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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've heard horror stories of guys trying to bareback whilst dogging, with the fem totally unaware (positions/darkness etc). Is this a true reflection?

I'd like to try it, but not sure if I would feel safe alone. Any single fems have any experience in this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Miss

Just seen your forum post. It's been awhile since I've been dogging many years in fact. So thing may have change.

At the time some men would automatically use condoms and some men wouldn't it wasn't so much that they would try and get away with it more like just do it in the heat of the moment. And it seemed a lot of women wanted that.

It also seemed at the time the same in clubs.

But having been to a few clubs recently that attitude has changed.

But you do see the occasional guy try and slip it in uncover without the women noticing so I would expect the same might happen out dogging.

However there is an answer it's called a big D.A.I that would protect you. Or simply put me. I would be honoured to escort you or meet you there. And happy just to watch the proceedings to make sure nothing you weren't happy with happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been my experience in clubs, never been dogging yet but like you I have the same fears. I've found that in clubs, especially if you go with a crowd it seems a common occurence for the guys to try & fuck without a condom. I favour the reach behind & feel method & I've stopped a few this way. I no longer play with men in clubs because this type of play isn't for me & yes, before some of you jump in here, I do still suck cock without a condom, but this is a lesser risk & I don't allow cum in my mouth unless a regular, trusted meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has been my experience in clubs, never been dogging yet but like you I have the same fears. I've found that in clubs, especially if you go with a crowd it seems a common occurence for the guys to try & fuck without a condom. I favour the reach behind & feel method & I've stopped a few this way. I no longer play with men in clubs because this type of play isn't for me & yes, before some of you jump in here, I do still suck cock without a condom, but this is a lesser risk & I don't allow cum in my mouth unless a regular, trusted meet x"

I totally understand this, it's so hard to totally let go and enjoy the moment if you have to constantly keep in your head to check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so sad. The minority spoil it for the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so sad. The minority spoil it for the majority "
mr......

Well put brother !!! It does seem an alarming trend with singletons in the world of sex!!!

I even heard that married couples go bareback with each other and then flaunt there stupidity on here with quotes like!!!!

Kid free weekend woohoo!!!! Who want to play??? Russian roulette ?!!! Pssst

if only eh???

Here's ours for weekend !! Crab free weekend woohoo ... Play anyone ? Why ???

Peeps... Play safe and put a sock on it !!! And if you don't and catch something like gonarea or chlomidia ffs or worse kids !!!! Keep it to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so sad. The minority spoil it for the majority mr......

Well put brother !!! It does seem an alarming trend with singletons in the world of sex!!!

I even heard that married couples go bareback with each other and then flaunt there stupidity on here with quotes like!!!!

Kid free weekend woohoo!!!! Who want to play??? Russian roulette ?!!! Pssst

if only eh???

Here's ours for weekend !! Crab free weekend woohoo ... Play anyone ? Why ???

Peeps... Play safe and put a sock on it !!! And if you don't and catch something like gonarea or chlomidia ffs or worse kids !!!! Keep it to yourself "

if I play in a club it's normally when I go with someone for them to check the guy is putting a condom on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so sad. The minority spoil it for the majority mr......

Well put brother !!! It does seem an alarming trend with singletons in the world of sex!!!

I even heard that married couples go bareback with each other and then flaunt there stupidity on here with quotes like!!!!

Kid free weekend woohoo!!!! Who want to play??? Russian roulette ?!!! Pssst

if only eh???

Here's ours for weekend !! Crab free weekend woohoo ... Play anyone ? Why ???

Peeps... Play safe and put a sock on it !!! And if you don't and catch something like gonarea or chlomidia ffs or worse kids !!!! Keep it to yourself

if I play in a club it's normally when I go with someone for them to check the guy is putting a condom on "
mr..... And whips it off when your not looking!!!!!! and blames the size of his cock cos it's split

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By *tark101Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

Alarmingly in does indeed seem to be the case in a lot of dogging scenarios. Last time I went and tried to have the conversation that they ought to be careful, I got looks that suggested I eat kittens or something.

Plus.... I've not really seen anything actually going on dogging in ages. I think maybe one occasion of a play and show in about 4 years. Loads of people there. Nothing happens due to chav scum riding around on drugs. But it can be quite a nice social. Just in car park at midnight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so sad. The minority spoil it for the majority mr......

Well put brother !!! It does seem an alarming trend with singletons in the world of sex!!!

I even heard that married couples go bareback with each other and then flaunt there stupidity on here with quotes like!!!!

Kid free weekend woohoo!!!! Who want to play??? Russian roulette ?!!! Pssst

if only eh???

Here's ours for weekend !! Crab free weekend woohoo ... Play anyone ? Why ???

Peeps... Play safe and put a sock on it !!! And if you don't and catch something like gonarea or chlomidia ffs or worse kids !!!! Keep it to yourself

if I play in a club it's normally when I go with someone for them to check the guy is putting a condom on mr..... And whips it off when your not looking!!!!!! and blames the size of his cock cos it's split "

no not at all lol

I get checked regular and I've not long had the all clear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alarmingly in does indeed seem to be the case in a lot of dogging scenarios. Last time I went and tried to have the conversation that they ought to be careful, I got looks that suggested I eat kittens or something.

