FabSwingers.com forum: what is it with people these days ?

By *otnhornyuk OP Couple
over a year ago

brynmawr

has any one else had this ? we had set a meet up with what seemed to be a very nice couple chatted and agreed to meet at 9.30pm, we messaged them at 9 asking if all was still ok and they said yes we'll call as soon as we are near. 9.30 they call and say they are by some shop and I get confused and pass them onto my partner, to give them directions they then say oh we'll phone you back in a minute needless to say we never heard form them again and being polite we messaged them at 10.45 saying it was getting late and that we both had work we didn't have a reply. we then notice this morning they were verified 9 hours previously by another couple. they had planned to meet us but gone to see some one else instead it has put us off meeting now as we feel pushed out after giving them no end of chances to say they had changed there minds about meeting us and they never showed any sign of not coming even phoning before hand to say they was on there way. we are slowly giving up on this site even tho the majority have been lovely sorry for the rant but didn't know where else to ut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can understand why you re annoyed but please dont tar everyone by one couples actions. Their loss is someone elses gain. Just block em. Xxxxx

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By *otnhornyuk OP Couple
over a year ago

brynmawr

yeah thanks, we've had some really good meets off here it just was really in your face rude last night xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was very rude of them and to lie and say they were near was a bit pathetic. Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do the 3 ruling after something like this , its what we do....

DELETE

FECK OFF

and BLOCK !!!! sorry to hear you been messed about ...

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Have to agree just block and move on. Could be many reasons for it but I'd put it down to them being twats an move on an don't waste anymore time thinking bout them

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

Its a shame they couldnt have had the courtesy to just say they'd changed their mind rather than stringing you along. Thats just childish!! I agree with everyone don't let two fucktards spoil things for you ..... Block, move on and carry on enjoying yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is very unfortunate indeed, but i agree you cant let one experience label the scene. Just need to get a bigger sieve for the waster..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u can report timewasters dunno wot i would do tho i think ppl should know who the timewasters r to stop other ppl gettin there timewasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

zxr, maybe a timewaster tag to add to profile? only to be redeemed my getting verified again?

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By *otnhornyuk OP Couple
over a year ago

brynmawr

"zxr, maybe a timewaster tag to add to profile? only to be redeemed my getting verified again?"

I love this idea sounds fab

its nice to hear of so many nice people on here

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some meany people say they will meet you then never turn up and they say younger guys are the time wasters ha what a joke

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By *otnhornyuk OP Couple
over a year ago

brynmawr

Agree totally hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I want is fun like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that sucks, the couple should be ashamed of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that sucks, the couple should be ashamed of themselves

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"that sucks, the couple should be ashamed of themselves"

are they definitely a cple or is it just another guy pretnding to be a cple?????

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By *ruffles2012Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Name & Shame......The Truffles xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a time waster tag, why not post the idea in the site feedback forum ?

And as for naming and shaming, yes, we would all love to do it, but its not allowed in the forums

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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago

port talbot

Its a fact of life, some get a kick out of it. It gives them a sense of control.

Had this happen to me twice now, by a couple and a single woman.

So like the other post's block and move on

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By *ace2faceCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

sadly been through pretty much the same thing. Haven't a clue what they (or he) get out of it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been swinging years and have heard it all.

Some couple double book and go with what they consider to be the better cpl and don't give a toss who the mess around ,funnily enough though they usually have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profile.

also loads of single men pretend to be a couple and keep the deception going till the meet time . we dont understand why there isn't a name and shame policy.....probably because there will be 3 out of 5 couples named and shamed .

Its just rude and ill mannered but its the way society is these days .

people fuck each other over without blinking an eyelid .

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By *ojomojo79Woman
over a year ago

Swansea ish

Had a meet not turn up again. He's online when he's supposed to be at mine!!! And all the meets I could have had whilst waiting for him, but no I gave him benefit of doubt x he is however found himself on my block list. Please may I also say sorry in advance if I have ever pissed anyone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put private notes on thier profile so I know what's been said and don't forget. A much underused feature of the site imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private notes are a godsend, whenever I get an arsey guy wanting to know why I responded in a certain way I'm able to check the note & tell them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private notes are a godsend, whenever I get an arsey guy wanting to know why I responded in a certain way I'm able to check the note & tell them x"

how do you do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private notes are a godsend, whenever I get an arsey guy wanting to know why I responded in a certain way I'm able to check the note & tell them x

how do you do that?"

It's one of the grey boxes for private notes on every profile, in between verify as genuine and block user. I use it a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been swinging years and have heard it all.

Some couple double book and go with what they consider to be the better cpl and don't give a toss who the mess around ,funnily enough though they usually have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profile.

Its just rude and ill mannered but its the way society is these days .

people fuck each other over without blinking an eyelid .

Amen to that cos its spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on I meant lol

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

It's their loss I think.

It's never happened to us.

It probably will at some point but shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably had a lucky escape, block, but it is damned ignorant of them

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

I bet they have been on the Jeremy Kyle show!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to start naming and shaming time wasters and assholes this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont name and shame in forum or chat cos you get yourself a ban. Word of mouth when u meet ppl much better hun. not all couples are timewasters hope you get lucky xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had bans in the past & have learnt far more effective methods as a result mwahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had loads of time wasters in the past now we just block and fuck them off.xx

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By *arthsoulCouple
over a year ago

not here

You can always mention timewasters in your status!!!!!!!!!

Thank you xxxxx for a lovely night shame you didnt show up to enjoy it with us

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By *arthsoulCouple
over a year ago

not here

The thing that get under our skin is some one agreeing a meet, then they go off line for the rest of the evening before you had chance to swap phone numbers and speak.

We dont blow them out the water because then we get the timewaster label, so we stupidly wait for them to come back on line, until its too late to get another meet. As we are pretty rural here mostly one of us has a bit of a drive, we cant just get a quicky arranged as we could if we lived in Cardiff say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always mention timewasters in your status!!!!!!!!!

Thank you xxxxx for a lovely night shame you didnt show up to enjoy it with us

The best way then all who know you will ask for details x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Full agreement we are lucky enough not to be badly treated.

But fab is still a great site we believe most couples are genuine.

Please don't loss faith it only helps them that treat couple badly to increase there percentage on this site.

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