FabSwingers.com forum: Not reading profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The following is a prime example of why single fems don't respond to single guys who clearly don't read a profile. My profile outlines that I'm not looking for single guys alone.

"It's so nice to see good grace and manners is not dead, JESUS!!!

So now you can go ahead say some smart arsed remark and then put your block on!!!"

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

I love messages I get saying how stunning i look in my pics

Must be ell of a clever fucker ai

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are all sorts out there as im finding out on this site

But hopefully im finally chatting to a genuine lovely gal... you know who you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The frustrating thing about all this is the age thing, I put my age range down because most of the abuse comes from older guys, I decide to put it up & bang another rude older guy. In my experience the most polite guys here have been in the 30 to 40 age range, my age range will go down again, sorry to the older peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt in my time on here to have strict filters in place, which is a shame if anyone else fancied chatting but needs must.

I have that I'm looking for a select few local-ish FWB and what do I get, numpties from 100's of miles away asking if I fancy meeting

Then IF I'm polite enough to answer, automatically assuming they can send a friends message.

Ohhh I feel better now

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

there are good and genuine guys on here and I am sure that you will meet some of them others should respect your decisions if you don`t want to meet them for whatever reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've learnt in my time on here to have strict filters in place, which is a shame if anyone else fancied chatting but needs must.

I have that I'm looking for a select few local-ish FWB and what do I get, numpties from 100's of miles away asking if I fancy meeting

Then IF I'm polite enough to answer, automatically assuming they can send a friends message.

Ohhh I feel better now

It's such a shame because I know I'm missing out on some lovely people having my filters so rigid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt in my time on here to have strict filters in place, which is a shame if anyone else fancied chatting but needs must.

I have that I'm looking for a select few local-ish FWB and what do I get, numpties from 100's of miles away asking if I fancy meeting

Then IF I'm polite enough to answer, automatically assuming they can send a friends message.

Ohhh I feel better now

It's such a shame because I know I'm missing out on some lovely people having my filters so rigid x"

True, not that many local to me and I can always hunt them down if they catch my eye

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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago

port talbot

Would love to be able to chat to you lovely ladies, but at 56 I'm outside your age range, and I accept that's what filters are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt in my time on here to have strict filters in place, which is a shame if anyone else fancied chatting but needs must.

I have that I'm looking for a select few local-ish FWB and what do I get, numpties from 100's of miles away asking if I fancy meeting

Then IF I'm polite enough to answer, automatically assuming they can send a friends message.

Ohhh I feel better now

cant we ask admin for a distance filter? that be gd eh

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By *icelymarkedMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

For various reasons I removed the filter for single men (yes I know I'm a bloke) and now I know how the girls feel! I was bombarded with guys asking for meets ... straight on their profiles too.

Girls, you need more filters not less lol.

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By *heep2405Man
over a year ago

Newport

Because of people like that, I've found it so hard to meet/get verified, luckily I'm meeting this with with someone that sounds very special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I look at it some guys don't like rejection they feel they should be able to get what they want from anyone these guys spoil it for everyone they are in all age groups. I was brought up from a young age to respect everyone's descision so if I message people I be polite about it if I get a message back I'll chat if I get a message back saying sorry your noty type I reply politely saying that's ok no problem enjoy and then say bye surely politeness doesn't cost anything do why don't we all be polite. There are a few I've chatted to in the past replied on here hopefully they will remember I was a polite one.

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

I'm in the 30 to 40 range I think manners and to read profiles is important as not to piss anyone off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true have on my profile bi or bi curious and if you dont I wont chat with you also same applies to photos a face or body pic, but no I still get straight guys with no pics messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree ,manners maketh the man and if you are rude to people how do you expect to have a meet. As for the filters that is up to the individual as to who they want to contact them even though I find that over 60 a lot of people exclude you but that is their choice.

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By *heep2405Man
over a year ago

Newport

It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message. "

Awww... there there, dry your eyes princess!

Why should we reply if we are not interested, especially if someone doesnt fit what we are looking for?

Do you reply to all the junk mail and spam emails you get on a daily basis through your letterbox or on your computer?

It actually states in the site rules that its not rude not to reply to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message. "

In the same way that it bugs me when men don't read my profile, hence why my delete button is used - frequently

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

In the same way that it bugs me when men don't read my profile, hence why my delete button is used - frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not rocket science to read ffs like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

In the same way that it bugs me when men don't read my profile, hence why my delete button is used - frequently

Exactly this.. They dont read the profile.. Its the ones that assume you dont have standards or specific likes/dislikes.

