FabSwingers.com forum: hard to meet

By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Looking the way you do, you won't have any trouble

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol thanks but its sooooo difficult to meet on here!!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

No it's not.

Read profiles to make sure you are what they are looking for. Send a good first message.

Post on forums, use chatrooms and go to socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye it is hard I agree

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I have been to socials lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try living up here then you'll realise how difficult it is

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I think all us men got a bad name on here

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol right out in the sticks are you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite, but I'm right by the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent a lot of time up tha way wit work x

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Hard to meet or not many people on here!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to meet or not many people on here!??"

Not many locals that are single and genuine plus I am a fussy cow lol

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol how fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

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some men let themselves down!

and give themselves a bad name

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I know and it gives us all a bad name then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only some, but I've been lucky not to have messages from too many of them

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

How fussy are you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite fussy lol I'm not looking for one off meets which makes it more difficult I supose. Plus I'm a fair distance from most men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just gotta be nice and realise the men to women and couple ratio! A few of single men spoil it

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I would prefer to meet someone regular maybe you should travel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol maybe I should

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

For the right guy of course lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try living up here then you'll realise how difficult it is

Same here the sticks are making meets difficult, my fuel bills are climbing though lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the right guy of course lol

Of course lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate has a pub in aberaeron x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mate has a pub in aberaeron x"

Really? Which one? I was out on Mad Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cadugon not the right spellin but its near the harbour master xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sponsor abearon rugby games once a year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The cadugon not the right spellin but its near the harbour master xx"

The Cadwgan, small pub by the car park. I used to have a drink there many years ago when I went out on the weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived in aberaeron few years ago. My exes dad owns few businesses there nice little town x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lived in aberaeron few years ago. My exes dad owns few businesses there nice little town x"

lovely town, just quite a distance from everyone and crap roads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame I'm not younger I would have snapped u up lol its hard for men as there's so many keep trying don't give up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah find it hard to to meet up with ppl and when you make a date they don't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer it is hard! Swansea bit boring to! but when you get thr right meet its worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I agree, especially being a young guy!

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By *ojomojo79Woman
over a year ago

Swansea ish

I will travel but it's finding the right single man to accom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im finding it hard not had one meet as yet but i wont give up i will get some ladies soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so glad im bi tv pmsl but must say site is getting way to many numpties joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no expert ( no honestly lol ) just keep being friendly , non pushy and hopefully the ladies will get to see that we aren't all window lickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

some men let themselves down!

and give themselves a bad name

do u mind!!!!!! ive not let myself down its taken me 3 years to develop my shoddy reputation

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this funny the guy who started this post let us Down 4 times for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this funny the guy who started this post let us Down 4 times for a meet

Ops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this funny the guy who started this post let us Down 4 times for a meet

Only 4 should be outraged giving a guy that many chances.

I'd settle for 1 lol. x

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I dont think you will find its 4 times!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think you will find its 4 times!!!!"

Shot in the foot, or is it up the creek without a paddle!!! Oooops.

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"I find this funny the guy who started this post let us Down 4 times for a meet

More fool you giving him that many chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this funny the guy who started this post let us Down 4 times for a meet

More fool you giving him that many chances

Plus you're not meant to name and shame in the Forums. That's what my Ops was referring to.

Two sides to every let down!

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"I find this funny the guy who started this post let us Down 4 times for a meet

More fool you giving him that many chances

Plus you're not meant to name and shame in the Forums. That's what my Ops was referring to.

Two sides to every let down! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear :0/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did not meet her?? I wood of walked to get to her!!!!! Lol

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By *ojomojo79Woman
over a year ago

Swansea ish

I'm just looking for a single guy who can accom. They are very few and far between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

Count me as one of them. Think I am he most unluckiest guys on here when it comes to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting is very easy for me, for many men with full balls any hole is a goal, the difficulty is making time to fit them all in !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

Count me as one of them. Think I am he most unluckiest guys on here when it comes to meets

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luck has nothing to do with it, a decent profile pic would get you 10 times more attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

Count me as one of them. Think I am he most unluckiest guys on here when it comes to meets

luck has nothing to do with it, a decent profile pic would get you 10 times more attention."

