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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with the men on here. Do they get pure satisfaction out of putting women down. In the last couple of days I have had 2 men that have taken great pleasure in doing so. I have been called a fucking slut, a fucking fat c**t and again yesterday. Here is the delightful conversation well some of it.

HIM

Well how could I fuck you?

Fab used to be full off cool people now its all fat birds that cant get laid shagging 60 year olds and having the upper hand

ME

Well let's put it this way you won't get to fuck me !!!

HIM

Would I genuinely want to?

Fat girls are a desperate last resort

Why do it. Fab is hard enough for men out there anyway with knob heads like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block the a@@holes and report

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block the a@@holes and report "

Best thing is the coward abused me then blocked me lol. But I have blocked and reported him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with the men on here. Do they get pure satisfaction out of putting women down. In the last couple of days I have had 2 men that have taken great pleasure in doing so. I have been called a fucking slut, a fucking fat c**t and again yesterday. Here is the delightful conversation well some of it.

HIM

Well how could I fuck you?

Fab used to be full off cool people now its all fat birds that cant get laid shagging 60 year olds and having the upper hand

ME

Well let's put it this way you won't get to fuck me !!!

HIM

Would I genuinely want to?

Fat girls are a desperate last resort

Why do it. Fab is hard enough for men out there anyway with knob heads like this.

"

same as your last thread juSt block and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are right old weirdos on here, they're so desperate that they just say anything

You just got to learn to ignore anything like this, as of course every girl is either pretty, hot, stunning or gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with the men on here. Do they get pure satisfaction out of putting women down. In the last couple of days I have had 2 men that have taken great pleasure in doing so. I have been called a fucking slut, a fucking fat c**t and again yesterday. Here is the delightful conversation well some of it.

HIM

Well how could I fuck you?

Fab used to be full off cool people now its all fat birds that cant get laid shagging 60 year olds and having the upper hand

ME

Well let's put it this way you won't get to fuck me !!!

HIM

Would I genuinely want to?

Fat girls are a desperate last resort

Why do it. Fab is hard enough for men out there anyway with knob heads like this.

same as your last thread juSt block and report "

Already done and done. I just don't get their mentality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately you'll always get the odd idiot, and unfortunately you'll always remember the twat.

Just rise above it, you'll alwaya be a nicer person then them. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately you'll always get the odd idiot, and unfortunately you'll always remember the twat.

Just rise above it, you'll alwaya be a nicer person then them. X"

I know your right. Just the last week or two the abuse has been so bad that it has got under my skin which is unlike me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why people do it, but it says more about them then it does about you..have a lovely day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is full of blokes who are just lookingfor bed notches and don't get what swinging is about really. Unfortunately there are assume right tawts on here just abusing women all women are sex in their own way take no notice he's a tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy not sex lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is full of blokes who are just lookingfor bed notches and don't get what swinging is about really. Unfortunately there are assume right tawts on here just abusing women all women are sex in their own way take no notice he's a tool"

I think it all started because I wouldn't give my mobile number out. But with blokes like that can you blame a girl lol. I also think some men come on here thinking it is going to be a piece of piss to get a woman to meet them xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure why people do it, but it says more about them then it does about you..have a lovely day x"

Nor me. Obviously must bring them some pleasure. Hope you have a lovely day too. I am just about to start an 11 hour shift lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, the block button is your best friend, keep your filters tight, make sure you report ALL abuse & go looking for your own fun rather than letting all the shit through. My filters are right for a reason, I like to choose who I chat to, even then I get it wrong on occasion. With the blocks & filters in place I only get about 4 or 5 messages of random guys a day & I love the quiet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remember, the block button is your best friend, keep your filters tight, make sure you report ALL abuse & go looking for your own fun rather than letting all the shit through. My filters are right for a reason, I like to choose who I chat to, even then I get it wrong on occasion. With the blocks & filters in place I only get about 4 or 5 messages of random guys a day & I love the quiet "

