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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've learned that when people are asked to describe themselves, the reality is rarely the same as the description given.

Also, that people can occasionally be unpleasant in their dealings with others. Sometimes it's not through meaning to be, but its far nicer to be consciously pleasant and thoughtful than be abrupt and abrasive. A simple 'thanks but you're not my type', is an explanation.

Additionally, the reading of profiles is a lost art.

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By *ol1821Man
over a year ago

newport

I've learnt what a blue waffle is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep.I thought I was perverted but you lot take the biscuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to google this blue waffle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might regret that lol

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I've learnt trust is a dear thing, some it's wasted on others will value it. There are some truly amazing people on here, some truly not. But generally it's a lot like everyday life take it as it comes and you only get what you put in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might regret that lol "

OMG!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!"

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!" "

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By *ld skool swingerMan
over a year ago

Abertillery

i also have now learned blue waffle . OUCH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i googled it cos i nosy lol but was lucky not to see pictures just what the slang term blue waffle means lol just as well cos i off for my brekkie xxxhave a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt trust is a dear thing, some it's wasted on others will value it. There are some truly amazing people on here, some truly not. But generally it's a lot like everyday life take it as it comes and you only get what you put in!! "

This for me & move on to the nice ones if you encounter a bad un X

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By *oby_2007Man
over a year ago

taffswell

Yer there is one thing I've learned that is fab has more time wasters hear now than back in 2007

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I am me and will never change lol

And that there are a lot of nasty and jealous people out there and some days it like being in a kindergarden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did i google blue waffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that I should. ...

live a lot, trust a few, but always paddle my own canoe !

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By *heep2405Man
over a year ago

Newport

I believe in being honest and open, I'm relatively new to all this, haven't got any nude pictures of myself and just try to talk to people.

Oh god why did I google blue waffle, it's so bad!!!!

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By *ribblyMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I've learnt to wrap it up

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I've learnt never to Google when someone suggests to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont believe everything you hear, Use your own judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt to wrap it up"
good boy us too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!" "
I think your a sex god mart !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll stretch a mile before it tears an inch!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt trust is a dear thing, some it's wasted on others will value it. There are some truly amazing people on here, some truly not. But generally it's a lot like everyday life take it as it comes and you only get what you put in!! "

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!" I think your a sex god mart ! "

Mmmm, I've learned that there are some seriously sexy ladies on here, and TQ is one of them! xxxx

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

I've learnt that so many women who like me tend to be far away on here

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

On a more serious note....

We have learned that you can swing, make friends and continue to play together, friends that you will have for the rest of your life can also be intimately involved in your playtimes too.

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By *elshmailMan
over a year ago

neath

I've learned there are just as many picks and timewasters on here as there are everywhere else.

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By *otheredWoman
over a year ago

country ville


"I've learnt never to Google when someone suggests to! "

In that case don't google special fried rice or rice crispies either

xx J xx

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"I've learnt never to Google when someone suggests to!

In that case don't google special fried rice or rice crispies either

xx J xx "

That there isn't much Welsh ladies posting regularly in the other forums

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I have learnt, if you receive a wink, message and wink , message back. Then exchange messages. Expect then to see all disappear in next few hours like magic

