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"I agree dress as if your on a night out..... not a sex worker. " Agree | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last one" i thought you looked lovely and to be honest with you some people do dress very sexy for a night out and they not swingers so what's look like sex work clothing to some people is their style of clothing .at the moment pvc is very in the vanilla shops at the moment so is leather look skirts .i think it's fab myself cos they don't charge as much as the sex shops .lol.poppyxx | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last onei thought you looked lovely and to be honest with you some people do dress very sexy for a night out and they not swingers so what's look like sex work clothing to some people is their style of clothing .at the moment pvc is very in the vanilla shops at the moment so is leather look skirts .i think it's fab myself cos they don't charge as much as the sex shops .lol.poppyxx " Well for the record I got my skirt in primarni pmsl xx | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last onei thought you looked lovely and to be honest with you some people do dress very sexy for a night out and they not swingers so what's look like sex work clothing to some people is their style of clothing .at the moment pvc is very in the vanilla shops at the moment so is leather look skirts .i think it's fab myself cos they don't charge as much as the sex shops .lol.poppyxx Well for the record I got my skirt in primarni pmsl xx" I love primarni and even asda are doing some fetish wear too and banks and new look .lol.xx | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last one" Hush now lol. You looked lovely x | |||
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"I agree dress as if your on a night out..... not a sex worker. Agree " | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last one Hush now lol. You looked lovely x" Agreed and cracking jugs! | |||
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"Pmsl thank you. I was being sarcastic btw " You being sarcastic. | |||
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"What about people who dress smart then wear no knickers ahem Poppy Thomas???" pmsl | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last onei thought you looked lovely and to be honest with you some people do dress very sexy for a night out and they not swingers so what's look like sex work clothing to some people is their style of clothing .at the moment pvc is very in the vanilla shops at the moment so is leather look skirts .i think it's fab myself cos they don't charge as much as the sex shops .lol.poppyxx " I was simply saying I've been to alot of socials over the years and I think some outfits do look ....well no easy way to put it like your on the game, it's my personal opinion...... I'm not saying it's the norm what Iam ssaying as the op said some do draw attention to themselves..... dare I say it trashy. If thats the look they want to achieve thats fine.... it doesn't offend me as such but some are head turners! Simply because of the age if the person too! I'm a young at heart 35yr old but I don't pretend I can dress like a teenager too and get away with it! Nothing wrong with showing a bit of cleavage or leg but I suppose it there is a fine line......I really did not mean any offence as it is only an opinion xxxx | |||
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"What about people who dress smart then wear no knickers ahem Poppy Thomas???" all fur coat and no knickers thats me miss milk jugs .lol.poppyxx | |||
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"I think you should wear what you want! Where does it say I can't wear my studded jock strap and collar! Oh and Soph we both thought you looked sexy as hell!" mr lick I like your studded jock strap I just wish you had the balls to wear it on its own .you coud always dress it up with a formal dicky bow .lol.poppyxx | |||
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"I think you should wear what you want! Where does it say I can't wear my studded jock strap and collar! Oh and Soph we both thought you looked sexy as hell!mr lick I like your studded jock strap I just wish you had the balls to wear it on its own .you coud always dress it up with a formal dicky bow .lol.poppyxx " I think I might just do that for the Bridgend social! | |||
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"I think you should wear what you want! Where does it say I can't wear my studded jock strap and collar! Oh and Soph we both thought you looked sexy as hell!mr lick I like your studded jock strap I just wish you had the balls to wear it on its own .you coud always dress it up with a formal dicky bow .lol.poppyxx I think I might just do that for the Bridgend social! " . I look foward to it mr lick what's mrs lick wearing attaching bikini ? Poppyxx | |||
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"I think you should wear what you want! Where does it say I can't wear my studded jock strap and collar! Oh and Soph we both thought you looked sexy as hell!" Thank you | |||
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"I think you should wear what you want! Where does it say I can't wear my studded jock strap and collar! Oh and Soph we both thought you looked sexy as hell!mr lick I like your studded jock strap I just wish you had the balls to wear it on its own .you coud always dress it up with a formal dicky bow .lol.poppyxx I think I might just do that for the Bridgend social! " | |||
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"In the one I went to, one woman had a see through dress on, with all her arse hanging out. She wasn't the smallest of people either, and i did notice people mocking her and rolling their eyes. Absolutely no need for that, certain attire should be kept for clubs. " Mmmm yes i have also seen this dress code at a social too and all i could think was it was screaming desparation and "look at me !!!" I am of the opinion there is no need to dress this way in a social enviroment. I never have and never will. Leave a little to the imagination. I turn 40 later this year and i do happen to think the older you get the more appropriately you should dress nothing worse than mutton dressed as lamb though this comment is not aimed at anyone seen at socials this is what i would think on a vanilla night out too | |||