I have changed the age filters so that I have a certain age that can only message me. I use the block and report button more than I think I answer messages. I think now I am not even going to bother opening messages that start with anything that could lead to abusr like the one this morning. You look like a fucking slut I want to ruin your pussy. Blocked xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's my other trick, if it looks bad in yellow, don't even open the message. You will find over time you'll develop a tougher skin, but you're right, there are times when it gets you down & I had one of those moments the other week & took a week out from my profile x

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By *erryandSailorCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I totally agree that men have no right to be rude and offensive, but please tell me why women put up threads like "what would you do with me if you had me for 24 hours" and status updates such as "Got a wet pussy that needs cock" don't you get enough messages without these encouraging status's and threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought..

What time of messages are you sending out???

Maybe a review of how you reply???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, you are far from what I would call fat. Your pictures are beautiful and if he didn't find you attractive then why message you in the first place?

One thing we love about fab is that there are people of all different shapes and sizes but the one thing that is most important to is is people's attitudes rather than dress size.

Much easier to change appearance than it is to change horrible attitudes like that guy has.

Don't take it to heart, just ignore the idiots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I totally agree that men have no right to be rude and offensive, but please tell me why women put up threads like "what would you do with me if you had me for 24 hours" and status updates such as "Got a wet pussy that needs cock" don't you get enough messages without these encouraging status's and threads?"

Yeah I have seen those threads and it is just asking for trouble at least when I put I need a cock my bfs name is attached to it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.... you know my thoughts on it T. Your pics are absolutely superb .. The problem with Fab (and the internet in general) is the whole Trolling thing - where a genuinely horrible person (without the balls to show it in real life) can hide behind the anonymity of a keyboard and think they can get away with it.... Easier said than done...but just Ignore, Delete, Block.

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By *oy4funMan
over a year ago

near you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is statistically most people on here are fat(er) ... or old(er) .. who gives a shit?

abusing people aint cool though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be honest I've yet to have the fat insults thrown at me even though I label myself at chubby. Maybe because I'm younger perhaps. But yes like all the other posters say block and report as abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got to be honest I've yet to have the fat insults thrown at me even though I label myself at chubby. Maybe because I'm younger perhaps. But yes like all the other posters say block and report as abusive. "

Yeah the block and report button is getting a lot of use believe me. I would understand if I had been rude to these people but I have never spoken to them lol. The one yesterday started off polite but when I wouldn't give my mobile number out became abusive. The one this morning his message started you are a fucking slut. Simply just blocked and reported lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speechless, basic manners.

It just makes no sense to abuse/bad mouth anybody.

We all have friends on here, and it would be naive to suggest that people don't talk about experiences and members who left an impression. (be that good or bad)

From a personal point I prefer to see and feel curves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunate that a minor few always set out to ruin things for someone else. Don't stand for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep....I'm fat.....but your dick is tiny and probably riddled with clap....tra.

Haha fab....home of cranks and gobshites

Fatbird x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were not all the same some of us dont want to screw everything with a pulse. However beauty is not only skin deep. All women are beautiful in their own way some have a few flaws but then nobody is perfect. I have noticed alot of men on here with perfectly chiselled bodies with very ugly personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to be honest I've yet to have the fat insults thrown at me even though I label myself at chubby. Maybe because I'm younger perhaps. But yes like all the other posters say block and report as abusive.

Yeah the block and report button is getting a lot of use believe me. I would understand if I had been rude to these people but I have never spoken to them lol. The one yesterday started off polite but when I wouldn't give my mobile number out became abusive. The one this morning his message started you are a fucking slut. Simply just blocked and reported lol xx"

I love the you fucking slut ones. I usually reply tell me more about how much a slut I am when a slut won't sleep with you and then block. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx"

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got to be honest I've yet to have the fat insults thrown at me even though I label myself at chubby. Maybe because I'm younger perhaps. But yes like all the other posters say block and report as abusive.

