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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do any other girls on here have a problem with guys going soft or not getting hard. It's starting to give me a complex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably nerves,it isn't you,you look fantastic.Luckily I've not suffered from stage fright,touch wood,pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just wish these guys wouldn't boast about what they can do and say they have no problem fucking infront of my bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously it's not you. Your a sexy lady. Kinda got wood lookin at your pics.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you! You've managed to get me up from miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor fellas are so nervy they scared ur gna be disappointed but instead its droppy nd giving all involved a complex.. Longer play with it bigger it gets lol..

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Stage fright is the curse of the male of the species.

Don't take it personally it's just one of those things.

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By *ipstickCouple
over a year ago

swansea

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By *ipstickCouple
over a year ago

swansea

When we meet our first guy he was great , then the next 4 were a nightmare and really thought it was me , and they were , the I can go all night crew, but things did get so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you your really sexy! I'd have no problem getting hard in front of your partner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised either of you would worry about yourselves the problem is definitely down to the men as your both gorgeous women and certainly got me going looking at your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely is you....I've had loads who have stage fright

I do feel for men sometimes as us women can go with the flow (Ooops sorry about that) lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can the so soft on you??? You must be trying the wrong men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if its after fucking you for 6/8 hours non stop really.....did you leave these guys veri's and been truthfull? I know they wont show them but it will make them think before they offer the fuck of there lives but deliver shit to the next girl/couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the go all night crew are just bulls**ters trying to big themselves up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It definitely is you....I've had loads who have stage fright

I do feel for men sometimes as us women can go with the flow (Ooops sorry about that) lol xx

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Ooops I ment isn't you!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced this with guys in a group or ffm situation but not 1:1,I'm not sure all guys are into or used to being watched x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

rarely in fact only once with a single guy + he made up for it by beeing fantastic in other erotic things

....encounter it more in male halfs of cpls which makes for uneven play since the other fem gets a great shag in various positions of my hubby.That's why we prefer partys were single guys are invited,too + learned to stay clear of cpl's only partys.i like to give + give plenty but sure as heck i also want to receive

......should ad that Dan has found it's easier to keep an erection with flexible/movable fems than those who got stiff hips/legs.

(susie)

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By *ruffles2012Couple
over a year ago

Newport

its happen to me a few times and have at the time thought it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would b surprised on how many guys can't get it up in swinging clubs

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's exactly what happens to us, then I get ratty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive suffered from a medical condition mycocksafloppin

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

Some guys aren't used to being watched or don't understand when a bf/hubby wants to. Sometimes they just think too much.

Def not your fault..........

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

Have to join one of my groups one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

Have to join one of my groups one day

Can I join a group?? I have no trouble staying hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

Have to join one of my groups one day

Can I join a group?? I have no trouble staying hard x"

You've had an invite & you're on my list for the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

Have to join one of my groups one day

Can I join a group?? I have no trouble staying hard x

mmmmmmm looking forward to it xx hopefully its soon xx

You've had an invite & you're on my list for the next

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

" Being watched and groups..mmmh.. hehe

Wouldn't you know it eh

Have to join one of my groups one day

Tell me more tell me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any other girls on here have a problem with guys going soft or not getting hard. It's starting to give me a complex

Just checked your pics... Damn hot. Any guy who gets a floppy with you is needing to go vanilla and never look back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me too, sort of put's me off meeting........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened to me too, sort of put's me off meeting........

You are totally gorgeous it's clearly the guys problem & nothing to do with you. Try to find a real man, not easy on this site granted, but it isn't you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us all sometimes

. I never have any alcohol before a meet because that really kills me. I switch to fingers and tongue until her response gets me hard again. Suggest he uses his tongue or fingers for a while and your groans will get him ready

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

There really is no excuse for men not performing! There are pills they can take, only a couple of quid from vending machines in men's toilets. if they know they will get stage fright then they should do something about it. Poor susie has got cramp in her mouth on a few occasions, trying to get them hard.

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By *ol1821Man
over a year ago

newport

"There really is no excuse for men not performing! There are pills they can take, only a couple of quid from vending machines in men's toilets. if they know they will get stage fright then they should do something about it. Poor susie has got cramp in her mouth on a few occasions, trying to get them hard.

Suppose there's a first time for everything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No amount of pills can help you out when the situation is hellish. My ,male half , worst experience was with a really demanding and wham bam couple, esp the fem half. She had a baby monitor on video beside her, my legs were in a play pen thing while my partner was being used hard, within mins of arriving at their place. I struggled I admit it, sorry to all the white knights out there, she made it worse by rolling her eyes etc. I stopped play and after a chat we left. Not always his fault.

PS not saying for one minute you are like this......just showing the other side of the coin. They were awful people . not on here I hasten to add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be what they sniffed to get themselves horny

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

It's a strange old world, we have also had that happen to us a number of times.. And Jo has had the same thoughts when a number of guys have failed to perform in a row when attending a club or it has not happened during a meeting.

From a males point it happens to all men for a number of reasons... Tiredness, feeling a little intimidated, concerns for their own partner, too much alcohol, too much of a build up to a meeting or an event, too much sexual activity prior to your encounter. If I have eaten a large meal or too much food it can have an effect.

