FabSwingers.com forum: KINKY ADVISE PLZ

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I've recently found the kink in me lol

and was wondering if you can recommend anything like toys or outfits

or the do's and dont's of the kinky world

any advise will be greatly received

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've recently found the kink in me lol

and was wondering if you can recommend anything like toys or outfits

or the do's and dont's of the kinky world

any advise will be greatly received

Thank you

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all depends on just how kinky u wanna get lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about blindfold and tied up then teased with all sorts of veg lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some great books out there on kink giving safety advice etc. What are your preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whips

Hand cuffs

Strap on

Bed restraints

Blind fold

And just go with what feels right and ur comfortable

It's sex it's fun you don't need rule books

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've recently found the kink in me lol

and was wondering if you can recommend anything like toys or outfits

or the do's and dont's of the kinky world

any advise will be greatly received

Thank you

bend over giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not exactly helpful advise

More of a request lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google & read & watch & look & explore with your partner. Failing all that come visit me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not exactly helpful advise

More of a request lol

yeah i know but a bit of a running joke :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Google & read & watch & look & explore with your partner. Failing all that come visit me

The best way to find out is by experience. Finding someone you trust and are comfortable enough with. Communication is vital for good sex. I'm just learning new things about my own boundaries and kinks. Best advice is be happy and enjoy it for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all I've recently found the kink in me lol

and was wondering if you can recommend anything like toys or outfits

or the do's and dont's of the kinky world

any advise will be greatly received

Thank you

bend over giggles

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now nick I don't mind a slapped ares but fuck me you left a hand print 4 a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i didnt and if i did can i see the proof ? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no i didnt and if i did can i see the proof ? lol"

Not you lol godlikefingers

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

i strongly advise against getting a whip as a 1st kinky toy.That's not an item to just play+mess around with

A simple light flogger(avoid fake leather it's 'plasticy' + harsh!+ may not a good start unless you already discovered you got a high painthresshold lol)is easier to use.Best if someone experienced shows you to use it or if you want to receive:your partner.Avoid the kidneyarea!

Safety tips:shop bought handcuff keys are tiny + easily lost some ribbon/lanyard etc will be handy when you get into those'sodslaw' situations.....if you use rope/belts/stockings etc for bondage have scissors handy....for thick metalchains boltcutters

....think commonsense when using anything in kink.

Enjoy your journey,start of easy + than take it as far as you like XXXX

PS:'Forget the roses give me the thorns' is a book written with loads of humour + also lot's of descriptions and tips about all things D/s,BDSM,kink,bondage

(susie)

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

forgot to say:you don't have to spend any money on kinky toys to start of with

barehand

woodenspoon

bamboo canes

cricket bat

flysquatter

rolled-up paper

.....just look around your place and with imagination you find plenty of kink in vanilla items

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"forgot to say:you don't have to spend any money on kinky toys to start of with

barehand

woodenspoon

bamboo canes

cricket bat

flysquatter

rolled-up paper

.....just look around your place and with imagination you find plenty of kink in vanilla items

(susie)

Don't forget a tea towel, I'm quite lethal with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Google & read & watch & look & explore with your partner. Failing all that come visit me

Juicy I'll show you a thing or two. Naturally Dom and live to be kinky with the right lady x

Message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i strongly advise against getting a whip as a 1st kinky toy.That's not an item to just play+mess around with

....think commonsense when using anything in kink.

Enjoy your journey,start of easy + than take it as far as you like XXXX

PS:'Forget the roses give me the thorns' is a book written with loads of humour + also lot's of descriptions and tips about all things D/s,BDSM,kink,bondage

(susie)

Thank you susie I just don't no why I didn't message you both 2 start with....

I have a few things to get me started slowly

Silk tie restrains

Silk tie bite bar

Paddle

Handcuffs

Whip

So am gona start slow and work my way up hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can come and try out our cross if you want Giggles!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can come and try out our cross if you want Giggles!

I may have to lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can come and try out our cross if you want Giggles!

I may have to lol...

I've even got a box you can stand on to reach the top!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barehand , cricket bat, flysquat, mm!! careful giggs or some one will have you for gbh girl,

good luck tho

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what defines as kinky one persons kink is another persons normal lol. whatever it is girl try it with a person you have total trust in and have fun xxx

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

@ Giggles:you welcome xx

Are you exploring your Dominant or submissive side or both?

In regards to clothes:as a Domme You wear whatever You want

but outfits can help to put you in role.Like most fems feel more sexy in stockings than in their'housecleaning gear'.All the Domme's we know from the scene have evolved their personal style + look.

As a sub you may well find that you get told what to wear

if free to wear what you like than i suggest 'easy access'

or outfits which you can take of quickly when told to do so

Think we all like to hear how much fun you having whichever role you prefer

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"@ Giggles:you welcome xx

Are you exploring your Dominant or submissive side or both?

In regards to clothes:as a Domme You wear whatever You want

but outfits can help to put you in role.Like most fems feel more sexy in stockings than in their'housecleaning gear'.All the Domme's we know from the scene have evolved their personal style + look.

As a sub you may well find that you get told what to wear

if free to wear what you like than i suggest 'easy access'

or outfits which you can take of quickly when told to do so

Think we all like to hear how much fun you having whichever role you prefer

(susie)"

Susie there is so much to take in lol...

I am definitely dom as i found out last night

I put my gag bar to the test and my silk cuffs..hehehe

I really enjoyed being in control..

I can't wait to try it again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ Giggles:you welcome xx

Are you exploring your Dominant or submissive side or both?

In regards to clothes:as a Domme You wear whatever You want

but outfits can help to put you in role.Like most fems feel more sexy in stockings than in their'housecleaning gear'.All the Domme's we know from the scene have evolved their personal style + look.

As a sub you may well find that you get told what to wear

if free to wear what you like than i suggest 'easy access'

or outfits which you can take of quickly when told to do so

Think we all like to hear how much fun you having whichever role you prefer

(susie)

Susie there is so much to take in lol...

I am definitely dom as i found out last night

I put my gag bar to the test and my silk cuffs..hehehe

I really enjoyed being in control..

I can't wait to try it again soon

shy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"@ Giggles:you welcome xx

Are you exploring your Dominant or submissive side or both?

In regards to clothes:as a Domme You wear whatever You want

but outfits can help to put you in role.Like most fems feel more sexy in stockings than in their'housecleaning gear'.All the Domme's we know from the scene have evolved their personal style + look.

As a sub you may well find that you get told what to wear

if free to wear what you like than i suggest 'easy access'

or outfits which you can take of quickly when told to do so

Think we all like to hear how much fun you having whichever role you prefer

(susie)

Susie there is so much to take in lol...

I am definitely dom as i found out last night

I put my gag bar to the test and my silk cuffs..hehehe

I really enjoyed being in control..

I can't wait to try it again soon

shy lol

I am honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ Giggles:you welcome xx

Are you exploring your Dominant or submissive side or both?

In regards to clothes:as a Domme You wear whatever You want

but outfits can help to put you in role.Like most fems feel more sexy in stockings than in their'housecleaning gear'.All the Domme's we know from the scene have evolved their personal style + look.

As a sub you may well find that you get told what to wear

if free to wear what you like than i suggest 'easy access'

or outfits which you can take of quickly when told to do so

Think we all like to hear how much fun you having whichever role you prefer

(susie)

Susie there is so much to take in lol...

I am definitely dom as i found out last night

I put my gag bar to the test and my silk cuffs..hehehe

I really enjoyed being in control..

I can't wait to try it again soon

shy lol

I am honest

o yeh thats right honest you said to

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