Yeah the block and report button is getting a lot of use believe me. I would understand if I had been rude to these people but I have never spoken to them lol. The one yesterday started off polite but when I wouldn't give my mobile number out became abusive. The one this morning his message started you are a fucking slut. Simply just blocked and reported lol xx

I love the you fucking slut ones. I usually reply tell me more about how much a slut I am when a slut won't sleep with you and then block. Haha. "

PMSL I think I will keep that in mind for the next one I get. I just replied saying your not going to have a chance to stick your cock anywhere near me I am not that desperate for a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THEY MESSAGE Y0U, SAYING OH WOULD LOVE TO ......WITH YOU ETC., ETC., AND WHEN YOU SAY A POLITE NO THANK YOU BUT HAVE FUN, THE INSULTS START AND THEN THEY BLOCK SO YOU CANNOT HAVE YOUR SAY, THEY JUST INSECURE MEN WITH LITTLE DICKS IGNORE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha.....still bitching!..behave girls xx

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By *reenmbMan
over a year ago

Gwent


"What is it with the men on here. Do they get pure satisfaction out of putting women down. In the last couple of days I have had 2 men that have taken great pleasure in doing so. I have been called a fucking slut, a fucking fat c**t and again yesterday. Here is the delightful conversation well some of it.

HIM

Well how could I fuck you?

Fab used to be full off cool people now its all fat birds that cant get laid shagging 60 year olds and having the upper hand

ME

Well let's put it this way you won't get to fuck me !!!

HIM

Would I genuinely want to?

Fat girls are a desperate last resort

Why do it. Fab is hard enough for men out there anyway with knob heads like this.

"

This behaviour is absolutely disgusting....

As a man of more mature years I think that the attitude of some. Blokes on here is shameful. There is an old fashioned thing called common decency and treating others with respect...

Who has the right to judge others and spout off a lot of ignorant and plain rude comments. They don't deserve to have any sort of relationshipo with anyone. I believe that these people should be blocked and banned but their twisted minds will think that they are right in what they do and probably carry on. Whoever this so called man was and any others like them should take a good look at themselves and seriously rething their attitudes to others. They are obviously very brave when they are just anonimous on here and it is a terrible shame that they find this necessary to make themselves feel better...

Ah well rant over.... Ever one is beautiful in their own way and no one should have the right to judge and abuse others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"THEY MESSAGE Y0U, SAYING OH WOULD LOVE TO ......WITH YOU ETC., ETC., AND WHEN YOU SAY A POLITE NO THANK YOU BUT HAVE FUN, THE INSULTS START AND THEN THEY BLOCK SO YOU CANNOT HAVE YOUR SAY, THEY JUST INSECURE MEN WITH LITTLE DICKS IGNORE. "

Yeah that's what I had yesterday when I replied to him saying why would I want to fuck you. He replied with a mouth full of abuse and then blocked me. Gutless is all I could think xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with the men on here. Do they get pure satisfaction out of putting women down. In the last couple of days I have had 2 men that have taken great pleasure in doing so. I have been called a fucking slut, a fucking fat c**t and again yesterday. Here is the delightful conversation well some of it.

HIM

Well how could I fuck you?

Fab used to be full off cool people now its all fat birds that cant get laid shagging 60 year olds and having the upper hand

ME

Well let's put it this way you won't get to fuck me !!!

HIM

Would I genuinely want to?

Fat girls are a desperate last resort

Why do it. Fab is hard enough for men out there anyway with knob heads like this.

This behaviour is absolutely disgusting....

As a man of more mature years I think that the attitude of some. Blokes on here is shameful. There is an old fashioned thing called common decency and treating others with respect...

Who has the right to judge others and spout off a lot of ignorant and plain rude comments. They don't deserve to have any sort of relationshipo with anyone. I believe that these people should be blocked and banned but their twisted minds will think that they are right in what they do and probably carry on. Whoever this so called man was and any others like them should take a good look at themselves and seriously rething their attitudes to others. They are obviously very brave when they are just anonimous on here and it is a terrible shame that they find this necessary to make themselves feel better...

