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By *he_tourists OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Anyone have any idea of the people that leaked the story to the press yet? Or suspicions email us direct or contact here, it's about time people know who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone have any idea of the people that leaked the story to the press yet? Or suspicions email us direct or contact here, it's about time people know who it is."

nope have been given name but looking at the write up its someone whos looked on google and taken info off there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder it's in the press with all these constant socials.

Swinging used to be like a secret society but now all the idiots are parading around various Welsh towns and cities bragging about swinging.

These idiots are putting everyone's privacy at risk. This is purely our view and not a statement of fact so all the pro social crowd, you can put your knives away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder it's in the press with all these constant socials.

Swinging used to be like a secret society but now all the idiots are parading around various Welsh towns and cities bragging about swinging.

These idiots are putting everyone's privacy at risk. This is purely our view and not a statement of fact so all the pro social crowd, you can put your knives away.

"

Your right, it's not like it's that hard to sign up here as a single female (or whatever), get fake verified, and then ask to be accepted to the socials and get all the details.

Simply, socials are not private and you should expect things to get in the public domain.

House parties with people you know, are more likely to be kept secret and no press intrusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with us socials have gone from a once a month event to several a month add the comments of "dirty dancing" and "fight" and no wonder the press latched onto it when I'm fact they are nothing more than a normal night out.

private parties and clubs are the way forward, its a shame I liked socials but I like my privacy more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to agree with us socials have gone from a once a month event to several a month add the comments of "dirty dancing" and "fight" and no wonder the press latched onto it when I'm fact they are nothing more than a normal night out.

private parties and clubs are the way forward, its a shame I liked socials but I like my privacy more."

Think the press got hold of it, cos it was a swingers social in a conservative club, if that was correct, only going what was in the press

If true the story is right there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the story above is true then the place used was stupid but as organisers it must be hard finding places so I ain't going to have a go at them.

The choice of where is just simply minding numbingly stupid. Take Tredegar for instance, a small town.where everyone knows everyone's business

There's a good chance a.member of the public will know one.or two swinging cpls who.attend. When they observe the flirting or in.some cases showing off,it isn't going to take them long to work the rest out.

Stop trying to make swinging mainstream. It's the naughtiness of it all that gives it it's thrill.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I've pressed several times but nothing has happened am I doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all because its a conservative club and cctv poroved we all behaved lets just move on roll on Newport social whoop whoop pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the story above is true then the place used was stupid but as organisers it must be hard finding places so I ain't going to have a go at them.

The choice of where is just simply minding numbingly stupid. Take Tredegar for instance, a small town.where everyone knows everyone's business

There's a good chance a.member of the public will know one.or two swinging cpls who.attend. When they observe the flirting or in.some cases showing off,it isn't going to take them long to work the rest out.

Stop trying to make swinging mainstream. It's the naughtiness of it all that gives it it's thrill. "

Well said mate

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have to agree with us socials have gone from a once a month event to several a month add the comments of "dirty dancing" and "fight" and no wonder the press latched onto it when I'm fact they are nothing more than a normal night out.

private parties and clubs are the way forward, its a shame I liked socials but I like my privacy more."

Are clubs any 'safer' than socials?

At least with socials, the organisers have a chance to vet would-be attendees.

With clubs, it seems you only have to pitch up, pay your money and you're in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder it's in the press with all these constant socials.

Swinging used to be like a secret society but now all the idiots are parading around various Welsh towns and cities bragging about swinging.

These idiots are putting everyone's privacy at risk. This is purely our view and not a statement of fact so all the pro social crowd, you can put your knives away.

"

There were no so called idiots parading around claiming they were swingers the fact is somebody from fab with thier own agenda actually phoned the press and told them about the social .

And i would suggest that everybodys privacy is paramount to them some could for instance lose thier jobs if it became known they swung.

And this could happen at a club or a private house party it only takes 1 person with a personel vendetta to upset the apple cart.

In fact i have known this to happen a single fem organised a house party and someone who wasnt invited or just had a grudge actually informed the neighbours and when people were turning up they were shouting slags etc to all the females that attended.

So you see nothing is safe on here or foolproof (unfortunatly) you just have to be as careful and descrete as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder it's in the press with all these constant socials.

Swinging used to be like a secret society but now all the idiots are parading around various Welsh towns and cities bragging about swinging.

