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Why do most/all women want 'hot guys'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

I think I must have missed the notice from admin saying that most/all women only want hot guys, although not sure how they (or anyone else) would know because `hot` isn't a preference

Are you asking, because your worried your not `hot`?

I agree everyone has feelings, but everyone also has choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's hot to me may not be hot to the next lady so it is a very subjective term. Hot to me means someone who i find attractive, and i think that is what most people would look for in a meet. There has to be attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings"

And is "having the same down there" the equivalent of "any holes a goal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the key to this is the fact that women 'choose' who they wish to have sex with. For some the older guy is 'hot', for others the younger guy is. Unfortunately some men, women or couples will not be deemed 'hot' by anyone & will therefore struggle to get a meet, like me, too old, too fat & not 'hot'. You learn to live with it X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

And is "having the same down there" the equivalent of "any holes a goal" "

Now come on Miss P, you know our holes look very fetching with netting surrounding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called PREFERENCE

and no not every guy has the same 'down there'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the key to this is the fact that women 'choose' who they wish to have sex with. For some the older guy is 'hot', for others the younger guy is. Unfortunately some men, women or couples will not be deemed 'hot' by anyone & will therefore struggle to get a meet, like me, too old, too fat & not 'hot'. You learn to live with it X"
Well I think you are a very sexy lady and I'm still waiting for my Biggus & Peachy sandwich x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the key to this is the fact that women 'choose' who they wish to have sex with. For some the older guy is 'hot', for others the younger guy is. Unfortunately some men, women or couples will not be deemed 'hot' by anyone & will therefore struggle to get a meet, like me, too old, too fat & not 'hot'. You learn to live with it XWell I think you are a very sexy lady and I'm still waiting for my Biggus & Peachy sandwich x"

Oooh I didn't know you were looking for one, you best message me soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define hot, surely it is in the eye of the beholder as we are all different, one woman may like a pretty boy, one may like a beef cake, one may like a chubby bloke and so on... We all have out own preferences as to what hot is, maybe if all it states is hot guys onky you may want to read on or message them for and find out if you are there type of hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings"

The same reason us men should only want HOT girls, or should I say what is HOT for them, instead of literally fucking anything, the reason most of the woman on this site can be so choosy is simply because they know they can have the choose of 1000s because most men will meet them, HOT or NOT.

Until us men start to install some kinda standards ourselves woman will continue to have the monopoly over us and will always be punching above their weight, exactly as us men would do if the roles were the other way, however evolution says that will simply not happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking for a guy, then he definitely has to be "hot" in my terms...

Muscles, hairy chest, military type, tatoos, etc are definitely NOT hot....

Normal, average body, with a smile and a nice personality definitely ARE...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

The same reason us men should only want HOT girls, or should I say what is HOT for them, instead of literally fucking anything, the reason most of the woman on this site can be so choosy is simply because they know they can have the choose of 1000s because most men will meet them, HOT or NOT.

Until us men start to install some kinda standards ourselves woman will continue to have the monopoly over us and will always be punching above their weight, exactly as us men would do if the roles were the other way, however evolution says that will simply not happen "

punching above our weight? It's that kind of mentality that prevents some of us from meeting guys on this site, the reason we take so long to agree a meet. I'm one of those women who will only meet a guy for fun if I'm totally convinced the attraction is mutual, I don't want to be a sympathy or desperation shag & I know many other women who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

The same reason us men should only want HOT girls, or should I say what is HOT for them, instead of literally fucking anything, the reason most of the woman on this site can be so choosy is simply because they know they can have the choose of 1000s because most men will meet them, HOT or NOT.

Until us men start to install some kinda standards ourselves woman will continue to have the monopoly over us and will always be punching above their weight, exactly as us men would do if the roles were the other way, however evolution says that will simply not happen

punching above our weight? It's that kind of mentality that prevents some of us from meeting guys on this site, the reason we take so long to agree a meet. I'm one of those women who will only meet a guy for fun if I'm totally convinced the attraction is mutual, I don't want to be a sympathy or desperation shag & I know many other women who don't. "

I absolutely hate it when a guy on this site tells me I'm punching above my weight... Really?! I've refused meets with loads if men who I feel wouldn't be attracted to me in the flesh. If anything, I've chosen lesser men because I don't want to be a sympathy fuck. I wouldn't do it in real life, so not quite sure why I do it on here

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah exactly what we find attractive someone else might not. We go for personality and like to meet friendly like minded people with a sense of humour and the attraction has to be there, otherwise we wouldn't play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

The same reason us men should only want HOT girls, or should I say what is HOT for them, instead of literally fucking anything, the reason most of the woman on this site can be so choosy is simply because they know they can have the choose of 1000s because most men will meet them, HOT or NOT.

