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By *hris n Twinky OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

You would think as swingers we are all in the same boat... Aren't we all here for the same thing? Non complicated fun. How we all interpret that is each to their own. So why judge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why judge on what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why take notice?

No one can judge unless you let them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why take notice?

No one can judge unless you let them x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread and totally agree, Why Judge?

To answer I think we all judge at some point BUT discretion on how you deal with what ever you have judged is key. We have been "judged" and "labelled" as time wasters, wanna bees etc etc purely because we choose who we want to play with and when. To those who "judge" and then "broadcast", get over yourselves and jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Great thread and totally agree, Why Judge?

To answer I think we all judge at some point BUT discretion on how you deal with what ever you have judged is key. We have been "judged" and "labelled" as time wasters, wanna bees etc etc purely because we choose who we want to play with and when. To those who "judge" and then "broadcast", get over yourselves and jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Great thread and totally agree, Why Judge?

To answer I think we all judge at some point BUT discretion on how you deal with what ever you have judged is key. We have been "judged" and "labelled" as time wasters, wanna bees etc etc purely because we choose who we want to play with and when. To those who "judge" and then "broadcast", get over yourselves and jog on

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i agree .lots of people on here that do judge though .they love to spread negativity in place of positivity .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the word "judge" is overused these days as surely of you genuinely believe something is true. Then it doesn't make you a judger. Otherwise you would judge everyone no matter what. That's all I can say on the matter incase banning arises, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the word "judge" is overused these days as surely of you genuinely believe something is true. Then it doesn't make you a judger. Otherwise you would judge everyone no matter what. That's all I can say on the matter incase banning arises, lol. "

judg·men·tal

[juhj-men-tl] Show IPA

adjective

1.

involving the use or exercise of judgment.

2.

tending to make moral judgments: to avoid a judgmental approach in dealing with divorced couples.

Of course the "Judgemental also "tag" people as timewasters, wanna bee's etc. We don't think the word is over used in the context of the original post, but as always the complete lack of discretion is and probably always will be an issue, and just in case......

dis·cre·tion

[dih-skresh-uhn] Show IPA

noun

1.

the power or right to decide or act according to one's own judgment; freedom of judgment or choice: It is entirely within my discretion whether I will go or stay.

2.

the quality of being discreet, especially with reference to one's own actions or speech; prudence or decorum: Throwing all discretion to the winds, he blurted out the truth.

Idioms

3.

at discretion, at one's option or pleasure: They were allowed to work overtime at discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Great thread and totally agree, Why Judge?

To answer I think we all judge at some point BUT discretion on how you deal with what ever you have judged is key. We have been "judged" and "labelled" as time wasters, wanna bees etc etc purely because we choose who we want to play with and when. To those who "judge" and then "broadcast", get over yourselves and jog on

i agree .lots of people on here that do judge though .they love to spread negativity in place of positivity .xx"

i jus got a big gob pmsl...u r wat u r its not other peoples place to critisize u lol take us as u find us lol xxx (goes hides back in the corner)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Great thread and totally agree, Why Judge?

To answer I think we all judge at some point BUT discretion on how you deal with what ever you have judged is key. We have been "judged" and "labelled" as time wasters, wanna bees etc etc purely because we choose who we want to play with and when. To those who "judge" and then "broadcast", get over yourselves and jog on

i agree .lots of people on here that do judge though .they love to spread negativity in place of positivity .xx i jus got a big gob

pmsl...u r wat u r its not other peoples place to critisize u lol take us as u find us lol xxx (goes hides back in the corner) "

i in the corner with you .the naughty one .lol.poppyxx

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