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"In the one I went to, one woman had a see through dress on, with all her arse hanging out. She wasn't the smallest of people either, and i did notice people mocking her and rolling their eyes. Absolutely no need for that, certain attire should be kept for clubs. Mmmm yes i have also seen this dress code at a social too and all i could think was it was screaming desparation and "look at me !!!" I am of the opinion there is no need to dress this way in a social enviroment. I never have and never will. Leave a little to the imagination. I turn 40 later this year and i do happen to think the older you get the more appropriately you should dress nothing worse than mutton dressed as lamb though this comment is not aimed at anyone seen at socials this is what i would think on a vanilla night out too " I actually think some people look a lot younger than their age .i seen some young people twenty look awful in what hey wear .you can't generalise on the age just like you can't generalise on their weight.its up to the individual what they wear .i think personal choice is great .i am into fetish too,I generally dress very nicely on the surface but people who know me know at I have sexy stuff or no underwear under Neath. I think generalisation is a crime .poppyxx | |||
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"................what's a vanilla night? " not a playing or swinging night .poppyxx | |||
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"................what's a vanilla night? not a playing or swinging night .poppyxx" Diolch butty, im getting a masterclass in swingers jargon nowadays look. | |||
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"In the one I went to, one woman had a see through dress on, with all her arse hanging out. She wasn't the smallest of people either, and i did notice people mocking her and rolling their eyes. Absolutely no need for that, certain attire should be kept for clubs. Mmmm yes i have also seen this dress code at a social too and all i could think was it was screaming desparation and "look at me !!!" I am of the opinion there is no need to dress this way in a social enviroment. I never have and never will. Leave a little to the imagination. I turn 40 later this year and i do happen to think the older you get the more appropriately you should dress nothing worse than mutton dressed as lamb though this comment is not aimed at anyone seen at socials this is what i would think on a vanilla night out too I actually think some people look a lot younger than their age .i seen some young people twenty look awful in what hey wear .you can't generalise on the age just like you can't generalise on their weight.its up to the individual what they wear .i think personal choice is great .i am into fetish too,I generally dress very nicely on the surface but people who know me know at I have sexy stuff or no underwear under Neath. I think generalisation is a crime .poppyxx " On the generalising on age and weight we will have to agree to disagree as on many occasions i have seen ladies dressing for the body they want and not the body they have. And before anybody starts the whole dont be so fattist i am a large lady who has lost 3 stone since jan so i know what its like to be huge not just the big i am now lol | |||
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"In the one I went to, one woman had a see through dress on, with all her arse hanging out. She wasn't the smallest of people either, and i did notice people mocking her and rolling their eyes. Absolutely no need for that, certain attire should be kept for clubs. Mmmm yes i have also seen this dress code at a social too and all i could think was it was screaming desparation and "look at me !!!" I am of the opinion there is no need to dress this way in a social enviroment. I never have and never will. Leave a little to the imagination. I turn 40 later this year and i do happen to think the older you get the more appropriately you should dress nothing worse than mutton dressed as lamb though this comment is not aimed at anyone seen at socials this is what i would think on a vanilla night out too I actually think some people look a lot younger than their age .i seen some young people twenty look awful in what hey wear .you can't generalise on the age just like you can't generalise on their weight.its up to the individual what they wear .i think personal choice is great .i am into fetish too,I generally dress very nicely on the surface but people who know me know at I have sexy stuff or no underwear under Neath. I think generalisation is a crime .poppyxx On the generalising on age and weight we will have to agree to disagree as on many occasions i have seen ladies dressing for the body they want and not the body they have. And before anybody starts the whole dont be so fattist i am a large lady who has lost 3 stone since jan so i know what its like to be huge not just the big i am now lol" haven't we all though at some point ? But you don't have to e old to do that youngsters can as well .which I see every day but at the end of the day it's up to the individual what they wear or not wear and if hey wear it wrong the only oerson they hurting is themselves .to be honest with so much wrong in the world today I not going to lose sleep over someone looking rubbish in a dress or thong, I think personality is paramount in swinging and most swingers also believe that ethos .a mental stimulation is far more important than what one is wearing.congrats on the weight loss it's hard work I know cos mine goes up and down hence I like to look beyond people's weight and superficiality .poppyxxi get your point just don't agree with it,poppyxx | |||
