discerning about meets too!

Suck it up missy it's hardly as if you're deprived.

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Those who don't show up or tend to not walk the walk are those that are purely fantasisers, looking for a kick while the wife watches the soaps quite possibly if they're single males. Some women again try and use this to fuel their erotic minds but in reality have no intention of going ahead, getting their own kicks from the feeling of being wanted. Unfortunately it's what this site attracts, which makes it harder to find the genuine people."

I completely agree! I know I'm not perfect, I don't expect the people I'm meeting to be either. It makes it hard for us genuine people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your profile photo probably won't do you any favours with the right kind of swingers. Bareback implies you're putting it about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine guy here says he will meet he meets and walks the walk

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I know I'm not perfect, I don't expect the people I'm meeting to be either. "

That's not what your long list of stipulations on your profile suggests.

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Also your profile photo probably won't do you any favours with the right kind of swingers. Bareback implies you're putting it about! "

I'll change it just for you!

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I know I'm not perfect, I don't expect the people I'm meeting to be either.

That's not what your long list of stipulations on your profile suggests."

They are likes and I meet people that don't fit this too! You can say I'm picky yes but that's because everyone has there own standards. Sorry if you offended by this. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we sympathise with what your saying, can't help but think that if a single guy had wrote this thread the usual people would have jumped down his throat with the same old "poor old you, man up, here we go again" type comments.

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"While we sympathise with what your saying, can't help but think that if a single guy had wrote this thread the usual people would have jumped down his throat with the same old "poor old you, man up, here we go again" type comments. "

Agree! Just wanted a general view from people.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I know I'm not perfect, I don't expect the people I'm meeting to be either.

That's not what your long list of stipulations on your profile suggests.

I'm picky yes"

Perhaps the "taller than 6', tattooed, muscular, 28-38 yr old, men, women and couples"

you'd arranged to meet had a quick look in the mirror before they were about to leave!?

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Stag, were you rejected by Scarlett?!?

All you seem to be doing is picking holes in her preferences.

She likes what she likes so what!

I've meet her in a social environment, and she is a great easy going lady who is stunning.

Scarlett stick to your guns chick, the good guys will be found eventually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm not perfect, I don't expect the people I'm meeting to be either.

That's not what your long list of stipulations on your profile suggests.

I'm picky yes

Perhaps the "taller than 6', tattooed, muscular, 28-38 yr old, men, women and couples"

you'd arranged to meet had a quick look in the mirror before they were about to leave!? "

To be fair to the height preference she has every right to demand that she's 6"1 barefoot and likes to wear killer heels in and out of bed.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Stag, were you rejected by Scarlett?!?

"

Nope, never spoken to the lassie. I'm trying to answer the OP question for her.

Had I read her long list of stipulations before I'd have accepted I don't match her wishes.

Maybe people aren't meeting her because few of us match her daunting stipulations?

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

To be honest i dont think people will even read your profile as some people are so lazy and its obvious when they dont read it.

If the men dont come running for you turn dyke theres a queue of women

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Stag, were you rejected by Scarlett?!?

All you seem to be doing is picking holes in her preferences.

She likes what she likes so what!

I've meet her in a social environment, and she is a great easy going lady who is stunning.

Scarlett stick to your guns chick, the good guys will be found eventually x "

Aww thanks Darlin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stag, were you rejected by Scarlett?!?

All you seem to be doing is picking holes in her preferences.

She likes what she likes so what!

I've meet her in a social environment, and she is a great easy going lady who is stunning.

Scarlett stick to your guns chick, the good guys will be found eventually x

Aww thanks Darlin! "

I can confirm Scarlett is gorgeous and very friendly having met her socially myself (shy here).

She hasn't succumbed to my pitiful efforts yet but she is still a friend and any guy that's messes her around is soooooo missing out big time!

Keep looking Scarlett there is alot of crap to dig through on here to find the gold! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you. "

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you.

Ouch! "

Ohhh. Are we that bad? Actually I know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you. "

Someone got blown out! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you.

Someone got blown out! Haha"

Haha. I don't even remember someone being as tall as Scarlett in heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a social is to meet people, if the op doesn't want to chat to me that's fine. Telling me to abruptly "go away" when I simple ask who she was enabled me to deduce that her attitude stinks and thus someone who I would not want to meet thereby validating a potential reason why the OP is failing to secure subsequent meets.

@Niceandnaughty78 the bareback photo on your profile highlights that you have indeed met the OP and the
" Someone got blown out! Haha"
is an understandable protection reaction to my post, if you have something constructive to contribute then feel free to post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really a social is to meet people, if the op doesn't want to chat to me that's fine. Telling me to abruptly "go away" when I simple ask who she was enabled me to deduce that her attitude stinks and thus someone who I would not want to meet thereby validating a potential reason why the OP is failing to secure subsequent meets.

