FabSwingers.com forum: unprotected sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm almost certainly in the wrong place but I can't think of the right place.

I'm looking for an exclusive fuckbuddy so we can go get tested together and then do it as nature intended.

How would I go about finding such a person?

I've tried safe sex with many people, just don't get much connection out of it.

Only did it without a cover once and it was completely different for me. I mean COMPLETELY.

I'm sure everyone's different in this regard. some men say they hardly notice the difference between a 'skyn' and 'without'. For me, wearing any kind of cover is like I'm not even there. Almost like humping thin air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then I think you're looking in the wrong place ...

FAB Swimming should really be about sharing, not exclusivity,

And for me it's safe sex or no sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Then I think you're looking in the wrong place ...

FAB Swimming should really be about sharing, not exclusivity,"

Well since I already said

"I'm almost certainly in the wrong place but I can't think of the right place."

and

"How would I go about finding such a person?"

I would say that's a given.

I feel like you skipped half my post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't hold your breath fella. Don't think you'll have much joy on here. This site is predominantly used by people who don't want exclusivity. Not sure where you find what your looking for but I doubt it's here. Personally, a condom doesn't detract that much for me but we're all different. I hope you find what your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, not that many here are looking for exclusive partners.

However, I have a VERY trusted FB who I don't use condoms with. But we do fuck other people, and are always safe. Any issues, ie split condoms, we always discuss, and as we don't see each other very often, we agree to get tested couple weeks before meeting up. Works for us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't hold your breath fella. Don't think you'll have much joy on here. This site is predominantly used by people who don't want exclusivity. Not sure where you find what your looking for but I doubt it's here. Personally, a condom doesn't detract that much for me but we're all different. I hope you find what your looking for"

I completely disagree , sorry , iv talked to loads of couples on here who started as single fabbers then went on to exclusive f buddies then decided to hook up and swing as couples

go for it fella , don't give up so soon xxx bethan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, that happens loads. But the OP suggests he wants that straight off, without a relationship. Just a fb who is only shaggin him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think this is still obtainable , many have slave / ownership , sub n com fetishes I met a girl at a club meet that exclusively 'swang' with one guy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies. I'm not averse to having multiple partners. if she wants multiple partners that is fine, as long as we only go bare with each other.

I think I did give the wrong impression maybe!

well it's not like I have people hammering on my door. I have met a few people but they were all guys. I am happy to make friends with guys, I just don't want to have sex with them.

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