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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be due for a profile re write no meets since 2010 . Might say to some females or couples rightly or wrongly single guy split up with mrs . Also be more positive . Will have early phone contact will meet socially not will you have to . Just suggestions . Or hit the socials ? Tried that ? Even in the best jobs you could .xx

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By *otheredWoman
over a year ago

country ville


"Might be due for a profile re write no meets since 2010 . Might say to some females or couples rightly or wrongly single guy split up with mrs . Also be more positive . Will have early phone contact will meet socially not will you have to . Just suggestions . Or hit the socials ? Tried that ? Even in the best jobs you could .xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically it's a damn sight easier to get on and meet people on Facebook.

There is no politics on there and cuts through the pretentious bullshit....

You don't look at a silhouette and be demanded a face pic just to get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with all the above, nothing like I was led to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be due for a profile re write no meets since 2010 . Might say to some females or couples rightly or wrongly single guy split up with mrs . Also be more positive . Will have early phone contact will meet socially not will you have to . Just suggestions . Or hit the socials ? Tried that ? Even in the best jobs you could .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read these threads & I'm not entirely sure what the singles guys on this site want anymore, well I know it's sex they want, but surely like women they want to have it with someone they LIKE. Am I really being naive or do they just want all us fems to lay down open our legs & mouths & oblige regardless There used to be no problem getting a face pic from a guy or having a quick social before agreeing a meet, nowadays they're all aimed at the quick fuck n suck. Whatever happened to having lots of amazing sex with like minded people you CLICKED with grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree with all the above, nothing like I was led to believe. "

What were you led to believe ?

This isn't a dating site like Match etc.

It's a social site for like minded individuals, offering them the chance to discuss their lifestyle and the opportunity to meet

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By *itchnbastardCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironically it's a damn sight easier to get on and meet people on Facebook.

There is no politics on there and cuts through the pretentious bullshit....

You don't look at a silhouette and be demanded a face pic just to get a reply. "
if you took the time to look at my profile you will see we have plenty of pictures and plenty on talking and request ! We also meet if you read our veries ! Why are we more successful than op. Perhaps because we hit the socials and people know we are genuine ! You don't have to have an avitor to be successful ! Honestly ! If you think that your sadly mistaken !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironically it's a damn sight easier to get on and meet people on Facebook.

There is no politics on there and cuts through the pretentious bullshit....

You don't look at a silhouette and be demanded a face pic just to get a reply. if you took the time to look at my profile you will see we have plenty of pictures and plenty on talking and request ! We also meet if you read our veries ! Why are we more successful than op. Perhaps because we hit the socials and people know we are genuine ! You don't have to have an avitor to be successful ! Honestly ! If you think that your sadly mistaken ! "

You tend 2 find that people with theses sort of comments turn out 2 married or in a relationship

Don't worry twerky we no your real as no 1 could ever fake you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl this place still my fave it rocks pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironically it's a damn sight easier to get on and meet people on Facebook.

There is no politics on there and cuts through the pretentious bullshit....

You don't look at a silhouette and be demanded a face pic just to get a reply. if you took the time to look at my profile you will see we have plenty of pictures and plenty on talking and request ! We also meet if you read our veries ! Why are we more successful than op. Perhaps because we hit the socials and people know we are genuine ! You don't have to have an avitor to be successful ! Honestly ! If you think that your sadly mistaken !

You tend 2 find that people with theses sort of comments turn out 2 married or in a relationship

Don't worry twerky we no your real as no 1 could ever fake you lol "

lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People treat this like facebook because they have no concept of what "swinging" is. Recent press interest (bites tongue) had allowed what was once a closed and well established community to become nothing more than an open shop for people who are trying their luck. When they realize that the site simply isn't instashag they protest and complain in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People treat this like facebook because they have no concept of what "swinging" is. Recent press interest (bites tongue) had allowed what was once a closed and well established community to become nothing more than an open shop for people who are trying their luck. When they realize that the site simply isn't instashag they protest and complain in the forums.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think"

I think you are wrong.