These idiots are putting everyone's privacy at risk. This is purely our view and not a statement of fact so all the pro social crowd, you can put your knives away.

There were no so called idiots parading around claiming they were swingers the fact is somebody from fab with thier own agenda actually phoned the press and told them about the social .

And i would suggest that everybodys privacy is paramount to them some could for instance lose thier jobs if it became known they swung.

And this could happen at a club or a private house party it only takes 1 person with a personel vendetta to upset the apple cart.

In fact i have known this to happen a single fem organised a house party and someone who wasnt invited or just had a grudge actually informed the neighbours and when people were turning up they were shouting slags etc to all the females that attended.

So you see nothing is safe on here or foolproof (unfortunatly) you just have to be as careful and descrete as you can.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are clubs any 'safer' than socials?"

In my opinion clubs are safer, there are strict rules at clubs, such as the appropriate and desired conduct while attending them.

"At least with socials, the organisers have a chance to vet would-be attendees"

Your having a laugh, all you need to do is put your name down on the forum and generally there is a "your on the list" reply. Hardly robust vetting.

"With clubs, it seems you only have to pitch up, pay your money and you're in."

You'll find that many will require ID in order to secure a membership or entry

If someone "has a personal vendetta" against someone on here then there is little you can do about it sadly. Regardless the content obtained and used in the resulting press release was obtained from a non-registered part of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear.... guess I missed all this when I wad off here?? My pics are public one I better hide them??? X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"No wonder it's in the press with all these constant socials.

Swinging used to be like a secret society but now all the idiots are parading around various Welsh towns and cities bragging about swinging.

These idiots are putting everyone's privacy at risk. This is purely our view and not a statement of fact so all the pro social crowd, you can put your knives away.

There were no so called idiots parading around claiming they were swingers the fact is somebody from fab with thier own agenda actually phoned the press and told them about the social .

And i would suggest that everybodys privacy is paramount to them some could for instance lose thier jobs if it became known they swung.

And this could happen at a club or a private house party it only takes 1 person with a personel vendetta to upset the apple cart.

In fact i have known this to happen a single fem organised a house party and someone who wasnt invited or just had a grudge actually informed the neighbours and when people were turning up they were shouting slags etc to all the females that attended.

So you see nothing is safe on here or foolproof (unfortunatly) you just have to be as careful and descrete as you can.

"

Someone got turned away from a party that we were late to once, due to the fact that they had caused trouble before, so they decided to call the Police!

By the time we got there all the excitement was over, if someone wants to cause trouble or embarrassment they will.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Oh dear.... guess I missed all this when I wad off here?? My pics are public one I better hide them??? X"

Tried to message you, but outside your age range so blocked. x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


""Are clubs any 'safer' than socials?"

In my opinion clubs are safer, there are strict rules at clubs, such as the appropriate and desired conduct while attending them.

"At least with socials, the organisers have a chance to vet would-be attendees"

Your having a laugh, all you need to do is put your name down on the forum and generally there is a "your on the list" reply. Hardly robust vetting.

"With clubs, it seems you only have to pitch up, pay your money and you're in."

You'll find that many will require ID in order to secure a membership or entry

If someone "has a personal vendetta" against someone on here then there is little you can do about it sadly. Regardless the content obtained and used in the resulting press release was obtained from a non-registered part of the site."

As I've said before, I have no experience of clubs in the UK or socials full stop but I read comments (denied by the organisers) that there's a list of those unwelcome at socials.

Whilst being required to produce ID is probably a good thing, it tends only to prove who you are and not who you're not. Even a passport doesn't show your profession any more.

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Given the location of the event I would have been more surprise if it didn't make the press. Swingers party at the conservite club! It's only the party in government in an area of strong labour following.. It was always going to be of interest to the press. If you had of held the event else where it would have been of next to no interest.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Given the location of the event I would have been more surprise if it didn't make the press. Swingers party at the conservite club! It's only the party in government in an area of strong labour following.. It was always going to be of interest to the press. If you had of held the event else where it would have been of next to no interest."

I dont think that was the problem, apparently the venue holds TV socials every month, surely that would have been of interest to the press too?

This was down to someone deciding to fuck things up for this social in particular, and swingers in South Wales in general... someone with an axe to grind who didnt mind who else got splattered when the shit hit the fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I dont think that was the problem, apparently the venue holds TV socials every month, surely that would have been of interest to the press too?