"but its only a fuck, what does my goofy teeth, cross eyes and acne have to do with it"

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By *oungGun6Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

This site is full of idiots with the attitude that if your on here you will fuck anyone.

It doesn't work like that guys/girls there has to be some attraction.

If someone doesn't reply to me I understand im not what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

Awww... there there, dry your eyes princess!

Why should we reply if we are not interested, especially if someone doesnt fit what we are looking for?

Do you reply to all the junk mail and spam emails you get on a daily basis through your letterbox or on your computer?

It actually states in the site rules that its not rude not to reply to messages."

But then surely if say someone approached you in a bar or club etc and said hi how are you? Would you just blank them and ignore them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt in my time on here to have strict filters in place, which is a shame if anyone else fancied chatting but needs must.

I have that I'm looking for a select few local-ish FWB and what do I get, numpties from 100's of miles away asking if I fancy meeting

Then IF I'm polite enough to answer, automatically assuming they can send a friends message.

Ohhh I feel better now

It's such a shame because I know I'm missing out on some lovely people having my filters so rigid x"

I have filters set but have said I would consider a little lower than my minimum if they catch my eye and I regularly check my looked at list for some hot totty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

Awww... there there, dry your eyes princess!

Why should we reply if we are not interested, especially if someone doesnt fit what we are looking for?

Do you reply to all the junk mail and spam emails you get on a daily basis through your letterbox or on your computer?

It actually states in the site rules that its not rude not to reply to messages.

But then surely if say someone approached you in a bar or club etc and said hi how are you? Would you just blank them and ignore them?

But we're not in a bar or club are we? No one is standing directly in front of you actually talking to you? Completely different situation!!

Do you ring the pizza parlour to thank them for sending you their bumff with the post when it lands through your letter box?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single fems get so much mail and most are from guy's who don't read the profile, clearly states what i am looking for but they still mail and then get abusive if not replied too. Think most just look at your pics and think " Yes that looks ok to fuck "........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

Awww... there there, dry your eyes princess!

Why should we reply if we are not interested, especially if someone doesnt fit what we are looking for?

Do you reply to all the junk mail and spam emails you get on a daily basis through your letterbox or on your computer?

It actually states in the site rules that its not rude not to reply to messages.

But then surely if say someone approached you in a bar or club etc and said hi how are you? Would you just blank them and ignore them?

I have done, especially if they're pushy, after all is my choice how I respond or interact & my self esteem comes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the message.

Awww... there there, dry your eyes princess!

Why should we reply if we are not interested, especially if someone doesnt fit what we are looking for?

Do you reply to all the junk mail and spam emails you get on a daily basis through your letterbox or on your computer?

It actually states in the site rules that its not rude not to reply to messages.

But then surely if say someone approached you in a bar or club etc and said hi how are you? Would you just blank them and ignore them?

I have done, especially if they're pushy, after all is my choice how I respond or interact & my self esteem comes first. "
i hate pushy!!!! Steve was my first meet off here, he mailed me once a nice, respectful message then didn't mail me again for three weeks. His patience and intelligence in knowing I wouldn't like being hassled and badgered won me over. Trying to push has the opposite effect I think!!!

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea

"It's so hard as a single bloke, I'm always polite and attach a picture, it takes two seconds to reply with a yes or no. It so bugs me when people just ignore the messageu.

Awww... there there, dry your eyes princess!

Why should we reply if we are not interested, especially if someone doesnt fit what we are looking for?

Do you reply to all the junk mail and spam emails you get on a daily basis through your letterbox or on your computer?

It actually states in the site rules that its not rude not to reply to messages.

But then surely if say someone approached you in a bar or club etc and said hi how are you? Would you just blank them and ignore them?

I have done, especially if they're pushy, after all is my choice how I respond or interact & my self esteem comes first. i hate pushy!!!! Steve was my first meet off here, he mailed me once a nice, respectful message then didn't mail me again for three weeks. His patience and intelligence in knowing I wouldn't like being hassled and badgered won me over. Trying to push has the opposite effect I think!!!"