Correction... I know you are wrong.

If you havent had a meet in four years, then I would suggest you are doing something wrong.

In that time you have probably missed at least 25 socials, which, as we all know, are a great way to put faces to names, make friends and hook up for fun.

Swinging isn't all about sex, (although that is a lot of fun lol!), and if that's your entire focus on here, then I'm afraid you are going to run out of people to interact with very quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think

I think you are wrong.

Correction... I know you are wrong.

If you havent had a meet in four years, then I would suggest you are doing something wrong.

In that time you have probably missed at least 25 socials, which, as we all know, are a great way to put faces to names, make friends and hook up for fun.

Swinging isn't all about sex, (although that is a lot of fun lol!), and if that's your entire focus on here, then I'm afraid you are going to run out of people to interact with very quickly! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick question .....what's a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that. "
but part of swinging is socialising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question .....what's a meet ? "
when u find out let me know please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question .....what's a meet ? when u find out let me know please "
pmsl some just cant help but moan ffs like we never moan sazzz pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that. but part of swinging is socialising "

Yes your right! But there are social meets for that! And I have no problem chatting if there is even a remote chance of meeting! We all chat to get to know each other but when they say there's no chance if meeting then way are they here??

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that. "

And I suppose you can talk to your friends on Facepuke about DVP, FFM's, dogging, orgies, fantasies, fetishes, swinging parties, socials or, if its a guy, shagging his partner?

Doubtful!

Personally I think too many (usually single males!) bang on about how other people use the site.

If you don't like what's on their profile, move on, stop trying to dictate how the site should be run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that.

And I suppose you can talk to your friends on Facepuke about DVP, FFM's, dogging, orgies, fantasies, fetishes, swinging parties, socials or, if its a guy, shagging his partner?

Doubtful!

Personally I think too many (usually single males!) bang on about how other people use the site.

If you don't like what's on their profile, move on, stop trying to dictate how the site should be run. "

No I'm not complaining! I'm just saying I'm on here to meet people! People can put what they want on their profile, when I see it written, like you say I just move on. But when you've spent days talking and they make out that there's a possibility of meeting, even if that's for a social chat to decide that you both feel you can take it further. Then it turns out they have no intention of meeting!! How many comments, either on profiles or forum have you seen " this site is full of time wasters " and I'm just pointing out I think that's the reason !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that. but part of swinging is socialising

Yes your right! But there are social meets for that! And I have no problem chatting if there is even a remote chance of meeting! We all chat to get to know each other but when they say there's no chance if meeting then way are they here??"
I very rarely arrange meets one on one as they always cancel...

So I do my meets at socials..

So yep u would meet me socially at social avents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that. but part of swinging is socialising

Yes your right! But there are social meets for that! And I have no problem chatting if there is even a remote chance of meeting! We all chat to get to know each other but when they say there's no chance if meeting then way are they here??"

They just not want to meet you, or like me last year, they have health issues & can't meet for full on fun for a while but are still open for sedate fun with those they know & trust. Just because you are not actively meeting does not mean you should be banned, I understood this to be a 'lifestyle' site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that.

And I suppose you can talk to your friends on Facepuke about DVP, FFM's, dogging, orgies, fantasies, fetishes, swinging parties, socials or, if its a guy, shagging his partner?

Doubtful!

Personally I think too many (usually single males!) bang on about how other people use the site.