@Niceandnaughty78 the bareback photo on your profile highlights that you have indeed met the OP and the Someone got blown out! Haha is an understandable protection reaction to my post, if you have something constructive to contribute then feel free to post."

I'd love to get into a debate but your boring me already, myself and scarlett have a lot of good veris, kinda speaks for itself......just another bitter single guy to add to the list....dry your eyes princess x

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I see so many positive messages on here so thanks everyone!

Regarding the negative post...obviously you didn't get my humour and I apologise if offended you.

I am a nice personable person and the messages and posts on here from yourself aren't going to affect me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine guy here says he will meet he meets and walks the walk "

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you.

Ouch!

Ohhh. Are we that bad? Actually I know the answer. "

Yes and yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol @ prof......ouch

walk the walk, some peeps are still only crawling..lol

1 out of 5, is not a bad hit rate on this site. For blokes its prob 1 out of 10 on a good week !

Honestly, I think an intimidating profile, makes people stress ! lol

us brave ones dont mind a challenge though makes it more interesting...

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"There is some positive criticism through out this thread and some valid points which generally point you in the right directions. As said if this was a single guy it would be different. However having very briefly meeting you at the singles social your attitude is positively off putting, as you have noticed not everyone wants to jump into bed with you.

Ouch!

Ohhh. Are we that bad? Actually I know the answer.

Yes and yes x"

Kgirl brings our the filth in me! 100mph and naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way I see it, both men and women can be keyboard wankers and timewaster but that's just the way Fab is.

Just gotta wade through the bullshit and hopefully find the genuine ones.

My wish for Christmas is for the keyboard wankers and timewasting people just do one and stay gone but just found out Santa ain't real lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way I see it, both men and women can be keyboard wankers and timewaster but that's just the way Fab is.

Just gotta wade through the bullshit and hopefully find the genuine ones.

My wish for Christmas is for the keyboard wankers and timewasting people just do one and stay gone but just found out Santa ain't real lol "

What not real!! You must be fibbing!!! :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way I see it, both men and women can be keyboard wankers and timewaster but that's just the way Fab is.

Just gotta wade through the bullshit and hopefully find the genuine ones.

My wish for Christmas is for the keyboard wankers and timewasting people just do one and stay gone but just found out Santa ain't real lol

What not real!! You must be fibbing!!! :p"

I don't tell fibs but I'm heartbroken but I'll have to be strong for my daughter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way I see it, both men and women can be keyboard wankers and timewaster but that's just the way Fab is.

Just gotta wade through the bullshit and hopefully find the genuine ones.

My wish for Christmas is for the keyboard wankers and timewasting people just do one and stay gone but just found out Santa ain't real lol

What not real!! You must be fibbing!!! :p

I don't tell fibs but I'm heartbroken but I'll have to be strong for my daughter lol "

Next youl be saying the easter bunny dont exist either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easter bunny is just american jibba jabba unlike Santa lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The easter bunny is just american jibba jabba unlike Santa lol "

You've well and truly burst my bubble.... I feel violated.... Ohhh wait who's knees did I sit on then?? :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The easter bunny is just american jibba jabba unlike Santa lol

You've well and truly burst my bubble.... I feel violated.... Ohhh wait who's knees did I sit on then?? :p"

You dont want to know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The easter bunny is just american jibba jabba unlike Santa lol

You've well and truly burst my bubble.... I feel violated.... Ohhh wait who's knees did I sit on then?? :p"

Sorry for busting your bubble but let it go and move on lol

But come sit on my knees if you wanna be violated lol x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

It's always been the case that some people, for whatever reason, don't actually turn up, whether it's because they loose their nerve, real life gets in the way, they prefer the thrill of the chase to actual meets, or they are a fake profile of some kind.

We haven't had a "no show" in 6 years, mainly due to the fact that we treat EVERY NEW PROFILE as a potential fake, and if we are heading down the road of organising a meet, we make them PROVE that they are genuine.

If someone keeps getting failed meets, then I personally would tell them to look at their selection methods, go back to the basics and take it slowly.... don't rush to scratch that itch lol!

Socials are a very useful tool, either for a "pre play" meet, or for newbies to get verified, which helps to out the "wannabies" and fakes.

It also means, even if you don't meet them yourself at a social, other peoples feedback can give you an idea of what to expect.

As for profile "rules"... it's up to the individual, but the tighter the rules, the smaller the pool of potential meets.

