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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been told so many stories of one half of a couple,or fb couple going postal during or after meets because of jealousy. Leaving everyone else feeling like they've done something wrong when it's that persons own issue. Is this the best site for people who have insecurity issues or untrusting/uncertain relationships???

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By *ager_jdCouple
over a year ago

bridgend

Definitely not the right site we talked long and hard about swinging and our relationship before trying and it has made us a stronger couple we adore talking about the meets we've had and the intimacy after is mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me laugh when you get 1 half of the couple messaging (mainly being men) asking to meet but not mentioning it to their partners or they make a secret single account what's the point if risking it all when ur allowed to swinging anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely not the right site we talked long and hard about swinging and our relationship before trying and it has made us a stronger couple we adore talking about the meets we've had and the intimacy after is mind blowing"
this is a key factor for me in meeting couples. They have to be totally jealousy free and both into it or I feel like I'm treading on egg shells.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It makes me laugh when you get 1 half of the couple messaging (mainly being men) asking to meet but not mentioning it to their partners or they make a secret single account what's the point if risking it all when ur allowed to swinging anyway "
i really dislike this and also when couples mail just the gem from a couple when they've met the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes me laugh when you get 1 half of the couple messaging (mainly being men) asking to meet but not mentioning it to their partners or they make a secret single account what's the point if risking it all when ur allowed to swinging anyway i really dislike this and also when couples mail just the gem from a couple when they've met the couple "

When I've had an fb and I've told

Them I'm only meeting them they don't wanna know

Or couples account stated only play together they still ask well can't you meet alone

Or you meet maybe swap numbers then they want secret meets

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By *ager_jdCouple
over a year ago

bridgend


"Definitely not the right site we talked long and hard about swinging and our relationship before trying and it has made us a stronger couple we adore talking about the meets we've had and the intimacy after is mind blowingthis is a key factor for me in meeting couples. They have to be totally jealousy free and both into it or I feel like I'm treading on egg shells."

Trust us gorgeous we are both totally into it - no eggshell's here xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely not the right site we talked long and hard about swinging and our relationship before trying and it has made us a stronger couple we adore talking about the meets we've had and the intimacy after is mind blowingthis is a key factor for me in meeting couples. They have to be totally jealousy free and both into it or I feel like I'm treading on egg shells.

Trust us gorgeous we are both totally into it - no eggshell's here xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen it all, heard it all & don't play those games x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think swinging will find any chink in your armour and go in for the kill...so to speak. Definitely not a pastime to enter into lightly.......we love it by the way lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cracking JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few issues as Every1 is Aware lol

But we have sat a talked and we have come back bouncing bigger and stronger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did get jealous when we first started but now I'd love to see someone make Johnny cum!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We think swinging will find any chink in your armour and go in for the kill...so to speak. Definitely not a pastime to enter into lightly.......we love it by the way lol xxxx "
very smooth!!! I like!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green eyed monster is not nice ! It does not live at our house , we recently entered into seperate meets and find its going really well for us . Its not a decision we took lightly to do . Some people do this and do not for see the consequences . l i think you have to have a very strong relationship to swing more so than if your a vanilla . We think swinging has in fact made us stronger . I get notes left all over the place from my hubby telling me how much he loves me . He is really sweet and lucky to have met my soul mate xx i stop now before people throw up .lol xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Some couples think swinging will heal a damaged relationship, but I'm afraid they are wrong.

It's a bit like sticking a plaster over a leaky dam, sooner or later that dam is gonna bust loose lol!

Some women (or men) will swing because they think it will stop their other half from cheating on them, or because they get nagged into it, same goes for those ladies who try "bi" in order to keep their guy happy, again, sooner or later, the poo will hit the fan!

Swinging WILL break a sick relationship, but it will also enhance a strong one.

We have always been honest with each other, we don't play with a single or couple unless we both like them, and Jayne is very much into playing with the ladies.

We swing because we both enjoy it, and when that stops being the case, we will stop swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The green eyed monster is not nice ! It does not live at our house , we recently entered into seperate meets and find its going really well for us . Its not a decision we took lightly to do . Some people do this and do not for see the consequences . l i think you have to have a very strong relationship to swing more so than if your a vanilla . We think swinging has in fact made us stronger . I get notes left all over the place from my hubby telling me how much he loves me . He is really sweet and lucky to have met my soul mate xx i stop now before people throw up .lol xx "

It's the same for us & moving to single profiles & then onto exploration with others has been a slow but natural progression, but we still talk & check things out with each other as we go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The green eyed monster is not nice ! It does not live at our house , we recently entered into seperate meets and find its going really well for us . Its not a decision we took lightly to do . Some people do this and do not for see the consequences . l i think you have to have a very strong relationship to swing more so than if your a vanilla . We think swinging has in fact made us stronger . I get notes left all over the place from my hubby telling me how much he loves me . He

is really sweet and lucky to have met my soul

mate xx i stop now before people throw up .lol xx

It's the same for us & moving to single profiles & then onto exploration with others has been a slow but natural progression, but we still talk & check

things out with each other as we go x"
us too peachy i don't think you should ever take people for granted . I only allowed to meet males at our house . And couples if i met them can travel . He still worries for my safety and has to ok the peolple i meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen too many so called secure relationships falter on here its unreal. Many moons ago when I had a FB I did not realise the concept of swinging as a couple was going to be so hard. Not because of any jealousy but of time constraints and the desire to spend time with that person. What I did find out was how much it makes you care for that person, it can enhance and enrich your relationship, the downside is the benchmark is set high.

In my opinion couples falter because they either get into the lifestyle to try and save a poor relationship or because jealousy rears its head normally from the ladies. I've seen couples storm out of parties and clubs yet they declare “we have a solid relationship” half an hour earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The green eyed monster is not nice ! It does not live at our house , we recently entered into seperate meets and find its going really well for us . Its not a decision we took lightly to do . Some people do this and do not for see the consequences . l i think you have to have a very strong relationship to swing more so than if your a vanilla . We think swinging has in fact made us stronger . I get notes left all over the place from my hubby telling me how much he loves me . He

is really sweet and lucky to have met my soul

mate xx i stop now before people throw up .lol xx

It's the same for us & moving to single profiles & then onto exploration with others has been a slow but natural progression, but we still talk & check

things out with each other as we go x us too peachy i don't think you should ever take people for granted . I only allowed to meet males at our house . And couples if i met them can travel . He still worries for my safety and has to ok the peolple i meet . "

Biggus is the same & I think that's why he's happy with this profile, he's comfy about Chewy & knows I'm safe. We never presume anything though & keep checking out. It takesa lot of trust & mutual respect to have a rrelationship like this & it must work cos we've been together 20 years now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think swinging will find any chink in your armour and go in for the kill...so to speak. Definitely not a pastime to enter into lightly.......we love it by the way lol xxxx very smooth!!! I like!!!"

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