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"It isnt allowed to happen here I believe. Report!!" Need to think about that. It will be obvious it's come from me though. | |||
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"Block and forget about it if you dont want to report. Do you really care if she knows its come from you?" Only that they could try and make my life difficult on here. You hear stories of that happening. Tbh I'm just surprised by it more than anything. We all know what we are here for on here but I suppose there are some chancers out there and also some guys that would pay it! | |||
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"I don't know why your worrying people block for alot less and even no reason sometimes. It would't surprise me if she's messaged others for her services so doubt would come back on you. " Agree | |||
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"Block and forget about it if you dont want to report. Do you really care if she knows its come from you? Only that they could try and make my life difficult on here. You hear stories of that happening. Tbh I'm just surprised by it more than anything. We all know what we are here for on here but I suppose there are some chancers out there and also some guys that would pay it!" Report and block, it's against site rules!! How can she make life difficult for you on here? Once you block, she cant contact you!! | |||
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"It isnt allowed to happen here I believe. Report!! Need to think about that. It will be obvious it's come from me though." Reporting is anonymous, besides you have posted in an open forum which is read by Mods, site owners and the press / public so you have really left it all a bit late haven't you ? If you are that worried about reporting privately why the hell have you posted this issue Publicly? If you are that concerned about your reputation then report the person and earn the respect of genuine members and not the trash on this site!! Happy holidays dude | |||
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"I can attest to having someone make my life difficult on here. Won't go into details but a long time member on here (and highly regarded) gave me her phone number, i text her to say "Hi, this is my number, im going to work, chat later.".. I work underground and phones are locked on surface as they are an explosion risk. 12 hrs later i look at phone and all hell has broken loose. She called me everything under the sun, threatened to set her husband on me, then said she owns the chat rooms and will influence everyone not to meet me. She said she would make my life hell on here. I asked her why and she accused me of giving her number to people (which i hadn't and would never do). Tbh, it scared the shit out of me as the level of venom and hatred she was texting was just horrible. I told her that it wasn't me but she didn't care. I'm a paid up member and the amount of people who looked at my profile in the days after that was incredible, so she obviously carried out her threat and slagged me off to anyone who would listen. The point is, through no fault of my own, im pretty much the leper in the corner here, and meets are impossible. Changing profile would feel like an admission of some sort of guilt, which i will not do. So yes, members can ruin this place for you very easily. And sometimes its just easier to shake your head and go along with it. Remember, this site is a good sample of the wider population, so that means there are clinically insane people here too. Xx" Holy shit! That's awful!! Makes you wonder of its worthwhile! | |||
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"Thats not the first story ive heard of a "long standing member' causing havoc for someone on here because things didnt go her way. " Is this "long standing member" still on here? Why would they be allowed to get away with it? | |||
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"may i ask what were you asking to do? it may explain why she said that, as im sure the conversation didnt start with £50 for 2 hours! i have in the past said i would meet a group for a large sum of money (not to meet them but to stop them annoying me after 11 no thank you's were ignored) i chose a figure that no1 would be interested in meeting for and it worked they stopped bugging me (for the record iv never taken cash for meeting but have been offered on here 100's of times so could see that sum could be drawn into it if they keep getting offers by those who they arnt attracted to im not saying my experiance is the same but i do think it sounds like there may be more to it ,, otherwise why not just block" Messages were initially exchanged, there was no talk of what we were going to do other than meet!! The next message came back stating that she charged and when I said what, she came back with £50 for 2 hours. I'm all for live and let live but was just surprised to find that on here. | |||
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"im wondering why its only £25 an hour? works out at just over 2 quid a shag super duper deal pmsl" or could go to amsterdam im told 50 euro for 15 mins so if she is a pro she's good value i suppose | |||
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"Been reading this thread with interest but I am amazed that the op hasn't just reported them. I wouldn't hesitate to " Done | |||
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"I can attest to having someone make my life difficult on here. Won't go into details but a long time member on here (and highly regarded) gave me her phone number, i text her to say "Hi, this is my number, im going to work, chat later.".. I work underground and phones are locked on surface as they are an explosion risk. 12 hrs later i look at phone and all hell has broken loose. She called me everything under the sun, threatened to set her husband on me, then said she owns the chat rooms and will influence everyone not to meet me. She said she would make my life hell on here. I asked her why and she accused me of giving her number to people (which i hadn't and would never do). Tbh, it scared the shit out of me as the level of venom and hatred she was texting was just horrible. I told her that it wasn't me but she didn't care. I'm a paid up member and the amount of people who looked at my profile in the days after that was incredible, so she obviously carried out her threat and slagged me off to anyone who would listen. The point is, through no fault of my own, im pretty much the leper in the corner here, and meets are impossible. Changing profile would feel like an admission of some sort of guilt, which i will not do. So yes, members can ruin this place for you very easily. And sometimes its just easier to shake your head and go along with it. Remember, this site is a good sample of the wider population, so that means there are clinically insane people here too. Xx" It sure can be a strange & nasty place at times & that makes it bad for lots of us. Hopefully you've found some nice people to balance out the experience x | |||
