FabSwingers.com forum: How do you tell people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we are sure our friends are swingers but cant find them on any site so was wondering how you guys tell your friends if you do that is as some people just come straight out with it but we have to be very careful due to our jobs but they have mentioned that we need to get out and have fun, now know in our luck if we turned up with a bag of toys they would have sandwiches and say we are off to oakwood.............

also have any of you lot played with close friends after you have been friends for a while if so how did you get on after

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop some swinging terms into your chats with them.

I'm sure other posters will mention better ones than I could..

But do be careful, as they might not want people they know, to know etc... Plenty of stories on here about swinging with friends and they could expect to swing more than you want to or get funny if you meet others etc...

NSA is a better bet.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"perhaps if ya go to a social or a party you might bump into them"
yes that would be best .

i would never just come out with it toooooo risky .also it makes you see each other in a different light .poppyxx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are sure our friends are swingers but cant find them on any site so was wondering how you guys tell your friends if you do that is as some people just come straight out with it but we have to be very careful due to our jobs but they have mentioned that we need to get out and have fun, now know in our luck if we turned up with a bag of toys they would have sandwiches and say we are off to

oakwood.............

ask them if they know me just say do you know warren the sex shop owner in Pembroke dock who drives an ambulance if they say yes your in .....i have many friends on here and other sites we meet in scene and out of scene theres no strings in swinging and whats done in play stays at play was one time when working in the gum clinic met a lady that i was playing with the week before i was laughing when i asked her name she was there for a check and we ended up dating for a wile .... me well everyone i know knows im swinging

and its there choice weather to be friends or not i am not ashamed my neighbors think its funny the lady and couples that call they probably try tu guess whos swingers or jahovers witnesses i have them all here talk about it in the third party like did you hear about tai grass marking swingers houses ect lol good luck

also have any of you lot played with close friends after you have been friends for a while if so how did you get on after