We have played with people who, going by there profiles, we wouldn't have stood a chance with.... guess that's just our awesomeness shining through lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The easter bunny is just american jibba jabba unlike Santa lol

You've well and truly burst my bubble.... I feel violated.... Ohhh wait who's knees did I sit on then?? :p

Sorry for busting your bubble but let it go and move on lol

But come sit on my knees if you wanna be violated lol x"

Well there's an offer :p

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

would love to chat but unable to contact you direct as we only have private pics and not public

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It's always been the case that some people, for whatever reason, don't actually turn up, whether it's because they loose their nerve, real life gets in the way, they prefer the thrill of the chase to actual meets, or they are a fake profile of some kind.

We haven't had a "no show" in 6 years, mainly due to the fact that we treat EVERY NEW PROFILE as a potential fake, and if we are heading down the road of organising a meet, we make them PROVE that they are genuine.

If someone keeps getting failed meets, then I personally would tell them to look at their selection methods, go back to the basics and take it slowly.... don't rush to scratch that itch lol!

Socials are a very useful tool, either for a "pre play" meet, or for newbies to get verified, which helps to out the "wannabies" and fakes.

It also means, even if you don't meet them yourself at a social, other peoples feedback can give you an idea of what to expect.

As for profile "rules"... it's up to the individual, but the tighter the rules, the smaller the pool of potential meets.

We have played with people who, going by there profiles, we wouldn't have stood a chance with.... guess that's just our awesomeness shining through lol! "

Best message so far I'm always willing to learn and gain knowledge and experience from others! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The easter bunny is just american jibba jabba unlike Santa lol

You've well and truly burst my bubble.... I feel violated.... Ohhh wait who's knees did I sit on then?? :p

Sorry for busting your bubble but let it go and move on lol

But come sit on my knees if you wanna be violated lol x

Well there's an offer :p "

Gimme a week or so to shake this chest infection cos my chest is like a tea bag and it's not a pretty sight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP's profile is a little intimidating, as is her physical presence I'm guessing, but if the no-shows are intimidated, do you really want to meet them anyway? You are who you are after all, and keep being just that. They are the ones who are missing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weather it males or fems they get 1 chance only as far too many that bottle it. spoils it 4 us genuine ones feckers need to get real, sites gone down this last few months so many unverified people after 6 months even cyber wankers lmao pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat x"

Now that would me out because I refuse to speak on the phone, all my friends know this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat x"
yes a phone call b4 is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat xyes a phone call b4 is a must "

I tryed that once lol

and the fecker still didn't turn up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat xyes a phone call b4 is a must

I tryed that once lol

and the fecker still didn't turn up lol "

yes gigs does happen sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat x

Now that would me out because I refuse to speak on the phone, all my friends know this lol "
. I could bend my rules for you Peachy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat xyes a phone call b4 is a must

I tryed that once lol

and the fecker still didn't turn up lol "

& you're the only one who insists on phoning me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather a good natter on the phone personally. Texting tennis is a pain in the arse and can sometimes be misinterpreted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told by a few people that the site isn't what it used to be. I've only been here a few months so the way it is now is the norm to me. I always insist on a phone call before a meet. I can usually tell if a person is genuine from a chat x"

As a single guy, due to the amount of fake profiles I always insist on a phone chat quite early on. When you can easily withhold numbers etc there is very little excuse not to do so. I've not pursued genuine people because they've refused this even when meets have been agreed (one of them has posted on this thread. Can definitely gauge things better from a phone call xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"It's always been the case that some people, for whatever reason, don't actually turn up, whether it's because they loose their nerve, real life gets in the way, they prefer the thrill of the chase to actual meets, or they are a fake profile of some kind.

We haven't had a "no show" in 6 years, mainly due to the fact that we treat EVERY NEW PROFILE as a potential fake, and if we are heading down the road of organising a meet, we make them PROVE that they are genuine.

If someone keeps getting failed meets, then I personally would tell them to look at their selection methods, go back to the basics and take it slowly.... don't rush to scratch that itch lol!

Socials are a very useful tool, either for a "pre play" meet, or for newbies to get verified, which helps to out the "wannabies" and fakes.

It also means, even if you don't meet them yourself at a social, other peoples feedback can give you an idea of what to expect.

As for profile "rules"... it's up to the individual, but the tighter the rules, the smaller the pool of potential meets.

We have played with people who, going by there profiles, we wouldn't have stood a chance with.... guess that's just our awesomeness shining through lol!

Best message so far I'm always willing to learn and gain knowledge and experience from others! X "

See, I told you,awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 6'2 with my new hat on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 6'2 with my new hat on xx"
you akl like Clint Eastwood ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather a good natter on the phone personally. Texting tennis is a pain in the arse and can sometimes be misinterpreted x"

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather a good natter on the phone personally. Texting tennis is a pain in the arse and can sometimes be misinterpreted x

Sorry "
. Can chat face to face tonight

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