FabSwingers.com forum: Fed up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

First of all this ain't a rant about this site or anyone on it, im just trying to let out a bit of steam and this is the only place where my family won't see it.

Is anyone else bored with their life? I moved from the area i grew up in to move in with my girlfriend and lost touch with all my old friends nearly 10 years ago. I don't have any friends where I live now as I dont have any sort of social life and I seem to drift in and out of jobs before I make any friends.

I got no proper qualifications, I been out of work for nearly a year and I cant get a job at all..

I spend my days worrying about money, benefits means we can survive and thats about it but I would love to achieve something to make my kids proud of me and give them what they deserve.

My girlfriend isn't interested in my problems because if she hasn't got enough money for new clothes and make up and to have her nails and hair done my worries are trivial in comparison.

I've tried talking to her but she thinks I blame her for the way we are no matter how much I tell her otherwise.

We barely talk anymore as we are together all day so have nothing new to talk about and our sex life is non existent.

Before anyone says leave if im not happy, it's not as simple as that.

I have no money for my own place so I'd have to move back home with family, even though it's only 40 miles away when you can afford petrol or bus fare it might as well be on another continent and that would kill me not seeing my kids every day.

I am longing so much for some excitement in my life.

Does anyone else feel the same

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar thing happened to me, i moved 60miles but ended up in crappy job, stuck with it ended up retraining and now im on a good wage, but still struggled threw a 10yr relationship to provide for mrs and child and do a house up. Still havent got many what i would call friends since i moved cus for that 10yrs i rarely went out to make any here. Stick with it, keep looking, if you do love your mrs tho, keep showing her cus i made mistake of concentrating too much tryin to better our life when all she wanted was a cuddle and be part of my life, not the nice car and house, no matter how skint you are you need to have a blow out now and then what u wana do, drink, dogging, dominated what ever your thing is