FabSwingers.com forum: to bi or not to bi...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just wanted to put this out there as it amazes me as to how many couples profiles there are out there that say stuff like 'xxx is looking to explore her bi side'!

i personally have been bi for as long as i can remember and being so is a way of life, not just something to be looked into with a partner who maybe thinks its a good idea to try an FFM!! for a start not every woman has a bi side so im wondering where do you draw the line on this...i even know of a few women who have tried it and didn't like it and their husbands were gutted!

so, ladies...when you say you are bi curious...is it because you genuinely are or because hubby/partner wants you to try it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experiance, relating to couples, , most say she is bi/bi curios as they think it increases their chances, since many others say they are...

But in my experiances, most are not, but ok with a little bit of touching nothing full on.

Also depends who runs the profile, if it's the man. ..

Single women are honest about it.

Many single men will say anything to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely bi - and do like to play with other genuinely bi women - though they are rare on here.

But I really don't like getting involved with "bi-curious" girls who just think that they want to dabble....

Sorry, but I really don't want to be used as someone's "experiment".... I'm worth better than that...!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

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Jayne is very bi, and genuinely loves playing with ladies.

Although I have to admit I love it that she is bi, I would never push her to try it, or continue, if she wasn't absolutely sure it was for her.

Jayne can immediately tell if a woman isn't into playing with ladies, it's impossible to fake she says.

Jayne was curious for a long time, and it was only through talking about fantasies etc that she became confident enough to try it, but now there's no stopping her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We preffer to play with bi women but I do respect boundaries if the woman is straight ,as for experimenting I think sex is about experimentation .its there to be explored so we help people if they so wish explore their fantasies and deviancy's asking as we are both comfortable with that and they are too.We are still learning as are most people on the site even if you have done most things there was always a first time when swinging that you hadn't done some things .Every one has to start some where and people on here took the time to help me develop my sexual interests and deviancy's so I like to return the favour .After all there s a lot more to sex than just technique and I think being personable and allowing people to experiment at their own pace is enjoyable for us and them.i have always been bisexual ,women porn turns me on far more than man porn .i was lucky enough to have my first sexual experiences with women who also felt this but hadn't done anything about it so we experimented together .Then I came on fab where I have met some amazing women some experienced some not .I think it's wrong if guys force their women to be bi if they are not .we should only do things we enjoy doing really and not be forced to do things that don't turn us on or tat we don't enjoy l.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We preffer to play with bi women but I do respect boundaries if the woman is straight ,as for experimenting I think sex is about experimentation .its there to be explored so we help people if they so wish explore their fantasies and deviancy's asking as we are both comfortable with that and they are too.We are still learning as are most people on the site even if you have done most things there was always a first time when swinging that you hadn't done some things .Every

one has to start some where and people on here took the time to help me develop my sexual interests and deviancy's so I like to return the favour .After all there s a lot more to sex than just technique and I think being personable and allowing people to experiment at their own pace is

enjoyable for us and them.i have always been bisexual ,women porn turns me on far more than man porn .i was lucky enough to have my first sexual experiences with women who also felt this but hadn't done anything about it so we experimented together .Then I came on fab where

I have met some amazing women some experienced some not .I think it's wrong if guys force their women to be bi if they are not .we should only do things we enjoy doing really and not be forced to do things that don't turn us on or tat we don't enjoy l.poppyxx

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provided typo not asking .sorry poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm genuinely bi - and do like to play with other genuinely bi women - though they are rare on here.

But I really don't like getting involved with "bi-curious" girls who just think that they want to dabble....

Sorry, but I really don't want to be used as someone's "experiment".... I'm worth better than that...!"
im with you, I won't play with the bi-curious and I can tell a mile off if someone is pretending. Makes me feel icky. Properly bi women for me thanks!!!! Better still a full on lesbian for me thanks!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You all beautifull no matter wot u are, or who u enjoy

The main thing is u enjoy it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm genuinely bi - and do like to play with other genuinely bi women - though they are rare on here.

But I really don't like getting involved with "bi-curious" girls who just think that they want to dabble....

