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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sex...we all love it, as we wouldn't be on here If we didn't...but when does sex become too much?

1. How many times can you cum before it turns into a chore.

2. How many different people is too many?

3. If your using the same person how much sex can you have before lines get blurred?

We are all different...I find it easy to not get attached to people, I love different ways of having sex and I don't think you should limit yourself.

I believe as long as no-ones getting hurt (emotionally/physically) there's no harm....but what do you think?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been tied to a cross and had a vibrator held against me for half an hour and came five times. It drove me round the twist until I was begging to be untied. I couldn't take anymore I wanted to scream lol

Drs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are some of the reasons I don't meet single men anymore. I have found they tend to get clingy, persistently message me and when ignored it suddenly becomes all about them being irresistible or me being a stuck up cow

Party situations and clubs are much easier to handle and far more discrete. You tend to flirt, fuck and leave. With little follow up after the event. It is what it is. Simple, uncomplicated fun. Just what swinging should be (in my opinion).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been tied to a cross and had a vibrator held against me for half an hour and came five times. It drove me round the twist until I was begging to be untied. I couldn't take anymore I wanted to scream lol

Drs x "
only five times i came ten times in a night once . I loved it . Totally wiped out the next day . Depends on what you want on here really .can go from normal to sublime lol . I think different chemistry different boundaries but always with fb not too many rules and expecting to be with the fb forever . Poppy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads some weeks then nothing then loads again

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thanks for the feed back guys. Iv been on fab for 4weeks so still really new to it all...the people I have met have always delivered and I have yet to have a bad experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, I've never had too much sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8 times in 1 day was my max... was somewhere between pleasurable and painful by number 8 though

never had a problem with lines being blurred, as long as both sides are on the same page from the get go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u are with the right girl u wont remember how many times! u know to stop when the sun comes up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never have to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can never have to much "

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

good girl!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with you about what swinging is about.

I started main years ago when the Internet was just getting going (dial up how did we survive) and back then swinging was a lot more social and friendly it wasn't about nsa you built friendships around sex.

Unfortunately now a lot of Web sites sees that sex makes money so it's attracting a lot of people that want quick fucks. Making it in my opinion a lot less fun place and making life harder for people who genuinely want to enjoy the life style.

Due to to this though clubs etc have become a lot better place cause you don't get the time wasters and idiots that a lot of sites attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with you about what swinging is about.

I started main years ago when the Internet was just getting going (dial up how did we survive) and back then swinging was a lot more social and friendly it wasn't about nsa you built friendships around sex.

Unfortunately now a lot of Web sites sees that sex makes money so it's attracting a lot of people that want quick fucks. Making it in my opinion a lot less fun place and making life harder for people who genuinely want to enjoy the life style.

Due to to this though clubs etc have become a lot better place cause you don't get the time wasters and idiots that a lot of sites attract."

Well said this is why I stick to party's and clubs as I was fed up of being let down

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I disagree with you about what swinging is about.

I started main years ago when the Internet was just getting going (dial up how did we survive) and back then swinging was a lot more social and friendly it wasn't about nsa you built friendships around sex.

Unfortunately now a lot of Web sites sees that sex makes money so it's attracting a lot of people that want quick fucks. Making it in my opinion a lot less fun place and making life harder for people who genuinely want to enjoy the life style.

Due to to this though clubs etc have become a lot better place cause you don't get the time wasters and idiots that a lot of sites attract."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with you about what swinging is about.

I started main years ago when the Internet was just getting going (dial up how did we survive) and back then swinging was a lot more social and friendly it wasn't about nsa you built friendships around sex.

Unfortunately now a lot of Web sites sees that sex makes money so it's attracting a lot of people that want quick fucks. Making it in my opinion a lot less fun place and making life harder for people who genuinely want to enjoy the life style.

Due to to this though clubs etc have become a lot better place cause you don't get the time wasters and idiots that a lot of sites attract."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey I've excelled and exceeded myself today!! And didn't upset anyone!

Think I deserve a gold star!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Personally, I think that if you can count the number of times she came, you came, how many times you did it or how long you were doing it, then you obviously wernt that caught up in the moment!

We have had some fantastic meets, real mind blowing fun, and those are the meets where we struggle to remember the details about how many of this and that happened lol!

Those are the kind of meets where you slowly piece what happened together from sexy flashbacks, and convos with those involved where the phrase " remember when we did so-and-so?" helps you piece it together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Personally, I think that if you can count the number of times she came, you came, how many times you did it or how long you were doing it, then you obviously wernt that caught up in the moment!

We have had some fantastic meets, real mind blowing fun, and those are the meets where we struggle to remember the details about how many of this and that happened lol!

Those are the kind of meets where you slowly piece what happened together from sexy flashbacks, and convos with those involved where the phrase " remember when we did so-and-so?" helps you piece it together! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy cumming can be a chore lol. I can usually go 4/5 times without a break but then I am in dire need of a recharge.

Too many sexual partners is a grey area, I feel as long as you play safe and have fun there is no limit.