Ah well rant over.... Ever one is beautiful in their own way and no one should have the right to judge and abuse others"

He started off polite sending me his face pics. Then he asked if I had whatsapp I replied no. Then he sent me his mobile number and I said I would not be giving it out. Well you can see how he conversation went x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with the men on here. Do they get pure satisfaction out of putting women down. In the last couple of days I have had 2 men that have taken great pleasure in doing so. I have been called a fucking slut, a fucking fat c**t and again yesterday. Here is the delightful conversation well some of it.

HIM

Well how could I fuck you?

Fab used to be full off cool people now its all fat birds that cant get laid shagging 60 year olds and having the upper hand

ME

Well let's put it this way you won't get to fuck me !!!

HIM

Would I genuinely want to?

Fat girls are a desperate last resort

Why do it. Fab is hard enough for men out there anyway with knob heads like this.

This behaviour is absolutely disgusting....

As a man of more mature years I think that the attitude of some. Blokes on here is shameful. There is an old fashioned thing called common decency and treating others with respect...

Who has the right to judge others and spout off a lot of ignorant and plain rude comments. They don't deserve to have any sort of relationshipo with anyone. I believe that these people should be blocked and banned but their twisted minds will think that they are right in what they do and probably carry on. Whoever this so called man was and any others like them should take a good look at themselves and seriously rething their attitudes to others. They are obviously very brave when they are just anonimous on here and it is a terrible shame that they find this necessary to make themselves feel better...

Ah well rant over.... Ever one is beautiful in their own way and no one should have the right to judge and abuse others"

All the women on here are innocent of course and don't abuse men, insult or call names of course.......purrrrrleeeaasseee.....haha.......there's a lot of dishing out then crying when it's returned....give it a rest

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By *issScarlett25Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Got to be honest I've yet to have the fat insults thrown at me even though I label myself at chubby. Maybe because I'm younger perhaps. But yes like all the other posters say block and report as abusive.

Yeah the block and report button is getting a lot of use believe me. I would understand if I had been rude to these people but I have never spoken to them lol. The one yesterday started off polite but when I wouldn't give my mobile number out became abusive. The one this morning his message started you are a fucking slut. Simply just blocked and reported lol xx

I love the you fucking slut ones. I usually reply tell me more about how much a slut I am when a slut won't sleep with you and then block. Haha. "

To be fair kgirl....you are a slut...but your my slut! xXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX"

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx"

Look out its airing dirty washing time! Haha.......get ya popcorn folks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are beautiful babe and don't let anyone tell you any different. I think it is sad that men seem to think that if they message you then it is their god given right to fuck you too and that you under no circumstances say no to them. I also think it's disgraceful that a certain selection of people have to advertise parties as quite frankly otherwise no one would want them! Men don't deal with rejection very well. I'm not a stoic thin super model myself as you know and you know what it used to bother me but not anymore. If they are that pathetic that they can only get their kicks out of abusing others the block them. There are many, many men on here who appreciate the larger ladies too and are REAL men who know how to treat a lady. Oh and lastly I hate the men that think this site gives them a right to judge and criticise what we post and where we puts it. Freedom of speech and all that. Over and out )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are beautiful babe and don't let anyone tell you any different. I think it is sad that men seem to think that if they message you then it is their god given right to fuck you too and that you under no circumstances say no to them. I also think it's disgraceful that a certain selection of people have to advertise parties as quite frankly otherwise no one would want them! Men don't deal with rejection very well. I'm not a stoic thin super model myself as you know and you know what it used to bother me but not anymore. If they are that pathetic that they can only get their kicks out of abusing others the block them. There are many, many men on here who appreciate the larger ladies too and are REAL men who know how to treat a lady. Oh and lastly I hate the men that think this site gives them a right to judge and criticise what we post and where we puts it. Freedom of speech and all that. Over and out ) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right....its all about rejection! Hahaha.....ah man there's some egos flying about.