Sorry, but I really don't want to be used as someone's "experiment".... I'm worth better than that...!im with you, I won't play with the bi-curious and I can tell a mile off if someone is pretending. Makes me feel icky. Properly bi women for me thanks!!!! Better still a full on lesbian for me thanks!!!!"

Ditto for me, reckon I prefer fem play then mf & nothing worse than a bi pretender, met a few of those on here x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

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Jayne has played with "new" bi ladies twice, I guess she was lucky in that they both took to it like ducks to water lol!

However, the one thing they had in common was that both were single, perhaps the fact that they wanted to try it for themselves, rather than having a guy egging them on, was a major factor?

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By *ll overWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I`m finding at this moment in time I`m not as Bi as I was and don`t find it as enjoyable as I used to, I tend to give more than receiving these day is it because lady`s are bi curious ....

so I can`t be bothered with my bi side any more, it is still there tho, but if I give my all to a meet there has to be something enjoyable given back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as straight as I have never found a woman that I have fancied. I've played with them when d*unk but never fancied a woman. So better to label myself as straight than cause confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I class myself as straight as I have never found a woman that I have fancied. I've played with them when d*unk but never fancied a woman. So better to label myself as straight than cause confusion. "
i have always fancied women sometimes more than I fancy men .but I can never give up cock though .i could never think of not riding a big hard cock again and I love spunk too .however some women like some men just have it .idont think your programmed if your bi or gay to fancy and like every woman just like very guy won't be your cup of tea either .just go with the flow and enjoy yourself that's the main thing . If your true to yourself and what you enjoy you won't get any regrets ,poppyxxgot that's a bit deep, u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always fancied women more too.

reallyyyy bi and cant be doing with pretend bis...learner bis etc etc..u know the sort ...will lie there n close their eyes to let you lick them..but wont go downthemselves...

give me dirty/naughty bis please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always fancied women more too.

reallyyyy bi and cant be doing with pretend bis...learner bis etc etc..u know the sort ...will lie there n close their eyes to let you lick them..but wont go downthemselves...

give me dirty/naughty bis please

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i dirty naughty filthy and deffo not a lie there and close my eyes kinda gal .i the one that often fucks the lady to death with a strap on or licks her till she drowns in her own gush or cum.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just seem to get the vanilla types or the one who just talks a good fight lol need some kinky fuckery lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just seem to get the vanilla types or the one who just talks a good fight lol need some kinky fuckery lol "

maybe you are looking on the wrong threads...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jayne has played with "new" bi ladies twice, I guess she was lucky in that they both took to it like ducks to water lol!

However, the one thing they had in common was that both were single, perhaps the fact that they wanted to try it for themselves, rather than having a guy egging them on, was a major factor?"

but who egged Jayne on mart??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I`m finding at this moment in time I`m not as Bi as I was and don`t find it as enjoyable as I used to, I tend to give more than receiving these day is it because lady`s are bi curious ....

so I can`t be bothered with my bi side any more, it is still there tho, but if I give my all to a meet there has to be something enjoyable given back

I know how you feel....I go in cycles of fancying pussy/cock...atm its all about cock but I have to have my fix of cleavage so thank god for certain cams! lol

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

For me personally like the odd woman in my life and often look as woman as I would men for me as much as I like a nice hard cock I love playing with and abusing a pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have always found women attractive

I adore women just as I do men and will often think and glance as a man would

They are just too sexy not to want

Halo

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Jayne has played with "new" bi ladies twice, I guess she was lucky in that they both took to it like ducks to water lol!

However, the one thing they had in common was that both were single, perhaps the fact that they wanted to try it for themselves, rather than having a guy egging them on, was a major factor?

but who egged Jayne on mart??

Well, I guess she did!

before we swung, we used to talk about fantasies, and hers was always playing with women.

It's true, the thought got me hornier than a bagful of rhinos, and I don't think there are many guys who would turn down the chance of watching and playing with two ladies..... BUT... anyone who knows Jayne will know that she cannot be pushed into anything, and certainly wouldn't do something just to please me if she didnt like it, she knows how much I would hate that.

Bottom line, we have a relationship based on mutual trust and honesty, and the many ladies that she has played with (now added to by another 3 lol!) will confirm she is definitely bi!

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