But others brand you as a slut / man slag (even on this site)

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are some of the reasons I don't meet single men anymore. I have found they tend to get clingy, persistently message me and when ignored it suddenly becomes all about them being irresistible or me being a stuck up cow

Party situations and clubs are much easier to handle and far more discrete. You tend to flirt, fuck and leave. With little follow up after the event. It is what it is. Simple, uncomplicated fun. Just what swinging should be (in my opinion). "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with you about what swinging is about.

I started main years ago when the Internet was just getting going (dial up how did we survive) and back then swinging was a lot more social and friendly it wasn't about nsa you built friendships around sex.

Unfortunately now a lot of Web sites sees that sex makes money so it's attracting a lot of people that want quick fucks. Making it in my opinion a lot less fun place and making life harder for people who genuinely want to enjoy the life style.

Due to to this though clubs etc have become a lot better place cause you don't get the time wasters and idiots that a lot of sites attract."

I think many of the old school swingers would agree with you, good sex & quality friendships are what it's about for me. I like to enjoy sex with my friends & the quick, emotionless suck n fuck does little for me. But hey we're all different & thats what makes for an interesting mix X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with you about what swinging is about.

I started main years ago when the Internet was just getting going (dial up how did we survive) and back then swinging was a lot more social and friendly it wasn't about nsa you built friendships around sex.

Unfortunately now a lot of Web sites sees that sex makes money so it's attracting a lot of people that want quick fucks. Making it in my opinion a lot less fun place and making life harder for people who genuinely want to enjoy the life style.

Due to to this though clubs etc have become a lot better place cause you don't get the time wasters and idiots that a lot of sites attract.

I think many of the old school swingers would agree with you, good sex & quality friendships are what it's about for me. I like to enjoy sex with my friends & the quick, emotionless suck n fuck does little for me. But hey we're all different & thats what makes for an interesting mix X"

Same here..see my status...

Random quick fuck and gos just aint me..... i need mental.stimulation..banter...friendship..no pressure... i just cant do the meet fuck n ta-ra.. does nothing for me..unless im at a club....

Im gonna stick to parties..clubs..and knock meeting guys on the head i think xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you if I ever get there...

Now MORE sex would be good though...lol.

From the sublime to the ridiculous...so long as it involves having a laugh along the way too, then I'm ALWAYS up for some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes...you can never have too much....its caused probs in previous relationships...apparently im.""oversexed"" lol....

But...i do prefer sex with partners/fuckbuddys..... quick meets just dont cut the mustard for me..

That said, i enjoy parties and clubs.... kinda different..but meeting someone for an hr just aint me atm...

May hang up my swinging stockings and go date lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes...you can never have too much....its caused probs in previous relationships...apparently im.""oversexed"" lol....

But...i do prefer sex with partners/fuckbuddys..... quick meets just dont cut the mustard for me..

That said, i enjoy parties and clubs.... kinda different..but meeting someone for an hr just aint me atm...

May hang up my swinging stockings and go date lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's all ways night to plan a good night lots of sex but also having a laugh getting to know new people I have met some great people on here thanks fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an amazingly high sex drive I am

Horny before axe and after sex. Been on the scene for 8 years now and that includes taking a break for 4 years lol and I have had over a 120 play meets. At one point I was meeting 3 men in one day. It was one in job done shower change and next one. My toys can get used for anything up to an hour a day. I think everyone is different I am happy having sex as many times in one day as my body will allow due to the fact that I am not a soft sensual type lol xx

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Oh yes...you can never have too much....its caused probs in previous relationships...apparently im.""oversexed"" lol....

But...i do prefer sex with partners/fuckbuddys..... quick meets just dont cut the mustard for me..

That said, i enjoy parties and clubs.... kinda different..but meeting someone for an hr just aint me atm...

May hang up my swinging stockings and go date lol xx"

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By *issScarlett25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I have an amazingly high sex drive I am

Horny before axe and after sex. Been on the scene for 8 years now and that includes taking a break for 4 years lol and I have had over a 120 play meets. At one point I was meeting 3 men in one day. It was one in job done shower change and next one. My toys can get used for anything up to an hour a day. I think everyone is different I am happy having sex as many times in one day as my body will allow due to the fact that I am not a soft sensual type lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing homeslice! *Cough* 7 meets this week *Cough* hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's too much when my cock feels as if someone's ran a cheese grater over it after 10-15 times a night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's too much when my cock feels as if someone's ran a cheese grater over it after 10-15 times a night... "

Likewise when my cunt feels as if I've been fucking scissors.

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By *dyjoMan
over a year ago

merthyr tydfil

I think ur rite on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's too much when my cock feels as if someone's ran a cheese grater over it after 10-15 times a night...

Likewise when my cunt feels as if I've been fucking scissors. "

I'm more concerned about how both of you know what it feels like :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well got to be honest for me if it's the right person and they are getting off on the sex I just can't stop lol. Love seeing a women getting off on me fucking them and it's like an addiction. As long as you are both turned on then I will go for hours and will continue to push you to your limits

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