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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think peeps

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh plz no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps if you used a dictionary or even spell checker; you would have better luck?

(just going by the thread title)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not another one. ..

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Perhaps if you used a dictionary or even spell checker; you would have better luck?

(just going by the thread title)"

This

Literacy goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not much to go on from your profile.and with so many other men you need to attend socials or try and get invites to parties .

1.Have you ever had to cancel a meet?

2.do you message people with "hi how are you?"

3.Do you ask people to be friends without messaging something first.

Answer these questions and we might be able to give advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Lets face facts...

There are more males than females on this site but yes it is possible to be successful but you got to put the hard work in.

Too many men come on here and think all the ladies will just drop their knickers instantly and your finding out it doesnt work like that but these moany threads wont help either.

Flirtyfox

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By *reenmbMan
over a year ago

Gwent

YAWN.....

Suck it up get on with it....

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By *nockknock40Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

Stop whining!!

It's not a dating site, there has to be sexual attraction and the old "alpha male" is far more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop whining!!

It's not a dating site, there has to be sexual attraction and the old "alpha male" is far more attractive.

"

Agreed, the sympathy thread aint gonna do much to attract future meets mate......suck it up and keep on trying!

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By *nockknock40Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

Treat others with respect and be patient, if you really want to meet women then being happy and confident goes a long way, and a sense of humour doesn't hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's not much to go on from your profile.and with so many other men you need to attend socials or try and get invites to parties .

1.Have you ever had to cancel a meet?

2.do you message people with "hi how are you?"

3.Do you ask people to be friends without messaging something first.

Answer these questions and we might be able to give advise "

Well from experience you winked and messaged me with a crappy 'hi how's you'... Those messages get deleted immediately.. It shows me if you can't put any effort into messaging me, why should I make the effort to reply let alone meet you..

As above.. Suck it up and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good guys do get some where...

Be patient

I'm sure a lot of guys will tell you the wait is well worth it!!!

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Good guys do get some where...

Be patient

I'm sure a lot of guys will tell you the wait is well worth it!!!"

They do in the end xxx I'm sure of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good guys do get some where...

Be patient

I'm sure a lot of guys will tell you the wait is well worth it!!!

They do in the end xxx I'm sure of that "

if you put effort in you get a lot out of it

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Good guys do get some where...

Be patient

I'm sure a lot of guys will tell you the wait is well worth it!!!

They do in the end xxx I'm sure of that

if you put effort in you get a lot out of it"

That's right gigs.... I'm like a pro now lol

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun "

Why are they twats? They can't be that bad otherwise they wouldn't get meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun "

Twats???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun "

That prob just answered your own question...as the nice guys get meets...twats dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

Twats???????"

Haha....someone's bitter!......Twats as in us ones who are patient, have good verifications and willing to put some groundwork in you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

Twats???????

Haha....someone's bitter!......Twats as in us ones who are patient, have good verifications and willing to put some groundwork in you mean? "

Your a clever twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

Twats???????

Haha....someone's bitter!......Twats as in us ones who are patient, have good verifications and willing to put some groundwork in you mean?

Your a clever twat "

I'm more of just a twat tbh.....I'm Working on it though! X

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

Seen as I am not in the twat crew I cant comment on Wat a twat is gigs can you help me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!"

Wow some sense at last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!"

and with a response like that, I'll jump in your line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-actually, scrap that, I've just seen 'that' shirt... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked @ ur profile 4 hrs cnt work out wh eye u ain't had enny luck old out 4 dat simpafi shag ignore the negativ replies

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea


"I looked @ ur profile 4 hrs cnt work out wh eye u ain't had enny luck old out 4 dat simpafi shag ignore the negativ replies "

Say that in English!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"-actually, scrap that, I've just seen 'that' shirt... x"

Hehehe thatttt shirt lol

Hes a wicked bloke though one of the nicest on fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, in comparison "that shirt" is pretty tame! I like to see it as a personality setter, you've got a be a real man to pull it off on a Wednesday night down the local I'll tell yer!

Plus it's my most fabbed photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jakhammer i love the optimism wit the shirt. And u have a good point this guy isnt willing to do the leg work, he isnt gonna get anything. 80% of blokes on here know that and the other 20% just moan about not getting laid its so comical.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

Get ya self to socials.... Your be kool bruv don't stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun "

What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats. "

Lol I'm not a twat n I seem to be having fun now..... I.started by listening n learning the ways and using the force luke xxx

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats.

Lol I'm not a twat n I seem to be having fun now..... I.started by listening n learning the ways and using the force luke xxx "

Ok sorry was just joking bout.... I learnt not to come on forum n moan bout everyone else and how you ain't getting it and everyone else is and make a concerned effort to get to socials and show people your actually a good person and such like.... Lol no one wanted to even speak to me month or so ago met couple decent girls n they set me on my way to socials xxxx so chin up and get on it xxxx

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun

What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats.

