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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blatant thread steal from Main Forum.

"What have you learned since starting swinging?"

I'll start: I've learned that the type of person I said I'd never ever ever go for has turned out to be someone who I've ended up with...so now I don't judge people too quickly.

How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right on that...i have learnt the taste of a good meal is in eating it. Never judge people by their face pix lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely in agreement there, I've met people id never of even looked once at let alone twice before.

Definitely good to let personality shine through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That variety is the spice of life. We are very new to this so I'm sure we will learn a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that if they come across as a prat in the chatrooms, then they usually are in real life too

oh and to never judge a book by it's cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt:

1/ Set message filters

2/ never rule out couples, they are most definitely are fun

3/ Parties are even more fun

4/ be careful what details and photos you share because a small minority don't understand the terms discrete

5/ who's near by really does surprise you at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to always ask to speak with the female in the couple over the phone. If there is always a reason why they can't speak then you're never gonn meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned the prettier swingers are the ruder and timewasting they think they can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to always ask to speak with the female in the couple over the phone. If there is always a reason why they can't speak then you're never gonn meet them"
iv learn not 2 trust as o was c in some1 4 6 months n was all good till the wife turn up lol he was even stayin regular hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned what a sub/dom dynamic, a vanilla night/club, a social club event is. And how 'realistic' nearly everyone is here. Tidy mun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned what a sub/dom dynamic, a vanilla night/club, a social club event is. And how 'realistic' nearly everyone is here. Tidy mun. "
n the best toy is a wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaaaaating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned what a sub/dom dynamic, a vanilla night/club, a social club event is. And how 'realistic' nearly everyone is here. Tidy mun.

n the best toy is a wand"

Yes!! Lol. How could I forget? If I can get out of the dog house i'll un-sheath that bad boy and let rip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that there are more fake females than actual ones, the average profession for people on here is a "chef", I keep loosing my toffee, you can never have something you desire and Porcupines float in water!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have learnt we really don't wanna swing (for now) but love the forums and meeting up with peeps at socials when we can make them hey we aren't messing anyone around with fake promises - we are just fab hangers on lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also learnt that we wish we had found this site when both single tho to be fair, we were on pof - same thing really haha! But rather be upfront

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt not to get emotionally involved with your FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive learned that you have to watch your back cos of the knives about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here arnt always what they seem or what they describe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt that my first impression of people are normally exactly what i find them to be, no matter how far down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that I am far kinkier than I ever thought but have less lesbian tendencies.

Also, that I have less patience with guys than with my own children.

Guys are far whingier and needier than women. They also are unable to use a ruler correctly

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By *ll overWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I`ve learnt that you always check with the Fem of the cpl b4 the guy takes you for fun at a party (so embarrassing when it kicks off ..lol..)

and

A Fem fuck buddy that you nothing about is a very unhappy fem on a Sunday morning when a veri you left on the sat is out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've learned to not lick hairy bits !

a few mins pleasure ain't worth the hours of gagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That variety is the spice of life. We are very new to this so I'm sure we will learn a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt there is no such thing as fuck buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive also learned that 'straight' guys suck off other guys and it doesn't make them gay or bi! Dafuq like!

And what you women must have to put up with off the men on here with messages and tha, I get harassed enough and its probably half what you lot get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive also learned that 'straight' guys suck off other guys and it doesn't make them gay or bi! Dafuq like!

And what you women must have to put up with off the men on here with messages and tha, I get harassed enough and its probably half what you lot get. "

but you can block single men hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You people in wales are horny as hell and fab pics all around the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive also learned that 'straight' guys suck off other guys and it doesn't make them gay or bi! Dafuq like!

And what you women must have to put up with off the men on here with messages and tha, I get harassed enough and its probably half what you lot get.

but you can block single men hun xxx"

That's a fantastic idea! I'll do that now! Thank you kitten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt guys are the only ones who message me lol shittttt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive also learnt this more back stabbers n people talking behingdur bk on here than there Iis off this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt to be adaptable. And more of tolerance to some people. But its all good

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By *IXERONEMan
over a year ago

caerphilly

Ive learnt to choose who i sleep with i don't let then choose me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive learnt that besides the odd ashole, there are some really nice genuine people in fab, depends on the crowed you get to know and learn to trust.

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