FabSwingers.com forum: Turning people down

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I replied to a message I had by saying "thanks, but you're not for me. Have fun on here"

I get a reply back saying "ok. Do you like sniff"?

I mean, fuck me, is this what fab has come to? Guys offering drugs in hope that women get so high they then change their minds? What a cock.

What is the weirdest response you have had after turning someone down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it because I'm

Over 40??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time."

I had someone message me the other day. I said no thanks. He asked why? So I said " I just don't find you attractive"

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time.

I had someone message me the other day. I said no thanks. He asked why? So I said " I just don't find you attractive"

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x"

Lost count of how many times I've had that one, which is why I now just delete & block those who aren't for me x

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

""Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time.

I had someone message me the other day. I said no thanks. He asked why? So I said " I just don't find you attractive"

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x"

you will always have plenty of guys wanting to meet you on here but will never keep them all happy whatever you do and they should be respectful to you whatever your decision

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get messages similar on a twice weekly basis. It keeps me amused. Lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time.

I had someone message me the other day. I said no thanks. He asked why? So I said " I just don't find you attractive"

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x"

Yep, had my fair share of those and still do. Some people just cant accept a "no thank you". I think they assume I should say "yes" and be grateful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few nasty messages after politely declining offers :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time.

I had someone message me the other day. I said no thanks. He asked why? So I said " I just don't find you attractive"

lol, don't you know curvy=fat, fat=desperate, desperate=fuck anything and fuck anything= say yes to all!!

We playing the game all wrong. We need to be more grateful lmao x

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x

Yep, had my fair share of those and still do. Some people just cant accept a "no thank you". I think they assume I should say "yes" and be grateful lol

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"I get messages similar on a twice weekly basis. It keeps me amused. Lol. X"

You amused???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol, don't you know curvy=fat, fat=desperate, desperate=fuck anything and fuck anything= say yes to all!!

We playing the game all wrong. We need to be more grateful lmao x

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x

Yep, had my fair share of those and still do. Some people just cant accept a "no thank you". I think they assume I should say "yes" and be grateful lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry for balls up with messages. Phone being a twat. Lol X

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

there are a few I wish id declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats amessage when its at home lmfao and wtf is asniff ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was polite once 3 years on read and delete.

they say manners go far. Yes they do but not with guys you politely let down unfortunately. Only one way forward

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"I was polite once 3 years on read and delete.

they say manners go far. Yes they do but not with guys you politely let down unfortunately. Only one way forward "

This

I gave up on the "thanks but no thanks" approach a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Thanks for wasting my Time" I replied you messaged me not me you! Think they wasted my time.

I had someone message me the other day. I said no thanks. He asked why? So I said " I just don't find you attractive"

his reply was "thanks fine, you're a fat ugly cunt anyway"

funny, he clearly didn't think that when he first messaged me. . . . . Lmao x"
had that when you go to say no need to be so rude they have always blocked you too.xx

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By *azz-is-back!!Woman
over a year ago

Just visiting......

My standard reply is

My profile consists of 2 lines, the first of which is i am not looking to meet right now.

You either

A) Didn't read it

B) Read it but somehow thought it didn't apply to you

C) Are a moron!

Amazing the variety of responses from the downright rude who get blocked, through the 'ah well, i thought I'd try' to the humorous who end up getting a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a reply once saying 'I have a hot gf anyway and you should leave this site and join one for people your own size.'

Do they actually have sites for people 5'3????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a reply once saying 'I have a hot gf anyway and you should leave this site and join one for people your own size.'

Do they actually have sites for people 5'3????"

some people can't take rejection..we all get rejected at some point ffs.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha fucking hilarious. Hopefully they have "lackpersonalitylooksandanddecency.com" sites for those who reply lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly blocking is the only way forward for some people even then they'll till have a strop.

Unless of course you are waiting for the comeback.

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

Had my fair share of Thanks but no thanks lol. I always fully with a thank you for replying and good luck x

This site is about choice isn't it. Each to their own and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of girls don't even read the messages let alone reply to them lol.....