Love to join in the laundry but I got a bit more self worth.

Take care girls......your beautiful and don't let any man tell you different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a thought..

What time of messages are you sending out???

Maybe a review of how you reply??? "

One bloke I hadn't even messaged giggles. His first message to me was you are a fucking slut. The guy yesterday he started polite saying cutie I replied thank you. Then he asked was I on kik or what's app and I said no. He then sent me his mobile number I replied saying sorry I don't give my mobile number out and then he asked how was he going to fuck me and then you see how that went. I will always be polite. I reply to all of my messages even though it is hard work just to say thank you but no thank you and even then I just get abused. I think now I am not even going to bother and just block xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your right....its all about rejection! Hahaha.....ah man there's some egos flying about.

Love to join in the laundry but I got a bit more self worth.

Take care girls......your beautiful and don't let any man tell you different "

It is all about rejection but there is a way of handling it. I have contacted men and been told myself sorry your not my type. I just reply saying thank you for taking the time to reply I then block them so I don't message them again. We aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea and I for one don't want to just meet anything that moves. I would rather take my time getting to know someone and make sure I am making the right decision xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx"

I used to be 27 stone a size 28/30 and for someone to tell me I am fat now I see as a kick in the teeth. I have been through a lot to get where I am and feel that I am just being put down. I have had a boob job 2 tummy tucks due to have my 3rd one and a thigh reduction as well. All because I hate my body. I don't need someone else pointing that out to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx

I used to be 27 stone a size 28/30 and for someone to tell me I am fat now I see as a kick in the teeth. I have been through a lot to get where I am and feel that I am just being put down. I have had a boob job 2 tummy tucks due to have my 3rd one and a thigh reduction as well. All because I hate my body. I don't need someone else pointing that out to me x"

Sorry babe that wasn't aimed at you.....someone hijacked ya thread for their own reasons.

Your right....fuck them....take no

Notice!.....just remember as well this is a website full of strangers.....do their opinions really matter?.....friends and family know the score.....This isn't real life on here

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over a year ago


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Sorry babe that wasn't aimed at you.....someone hijacked ya thread for their own reasons.

Your right....fuck them....take no

Notice!.....just remember as well this is a website full of strangers.....do their opinions really matter?.....friends and family know the score.....This isn't real life on here"


"You are beautiful babe and don't let anyone tell you any different. I think it is sad that men seem to think that if they message you then it is their god given right to fuck you too and that you under no circumstances say no to them. I also think it's disgraceful that a certain selection of people have to advertise parties as quite frankly otherwise no one would want them! Men don't deal with rejection very well. I'm not a stoic thin super model myself as you know and you know what it used to bother me but not anymore. If they are that pathetic that they can only get their kicks out of abusing others the block them. There are many, many men on here who appreciate the larger ladies too and are REAL men who know how to treat a lady. Oh and lastly I hate the men that think this site gives them a right to judge and criticise what we post and where we puts it. Freedom of speech and all that. Over and out ) "

T and I (both) are very friendly and I can completely agree with everything you've said there LushiousLolita.

She is FAR from any of these things the men in question have accused her of.

Sadly it is bound to take it's toll because after a while of this it is bound to get under your skin..

Saying that, T knows she has nothing to worry about and these 'men' are keyboard warriors and cowards.

1, not the kind of meet you'd want anyway as they're assholes, and have shown their real personality here.

2,Goes to show that they have NO respect,for themselves or the lady they are speaking to. If they had ANY respect, they would never say anything like this to any lady.

3, T has nothing to worry about as she is very attractive, beautiful, sexy and has a fantastic personality.

Who's loss is it again?

For what it's worth, I agree with both of you too, esp nice and naughty, it's not real life mate and you're right; friends and family know the score..

Couldn't have put it better myself, also yeah the thread *almost* got hijacked.. thankfully it's stayed it's place.