Until us men start to install some kinda standards ourselves woman will continue to have the monopoly over us and will always be punching above their weight, exactly as us men would do if the roles were the other way, however evolution says that will simply not happen

punching above our weight? It's that kind of mentality that prevents some of us from meeting guys on this site, the reason we take so long to agree a meet. I'm one of those women who will only meet a guy for fun if I'm totally convinced the attraction is mutual, I don't want to be a sympathy or desperation shag & I know many other women who don't. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never punched above my own weight as I like my men to look like men and not prize guys..

My so called hot men consist of skinheads tattoos and a hair chest with a beer belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said women don't all think the same guys are 'hot'

As much as I fancy military muscley heavily tattooed guys I don't often meet them as it seems they aren't at all discerning in their meets and I only want to have sex with a man that really wants me. Unfortunately with my best friend on fab I meet less as Im not keen on guys wanting her as well as me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

And is "having the same down there" the equivalent of "any holes a goal"

Now come on Miss P, you know our holes look very fetching with netting surrounding them "

Oh peachy im still half cut from last night took me 5 minutes go figure out what you meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen recently that most or all the women on here 'only want hot guys'

I mean like all men got the same down there, all that's mainly different is their personality

But if men said 'only want hot girls' there would be a whole different side to the story

I just want to get everyone's opinion on it because everyone does have feelings

And is "having the same down there" the equivalent of "any holes a goal"

Now come on Miss P, you know our holes look very fetching with netting surrounding them

Oh peachy im still half cut from last night took me 5 minutes go figure out what you meant "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said women don't all think the same guys are 'hot'

As much as I fancy military muscley heavily tattooed guys I don't often meet them as it seems they aren't at all discerning in their meets and I only want to have sex with a man that really wants me. Unfortunately with my best friend on fab I meet less as Im not keen on guys wanting her as well as me! "

Totally get that bit about friends & guys lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hot" is always gonna mean different things for different people, it's a sex site at the end of the day though mate, whether people admit it or not they are going to want to have sex with people of their standard or higher.

Think this is just human nature, when's the last time you watched a porn of people that are unattractive or not your taste!

All of us no matter how we look will get knocked back as people have very different tastes, your right we all have feelings but if your gonna spend any sort of time on this site your gonna need a really thick skin!

Take nothing personally, it's women's market and they get to be very picky, can't fault them either and us guys would do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was hot in bed last night, the heating was on for too long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have commented it's totally subjective as what is “hot” to some people, however it has been proved, over and over again through scientific study that both sexes are visually attracted to certain characteristics. e.g broad shoulders in men and slim waists and large breasts in women. This goes back to selection and having strong DNA in order for the species survives, therefore it is hardwired into our genetic makeup. That doesn't mean women actually want to have a relationship with a physically perfect guy, yes he might be arm candy but it doesn't mean because he’ll be intellectual enough for her.

I personally would rather meet a woman who wants to meet me for who I am and not because she is punching above or below her weight. If she finds me hot/ attractive then good if not it's her choice. As for the monopoly I find this funny, all you have to do is look at the whingey posts as to why single guys are time wasters and see there is actually a limited amount of guys that actually are worth the effort. Take into account the attraction level and then reevaluate who has the monopoly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define hot, surely it is in the eye of the beholder as we are all different, one woman may like a pretty boy, one may like a beef cake, one may like a chubby bloke and so on... We all have out own preferences as to what hot is, maybe if all it states is hot guys onky you may want to read on or message them for and find out if you are there type of hot. "

Took the words right out of my mouth. (Mia (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define hot, surely it is in the eye of the beholder as we are all different, one woman may like a pretty boy, one may like a beef cake, one may like a chubby bloke and so on... We all have out own preferences as to what hot is, maybe if all it states is hot guys onky you may want to read on or message them for and find out if you are there type of hot.

Took the words right out of my mouth. (Mia ( "

I have my moments but not often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's hot and what's not

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