Well done steve, that is a sign of a true gent. Knows what he wanted but didnt push. Maybe he could be a role model for others on here. I am not the pushy type but being a single male it is hard my true self cannot come out in just one message. I am a lovely bloke but never given the chance to show it, as a lot of other men will probably agree, they are not given the chance to show their true self. So ladies sometimes it is worth giving a bloke the benefit of the doubt and just send a couple of messages. You never know what you will be missing out on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I now tend to approach those I'm interested in & have no problem making that first contact, my regular meets have all started that way & they continue. It's an approach that works far better for me than the constant cum fuck me, blow me messages. I'm far more able to accept a thanks but no thanks than most the guys who message me without reading the profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I now tend to approach those I'm interested in & have no problem making that first contact, my regular meets have all started that way & they continue. It's an approach that works far better for me than the constant cum fuck me, blow me messages. I'm far more able to accept a thanks but no thanks than most the guys who message me without reading the profile x"

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

We had 1 2day he said ive read ur profile n like wa I see an read fancy a meet 2moz evenin I was baffled n double checked wa our profile says n yep it says only chatting n keepin up with friends lmao I politly replyed quoteing our profile wished him happy swinging n blocked him

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea

"We had 1 2day he said ive read ur profile n like wa I see an read fancy a meet 2moz evenin I was baffled n double checked wa our profile says n yep it says only chatting n keepin up with friends lmao I politly replyed quoteing our profile wished him happy swinging n blocked him"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually considering approaching guys first too then it's my fault if it falls apart

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea

I'm actually considering approaching guys first too then it's my fault if it falls apart"

That is a good philosophy and as a man it would make it easier for us lol

but it still wouldnt be your fault if it falls apart as you say. That takes 2 but you do have more control of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually considering approaching guys first too then it's my fault if it falls apart

That is a good philosophy and as a man it would make it easier for us lol

but it still wouldnt be your fault if it falls apart as you say. That takes 2 but you do have more control of things"

Surely though if I choose badly that's my own fault for a poor choice, if that makes sense

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea

I'm actually considering approaching guys first too then it's my fault if it falls apart

That is a good philosophy and as a man it would make it easier for us lol

but it still wouldnt be your fault if it falls apart as you say. That takes 2 but you do have more control of things

Surely though if I choose badly that's my own fault for a poor choice, if that makes sense"

In a way yes it does make sense lol but it could be the same if a man approaches you first, so it doesnt make much difference lol.

Im just a gentleman at heart and will have to say it now.

A woman is always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us single guys are sooo busy we havnt got time to read ffs cant believe you actually expect us to read as well wtf next pmfslxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

us single guys are sooo busy we havnt got time to read ffs cant believe you actually expect us to read as well wtf next pmfslxx

Made me laugh out loud x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting loads of messages lately from guys (it's always from guys...) saying how impressed they are with my sexy profile and that they'd love to meet up for fun sex...

I just wonder how it is that if they are so impressed on reading my profile, they missed the obvious bit that says that I'm no longer meeting......!!!

Never mind - it's fun to spend a little time winding them up until they actually get around to reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well heres a new twist on how to meet, had a message tonight which read:-

I was going to meet you but after seeing how many men you,ve met............not nice

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

"Well heres a new twist on how to meet, had a message tonight which read:-

I was going to meet you but after seeing how many men you,ve met............not nice

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lol some people make me chuckle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nowt stranger than folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually considering approaching guys first too then it's my fault if it falls apart

That is a good philosophy and as a man it would make it easier for us lol

but it still wouldnt be your fault if it falls apart as you say. That takes 2 but you do have more control of things

Surely though if I choose badly that's my own fault for a poor choice, if that makes sense

In a way yes it does make sense lol but it could be the same if a man approaches you first, so it doesnt make much difference lol.

Im just a gentleman at heart and will have to say it now.

A woman is always right

of course

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea

Lol @ misskinkyboots

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By *nswanseaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Well heres a new twist on how to meet, had a message tonight which read:-

I was going to meet you but after seeing how many men you,ve met............not nice

You are allowed some fun but don;t overdo it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love lamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THATS ALL SOME OF YOU DO IS MOAN MOAN AND MOAN GROW UP AND GET ON WITH IT EASY JUST IGNORE THE DICKHEADS IF THEY DONT READ YOUR PROFILE EASY

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Moan, moan, man, moan, moan grrrrr

It's a forum & that = airing views & sharing information with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"THATS ALL SOME OF YOU DO IS MOAN MOAN AND MOAN GROW UP AND GET ON WITH IT EASY JUST IGNORE THE DICKHEADS IF THEY DONT READ YOUR PROFILE EASY"
ooooo did u get out of the wrong side of the bed this morning???????????? Its a forum and that what its here 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The frustrating thing about all this is the age thing, I put my age range down because most of the abuse comes from older guys, I decide to put it up & bang another rude older guy. In my experience the most polite guys here have been in the 30 to 40 age range, my age range will go down again, sorry to the older peeps :-

Older now sad guy here after reading this! ?? ("

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