I've had the same girl message me three times asking the same thing so I've said this time.... You don't even read your messages so no I'm not sending you any pictures lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignorance is bliss lmfao xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to answer every message and when i used a polite no then abuse starts so i find it easier not to bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amused mmmmmm pmfsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a message off a young 32 year old, i replied no thanks, he then proceeded to abuse and block me before i could reply............what a wanker......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys are getting desprate more and more these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% of messages I have sent never get read anyway but if I do get a reply back saying not my type or not interested, I just say "ok thanks".

No need for abusive stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"95% of messages I have sent never get read anyway but if I do get a reply back saying not my type or not interested, I just say "ok thanks".

No need for abusive stuff."

I'm the same as you I don't see the point of being abusive to anyone on here. and if like you say that if they did read one of mine and then reply saying no thanks is say the same ok thanks or ok no worries and just move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"95% of messages I have sent never get read anyway but if I do get a reply back saying not my type or not interested, I just say "ok thanks".

No need for abusive stuff.

Best way to be as everyone is on here for common reasons and not to be abused or stalked.

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By *van dandoMan
over a year ago

pembs

im the same-many dont get read or deleted straight away but on the very odd occasion i do get a reply and it says no thanks i reply thank you good luck on the site-i have been blocked by some as well before i can reply thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the internet, none of it is real, or really matters !

x and happy xmas to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously as a single guy I get turned down a lot. I must admit a delete & block is annoying to me. If I get a thanks but no thanks I always respond with a 'thanks for replying' type message and move on. Shame the dickheads ruin it for genuine guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep numpties cant take rejection so I blast n block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously as a single guy I get turned down a lot. I must admit a delete & block is annoying to me. If I get a thanks but no thanks I always respond with a 'thanks for replying' type message and move on. Shame the dickheads ruin it for genuine guys.."

Same here, and unfortunate for us genuine guys out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"amused mmmmmm pmfsl

its all in the way of swinging life, all good fun

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By *elshmailMan
over a year ago

neath

Totally agree with you. I few idiots ruin it for the genuine guys. Merry christmas everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funtime had a message from a black guy a month or so ago and she told him politely she wasn't meeting anyone at the moment. And his reply was she should be thankful that a "hot Black stud" (his words) would take time to message her and that he wouldn't "lay with her" anyway. He didn't like it when he was told to "f**k off kanye!". She not prejudiced at all but he was offensive to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down the same as everyone else as I'm no oil painting but I still have manners and respect so a polite email to say thank you for the reply is always sent.

I have made many friends on here by being respectful many if whom I have never played with just become good friends.

to me that's what this site is about.

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By *ookie38Man
over a year ago

swansea

I totally agree that nobody deserves to be abused for a polite rejection. If you can't take a rejection don't send a message. It is very frustrating when a message you send doesn't get a reply even if it a polite no. I'd much rather that than a delete as you don't know the reason you've been deleted. It just comes across as rude. Didn't think people were as childish as to send abuse just because they were turned down. I have only ever been greatful for a response and the truth.

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By *ensual PleasurerMan
over a year ago

swansea

"I totally agree that nobody deserves to be abused for a polite rejection. If you can't take a rejection don't send a message. It is very frustrating when a message you send doesn't get a reply even if it a polite no. I'd much rather that than a delete as you don't know the reason you've been deleted. It just comes across as rude. Didn't think people were as childish as to send abuse just because they were turned down. I have only ever been greatful for a response and the truth. "

Well said, couldnt have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being polite is still too big a risk to take, the bad guys spoil it for the few nice guys I'm afraid, so I for one will continue to delete messages from senders who haven't read my profile. My emotional well being is far more important than that of anyone else on here, sorry guys x

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By *ookie38Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Being polite is still too big a risk to take, the bad guys spoil it for the few nice guys I'm afraid, so I for one will continue to delete messages from senders who haven't read my profile. My emotional well being is far more important than that of anyone else on here, sorry guys x"

No need to apologise. You have the right to protect yourself. It's just a shame you have to take such action. I don't think I've had one acceptance since I've been on here but I live in hope. Lol. Not once have I sent an abusive reply. Better safe than sorry peachy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to say no thanks, even to guys who clearly hadn't read our profile. Now we either just don't reply, or message back asking why they hadn't read our profile.

Can usually tell the genuine ones from the "giz a shag now" ones, and we get a strange perverted pleasure from winding them up before blocking them lol

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