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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Posted this very apt topic in the main forums last night and interested to hear what you Welshies have to say about it...

I (Mand) am currently undergoing treatment for breast cancer. We did leave the site for a time when I was diagnosed and to allow recovery-time from surgery. But we rejoined a few weeks ago as we find the support from friends and strangers alike to be extremely helpful and therapeutic.

We would value your opinions on this topic folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad ur on the road 2 recovery....and if havin the suppport of ur friends on fab helps a speedy recovery then go 4 it....just do what u feel comfortable in doing....takecare and hope 2 c u both again soon

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

People find comfort in a whole variety of ways and situations. There is no right or wrong way.

As long as you are happy and find it helps, then it can lift spirits and speed up recovery.

Also takes your mind elsewhere, so you are not focused on the negative.

Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone going through some long term health issues myself I've found the support from my Fab friends to be invaluable. Plus no matter how ill I might get its important to still feel feminine & desirable & my friends make me feel that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly i hope everyone who is under the weather gets better soon

secondly they say laughter is the best medicine i think that should be happiness is the best medicine when we are doing things we like and are happy lots of other problems disappear.

best wishes to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you are soon better..untill then look after yourself and have fun ? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posted this very apt topic in the main forums last night and interested to hear what you Welshies have to say about it...

I (Mand) am currently undergoing treatment for breast cancer. We did leave the site for a time when I was diagnosed and to allow recovery-time from surgery. But we rejoined a few weeks ago as we find the support from friends and strangers alike to be extremely helpful and therapeutic.

We would value your opinions on this topic folks. "

mands you know lovely lady you have many many many friends on fab who care for you and loads that fancy you lol missed you when u left. As far as ill health and swinging go I have serious COPD only thing its stopped me doing is spending a WHOLE NIGHT with a man cos i sleep with a machine still play but with a select few who respect my boundaries re: illness. Love you lots cya soon xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have read all your responses with great interest. Thank you folks.

Some might say that when you're fighting something like cancer everything else shouldn't be important. But we've come to realise that having a medical condition doesn't change the person you are. Yes - while you are in the grips of your illness it might make you more tired, less horny, more irritable, less sexual.

But I (Mand) want to let people know there is life after - and during - breast cancer. And that I am still a woman with needs.

I now have a massive scar on my left breast which has left an even bigger scar on my confidence. And am waiting for my hair to start falling out any time soon.

But I am determined to fight this every step of the way...for myself and for all those who have suffered at the hands of this disease...those no longer with us and those who won their battle. I lost my own mother to leukemia some years ago so this is one battle I don't intend to lose.

Finally (thank God I hear you gasp haha) we wish to thank everyone who has supported us with their kind words, caring thoughts and heartfelt prayers. Without you guys this journey would be all the more difficult and scary. Don't know where we would be without our friends.

YOU PEOPLE ARE THE BEST. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all tho wev never me.. We wish u all the best... And hope u will recover.. Are thoughts r with u..wish u all the luck..xx

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Both Andy and myself suffer with ill health, Andy's is as a result of a car accident and mine is medical and the support we have had from Fab members has been amazing, couldn't have got through most of it without the support of our best friends who we have met here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish you well

We have health issues and I'm now his carer x makes you step back and realise how fragile this life is x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I have to say that having a positive attitude is wonderful! After all you are "living" with cancer. Live life to the full and appreciate the love and support from others. Loss of body image is a huge thing to go through but friends and family can help boost your confidence. Carry on and do what you feel is comfortable at each stage. Love and good wishes for a speedy recovery x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ad a lot of ill health. Getting ova a big opp myself. An loseing confiance is a big thing fr me.

But chin. An wishing good health to u an a speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im asranger to you but ive had the experience of what your goin thru chin up and ahave alaugh cos thats the best medicine ive found enjoy life to the full ule get back on ur feet in no time be positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A positive mindset has been the most powerful weapon I can wield against this damn disease. And what better way to stay positive than among friends who are a true support network. xxx

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hi there x sharron here x

I hope you are doing ok....I don't think there is anything wrong with doing what you enjoy you only live once. We only decided to jump into the scene as I found out my transplant was and is failing so probably be back on dialysis within 6-9 months tops I had always wanted to have fem fun and play in a club. Now we love our naughty saturdays I do feel tired but at least I can say its from fun times xx Don't let being ill stop you doing anything in life wishing you lots of fab fun for a v long time xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It never ceases to amaze us how many people are coping with an illness or disability and yet they don't let it blight their lives.

We take our hats off to you all for being such an inspiration. xxx

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