If you don't like what's on their profile, move on, stop trying to dictate how the site should be run. "

well said Mart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question .....what's a meet ? "

Come to Port Talbot & I'll show you what a meet is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So people can't change their mind then ? I thought they could , you could have said something that put them off meeting you ? Or your attitude could have put them off or they just might have realised the sex you both liked wasn't the same ! People chat before meets to make sure they like the sane things otherwise there is no point in meeting is there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if people like peachy or mand are ill under your rules they supposed to delete their profile and start again when better ? Some people on her like to support their friends in sickness and in health and mart is right it's not just about sex it's about fun tooo. If you have such a negative attitude you will only attract negativity be more positive and see how positive energy attracts positive things in your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it does seem that way! There's a few that actually out on their profile " not meeting just on here for chats " others you spend time talking to them then when you ask if they'd like to meet they say " not meeting at moment "

Sorry to all those that do this but I think they should be banned!!! This is not Facebook, it's a swinging site! I have plenty of friends that I can chat to on Facebook! Didn't join here for that. but part of swinging is socialising "

And those that are feeling unwell, women that are 'on', or just having a breather from all the knobheads, shouldn't be allowed to be on the site ?

I may have 'friends' on here, but I wouldn't let them near my Facebook page for a million pounds

Hang on ... Maybe for a million

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps what I said was a bit strong! But it just gets annoying when you chat for a week and nothing at all comes of it!! Even if it's just a social meet!!l and your right this site is not all about sex!!! I have been to 2 socials and yes I did enjoy them and found a couple to talk to and a bit more!

Think it's about time I stopped posting on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps what I said was a bit strong! But it just gets annoying when you chat for a week and nothing at all comes of it!! Even if it's just a social meet!!l and your right this site is not all about sex!!! I have been to 2 socials and yes I did enjoy them and found a couple to talk to and a bit more!

Think it's about time I stopped posting on the forums! "

Dont be silly, just stop, take a deep breath & think before posting, try to get what you want to say across in a way that doesn't cause offence, easier said than done sometimes lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps what I said was a bit strong! But it just gets annoying when you chat for a week and nothing at all comes of it!! Even if it's just a social meet!!l and your right this site is not all about sex!!! I have been to 2 socials and yes I did enjoy them and found a couple to talk to and a bit more!

Think it's about time I stopped posting on the forums!

Dont be silly, just stop, take a deep breath & think before posting, try to get what you want to say across in a way that doesn't cause offence, easier said than done sometimes lol x"

Thanks peachy, your right I need to think about what I say! I apologise if I offended anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks peachy, your right I need to think about what I say! I apologise if I offended anyone! "

Firstly you have every right to post on the forums, because you "offended" someone, it doesn't mean you should run to the hills and cower in a cave. Take it with a pinch of salt there are loads of people who would offend without a seconds thought and lets not start on the popularity contest that manifests it's self on times. The forums are for debate and discussion.

Anyway on the premise that anyone who should start talking to you decided to take it to the fun side you receive a photograph from them only to find they are not as they have described and you find them unattractive. You decide to abandon the potential for a meet and take it no further. So on your reasoning you should now be banned.

If people have no intention on playing and want to use the site as a substitute for crapbook you soon find out. I think it's called due diligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes this site has definitely become a sort of split site.

Those who want to meet and do what the site is supposed to do and those who use it as a facebook type substitute.

The amount of not meeting at the moment profiles has grown a lot.

That said if you use the site as intended it takes a lot of time and effort attending socials and building up a group of friends and regularly keeping in touch with them.

Most of all not messing people about and being nice.

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

I'm not on Facebook so wouldn't know

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Oh dear in the OP's eyes we would deffinately be annoying him.A WEEK!! of chatting + not even a socialmeet comes from it....All the guys we have met for an intimate threesome have been chatting to me/us for MORE than JUST A WEEK Our profile states about us having work/fam.commitments + we're also active on the kinkster scene = we plan meets/patys/events well in advance.Also having vanilla interests + a social life outside both scenes,well sorry we rather meet a guy who stayed in contact with an occasional msg than those who break up all communication just because we can't meet the very next week-end.

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear in the OP's eyes we would deffinately be annoying him.A WEEK!! of chatting + not even a socialmeet comes from it....All the guys we have met for an intimate threesome have been chatting to me/us for MORE than JUST A WEEK Our profile states about us having work/fam.commitments + we're also active on the kinkster scene = we plan meets/patys/events well in advance.Also having vanilla interests + a social life outside both scenes,well sorry we rather meet a guy who stayed in contact with an occasional

msg than those who break up all communication just because we can't meet the very next week-end.