Just sayin'

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over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx

I used to be 27 stone a size 28/30 and for someone to tell me I am fat now I see as a kick in the teeth. I have been through a lot to get where I am and feel that I am just being put down. I have had a boob job 2 tummy tucks due to have my 3rd one and a thigh reduction as well. All because I hate my body. I don't need someone else pointing that out to me x

Sorry babe that wasn't aimed at you.....someone hijacked ya thread for their own reasons.

Your right....fuck them....take no

Notice!.....just remember as well this is a website full of strangers.....do their opinions really matter?.....friends and family know the score.....This isn't real life on here"

Deffo...anybody with a vile mouth and spiteful personality isnt worth your time anyway...well done on what sounds like a.big body transformation

Keep smiling xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a funny feeling your inbox as just grown with all nice reply!!!!

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over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx

I used to be 27 stone a size 28/30 and for someone to tell me I am fat now I see as a kick in the teeth. I have been through a lot to get where I am and feel that I am just being put down. I have had a boob job 2 tummy tucks due to have my 3rd one and a thigh reduction as well. All because I hate my body. I don't need someone else pointing that out to me x

Sorry babe that wasn't aimed at you.....someone hijacked ya thread for their own reasons.

Your right....fuck them....take no

Notice!.....just remember as well this is a website full of strangers.....do their opinions really matter?.....friends and family know the score.....This isn't real life on here

Deffo...anybody with a vile mouth and spiteful personality isnt worth your time anyway...well done on what sounds like a.big body transformation

Keep smiling xxx"

Thank you Hun xx

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over a year ago


"Yupppp... a certain guy in just one week called three fab members fat right here in the forum...

To one stunning lady who is a size 12 he said "arent you latefor weightwatchers babe"

To myself he said same as above plus a whole lot worse

To a very popular girl on here he said

Less pizza and more gym you want love""

Personally think hes shot himself in the foot..how many ladies would have seen it and would now not even contemplate a meet....

Girls please dont take them personally....usually stems from bitterness/rejection anyway...

Im openly honest that im a bigger girl on my profile..if u have a problem with that keep scrolling....

Like water off a ducks back to me now....

Chin up sexy ladies! xxx

I think I know who you're referring to and If I'm right he claims to love the gym honed girls on the forum but his private life is far from that.

I don't know about other women but FAB has made me far more body confident. Especially seeing the effect I have on men! XXX

Thats him sweety

only goes for gym girls...tight asses..toned bodies......big lol...his exes and wife tell a dif story....

Thing is these gym girls would want the same in return.:-/

same here babe..after a mentally cruel relationship where i.was constantly told i was loose....fat..etc..ive come onhere and finally feeling good about myself....

The few menive met have been very complimentary....and last nights meet ceryainly had no complaints

fuckkkk the haters ) xxx

I used to be 27 stone a size 28/30 and for someone to tell me I am fat now I see as a kick in the teeth. I have been through a lot to get where I am and feel that I am just being put down. I have had a boob job 2 tummy tucks due to have my 3rd one and a thigh reduction as well. All because I hate my body. I don't need someone else pointing that out to me x

Sorry babe that wasn't aimed at you.....someone hijacked ya thread for their own reasons.

Your right....fuck them....take no

Notice!.....just remember as well this is a website full of strangers.....do their opinions really matter?.....friends and family know the score.....This isn't real life on here"

Thank you very much. People are too quick to judge others before hey know the full story. No idea what they get out of it to be honest xx

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over a year ago


"Block the a@@holes and report

Best thing is the coward abused me then blocked me lol. But I have blocked and reported him. "

So why do you need to post about it, clearly the matter has been resolved

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over a year ago


"

So why do you need to post about it, clearly the matter has been resolved "

I think it's to highlight that abusive messages have now been ongoing for six straight days tbh ...

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over a year ago


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So why do you need to post about it, clearly the matter has been resolved

I think it's to highlight that abusive messages have now been ongoing for six straight days tbh ..."

Addendum - and to highlight the level that some are prepared to stoop to.. Sorry forgot to add, my bad. dupe post

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over a year ago


"Block the a@@holes and report

Best thing is the coward abused me then blocked me lol. But I have blocked and reported him.

