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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,

Kinda need ur help.....

Is it acceptable to go 2 charms for the first time and look around and c what's its like, get our bearings .

Is there that pressure you HAVE to play when ever you go ?

Cheers peeps

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I have not been there but usually with any club there should be no pressure to do anything that you are not happy with and many people do go to them to socialize and meet new people anyway so I would think that you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been there and i dont play at clubs, there is no pressure. you can sit in tghe bar and drink and socialise , if you smoke go to the smoke room etc., and wander around and watch. no pressure at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys x

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

There's no pressure what so ever.

Don't sit like a little mouse, speak to people , smile and never be afraid to say no. It will be respected. If for any reason it's not, inform the staff it will be sorted in seconds. Make normal chit chat , discuss the weather,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no pressure what so ever.

Don't sit like a little mouse, speak to people , smile and never be afraid to say no. It will be respected. If for any reason it's not, inform the staff it will be sorted in seconds. Make normal chit chat , discuss the weather, "

Ty xxxxoxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charms? is this a new club or do you mean Chams as in Chameleons ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Charms? is this a new club or do you mean Chams as in Chameleons ?

"

Newport one

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By *ereford2sumCouple
over a year ago

Hereford

We go Chams often and have the outlook if fun happens it happens its not the end of the world if we dont play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is not as good as Darlaston but still well worth a visit. There is a strict "NO is NO" rule and generally there is no pressure at all to play and from our experience of Newport we have left on more than one occasion with out playing. This to us is not an issue and we have always enjoyed our trips to Newport. Hope you have the time and courage to go and maybe see you there one day. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all xxx"
i go all the time on my own! If u let me no when ur going mayb i could meet up with u 2 pit ur nerves at ease

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all xxxi go all the time on my own! If u let me no when ur going mayb i could meet up with u 2 pit ur nerves at ease "

Ye that b nice xx u go social Hun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all xxxi go all the time on my own! If u let me no when ur going mayb i could meet up with u 2 pit ur nerves at ease

Ye that b nice xx u go social Hun ? "
just let me no! I dont always play there! Which social?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bridgend or Swansea xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bridgend or Swansea xx"
il b at the bridgend one hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bridgend or Swansea xxil b at the bridgend one hun "

We b there as well Hun b nice to put names to profiles (friends list )xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go regular it's excellent, no presure, but we always have plenty of fun. - lots of very nice single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go Chams often and have the outlook if fun happens it happens its not the end of the world if we dont play lol"

We are the same …. we are members and have been a few times. Usually great fun just watching, playing, chatting with other couples or having a couple of drinks. You definitely don't have to play if you don't want.

Ending the night in the jacuzzi watching some sexy bodies is a lot of fun!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We go Chams often and have the outlook if fun happens it happens its not the end of the world if we dont play lol

We are the same …. we are members and have been a few times. Usually great fun just watching, playing, chatting with other couples or having a couple of drinks. You definitely don't have to play if you don't want.

Ending the night in the jacuzzi watching some sexy bodies is a lot of fun!! "

Ty fall for the advice xx

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland


"We go Chams often and have the outlook if fun happens it happens its not the end of the world if we dont play lol

We are the same …. we are members and have been a few times. Usually great fun just watching, playing, chatting with other couples or having a couple of drinks. You definitely don't have to play if you don't want.

Ending the night in the jacuzzi watching some sexy bodies is a lot of fun!! "

Thats how we ended the night but was us being watched lol love the jaccuzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We go Chams often and have the outlook if fun happens it happens its not the end of the world if we dont play lol

We are the same …. we are members and have been a few times. Usually great fun just watching, playing, chatting with other couples or having a couple of drinks. You definitely don't have to play if you don't want.

Ending the night in the jacuzzi watching some sexy bodies is a lot of fun!!

Thats how we ended the night but was us being watched lol love the jaccuzi "

Once i get the confidence I'm sure that b me lol xx xx

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

There all very friendly and love the newbies. Took some getting used to to drop my towel and walk in but i done it and peoples reactions help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There all very friendly and love the newbies. Took some getting used to to drop my towel and walk in but i done it and peoples reactions help "

Ty I will get there bit more chatting a building up my confidence and the right person 2 take me xoxo

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