Lol I'm not a twat n I seem to be having fun now..... I.started by listening n learning the ways and using the force luke xxx

Ok sorry was just joking bout.... I learnt not to come on forum n moan bout everyone else and how you ain't getting it and everyone else is and make a concerned effort to get to socials and show people your actually a good person and such like.... Lol no one wanted to even speak to me month or so ago met couple decent girls n they set me on my way to socials xxxx so chin up and get on it xxxx "

Don't get me wrong I ain't inundated but I have attracted the people I actually like... So it's lot better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!"

Fab needs more men like this. Women are here on fab to meet like minded males for sex. This doesn't make us easy, desperate or gagging for it. We all have standards and things that turn us on and things that are unattractive to us. If the OP is on here looking for a quick easy fuck you'd be better off Saturday night in a club. I as other girls do get hundreds of messages a day, if you haven't got a profile photo I won't even open the message it's just an instant block. Girls on FAB want chemistry and if you can't be bothered to read a profile and write an interesting message chances are you don't make any effort during sex too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!

Fab needs more men like this. Women are here on fab to meet like minded males for sex. This doesn't make us easy, desperate or gagging for it. We all have standards and things that turn us on and things that are unattractive to us. If the OP is on here looking for a quick easy fuck you'd be better off Saturday night in a club. I as other girls do get hundreds of messages a day, if you haven't got a profile photo I won't even open the message it's just an instant block. Girls on FAB want chemistry and if you can't be bothered to read a profile and write an interesting message chances are you don't make any effort during sex too! "

Well put both, it's also an instant turn off to get countless messages from someone you say a polite no to, or to read the oh so desperate 'whats a guy got to do to get shag here' updates, it's an instant private note on the profile for me ' too desperate for a meet, steer clear'. Fabswingers does not = Instashag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!

Fab needs more men like this. Women are here on fab to meet like minded males for sex. This doesn't make us easy, desperate or gagging for it. We all have standards and things that turn us on and things that are unattractive to us. If the OP is on here looking for a quick easy fuck you'd be better off Saturday night in a club. I as other girls do get hundreds of messages a day, if you haven't got a profile photo I won't even open the message it's just an instant block. Girls on FAB want chemistry and if you can't be bothered to read a profile and write an interesting message chances are you don't make any effort during sex too!

Well put both, it's also an instant turn off to get countless messages from someone you say a polite no to, or to read the oh so desperate 'whats a guy got to do to get shag here' updates, it's an instant private note on the profile for me ' too desperate for a meet, steer clear'. Fabswingers does not = Instashag "

I think most guys who join initially think it's a way to get a quick fuck, to be fair most people ive ever talked to outside of swinging don't understand it, think it's just a free for all.

As soon as you learn people come on here for no strings "quality" sex and spend the time to understand this, put a decent profile/pics together your off to a start.

Think you will always get these sympathy threads by from single guys, to be fair as a single guy just starting out this site is soul destroying haha......luckily I've done it for years and know that given a month or two, few meets/clubs/parties people learn to trust you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point now he's gone in2 hiding lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"-actually, scrap that, I've just seen 'that' shirt... x

Hehehe thatttt shirt lol

Hes a wicked bloke though one of the nicest on fab xx"

Thanks for the pimp

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, in comparison "that shirt" is pretty tame! I like to see it as a personality setter, you've got a be a real man to pull it off on a Wednesday night down the local I'll tell yer!

Plus it's my most fabbed photo"

It's definitely character building.. Loud and proud..

Well if the ladies & men on fab like it, how could it be anything other than hoofin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha!! Hoofing?!! :') x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello im steve looking 4 a reg thing n maybe some one to join me on here im a fun lovely bloke likes a laugh n joke can lick 4 hrs so if u like the sound of me give me a tex and lets see ware this mad world takes us dont mind mmf but im not bi im on kik preza72

^^^^^^^^ check your profile as well as spelling and maybe dont moan be nice you might get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello im steve looking 4 a reg thing n maybe some one to join me on here im a fun lovely bloke likes a laugh n joke can lick 4 hrs so if u like the sound of me give me a tex and lets see ware this mad world takes us dont mind mmf but im not bi im on kik preza72

^^^^^^^^ check your profile as well as spelling and maybe dont moan be nice you might get meets "
pmsfl

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli


"Hello im steve looking 4 a reg thing n maybe some one to join me on here im a fun lovely bloke likes a laugh n joke can lick 4 hrs so if u like the sound of me give me a tex and lets see ware this mad world takes us dont mind mmf but im not bi im on kik preza72

^^^^^^^^ check your profile as well as spelling and maybe dont moan be nice you might get meets pmsfl"

Oh my dayyyyzzzzzz... I should laugh I'm sure my wasjust as worse.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

Exactly how I feel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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