So why do you need to post about it, clearly the matter has been resolved "

Because I personally think that more should be done to protect members from the abuse they get on here. Yes you can block them but it doesn't stop them abusing someone else. And since Friday you would not believe the abuse that I have put up with. So much so that I seriously thought about closing this account down. But why should I let narrow minded men bully me into stopping something I enjoy. Plus I like to get other people's opinion on this too. I can't be the only fem/couple or even male that puts up with this crap xx

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By *nockknock40Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

From what I can see of this site there's a large amount of people with no clue how to treat another human being with respect and then they wonder why they couldn't get sex in a brothel, they really don't get it.

And it's easy to say rise above the personal abuse, but it's to late when it's already been said, it can chop away at your confidence.

For what it's worth your a very sexy and extremely pretty woman

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over a year ago


"From what I can see of this site there's a large amount of people with no clue how to treat another human being with respect and then they wonder why they couldn't get sex in a brothel, they really don't get it.

And it's easy to say rise above the personal abuse, but it's to late when it's already been said, it can chop away at your confidence.

For what it's worth your a very sexy and extremely pretty woman "

It does annoy me there are so many decent people on here and it's because of a small minority that others suffer.

It does make me think how they think they will meet anyone talking to people the way they do. And it's not just men a friend of mine had another women message her telling her she was too fat to be on this site xx

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By *nockknock40Man
over a year ago

Bridgend


"From what I can see of this site there's a large amount of people with no clue how to treat another human being with respect and then they wonder why they couldn't get sex in a brothel, they really don't get it.

And it's easy to say rise above the personal abuse, but it's to late when it's already been said, it can chop away at your confidence.

For what it's worth your a very sexy and extremely pretty woman

It does annoy me there are so many decent people on here and it's because of a small minority that others suffer.

It does make me think how they think they will meet anyone talking to people the way they do. And it's not just men a friend of mine had another women message her telling her she was too fat to be on this site xx"

I can understand why your pissed off, I think people lack any common manners on here, there are a few decent people but there are a lot more arseholes.

People can't string a sentence together and then expect you to jump into bed with them, the art of seduction is dead lol

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over a year ago


"From what I can see of this site there's a large amount of people with no clue how to treat another human being with respect and then they wonder why they couldn't get sex in a brothel, they really don't get it.

And it's easy to say rise above the personal abuse, but it's to late when it's already been said, it can chop away at your confidence.

For what it's worth your a very sexy and extremely pretty woman

It does annoy me there are so many decent people on here and it's because of a small minority that others suffer.

It does make me think how they think they will meet anyone talking to people the way they do. And it's not just men a friend of mine had another women message her telling her she was too fat to be on this site xx"

The people involved in the name calling must have resigned themselves to the fact they are hopeless and have no hope. I can't think of any other reason, that and jealousy!

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over a year ago


"From what I can see of this site there's a large amount of people with no clue how to treat another human being with respect and then they wonder why they couldn't get sex in a brothel, they really don't get it.

And it's easy to say rise above the personal abuse, but it's to late when it's already been said, it can chop away at your confidence.

For what it's worth your a very sexy and extremely pretty woman

It does annoy me there are so many decent people on here and it's because of a small minority that others suffer.

It does make me think how they think they will meet anyone talking to people the way they do. And it's not just men a friend of mine had another women message her telling her she was too fat to be on this site xx

The people involved in the name calling must have resigned themselves to the fact they are hopeless and have no hope. I can't think of any other reason, that and jealousy! "

I concur, it's jealousy in its finest and ugliest form.

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over a year ago


"From what I can see of this site there's a large amount of people with no clue how to treat another human being with respect and then they wonder why they couldn't get sex in a brothel, they really don't get it.

And it's easy to say rise above the personal abuse, but it's to late when it's already been said, it can chop away at your confidence.

