FabSwingers.com forum: Is there a point to this site?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe this posting will sound a little cynical but the most part of being here for the past 3-4 years I've found it frustrating.

By the time you get through all the fakes and time wasters and actually talk with verified people, even they seem a little cagey. In chatrooms it sometimes feels like it's a very inclusive place "we don't loike strangers in 'ere...."

Maybe it's because I'm not on this site all the time, or because I'm not that outgoing - or end up working rubbish hours I don't get the chance to be around as much as I'd like.

Maybe it's because I've not got a pair of tits... ? See, that's the cynical side of me popping out - told ya it would.

I know you lot can be friendly, but I'm just not feeling it.

What advice can you give someone who's actually very nice, not a dick, and will talk to anyone

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since the original post was written, I've changed a lost of my profile anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem with a lot of the regular "verified" couples/singles on here, and thats me and funtime included, is that for every 1 decent bloke theres 30 arseholes on here. the best way of getting accepted by the regulars is to show that your not one of the many numpties that do nothing but send message and/or PM'S that start off with "fancy a fuck", another one is "do you do cam" or "look at my cam", unfortunately there are thousands of them on here. the regulars are quite jaded by these fellas, so im sure with a bit of patience and a bit of politeness then youll get a few more frieds. good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but that's the thing - I've never PMd anyone with "fancy a fuck" or likelise. In fact.. I message how I actually speak...

But yes, it's a way to show I'm not a numpty... but I've never been the type to want acceptance - if that makes sense... probably not

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

if you can attend some of the socials that are held in various places across south wales it will help you on here and you have more to gain than lose by doing that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

About 2 years ago was supposed to go to one in Cardiff, but had to work instead. Plus don't know many people here to talk anyway so walking in on my own isn't something I'd look forward to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes you need to attend socials that way ppl will meet you and you take it from there, ive been here since site started and there are a lot of wasters etc., but I have had some wicked meets, regular partners and have made the most amazing friends xxxxxxxxxxxx

even though swinging is for sexual pleasure etc., swinging is not ALL ABOUT SEX it is important to have a GOOD SOCIAL SWINGING LIFE as well hun xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

definitely agree with that sentiment - just trying to find that bubble

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mate, go to a social, there a few singles that go, and some of us are more then happy to meet 'newbies' first time b4 hand in a pub then go to the social, that way your not walking in alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop posting "I feel so sorry for myself" posts in the forums. There are literally thousands of posts similar to this across the forums! As apples has said get to a social, we would meet anybody who was a newbie in a pub prior to going so they don't have to walk in alone. Don't forget mate we was all newbies once upon a time lol.

We won't be AT&T any socials now until probably next year due to work commitments but the Cardiff, Newport and Swansea socials are all great events held by dedicated and fab people and I am sure you would be made more than welcome.

Keep at it, hope you get what you seeking and hope to see you a social in the future

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

"the problem with a lot of the regular "verified" couples/singles on here, and thats me and funtime included, is that for every 1 decent bloke theres 30 arseholes on here. the best way of getting accepted by the regulars is to show that your not one of the many numpties that do nothing but send message and/or PM'S that start off with "fancy a fuck", another one is "do you do cam" or "look at my cam", unfortunately there are thousands of them on here. the regulars are quite jaded by these fellas, so im sure with a bit of patience and a bit of politeness then youll get a few more frieds. good luck mate"

Agree, fed up of all the cock pics as well, we are happy to talk to singles especially ones who actually read our profile first xx

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