FabSwingers.com forum: Taking a rest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys - I've not gone anywhere but please: the constant, "when can you meet" - "today?", "what about tomorrow?" - "aw go on" - "just a quick one" --- is all getting a bit too much.

You guys tend to hate it when women don't reply to your messages but sending repeated messages asking for meets is not going to make me more likely to reply!!

So, for a few days, my profile is hidden and I will decide who to meet, when I decide I want to meet!

Girls - any other suggestions to control these desperate naggers??

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete & then block & tighten up your filters. Over time the deluge reduces X

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've done the right thing by going Hidden

You can cherry pick who you want to contact and keep in touch with

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the suggestion about filters - I am going to take a look at mine. Some of the guys just won't take no as an answer so I suppose blocking has to be used then but sometimes my reply is - "not now - but maybe one day" so I don't want to block then!!

My other moan is about guys who I meet once as a casual and then think they have been promoted to 'regular fb' and keep asking for seconds - the Oliver Twists!! In a way it's flattering but hey I'm getting older now and my little black book is bulging already lol!