For what it's worth your a very sexy and extremely pretty woman

It does annoy me there are so many decent people on here and it's because of a small minority that others suffer.

It does make me think how they think they will meet anyone talking to people the way they do. And it's not just men a friend of mine had another women message her telling her she was too fat to be on this site xx

The people involved in the name calling must have resigned themselves to the fact they are hopeless and have no hope. I can't think of any other reason, that and jealousy! "

If I had done something or any of us on here had done something to them personally I could understand the attacks people protecting themselves. It could be jealousy it could be frustration that they don't get anywhere on here the 2 people who have really abused me the last couple of days the one guy on here a year no veri's no photos coward hiding away. Yesterday's had pics and only veri webcam but if he had a jekyl and Hyde personality I can understand why no meetings in person x

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over a year ago

Firstly this is the second time you have posted this topic in the forums which had a full explanation and was subsequently closed.

Now let me address a few issues you have regarding the alleged "abusive" messages.

"Because I personally think that more should be done to protect members from the abuse they get on here. Yes you can block them but it doesn't stop them abusing someone else."

Agreed it is probably the best and only course of action you can do on here, apart from reporting them. Hopefully with the transcript of the offending message to admin.

"And since Friday you would not believe the abuse that I have put up with."

Not that I am condoning any further messages but surly posting in a public forum highlighting the issue wasn't the smartest of moves to stay away from the lime light.

"I seriously thought about closing this account down. But why should I let narrow minded men bully me into stopping something I enjoy."

Absolutely why should you, as for the "narrow minded men bully me"

There's the report button, if the same individual continues to "bully" you then there are other options available to you. I have given up with this type of advice as posts mysteriously disappear, maybe I'm not pressing the post button

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over a year ago


"Firstly this is the second time you have posted this topic in the forums which had a full explanation and was subsequently closed.

Now let me address a few issues you have regarding the alleged "abusive" messages.

"Because I personally think that more should be done to protect members from the abuse they get on here. Yes you can block them but it doesn't stop them abusing someone else."

Agreed it is probably the best and only course of action you can do on here, apart from reporting them. Hopefully with the transcript of the offending message to admin.

"And since Friday you would not believe the abuse that I have put up with."

Not that I am condoning any further messages but surly posting in a public forum highlighting the issue wasn't the smartest of moves to stay away from the lime light.

"I seriously thought about closing this account down. But why should I let narrow minded men bully me into stopping something I enjoy."

Absolutely why should you, as for the "narrow minded men bully me"

There's the report button, if the same individual continues to "bully" you then there are other options available to you. I have given up with this type of advice as posts mysteriously disappear, maybe I'm not pressing the post button

"

Lol well said...

And for anyone wanting to abuse me I already no I'm a fat cunt

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over a year ago


"Firstly this is the second time you have posted this topic in the forums which had a full explanation and was subsequently closed.

Now let me address a few issues you have regarding the alleged "abusive" messages.

"Because I personally think that more should be done to protect members from the abuse they get on here. Yes you can block them but it doesn't stop them abusing someone else."

Agreed it is probably the best and only course of action you can do on here, apart from reporting them. Hopefully with the transcript of the offending message to admin.

"And since Friday you would not believe the abuse that I have put up with."

Not that I am condoning any further messages but surly posting in a public forum highlighting the issue wasn't the smartest of moves to stay away from the lime light.

"I seriously thought about closing this account down. But why should I let narrow minded men bully me into stopping something I enjoy."

Absolutely why should you, as for the "narrow minded men bully me"

There's the report button, if the same individual continues to "bully" you then there are other options available to you. I have given up with this type of advice as posts mysteriously disappear, maybe I'm not pressing the post button

"

My pervious topic for the forum is why doesn't admin do more to protect their members from abuse and yes it got closed by an admin person saying to report report and report. And that is what I do over and over again. I have a blocked list which is growing day by day. All I am going to do now is just simply block any user I receive a message from that I don't like. I wanted to be polite as many moan that people read and delete messages but now I can understand why x

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