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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or is this place absolutely jam packed with bullshitters?

I mean I'm being upfront from the offset about my predicament but it's like impossible for men to just be upfront!

Anyone else have this same problem? Or am I just going for the wrong guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are not alone in the slightest!!!

I get all the chat ( headfucks) friend requests ( pic hunters) and vague plans to meet and then get let down or ignored by the ones I like and badgered by the rest of a Fab lol.....

And they say that women are psychos!!

( gorgeous pics by the way!!!) xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol thanks!

I seem to pick the downright liars! Perhaps I'm being too picky n that attracts the one sort of person!

I've been stung by pic hunters, liars n bullshitters n it's seriously making me question if this game is actually for me..

I'm off Irish men for life lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try looking a little outside your usual box, I did & I now have some nice regular meets. I was pleasantly surprised to find what was out there once I opened my eyes a little.

Keep looking in the same places at the same things all the time & we cease to see anything at all.

I've also found linking in with other fems via the socials etc a good source of support & information, we tend to earn each other. Hope things improve for you X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice!

I'm always a lil scared to go to the socials as I don't know anyone

I've always just skirted around the edges of fab.. Perhaps I need to dive in lol x

I think unless they meet my specifics, I don't really give them a chance, perhaps that's where I'm going wrong x

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By *edRosesCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

You're definitely not alone , we've had our fair share of wanna bes and fantasists BUT don't give up, there are some really lovely genuine guys on here you just have to "sort through the charity shop to find your designer dress"

good luck !

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Try looking a little outside your usual box, I did & I now have some nice regular meets. I was pleasantly surprised to find what was out there once I opened my eyes a little.

Keep looking in the same places at the same things all the time & we cease to see anything at all.

I've also found linking in with other fems via the socials etc a good source of support & information, we tend to earn each other. Hope things improve for you X"

Hi Peachy is right. I used to and still do sometimes go to socials on my own. It's daunting at first but people are so friendly. The other ladies are a great support and give really good advice. PM me if you want to chat some more. Your filters don't allow me to pm you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree Cherrylips! Some really strange ones, go all out for your attention, you arrange a meet then boom! Vanished!

Haha my ideal is very specific, I have more horses of finding rocking horse shit and a hens teeth at the same time!

Socials sound waaaaaay too daunting! Especially alone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm waaaay too chicken to go to a social by myself!

I'm like a pussy, still when I meet people!! I get really nervous n giggly!

I've been on here a year now with a few meets racked up but it still is very daunting for me! Been stung a few times too

I'm still hoping my dream person is out there lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we've had the same problems as you with fakes pic collectors ect as other people have said socials are a good way of meeting people we've never been to one either gonna give it a go so far people we've spoken to about it seem really genuine and fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are a good way of meeting new people. You don't have to wonder how old their pics are, or is that their real age, etc. You can look chat ask questions and if still in doubt others there may be able to verify him/her on the spot for you. If nothing else you make good friends.

well worth going. We will talk to you.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm waaaay too chicken to go to a social by myself!

I'm like a pussy, still when I meet people!! I get really nervous n giggly!

I've been on here a year now with a few meets racked up but it still is very daunting for me! Been stung a few times too

I'm still hoping my dream person is out there lol x "

I'm happy to hold your hand at a social, I've held many a hand in my time & once upon a time a lovely couple held mine. I can't mail you though so you'll have to message me if you need that hand x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes defo!!

We need hand holding lol x

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By *ewcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Funny - if this was a married man posting this topic, he'd have been hung drawn and quartered by now. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol yep.. Ode to be a woman

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By *mileydragonWoman
over a year ago

in the stix

I been finding its the 'newbies' who come on here now and think they know it all... no matter what their age! Then they get pished off when I say I wont meet them. (yes I know I should set my newbie filter! lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bull shitters shit stirrers jelous people you name it theres atleast one of them on this site

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By *ig bird brightWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I am a single female newish to the area. I always go to the socials on my own and people are very welcoming and friendly there . I was not left on my own as people take you under there wing and introduce people to you. I am very comfortable going on my on now and alway will do x

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Well you won't have to worry about me contacting you as I'm bi married and Irish ! Good luck though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you won't have to worry about me contacting you as I'm bi married and Irish ! Good luck though x"

Ha ha my worst nitemare pmsl x happy swinging hun. X

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Xx happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cherrylips83 pity you are so far away, I would show you that not all the guys on here are bullshitters.

Not just you women that have to deal with timewasters, some of us good guys get messed about too.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Bull shitters shit stirrers jelous people you name it theres atleast one of them on this site"

This is SO VERY true.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the previous statements that the socials are great way to actually meet people in a controlled and safe environment.

I went to my first social and thought it was worthwhile as well as a good night out!.

As a single male I was lucky that couples and singles verified me as genuine. I think that can help and diminish any fears of false profiles or picture hunters.

Happy swinging!!!!

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I agree with the previous statements that the socials are great way to actually meet people in a controlled and safe environment.

I went to my first social and thought it was worthwhile as well as a good night out!.

As a single male I was lucky that couples and singles verified me as genuine. I think that can help and diminish any fears of false profiles or picture hunters.

Happy swinging!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then I guess socials are the way forward for me..

Yay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

U know what's the worst part about the liars n bullshitters?

They act like the aggrieved injured party when u cut through the bullshit n move on!!

wtf like...

Just love being threatened aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just report, block, delete & move on, they're not worth the effort x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I've had it on my phone, whatsapp n here!

Woo such a lucky girl lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I've had it on my phone, whatsapp n here!

Woo such a lucky girl lol x "

Again, totally in the same boat!!

And I'm completely single... Just the way it goes Hun... We either suck it up and move on to the next person or don't bother... It does get a little soul destroying though!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know

It sucks ass.. N not in a good way x

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Very true. Even my patience is running low I'm thinking of going back to be naughty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol aren't u being naughty now then?

That's no fun

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