Plus.... I've not really seen anything actually going on dogging in ages. I think maybe one occasion of a play and show in about 4 years. Loads of people there. Nothing happens due to chav scum riding around on drugs. But it can be quite a nice social. Just in car park at midnight! "

Every time ive been dogging I've given the FB I'm with head and he's played with me. We've always had guys around the car watching and wanking. However when I tried to arrange a dogging meet hundreds of guys were up for it but all bottled it...

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By *km1Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Safety first for me. Some guys can be too pushy even when their not properly equipped! I'd be happy to chaperone you Miss Maverick!

I always carry spares in case somebody doesn't have their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard horror stories of guys trying to bareback whilst dogging, with the fem totally unaware (positions/darkness etc). Is this a true reflection?

I'd like to try it, but not sure if I would feel safe alone. Any single fems have any experience in this? "

I've never had much luck with the whole dogging scene. It would not surprise me if it was true though. Some guys will try their luck if they can get away with it. I have seen it happen in clubs, then when you confront them its "Oh I didn't realise" making them look like a dick with peer pressure helps.

My advice is go with someone you implicitly trust male,female or couple and have them watch out for the opportunist, while double checking with the reach around technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so sad. The minority spoil it for the majority mr......

Well put brother !!! It does seem an alarming trend with singletons in the world of sex!!!

I even heard that married couples go bareback with each other and then flaunt there stupidity on here with quotes like!!!!

Kid free weekend woohoo!!!! Who want to play??? Russian roulette ?!!! Pssst

if only eh???

Here's ours for weekend !! Crab free weekend woohoo ... Play anyone ? Why ???

Peeps... Play safe and put a sock on it !!! And if you don't and catch something like gonarea or chlomidia ffs or worse kids !!!! Keep it to yourself

if I play in a club it's normally when I go with someone for them to check the guy is putting a condom on mr..... And whips it off when your not looking!!!!!! and blames the size of his cock cos it's split "

It's for this reason I like to put the condom on & guide the cock in myself, on the rare occasions I do fuck, I need to make sure it's firmly on & staying on. Still won't fuck in a club though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be surprised how many couples nowadays turn up to meets with no condoms & then look surprised when you stop mid play to say nope, no bb. I don't get this change in thinking, used to be natural for everyone to glove up without being asked. The last couple I met, alone, didn't have any & when I asked about this after, they admitted they rarely use them nowadays. There seems to be a definite shift in thinking , it definitely alters my thinking about playing with couples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always got to wear surely ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always got to wear surely ? "

nope people dont

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By *2123Man
over a year ago

Close

I'm always safe when dogging and when ever I've been with a FB people trying to bareback has never been a issue. I can see where the concern comes from but personally I've never experienced it, guys are usually very respectful and polite to couples/females as they know it's about the only action they are going to get so don't pee them off

I wouldn't let it put you off, this scene is dying out and we should keep it going - it's a great social and way to swing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Miss

Just seen your forum post. It's been awhile since I've been dogging many years in fact. So thing may have change.

At the time some men would automatically use condoms and some men wouldn't it wasn't so much that they would try and get away with it more like just do it in the heat of the moment. And it seemed a lot of women wanted that.

It also seemed at the time the same in clubs.

But having been to a few clubs recently that attitude has changed.

But you do see the occasional guy try and slip it in uncover without the women noticing so I would expect the same might happen out dogging.

However there is an answer it's called a big D.A.I that would protect you. Or simply put me. I would be honoured to escort you or meet you there. And happy just to watch the proceedings to make sure nothing you weren't happy with happened."

I thought I was the only one with these fears! I'm quite voyeuristic and want to try dogging (I think it's the anonymity too) but I'm so worried about safe sex and my own safety...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done that to for someone. I'm always amazed that they just think it's ok. At the very least you think they would ask.

If anyone wants an escort to a club I would be happy to go and look after your safety.

I enjoy the club scene and just happy to go and enjoy the crack (no pun intended).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having recently had an experience with dogging I have to say that you need someone you can trust 100% to go with I thought I could trust the person I was with but turns out I couldn't as he didn't care about safety it has put me off trying it again.

I am however going to try a club but am going with a group of friends so that we can watch each others backs while there and make sure everything is safe. I just don't understand why people would want to risk their health like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms and wouldn't play without one.

I've refused bareback meets in the past as I'm not risking my health for an afternoon /evening of fun.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reach around technique works without fail at clubs . Dogging. Would only go with my fb that makes sure i am safe and i always carry lots of condoms . All sizes ! Xx poppy . Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alarmingly in does indeed seem to be the case in a lot of dogging scenarios. Last time I went and tried to have the conversation that they ought to be careful, I got looks that suggested I eat kittens or something.

Plus.... I've not really seen anything actually going on dogging in ages. I think maybe one occasion of a play and show in about 4 years. Loads of people there. Nothing happens due to chav scum riding around on drugs. But it can be quite a nice social. Just in car park at midnight!

Every time ive been dogging I've given the FB I'm with head and he's played with me. We've always had guys around the car watching and wanking. However when I tried to arrange a dogging meet hundreds of guys were up for it but all bottled it... "

Can't be asking the right guys lol x

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By *ogirlabcWoman
over a year ago

chesterfield

One or two do try it on but as the woman you must always be in charge. When im alone im always extra cautious..

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