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear in the OP's eyes we would deffinately be annoying him.A WEEK!! of chatting + not even a socialmeet comes from it....All the guys we have met for an intimate threesome have been chatting to me/us for MORE than JUST A WEEK Our profile states about us having work/fam.commitments + we're also active on the kinkster scene = we plan meets/patys/events well in advance.Also having vanilla interests + a social life outside both scenes,well sorry we rather meet

a guy who stayed in contact with an occasional msg than those who break up all communication just because we can't meet the very next week-end.

(susie) the thing is people have to work, have holidays , kids , families , periods etc . Plus meet l. We don't meet. Every night ! We sometimes can't meet every week either cos of stuff like above . Singles who might be free every night forget all that and think you can drop your drawers at a message notice ! Also kinky stuff needs trust and getting to know each other too and we like to talk and get to know people before meets if thats the case .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you nailed it on the head there.

My experience from being part of a swinging couple awhile ago is that a lot of guys just use it when they are horny to scratch an itch. Minimum effort on there part. They deam it a sex site and just expect the the women to put out. They have no real interest in the person or making fun for everyone so long as they are satisfied.

(Sorry for the generalisation)

There are a lot of people on here that have forgotten or don't really understand the term swinging and the fun that can be had from it when the effort to develop a fun friendship is made.

Lol rant over now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if it's just me, but I feel that this site has changed a lot over the years. I used to enjoy it - the intelligent conversation and banter, and getting to meet interesting people who were polite and sociable.

Now, it seems that whenever I start to connect with somebody and get in the mood to meet, it just gets all offset by such a string of dumb and often insolent messages from people that it kills the mood dead.

I try to ignore them, but the sheer volume and lack of respect has an impact.... I can't be insensitive..

I want to meet nice people that I get on with, but I'm so tired of this yo-yo of emotions -

Off to do another re-write of my profile, though I'm running out of ways to say what I want!

Sorry for the rant....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. And I think this is, in no small part, due to this site being free. Its very easy to register and you can be messaging people in seconds.

I don't get half the shite on a pay to use site. People who are willing to pay (a modest fee) tend to be more interested in the swinging side , and less at being pic collectors and fantasists. I know there are exceptions to the rule, but generally this is my observation.

If I could block everyone who isn't at least a silver supporter I would. I know that lots of my meets are from non supporters, but sometimes I wonder if the hassle of all the timewasting and keyboard warriors is really worth it.

I know that I would spend less time here, and probably get more meets.

Something needs to be done improve the signal to noise ratio!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I agree. And I think this is, in no small part, due to this site being free. Its very easy to register and you can be messaging people in seconds.

I don't get half the shite on a pay to use site. People who are willing to pay (a modest fee) tend to be more interested in the swinging side , and less at being pic collectors and fantasists. I know there are exceptions to the rule, but generally this is my observation.

If I could block everyone who isn't at least a silver supporter I would. I know that lots of my meets are from non supporters, but sometimes I wonder if the hassle of all the timewasting and keyboard warriors is really worth it.

I know that I would spend less time here, and probably get more meets.

Something needs to be done improve the signal to noise ratio!"

Bleep!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. And I think this is, in no small part, due to this site being free. Its very easy to register and you can be messaging people in seconds.

I don't get half the shite on a pay to use site. People who are willing to pay (a modest fee) tend to be more interested in the swinging side , and less at being pic collectors and fantasists. I know there are exceptions to the rule, but generally this is my observation.

If I could block everyone who isn't at least a silver supporter I would. I know that lots of my meets are from non supporters, but sometimes I wonderif the hassle of all the timewasting and

keyboard warriors is really worth it.

I know that I would spend less time here, and probably get more meets.

Something needs to be done improve the signal

to noise ratio!"
. You can block people from messaging you unless they silver site supporter !

