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Is it a man thing?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Over the years I have been on and off here I have had requests from guys to meet without knowing or caring what I look like. Now that is an instant turn off to me and I won't meet someone with this kind of attitude as to me it screams " no standards, will shag anything". Am I being harsh here?? Never had a woman or couple display the same lack of interest in my appearance. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I have been on and off here I have had requests from guys to meet without knowing or caring what I look like. Now that is an instant turn off to me and I won't meet someone with this kind of attitude as to me it screams " no standards, will shag anything". Am I being harsh here?? Never had a woman or couple display the same lack of interest in my appearance. . . . "
it's definitely a man thing

What's that saying any holes a goal

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

i certainly wouldnt meet up with someone i'd never even seen atleast a picture of!

i do like to look at the mantle piece while i'm poking the fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I have been on and off here I have had requests from guys to meet without knowing or caring what I look like. Now that is an instant turn off to me and I won't meet someone with this kind of attitude as to me it screams " no standards, will shag anything". Am I being harsh here?? Never had a woman or couple display the same lack of interest in my appearance. . . . "

Na it's not you babe... The thing is, men always send out messages like that (so do women) and someone will pick up on it and say 'yes' just trying their luck they are for a shag xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know he does bare back? ?

Trying to arrange a meet without swapping pics just stinks of desperation. Hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that desperate single guy thing ... As if they're obliged to have a meet by joining the site, and then spamming every woman to try and get a meet regardless of what they might look like.

For me there has to be a mutual attraction, and I'm not that desperate

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By *ribblyMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!"

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

"
weather it male or fem pics are a must b4 meeting pmsl

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

"

Well said

As for me i prefer to get to know first to see how the chemistry is and go from there.

Thats hard enough to do sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started going for meeting people after meeting them at socials now too . I have to like the personality too . I can't stand people who are up their own ass and sometimes that doesn't come across in messages or a photograph . I also like them to have some intresting conversation skills rather than just want to pounce on you . A little effort goes a long way in our book plus a sense of humour is essential in swinging . Too many serious people on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we pounce on you lol? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here many years, and there are not many of the masses that either have not heard of me, or met me at some point.

The problem is that the new members (not just males) think that they will have meets on tap.

This is far from thr point ! And it takes time to build relationships with others on here, and for others to form their opinions on you.

Dummy's who message "fancy a fuck" deserve to be ignored in my opinion, and I myself rather a wink than a message. In my opinion if there is interest from the contents of your profile, pictres will be exchanged later .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we pounce on you lol? Xxx"
yes dirty dancers you can . Especially the hand of god .lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!"

I punch this weight on & off the site lol

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By *ribblyMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Fact is men lower their standards to get sex on tap, rather than wining and dining and bullshit for a rub lol

Don't shoot the messenger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lower them = didn't have them to begin with hehehe.

Who wants to be wined and dined?? Just don't wanna be fucked by quasi modo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lower them = didn't have them to begin with hehehe.

Who wants to be wined and dined?? Just don't wanna be fucked by quasi modo! "

The bells !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact is men lower their standards to get sex on tap, rather than wining and dining and bullshit for a rub lol

Don't shoot the messenger "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lower them = didn't have them to begin with hehehe.

Who wants to be wined and dined?? Just don't wanna be fucked by quasi modo!

The bells ! "

Lmfaoooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact is men lower their standards to get sex on tap, rather than wining and dining and bullshit for a rub lol

Don't shoot the messenger "

Lower their standards??! They're in the wrong place then because there's clearly no sex on tap here or there wouldn't be so many moaning buggers on the forum. I think you're confusing your own mindset & it wouldn't be the one shared by the many lovely single guys here x

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By *ribblyMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Ok presh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok presh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

"
so what are we talking here does "standards" mean someone who looks similar or better than yourself?

if so thats very very shallow.

you cannot judge how a person is from a photograph anyway. some so called hot people we have met are so far up their arses i doubt they ever have a shit

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

so what are we talking here does "standards" mean someone who looks similar or better than yourself?

if so thats very very shallow.

you cannot judge how a person is from a photograph anyway. some so called hot people we have met are so far up their arses i doubt they ever have a shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

so what are we talking here does "standards" mean someone who looks similar or better than yourself?

if so thats very very shallow.

you cannot judge how a person is from a photograph anyway. some so called hot people we have met are so far up their arses i doubt they ever have a shit

"

Actually, no. Standards means someone who you are at least sexually attracted to. I'm not going to meet someone who I don't fancy from their appearance first. There is no point in getting to know someone first when im still not going to be attracted to them.

So no, nothing to do with your loose theory of them having to be "hot", just sexually appealing!! And I don't understand why anyone would arrange to meet someone and fuck them without knowing if this is going to be the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have net few who haven't looked nothing like picture sometime worse and sometimes better I think better to get to know someone first then if all goes well meet another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok presh"

I'm glad someone recognises that I'm precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately beggars can't be choosers on this site, some guys go moooonths without a first meet.

Fact is that, the pics prob make v little diff as a lot if people's pics on here are extreme close ups, or of a leg or a tit!

Many women are only on here because they can punch above their weight this way!!!

HARD HAT ON!!

omg i will knock that hard hat off now!!! Fact is, there should be no beggars here in the first place??? I would rather go months without a fuck than lower my standard just to get one and I know the majority of women are the same. And I just don't understand men not to having the same standards and self respect

so what are we talking here does "standards" mean someone who looks similar or better than yourself?

if so thats very very shallow.

you cannot judge how a person is from a photograph anyway. some so called hot people we have met are so far up their arses i doubt they ever have a shit

Actually, no. Standards means someone who you are at least sexually attracted to. I'm not going to meet someone who I don't fancy from their appearance first. There is no point in getting to know someone first when im still not going to be attracted to them.

So no, nothing to do with your loose theory of them having to be "hot", just sexually appealing!! And I don't understand why anyone would arrange to meet someone and fuck them without knowing if this is going to be the case. "

I still say standards is the wrong term don't you mean attracted to?

Yes i agree you must be attracted to the person and not just have sex for the sake of it .

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By *elshy84Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Hi, New to this but for me defo need a pic and appearance is a must! Maybe I'm old fashioned but there needs to be an attraction surely! Even though it is fun, myself I like to know people are genuine and nice to get along with! Then its a defo meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im with you on that one. I would never meet with a lady unless I first had a rapport with them and I know what she looks like. You at least have to fancy the person. How can you have fun if you don't fancy someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love how WE men describe others as them... When the question is bad , look at them all above here trying to get scouts points hahah

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By *elshy84Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Hahaha, scouts points, aint heard that in years, just a post that I thought I'd put my oppinion on how I see thing's.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love how WE men describe others as them... When the question is bad , look at them all above here trying to get scouts points hahah "

I'll put you over my knee now!!!!!!

No real reason, I just want to

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By *elshy84Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Who me? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahah you would have to ask very nicely! !

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By *elshy84Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Ahh haha! Cheeky cheeky!;-) pretty please? Lol x

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