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I've learnt when I first came on this site it was purely just to look for sex I had no other reason was just looking for a bit of rebound fun and games , and I guess by the messages I was sending and the people I was sending them to must have seen and known this and they must have smelt of desperation for sex and they probably did and I didn't get absolutely anywhere , and then when I did actually take the site seriously and actually read the profiles and what the people were actually looking for and started to talk to people and get to know them so as they became comfortable with me that is when I got my first meet , I realised that to really enjoy the swinging lifestyle be friendly ,relaxed ,non pushy and willing to be patient as people have their own lives and won't just jump in the car because I was feeling horny and now I have learnt all of these things I find that I can come on here every now and then chat to people for a while and enjoy the site for what it is a place where people share a like and fondness for sex can indulge in certain things where you possibly couldn't with and everyday partner , this site is not my world but for the foreseeable future it certainly will be part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that politeness goes out the window when sitting at a keyboard. Things some people wouldn't dream of saying in real life get said to people on here, really cutting nasty barbs. And of course as an earlier poster said, the playground gangs behaving like they are ten years old when faced with somebody who has an opinion different to them or makes them feel inadequate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt when I first came on this site it was purely just to look for sex I had no other reason was just looking for a bit of rebound fun and games , and I guess by the messages I was sending and the people I was sending them to must have seen and known this and they must have smelt of desperation for sex and they probably did and I didn't get absolutely anywhere , and then when I did actually take the site seriously and actually read the profiles and what the people were actually looking for and started to talk to people and get to know them so as they became comfortable with me that is when I got my first meet , I realised that to really enjoy the swinging lifestyle be friendly ,relaxed ,non pushy and willing to be patient as people have their own lives and won't just jump in the car because I was feeling horny and now I have learnt all of these things I find that I can come on here every now and then chat to people for a while and enjoy the site for what it is a place where people share a like and fondness for sex can indulge in certain things where you possibly couldn't with and everyday partner , this site is not my world but for the foreseeable future it certainly will be part of it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there are a lot of game players on here and people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt my lesson on hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that you're better off being a couple on here as single male its so much harder. I'm not bitter lol..

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Ive learnt my lesson on hear. "

Which is? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt that blue waffle is a hoax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!" I think your a sex god mart !

Mmmm, I've learned that there are some seriously sexy ladies on here, and TQ is one of them! xxxx "
. Mmmmm thank you mart . i blushing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just googled blue waffles .......

Someone asked if they can be eaten ??!!!

Now feel sick !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have learned that this place just isn't worth the hassle, but the forums are good. Forums it is for me from now on then.

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

That there are plenty of cliques on here. Names have been mentioned. So it wasn't me just thinking it as I was told before I brought the subject up.

If a bloke posts something they are more likely to get slated than a woman.

All the nice women live in Scotland, Up north or don't post regularly in the forums.

There are members who always criticise and never post anything else.

Forums are addictive.

Those are the ones I have noticed. There are a lot more though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you define what a clique is on here ????

Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Can you define what a clique is on here ????

Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life "

When it's the same few people that agree with each other, compliment each other, they never disagree on anything. Plus no one else gets a look in.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've learned that im not the only sex crazed nutter out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwh right. Yes that does happen but I like to think most on here arent afraid to voice a different opinion if they dont agree with something. You can discuss things without getting personal

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Awwh right. Yes that does happen but I like to think most on here arent afraid to voice a different opinion if they dont agree with something. You can discuss things without getting personal "

It's the minority who aren't afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been very naughty and banned from the forums for voicing my opinion so I now behave myself

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Ive been very naughty and banned from the forums for voicing my opinion so I now behave myself "

That's what private messaging is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mist b in a clique lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you define what a clique is on here ????

Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life "

This:

"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."

But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just googled it also and peachy is right its not a derogatory term in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clique, group of people, call it what you want, but not everyone gets on with everyone else, be it on here or in everyday life.

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"clique, group of people, call it what you want, but not everyone gets on with everyone else, be it on here or in everyday life. "

The "cliques" I have seen in real life never let anyone in their group. This is what others find annoying for a bit and then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like any other small community it reflects the same social norms in a microcosm, why people ever think it should be any different I can't fathom x

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By *otheredWoman
over a year ago

country ville

I feel there may be a serious case of the need to just pop to the shed approaching- where wood can be located enabling the construction of that bridge building exercise to get under way - allowing peeps to get the fuck over it clickety click click...nearly sounds like the nails and hammer tapping away already there

xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Can you define what a clique is on here ????

Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life

This:

"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."

But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction "

Wibble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you define what a clique is on here ????

Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life

This:

"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."

But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction

Wibble! "

Wobble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you define what a clique is on here ????

Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life

This:

"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."

But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction

Wibble! "

do you have pencils?

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