Its my inexperience is an issue with some women, but distance always plays a part too. Photo/profile isn't doing me much harm. Its a McIntyre of everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

Count me as one of them. Think I am he most unluckiest guys on here when it comes to meets

luck has nothing to do with it, a decent profile pic would get you 10 times more attention.

Its my inexperience is an issue with some women, but distance always plays a part too. Photo/profile isn't doing me much harm. Its a McIntyre of everything."

You say you're not having any luck but also say photo/profile isn't doing you much harm.

you've been given advice on your profile many a time but you've chosen to ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also helps if guys read profiles. For example * winks will be ignored*??

lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy who started this didn't show twice for me so maybe u should start to show up stop messing people around and u can have some decent fun on here !!!!

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Really???? You think i would of arranged to meet you?? Stop making things up and being jealous and accept rejection!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl u have some mouth on u lovely and by the look of it a very big ego !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm the plot thickens!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certain does legs I've got no reason to lie people can believe what they want x ps legs v nice profile pic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It certain does legs I've got no reason to lie people can believe what they want x ps legs v nice profile pic xx"

Aw thank you

x It was mentioned further up the thread as well. The no show bit, not my legs

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes people can believe what they want but i know the truth!! You only respond on here because i had to block you for being a stalker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha ha that has to be the funniest thing I have ever heard. Pmsl for the record I don't stalk nor would I ever. I think u need a reality check there's ur reason u can't get a meet ur up ur own ass !!

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol just accept rejection!!

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I dont think its me that needs the reality check now please go away and accept things please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol don't plead the "woe is me no one will meet me " crap when I'm

Not the only one who said ur a no show. Either be true to ur word or get off the site ur just a time waster

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol love the idiots on here its sooo entertaining!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can be difficult to meet at first while you gain trust not doing yourself any favours mate bad mouthing people plus if you don't turn up a few times it gets around and then your knackered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it can be difficult to meet at first while you gain trust not doing yourself any favours mate bad mouthing people plus if you don't turn up a few times it gets around and then your knackered"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you good legs been a while you get many no shows then must be idiots x

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I didnt arrange to meet her she kept on and on so blocked her in the end some people need to accept rejection on here its not bad mouthing people they are the ones making things up but i dont really care as i know the truth!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well legs this has been a fun morning hope u enjoy rest of ur day babes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you good legs been a while you get many no shows then must be idiots x"

Hi Ben, I'm good ta hun x Don't have no shows, my vetting process is very strict lol no social confirmation is as bad as it gets for me so no harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well legs this has been a fun morning hope u enjoy rest of ur day babes xxx "

Thank huni. You too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol was just going to send you message but you've closed all filters? any chance we can chat a bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol was just going to send you message but you've closed all filters? any chance we can chat a bit x"

Lol oh yes, got a few too many numpties messaging this morning. I'll mail you now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanx legs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww the threads got all sensible again !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww the threads got all sensible again !!

lol well Ben and I are very sensible people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm ... Seeing as though I'm a relative newby I'll have to take your word on that :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

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no point in people bad mouthing each other on here it gets u no were! If i listened 2 every1s opinion on here of every1 else id of left ages ago

...i am actually looking 4ward 2 our meet on friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need the same attributes to pull on here as in real life .

If you cant pull in pubs /clubs or Tescos lol, it will be hard on here.

I (buck ) have been on this site since 2007 as single and part of couple i'm fugly ,fat and fart a lot but that ain't stopped me having fun.. treat people with respect .

Above all else be reliable and polite. dont forget if a couple invite you you are privileged and think yourself lucky.

