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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. I'm not new to swinging but new to being on here as a single guy. I'm quite good looking (even if I do say so myself lol) not bad, large in all aspects and very open minded and am busting to do something with some females or even couples. I have msgd a number of couples and single fem but never seem to get anywhere. Any advice as it's doing my nut right in now! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would start with a change of headline, a woman wants a guy to meet her because he desires her not because he needs to get the 1st meet or a verification. Its an instant put off & reason to block for lots of fems x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I'm not new to swinging but new to being on here as a single guy. I'm quite good looking (even if I do say so myself lol) not bad, large in all aspects and very open minded and am busting to do something with some females or even couples. I have msgd a number of couples and single fem but never seem to get anywhere. Any advice as it's doing my nut right in now! Xx "

Shame because you actually sound very yummy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy who describes himself as good looking is an instant turn off for me. It doesnt matter if you yourself think youre good looking....others may not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the fact you cannot accomodate will put many off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I'm not new to swinging but new to being on here as a single guy. I'm quite good looking (even if I do say so myself lol) not bad, large in all aspects and very open minded and am busting to do something with some females or even couples. I have msgd a number of couples and single fem but never seem to get anywhere. Any advice as it's doing my nut right in now! Xx "

the fact you will fuck anything is a no no...

and you want a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I'm not new to swinging but new to being on here as a single guy. I'm quite good looking (even if I do say so myself lol) not bad, large in all aspects and very open minded and am busting to do something with some females or even couples. I have msgd a number of couples and single fem but never seem to get anywhere. Any advice as it's doing my nut right in now! Xx

the fact you will fuck anything is a no no...

and you want a veri "

Awh, I saw that as a plus Giggles, thought I'm bound to get a fuck here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I really apreciate any feedback as I AM newish to all this and any help is good help. First though I will change my profile if that's how I come across as I'll fuck anything, I don't mean to. It's just in my experience you can go home with the most gorgeous woman in the world (according to society and media terms) and she could be a complete bitch, and go out with someone who isn't the best looking but their personality is wicked and shines through and makes them more desirable that the world top supermodels. What I'm saying is I don't judge ppl firstly or only on looks. Self confidence and belief is more of a turn on to me that anything else in this world. Do you kinda know what in trying to say? As for the title, I totally agree with you on that. Sounds shit and desperate but I'd blame that on my own impatience. Apologies for that.

As for saying I'm not that bad looking, what's really wrong with that?lol come there's nothing wrong with believing in ones self (sounded posh then didn't i. Twat lol) in not saying I'm some stunner but I'm not ugly or I don't think so anyways, and if anyone wanted to say "yeah you're hanging" then come see for yourself over a drink. No better way rather than slating me but like I said, I posted this thread to get exactly this feedback and for that ladies I'm very apreciative xxxx

(I'll be in town in stock this wknd if you want to sling anything else at my face)lol joking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awh see, I knew there was a nice guy in there somewhere, come on let him out, embrace the nice guy in you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Hun. I am a nice guy honest and all this is about having fun. Naughty fun but also meeting like minded ppl along the way. Good things cum to those who wait an all that! X

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

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"Right I really apreciate any feedback as I AM newish to all this and any help is good help. First though I will change my profile if that's how I come across as I'll fuck anything, I don't mean to. It's just in my experience you can go home with the most gorgeous woman in the world (according to society and media terms) and she could be a complete bitch, and go out with someone who isn't the best looking but their personality is wicked and shines through and makes them more desirable that the world top supermodels. What I'm saying is I don't judge ppl firstly or only on looks. Self confidence and belief is more of a turn on to me that anything else in this world. Do you kinda know what in trying to say? As for the title, I totally agree with you on that. Sounds shit and desperate but I'd blame that on my own impatience. Apologies for that.

As for saying I'm not that bad looking, what's really wrong with that?lol come there's nothing wrong with believing in ones self (sounded posh then didn't i. Twat lol) in not saying I'm some stunner but I'm not ugly or I don't think so anyways, and if anyone wanted to say "yeah you're hanging" then come see for yourself over a drink. No better way rather than slating me but like I said, I posted this thread to get exactly this feedback and for that ladies I'm very apreciative xxxx

(I'll be in town in stock this wknd if you want to sling anything else at my face)lol joking! "

Your introduction here would be good on your profile. Us girls like guys who write good profiles. It kind of gives us an insight into what type of guy you are. Glad you are happy to take some constructive criticism. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem like a lovely guy but with a name like "secret sinner" and not being able to accommodate, many will draw the conclusion that you're married / attached - I'm not judging but a lot of ladies will steer clear of men who appear to be "playing away".

If you are married, be honest about it, if not, then think about making it more obvious that you're not

Hope that helps & good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I really apreciate any feedback as I AM newish to all this and any help is good help. First though I will change my profile if that's how I come across as I'll fuck anything, I don't mean to. It's just in my experience you can go home with the most gorgeous woman in the world (according to society and media terms) and she could be a complete bitch, and go out with someone who isn't the best looking but their personality is wicked and shines through and makes them more desirable that the world top supermodels. What I'm saying is I don't judge ppl firstly or only on looks. Self confidence and belief is more of a turn on to me that anything else in this world. Do you kinda know what in trying to say? As for the title, I totally agree with you on that. Sounds shit and desperate but I'd blame that on my own impatience. Apologies for that.

As for saying I'm not that bad looking, what's really wrong with that?lol come there's nothing wrong with believing in ones self (sounded posh then didn't i. Twat lol) in not saying I'm some stunner but I'm not ugly or I don't think so anyways, and if anyone wanted to say "yeah you're hanging" then come see for yourself over a drink. No better way rather than slating me but like I said, I posted this thread to get exactly this feedback and for that ladies I'm very apreciative xxxx

(I'll be in town in stock this wknd if you want to sling anything else at my face)lol joking! "

As ive just said in pm...i wasnt criticising you. Just stating that the way you described yourself would be a turn off for me. Others may love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah girls I feel like you're taking me under your wings. Kinda. Lol. I'm not attached in please to tell you (got out of that one in the end!)but I can't accom at the mo as I currently house sharing (which isn't my idea of fun) until I can get myself together to get a place of my own be it rental or buy so as much as I want to entertain and have a mooohasive party I got to wait till then. But feel free to invite me for dinner and drinks. I don't eat much and just water regularly ??. Oh and "secret sinner" i didn't think was too bad but will change it seems it has been brought up. If one notices something g like that then many will xx

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