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"I messaged a single female profile on here yesterday and the reply stated that she charges £50 for 2 hours. Has anyone else come across this? Surely this shouldn't be allowed to happen here? Anyone agree / disagree?" i got offered 50.00 yesterday lol...i just blocked! | |||
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"It isnt allowed to happen here I believe. Report!! Need to think about that. It will be obvious it's come from me though." message me her name and i will report her its not allowed simple | |||
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"I messaged a single female profile on here yesterday and the reply stated that she charges £50 for 2 hours. Has anyone else come across this? Surely this shouldn't be allowed to happen here? Anyone agree / disagree?i got offered 50.00 yesterday lol...i just blocked! " it happens there are quite a few on here, if ppl wish to take wine or flowers to a female so be it their choice but I know some ppl who ask for bottle of hard stuff or two hundred fags aint that the same as prositution or is it not the same as no cash mentioned lol | |||
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"I messaged a single female profile on here yesterday and the reply stated that she charges £50 for 2 hours. Has anyone else come across this? Surely this shouldn't be allowed to happen here? Anyone agree / disagree?i got offered 50.00 yesterday lol...i just blocked! plus the fact why bother reporting nothing can be done, it cannot be proved, just ignore and block lol it happens there are quite a few on here, if ppl wish to take wine or flowers to a female so be it their choice but I know some ppl who ask for bottle of hard stuff or two hundred fags aint that the same as prositution or is it not the same as no cash mentioned lol" | |||
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"It isnt allowed to happen here I believe. Report!! Need to think about that. It will be obvious it's come from me though. message me her name and i will report her its not allowed simple " The problem with that is you don't know it happened, or if it did what led up to it. It isn't anyones business except the original poster, he must do what he thinks, and keep a copy of the message as proof, its wrong to act on something third hand. | |||
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"I recently received a box of Roses, is that considered payment " id of preferred celebrations') | |||
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"I recently received a box of Roses, is that considered payment id of preferred celebrations') " id take a box of converse trainers | |||
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"WOW £50 for 2 hours, that's a similar price to taking a bottle and taking your meet for dinner. Bloody good value." And at least you know your getting laid for the £50 | |||
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"There are quite a few on here who are on adultworks... Cest la vie I say x" If someone is swinging for fun, then it doesnt matter what they do as a "day job". I've played with 4 ladies (that I know of) who paid the bills by doing "escort" work... not one of them ever hinted, suggested or asked for any sort of payment of any kind. Would you expect a plumber to ask for a call-out fee if he came to yours to play? | |||
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"There are quite a few on here who are on adultworks... Cest la vie I say x If someone is swinging for fun, then it doesnt matter what they do as a "day job". I've played with 4 ladies (that I know of) who paid the bills by doing "escort" work... not one of them ever hinted, suggested or asked for any sort of payment of any kind. Would you expect a plumber to ask for a call-out fee if he came to yours to play? " | |||
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"I recently received a box of Roses, is that considered payment " Inbox me the username quick | |||
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"I recently received a box of Roses, is that considered payment id of preferred celebrations') id take a box of converse trainers" and dont 4 get the primark vouchers | |||
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"I recently received a box of Roses, is that considered payment id of preferred celebrations') id take a box of converse trainersand dont 4 get the primark vouchers " I've said it before but I'll say it again, Lush bathbombs for me, I can't afford them with this double dip thingy | |||
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"I recently received a box of Roses, is that considered payment id of preferred celebrations') id take a box of converse trainersand dont 4 get the primark vouchers I've said it before but I'll say it again, Lush bathbombs for me, I can't afford them with this double dip thingy " hehe us girls have class lol | |||
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"There are quite a few on here who are on adultworks... Cest la vie I say x If someone is swinging for fun, then it doesnt matter what they do as a "day job". I've played with 4 ladies (that I know of) who paid the bills by doing "escort" work... not one of them ever hinted, suggested or asked for any sort of payment of any kind. Would you expect a plumber to ask for a call-out fee if he came to yours to play? " | |||
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"Report the profile simple. Who are we to judge what people do with there lives. Im sure we all know lots of people who would be horrified at what we do as swingers. " exactly right | |||
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"Do they pay tax ? " some do and some dont pay tax lol...but thats the same in any line of work...you'll always get tax dodgers | |||
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"Do they pay tax ? some do and some dont pay tax lol...but thats the same in any line of work...you'll always get tax dodgers " we all try and get away with tax payments good accounting is a sure way every working person should submit a tax return theres clothes allowance for any worker good luck i say | |||
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"I messaged a single female profile on here yesterday and the reply stated that she charges £50 for 2 hours. Has anyone else come across this? Surely this shouldn't be allowed to happen here? Anyone agree / disagree?" Maybe the site should have an escort section then people will know were they stand..... | |||
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"I messaged a single female profile on here yesterday and the reply stated that she charges £50 for 2 hours. Has anyone else come across this? Surely this shouldn't be allowed to happen here? Anyone agree / disagree?i got offered 50.00 yesterday lol...i just blocked! " before or after he paid? pmsl | |||
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