HAVE FUN

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"it can be difficult to meet at first while you gain trust not doing yourself any favours mate bad mouthing people plus if you don't turn up a few times it gets around and then your knackered"

I couldnt care less who's telling the truth and who's not but to be fair the OP is not the one who started the bad mouthing

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"you need the same attributes to pull on here as in real life .

If you cant pull in pubs /clubs or Tescos lol, it will be hard on here.

I (buck ) have been on this site since 2007 as single and part of couple i'm fugly ,fat and fart a lot but that ain't stopped me having fun.. treat people with respect .

Above all else be reliable and polite. dont forget if a couple invite you you are privileged and think yourself lucky.

HAVE FUN

I dont think anyone on here should consider themselves to be a privilege to meet

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

"you need the same attributes to pull on here as in real life .

If you cant pull in pubs /clubs or Tescos lol, it will be hard on here.

I (buck ) have been on this site since 2007 as single and part of couple i'm fugly ,fat and fart a lot but that ain't stopped me having fun.. treat people with respect .

Above all else be reliable and polite. dont forget if a couple invite you you are privileged and think yourself lucky.

HAVE FUN

Buck, I have never heard you fart..

(Dan)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it can be difficult to meet at first while you gain trust not doing yourself any favours mate bad mouthing people plus if you don't turn up a few times it gets around and then your knackered

I couldnt care less who's telling the truth and who's not but to be fair the OP is not the one who started the bad mouthing

Well after my first comment on here he pm with an abusive messages. Which wasn't directed at him if you scroll upwards!!! The second message was but just for fun.

......,yes he's now blocked just shows you his real character!!

Guess he's a really nice guy eh!?

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard for meets even for fem looking for fem meets .

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"it can be difficult to meet at first while you gain trust not doing yourself any favours mate bad mouthing people plus if you don't turn up a few times it gets around and then your knackered

I couldnt care less who's telling the truth and who's not but to be fair the OP is not the one who started the bad mouthing

Well after my first comment on here he pm with an abusive messages. Which wasn't directed at him if you scroll upwards!!! The second message was but just for fun.

......,yes he's now blocked just shows you his real character!!

Guess he's a really nice guy eh!?

Just saying.

So, 6 failed meets and one abusive message... hmmm, he's not selling himself too well is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he definitely not helping himself . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is turning out to be quite revealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

Count me as one of them. Think I am he most unluckiest guys on here when it comes to meets

luck has nothing to do with it, a decent profile pic would get you 10 times more attention.

Its my inexperience is an issue with some women, but distance always plays a part too. Photo/profile isn't doing me much harm. Its a McIntyre of everything."

It doesn't seem to be doing you much good if you are posting about being unlucky and finding it hard to get meets.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

And now the OP has posted another thread asking if anyone is free today, got to hand it to him, he's got balls lol, wonder how he will get on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just gotta be nice and realise the men to women and couple ratio! A few of single men spoil it"

men to women ratio, out of curiousity did a search for single fems within 5 miles and then did a search for single men within 5 miles it was 23-1 online, so yes women can afford to be very fussy its up to us guys to stand out and make the effort if u want to have any success on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just gotta be nice and realise the men to women and couple ratio! A few of single men spoil it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry I was wrong it was 3 times you let us down my mistake

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol very persistant lol

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

And you forgot to mention 2 were genuine reason how convenient lol happy swinging!!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"And you forgot to mention 2 were genuine reason how convenient lol happy swinging!!!

)))"

So by my reckoning, that means one time wasn't a genuine reason then?

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Sherlock holmes must be shaking in his boots with you about lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I know, its a gift!

So, what was the non-genuine reason then, and why?

Did your budgie get pneumonia?

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By *ovenshake OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Lol dont think i have to explain myself to you both!!!!!

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By *rankygirlWoman
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

"How many single guys find it hard to meet people on here!??

Count me as one of them. Think I am he most unluckiest guys on here when it comes to meets

luck has nothing to do with it, a decent profile pic would get

you 10 times more attention.

I agree with that - a picture is worth a thousand words xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessss... It's back on....

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