FabSwingers.com forum: How to start

By *ager_jd OP Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

This is a general question when you are in a couples room (say chams) and another couple come in and start playing with each other how do you know if they are willing for you to start playing with them? Just wondering

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Before they get too involved the female half of your couple should gently touch the other female somewhere non-sexual: eg upper arm.

Or go for eye contact. If they're very into each other they won't be looking around. If they're looking around and then hold eye contact you know you can make an invitation without being pushy.

Just remember that even a little head shake is a no and don't sulk - a woman ruined my fun when she wouldn't take no for an answer! Yes she might have cum if I'd sucked her nipples but before she started pestering me I was about to cum and that didn't happen!

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Our preferred method is the "first touch" from Jayne. She will make eye contact with the lady, and touch somewhere non-sexual, if that gets a positive response then we go with the flow, if not we just carry on where we were.

If we get the chance, we like to ask first, but stopping play tends to kinda break the mood.