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why do peeps after a meet what a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Y is it some peeps on here after you meet with them a few times want a relationship do others find this as well or is it just me that has this problem am I doing something wrong or right ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you lead them to believe you want more.... by giving out wrong signals? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It often happens with males & females, over time you feel comfy with a person & some people misinterpret that comfort & trust for something more. I've had it happen with guys a few times & before you know it, they want to be your exclusive meet, or they want to be a couple & you only meet together. Either way they usually carry on their single activities. I avoid it like the plague & my fb arrangement is only succesful because we both play alone. The cynicism aside though, I do know of a few couples who have met here & things have worked out well, all the best I say, but as a married woman it's not what I'm looking for X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think so all I wanted was no stress or hassle then one comment on here then world war 3 ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you giving out the wrong kind of signals???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think so all I wanted was no stress or hassle then one comment on here then world war 3 ffs"

I think you need to look closer to home then & consider the comment, who made it & why people got upset. All the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having met and spoken to quite a lot of females on here over the years, a hell if a lot are here for the wrong reasons ( and before anyone jumps on me, there are a fair amount of men who do it too, just not half as common)....ego boosts and because they are lonely. So when someone starts paying them attention, especially in a regular basis, they can misinterpret it.

It is also a scientific fact that women are less likely to be able to have NSA sex as feelings become prevalent for a lot.

However like Peachy says, lines can become blurred with regular mmeets. You inevitably become closer and start to get more comfortable. I think most of us are guilty of developing feelings for a regular FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having met and spoken to quite a lot of females on here over the years, a hell if a lot are here for the wrong reasons ( and before anyone jumps on me, there are a fair amount of men who do it too, just not half as common)....ego boosts and because they are lonely. So when someone starts paying them attention, especially in a regular basis, they can misinterpret it.

It is also a scientific fact that women are less likely to be able to have NSA sex as feelings become prevalent for a lot.

However like Peachy says, lines can become blurred with regular mmeets. You inevitably become closer and start to get more comfortable. I think most of us are guilty of developing feelings for a regular FB "

Well put, in fact it's impossible not to develop feelings for someone you meet on a very regular basis, maybe I'm more bloke than most women, but after 18 months of regular meeting I still don't want to keep my fb, still wouldn't want to lose him as a regular arrangement, but don't want anymore X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having met and spoken to quite a lot of females on here over the years, a hell if a lot are here for the wrong reasons ( and before anyone jumps on me, there are a fair amount of men who do it too, just not half as common)....ego boosts and because they are lonely. So when someone starts paying them attention, especially in a regular basis, they can misinterpret it.

It is also a scientific fact that women are less likely to be able to have NSA sex as feelings become prevalent for a lot.

However like Peachy says, lines can become blurred with regular mmeets. You inevitably become closer and start to get more comfortable. I think most of us are guilty of developing feelings for a regular FB

Well put, in fact it's impossible not to develop feelings for someone you meet on a very regular basis, maybe I'm more bloke than most women, but after 18 months of regular meeting I still don't want to keep my fb, still wouldn't want to lose him as a regular arrangement, but don't want anymore X"
yes I agree but when you've made it clear from the start and they say the same just fb I stay the same and they don't they don't want me to see others and want bf gf what's that all about xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mental issues. It happens. Doesn't make you special. Just makes them crazy lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men and women see it as a way of meeting people !!

Others only ever meet people from the scene so will only ever meet people swinging .....

While others want to meet people on here to continue swinging as a couple so it's the best place for them to meet like minded partners

Then there's the ones that just want anyone and think that coz you've had sex a couple of times and get along its a relationship

Each to their own and good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing you have to do is define 'relationship'. If you have a friend or friends, and have sex regularly with them on a regular basis, that is one form of relationship. Is that so wrong? No ties, just friendship with a little fun thrown in. You just have to accept that different people are looking for different things.

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By *ojomojo79Woman
over a year ago

Swansea ish

That's why I don't have fbs too complicated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why I don't have fbs too complicated"
. Beginning to think your rite about FBS xxx

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