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By *tarling and RobinCouple
over a year ago

North East

Anyone keen for meet tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't mean to upset anyone, is just an observation. The paid site i am a member of, doesn't have half the fake profiles or hassle.

I'm not staying opinion, simply fact.

Don't know why you are upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not upset i was pointing out you can block people and they can only message you if they a silver site supporter ! There is an option there to filter messages you receive that way ! You said you wanted it .its there for you to use ! Already xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know that. Thanks for letting me know. But again.. I have to ask, why the angry face? Are you upset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know that. Thanks for letting me know. But again.. I have to ask, why the angry face? Are you upset? "
no its a devil face lol . Naughty devil face i don't think its angry . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough, apologies. Just thought you were angry at me. Xx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough, apologies. Just thought you were angry at me. Xx lol"
no worries i rarely serious . Too many people too serious on here !

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By *elsh on the roadMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough, apologies. Just thought you were angry at me. Xx lolno worries i rarely serious . Too many people too serious on here ! "

u r a good girl really admit it lmao xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think"

With all the socials it looks as though people are meeting more but I'd say people are playing less.

Some people have 10 plus validations but non of them are play meets. That's why we avoid the socials as there's way too many wannabes who attend and very few who actually seem to swing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the after parties that go on? Lots of play there behind closed doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes not everybody likes to brag about what they get up to in meets after socials , or at party's . So even though peole show social veries lots of them have other veries but chose not to show them . Xx

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By *rsSassyCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH EARTH


"we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think

With all the socials it looks as though people are meeting more but I'd say people are playing less.

Some people have 10 plus validations but non of them are play meets. That's why we avoid the socials as there's way too many wannabes who attend and very few who actually seem to swing x"

Thats strange, we thought you avoided the socials because you were allergic to single males or ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes not everybody likes to brag about what they get up to in meets after socials , or at party's . So even though peole show social veries lots of them have other veries but chose not to show them . Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree's with all the above comments..we just want to meet great people who enjoy the same fun n games we do with the hope becoming great friends n opportunities for regular dirty,sexy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think"

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question .....what's a meet ?

Come to Port Talbot & I'll show you what a meet is "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we been on this site a few years and it seems lately less people are meeting and they are using this site like face book what you think

With all the socials it looks as though people are meeting more but I'd say people are playing less.

Some people have 10 plus validations but non of them are play meets. That's why we avoid the socials as there's way too many wannabes who attend and very few who actually seem to swing x

Thats strange, we thought you avoided the socials because you were allergic to single males or ........ "

Well you thought wrong then lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree's with all the above comments..we just want to meet great people who enjoy the same fun n games we do with the hope becoming great friends n opportunities for regular dirty,sexy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the after parties that go on? Lots of play there behind closed doors "

Very good point, honestly didn't think of that. Tbh my view has been determined by what I read in the forums and people's verifications. Totally see where your coming from x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I don't show my verifications from place meets. Some are quite graphic and apart from that, what I get up on a play meet is between me and the people/person I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, I've only had one play meet this week, is that enough or am I relegated to Facebook?

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By *llroundfunMan
over a year ago

Newport

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By *iggers4uCouple
over a year ago

Over down by There

Just because peeps dont shout from the rooftops about their conquests (tho that implies that its a competition) it doesn't make them less of a swinger. In our view swinging is about mutual pleasure, its not repacing anything that's missing, merely increasing it! Although we do appreciate that others are free to an opinion, we do object to be frowned upon when we dont disclose what's gone on behind closed doors.

