FabSwingers.com forum: Head fuck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Advice please people... does this place fuck with your head??? Get too much??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no different to reality...It can irritate, upset and frustrate but if you focus on what makes you happy then surely it can only improve?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your reply. I need to get some perspective

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

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If it's getting too much maybe take a break from the site and do something completely different for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you hunni.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete our profile at intervals for this very reason. Helps keep us grounded and in touch with reality. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile, delete the head fuckers & take a break to get some perspective x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I want to delete but I love the social side of things xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a step back

Read the forum and others profiles

Forget the messages and idiots and relax for a bit

Don't let people get you down

You're here for you

No one else

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I want to delete but I love the social side of things xx"

Yeah we love the social side too. There are some idiots on here but when we get chatting to the nice genuine people we're glad we are on here. Maybe have a few socials then ease back into the sexy side when your ready x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to delete but I love the social side of things xx"

I didn't mean delete your profile, delete anyone who causes you a problem, you are in control of your profile & in real life you wouldn't put up with head fuckers, well I'm assuming you wouldn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to delete but I love the social side of things xx

I didn't mean delete your profile, delete anyone who causes you a problem, you are in control of your profile & in real life you wouldn't put up with head fuckers, well I'm assuming you wouldn't x"

remove those you are persistently negative towards you in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to delete but I love the social side of things xx"

Just go private and hide your profile for now

You can still enjoy the social aspect of Fab, come along to the socials and events until you're ready to involve yourself further again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We delete our profile at intervals for this very reason. Helps keep us grounded and in touch with reality. xxx"

I do this too

really helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't let them stress you or get to you.

Just laugh and ignore them it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice please people... does this place fuck with your head??? Get too much??"

Take everything with a pinch of salt. Dont let things get to you. Remember life is too short to argue and get worked up. I personally take rejection with a pinch of salt because im not everyones cup of tea. And with regards to the social side, you can still do social events without playing. Theres no pressure to play.

Live life and always be happy.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Remove the chance to write status's and this place would be more grounded. That way people wouldnt take it too serious and neither would they let things get to them - things which shouldn't really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove the chance to write status's and this place would be more grounded. That way people wouldnt take it too serious and neither would they let things get to them - things which shouldn't really."

What's the problem with statuses? & how do they make things serious? Some are downright hilarious x

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Remove the chance to write status's and this place would be more grounded. That way people wouldnt take it too serious and neither would they let things get to them - things which shouldn't really.

What's the problem with statuses? & how do they make things serious? Some are downright hilarious x"

I dont mean to answer your question with a question but firstly do you have a lot of female ones pop up in your feed?

They are the only ones I get and most of them are shit.

Its mostly used instead of an inbox, the user could simply inbox the person they met and say 'Thanks babe, brilliant night' - instead its used as an ego trip 'Look at me everyone, I had a meet', the only person who gives a shit is the one person its aimed at, thats the job of an inbox. This to me is where the 'too serious' bit begins. They also show negative ones 'Hmmm thought I could trust you, we'll I'll know better next time, you know who you are'..... I'd love the opportunity to write under the status, instead I used to write a short message to them, now I cant be arsed.

Status's are rarely posted as banter, a bit like forum posts are. Its a huge shame that when you block them you still get the tedious status's pop up.

People are reading this thinking 'Fuck Off, its my status i'll write what I want' - Thats fine and its a discussion I have had dozens of time in The Lounge - its just my opinion. Ive also been told 'You dont have to read them' but it's not as easy as that as my friends status's also appear in the same feed and its easier than clicking on each of their profiles.

As mentioned, just my personal opinion which Ive aired and discussed before, not one I believe has to be correct, but its mine.

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