Some times it stay hard for ages lots of activity and some times it doesn't.

One of the biggest problems is if it having a slow start is when you can tell the lady is frustrated and starts trying to hard to get things to work. Best advice is ease back take it slow, have a change around and revisit it once the visual aspect has turned him on. Heaping pressure on a guy in that situation only makes it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh ive had 1 or 2 meets with a guy where fancied him like fuck but couldn't get motivated to have fun...........happens to fems too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's the guys fault why he can't keep it up ! Nothing to do with being comfortable with the person or the person is just not doing it for him.

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By *aughty_oneMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd agree, nerves (confidence) usually. Big deep breath and get stuck in and enjoy, works well for me!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it's the guys fault why he can't keep it up ! Nothing to do with being comfortable with the person or the person is just not doing it for him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of curiosity, how long does it take to go soft again....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had another softy last night. Think I need to stick to girls

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Had another softy last night. Think I need to stick to girls

Oh no what a shame

.....girls + own partner garanteed a good time

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ive never had a problem no matter what the lady

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you vetted the guys? I'm not one for putting the gory details into a verification, but they could help with the floppy cock syndrome you seem to be having problems with.

I watched arch have sex and the ikkle fella kept standing to attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you vetted the guys? I'm not one for putting the gory details into a verification, but they could help with the floppy cock syndrome you seem to be having problems with.

I watched arch have sex and the ikkle fella kept standing to attention

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lol you didn't have no problem from what I can remember prof hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had another softy last night. Think I need to stick to girls

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awwww not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could b down 2 'various drugs', or you've gone past the sell by date, lol! However, there is viagra 2 compensate but scars do turn any person off! Also a little tease goes a long way!! Good luck hun!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could b down 2 'various drugs', or you've gone past the sell by date, lol! However, there is viagra 2 compensate but scars do turn any person off! Also a little tease goes a long way!! Good luck hun!!!!

how can. you say its down to drugs and scars are a massive turn on, I can't see your logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry hun, men can b so excited & nervous that it happens & 2 us women 2 but its just not obvious wen we cant cum, lol. Dont take it personally! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How are you Hun. Haven't seen you on here for ages x

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By *axlf079Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Never have a soft cock problem touch wood lol ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok thanx hun & yourself? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tried to message u but think u have blocked us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi, last 3 guys we met with. 2 couldnt get it up and 1 couldnt hold it, he cum before he could fuck her..mostly younger guys about 24-27. they talked the talk..then 2 before that couldnt keep it up..we are easy going and every guy seemed relaxed in our company, older guys seem more capable..shame.like to give her some eye candy as well as nice time. getting doubts if it is us..

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By *axlf079Man
over a year ago

cambridge

I'm 27 and stay hard and I can shoot multiple times and fucking loads of it I amaze people and no I'm not talking the talk lol ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 27 and stay hard and I can shoot multiple times and fucking loads of it I amaze people and no I'm not talking the talk lol ;o) x"

So far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"rarely in fact only once with a single guy + he made up for it by beeing fantastic in other erotic things

......should ad that Dan has found it's easier to keep an erection with flexible/movable fems than those who got stiff hips/legs.

(susie)"

I don't remember having that problem around Dan!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily never had that problem

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

"rarely in fact only once with a single guy + he made up for it by beeing fantastic in other erotic things

......should ad that Dan has found it's easier to keep an erection with flexible/movable fems than those who got stiff hips/legs.

(susie)

I don't remember having that problem around Dan!!!!!!!!!

that's because we only socialized

you were saving yourself for later but later never came(our private joke;now in a min.remember!!) as Dan+ i were busy in another area of the party.i can confirm however that you were a gentleman + there were no complains from other fems.XX

(susie, who uses her notetab for all sorts of little reminders

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

It has happened to us a few times and it's made me think is it me but I think men do big themselves up by saying that they will fuck u hard and all that, also saying that they are fine with ure partner being when in fact they are shitting them selves because they don't know if they're gonna live up to what they say.

Chloe

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By *ccoupleCouple
over a year ago

rhondda

I agree ive had it happen to me on lots ov occasions did start to think it was me to glad to see im not the only one xx

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Think the guys who shout loudest about their brilliant cocks + tell you in their messages about how hard+ long they gona fuck you: are just talkers

The 'fantastic in + OUT the bedroom guys' have no need to big themselfs up.Often their veri's tell you enough about their great hard cock+skills

or they come highly recommended by friends!We've never arranged a meet with a guy who hasn't got much else to say than about his'fucking skills' YAWN......may be that's why i've been lucky with the singles we have met for a threesome

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh ive had 1 or 2 meets with a guy where fancied him like fuck but couldn't get motivated to have fun...........happens to fems too

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agree on that one lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you cuff wrecker..........

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

Makes me laugh when I hear guys brag or say tell a fem, "they will ruin them" - All women are different.

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

"Makes me laugh when I hear guys brag or say tell a fem, "they will ruin them" - All women are different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have no problem performing if given the chance hun xxx

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