This was down to someone deciding to fuck things up for this social in particular, and swingers in South Wales in general... someone with an axe to grind who didnt mind who else got splattered when the shit hit the fan. "

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By *ickablecoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Glamorgan


"No wonder it's in the press with all these constant socials.

Swinging used to be like a secret society but now all the idiots are parading around various Welsh towns and cities bragging about swinging.

These idiots are putting everyone's privacy at risk. This is purely our view and not a statement of fact so all the pro social crowd, you can put your knives away.

There were no so called idiots parading around claiming they were swingers the fact is somebody from fab with thier own agenda actually phoned the press and told them about the social .

And i would suggest that everybodys privacy is paramount to them some could for instance lose thier jobs if it became known they swung.

And this could happen at a club or a private house party it only takes 1 person with a personel vendetta to upset the apple cart.

In fact i have known this to happen a single fem organised a house party and someone who wasnt invited or just had a grudge actually informed the neighbours and when people were turning up they were shouting slags etc to all the females that attended.

So you see nothing is safe on here or foolproof (unfortunatly) you just have to be as careful and descrete as you can.

"

Well said! And totally true!

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By *ickablecoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Glamorgan


"Given the location of the event I would have been more surprise if it didn't make the press. Swingers party at the conservite club! It's only the party in government in an area of strong labour following.. It was always going to be of interest to the press. If you had of held the event else where it would have been of next to no interest.

I dont think that was the problem, apparently the venue holds TV socials every month, surely that would have been of interest to the press too?

This was down to someone deciding to fuck things up for this social in particular, and swingers in South Wales in general... someone with an axe to grind who didnt mind who else got splattered when the shit hit the fan. "

Did you say axe? I would say battle axe myself, but what do I know!

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By *aturist-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Taffs Well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a little investigating the female that gave in her membership of the club didn't actually give it in she had it taken from her thus prompting her to go to the press and report it, someone attending might have mentioned it innocently she has gone public to vent her anger at the club and risked people from here getting found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's put things right, there was a couple on here who told the press about the social, they had a grievance with the organisers. Like many others they were on our friends list, unfortunately they gave the name of the site to the press and that is why ours and so many others pics have been hidden and everyone is wary as to whom they talk to and add as friends. Yes it was held in a con club but so what, the main problem was that there were people's profile pics shown which could easily be identified in the report. Bridgend social is one of the best and we sincerely hope it continues as with all the others well done to the organisers of all these events you do an absolute amazing job xxxDDxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some great points made here and it's fantastic to see we all agree on protecting each others privacy.

We don't all see eye to eye and even argue no and then but at the end of the day it looks as though we'll all protect each other which is very refreshing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i for one am just glad it has been sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we too are glad it seems to be over or at the very least settling down,

so hopefully this wil be the last post on the subject so happy swinging fellow fabbers and in the words of the seargent on hill street blues (yes i rmemebr that programme)

LETS BE CAREFUL OUT THERE ..

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By *ickablecoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Glamorgan


"Let's put things right, there was a couple on here who told the press about the social, they had a grievance with the organisers. Like many others they were on our friends list, unfortunately they gave the name of the site to the press and that is why ours and so many others pics have been hidden and everyone is wary as to whom they talk to and add as friends. Yes it was held in a con club but so what, the main problem was that there were people's profile pics shown which could easily be identified in the report. Bridgend social is one of the best and we sincerely hope it continues as with all the others well done to the organisers of all these events you do an absolute amazing job xxxDDxxx "

Well said, totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

JUST LET US ALL REMEMBER THE FORUM IS AVAILABLE FOR ANY MEMBER OF THE PUBLIC TO VIEW FOR SOME REASON. AND EVERYONE MAKE SURE THEY TICK TO HIDE THEIR PROFILE FROM SEARCH ENGINES. LETS HOPE THINGS CALM DOWN

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"we too are glad it seems to be over or at the very least settling down,

so hopefully this wil be the last post on the subject so happy swinging fellow fabbers and in the words of the seargent on hill street blues (yes i rmemebr that programme)

LETS BE CAREFUL OUT THERE .."

Once you're on the radar, it's hard to get off.

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By *elshcoup3Couple
over a year ago

rhondda cynon taff

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