It's a lifestyle choice that some if us like to be protected from family etc.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More time on meeting people and getting out there, than arguing on here is a start!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More time on meeting people and getting out there, than arguing on here is a start!! "
exactly to many moaning fuckers about just get on with it ffs like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More time on meeting people and getting out there, than arguing on here is a start!! "
yes I think it's only the negative people not meeting the ones not moaning about it are to busy meeting and fucking to give two hoots ! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never posted here before but the topic peaked my interest. Haven't yet had any meets despite being inundated with messages. Its quite a daunting thought doing a random meet but though a social would be perfect to get to know some people and maybe open a few doors. We asked and were rejected as we don't have any veris and they don't accept newbies which is fair enough, if those are the rules . However for some people very very new to the scene, it just seems very cliquey and difficult to get to know true and honest people. So basically its easy enough to say get to socials and meet people. No so easy to do it.

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over a year ago


"Never posted here before but the topic peaked my interest. Haven't yet had any meets despite being inundated with messages. Its quite a daunting thought doing a random meet but though a social would be perfect to get to know some people and maybe open a few doors. We asked and were rejected as we don't have any veris and they don't accept newbies which is fair enough, if those are the rules . However for some people very very new to the scene, it just seems very cliquey and difficult to get to know true and honest people. So basically its easy enough to say get to socials and meet people. No so easy to do it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never posted here before but the topic peaked my interest. Haven't yet had any meets despite being inundated with messages. Its quite a daunting thought doing a random meet but though a social would be perfect to get to know some people and maybe open a few doors. We asked and were rejected as we don't have any veris and they don't accept newbies which is fair enough, if those are the rules . However for some people very very new to the scene, it just seems very cliquey and difficult to get to know true and honest people. So basically its easy enough to say get to socials and meet people. No so easy to do it. "

It's also hard to judge who is true & honest so veris are a great way of building that trust !!

No one will want to meet a newbie with no veris as it's generally a waste of time as the majority are fake, dreamers or just too scared to turn up

A social or a coffee meet with a few people to show that you are true and honest will do the trick so now it's down to you !!!!!

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over a year ago


"Never posted here before but the topic peaked my interest. Haven't yet had any meets despite being inundated with messages. Its quite a daunting thought doing a random meet but though a social would be perfect to get to know some people and maybe open a few doors. We asked and were rejected as we don't have any veris and they don't accept newbies which is fair enough, if those are the rules . However for some people very very new to the scene, it just seems very cliquey and difficult to get to know true and honest people. So basically its easy enough to say get to socials and meet people. No so easy to do it.

It's also hard to judge who is true & honest so veris are a great way of building that trust !!

No one will want to meet a newbie with no veris as it's generally a waste of time as the majority are fake, dreamers or just too scared to turn up

A social or a coffee meet with a few people to show that you are true and honest will do the trick so now it's down to you !!!!! "

Or a random meeting of two individuals buying refreshments whilst miles away from home! :P

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By *lue BelleWoman
over a year ago

Caernarfon. North Wales


"I don't know if it's just me, but I feel that this site has changed a lot over the years. I used to enjoy it - the intelligent conversation and banter, and getting to meet interesting people who were polite and sociable.

Now, it seems that whenever I start to connect with somebody and get in the mood to meet, it just gets all offset by such a string of dumb and often insolent messages from people that it kills the mood dead.

I try to ignore them, but the sheer volume and lack of respect has an impact.... I can't be insensitive..

I want to meet nice people that I get on with, but I'm so tired of this yo-yo of emotions -

Off to do another re-write of my profile, though I'm running out of ways to say what I want!

Sorry for the rant....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I appreciate the person on there feelings for the sight I have to say, personally yes I haven't been meeting a lot and also awaiting an operation ,but stay on here to have a look and speak to people that I have got to know ,so based on that and some comments does that mean I ,am one of those who needs to delete profile ? Just remember although they may not put it on there status there maybe a reason there not meeting at the moment xx bangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*site

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over a year ago


"More time on meeting people and getting out there, than arguing on here is a start!! yes I think it's only the negative people not meeting the ones not moaning about it are to busy meeting and fucking to give two hoots ! Xx "

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over a year ago


"More time on meeting people and getting out there, than arguing on here is a start!! yes I think it's only the negative people not meeting the ones not moaning about it are to busy meeting and fucking to give two hoots ! Xx "

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