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"dress for the body you have not for the body you want " I understand that and I tend to do that so I am told though others might disagree .but age is irrelevant in that respect .sometimes though people's personalities and charisma blow you away . You can't always translate that in a picture or just from looking at someone .very few of us are perfect and those who are then your either very lucky or very dedicated to be so.its nice to be important but even more important to be nice and respectful of people .i think we going off the point now of the original thread but hasn't everyone wore a dodgy outfit at some point in their lives ? Has it ruined your life ? No,I like fetish but wouldn't turn up to a social in a gas mask or gimp mask and fetish wear .if some one did I wouldn't chastise them over it ,I be more inclined to think how brave they were and if that's how they want to be then so be it .individuality is sexy .god bless them for having the balls to do it and express themselves as they want to..poppyxx | |||
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"At the end of the day it's a social, mostly held in a private room, so does it matter what people wear? It's the person themselves that have to get themselves to the venue wearing whatever they choose! Personally I've been to many socials where people where a huge variety of outfits, some can be quite eye opening! Myself I wear what I want to and yes I look back at photos of past socials and think omg did I really wear that? but that could be said of many outfits to 'vanilla' events, I'm sure you all think that on times! This time I chose my outfit from a 'normal' website and didn't eat for a week to make sure I still looked kind of ok in it, but then I think we all stress over hat kind of thing. I think my point here after all my rambling is at a social in a private venue does it really matter what everyone wears? If so why not have the odd fancy dress social, as we used to in Swansea, just to give those extroverts among us a chance to shine " | |||
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"At the end of the day it's a social, mostly held in a private room, so does it matter what people wear? It's the person themselves that have to get themselves to the venue wearing whatever they choose! Personally I've been to many socials where people where a huge variety of outfits, some can be quite eye opening! Myself I wear what I want to and yes I look back at photos of past socials and think omg did I really wear that? but that could be said of many outfits to 'vanilla' events, I'm sure you all think that on times! This time I chose my outfit from a 'normal' website and didn't eat for a week to make sure I still looked kind of ok in it, but then I think we all stress over hat kind of thing. I think my point here after all my rambling is at a social in a private venue does it really matter what everyone wears? If so why not have the odd fancy dress social, as we used to in Swansea, just to give those extroverts among us a chance to shine " i adore fancy dress .poppyxx | |||
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"you got fancy dress at bridgend aint you shud be fun " i got a whole wardrobe of fancy dress kitten I love it .bring it on .fancy dress new character I got the moves.yey .badder poppy .i saying this very tongue in cheek for all those that don't knows me.poppyxx | |||
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"you got fancy dress at bridgend aint you shud be fun i got a whole wardrobe of fancy dress kitten I love it .bring it on .fancy dress new character I got the moves.yey .badder poppy .i saying this very tongue in cheek for all those that don't knows me.poppyxx " he he he xx | |||
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"At the end of the day it's a social, mostly held in a private room, so does it matter what people wear? It's the person themselves that have to get themselves to the venue wearing whatever they choose! Personally I've been to many socials where people where a huge variety of outfits, some can be quite eye opening! Myself I wear what I want to and yes I look back at photos of past socials and think omg did I really wear that? but that could be said of many outfits to 'vanilla' events, I'm sure you all think that on times! This time I chose my outfit from a 'normal' website and didn't eat for a week to make sure I still looked kind of ok in it, but then I think we all stress over hat kind of thing. I think my point here after all my rambling is at a social in a private venue does it really matter what everyone wears? If so why not have the odd fancy dress social, as we used to in Swansea, just to give those extroverts among us a chance to shine " i have asked joan for a onsie social | |||
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"At the end of the day it's a social, mostly held in a private room, so does it matter what people wear? It's the person themselves that have to get themselves to the venue wearing whatever they choose! Personally I've been to many socials where people where a huge variety of outfits, some can be quite eye opening! Myself I wear what I want to and yes I look back at photos of past socials and think omg did I really wear that? but that could be said of many outfits to 'vanilla' events, I'm sure you all think that on times! This time I chose my outfit from a 'normal' website and didn't eat for a week to make sure I still looked kind of ok in it, but then I think we all stress over hat kind of thing. I think my point here after all my rambling is at a social in a private venue does it really matter whateveryone wears? If so why not have the odd fancy dress social, as we used to in Swansea, just to give those extroverts among us a chance to shine i have asked joan for a onsie social " | |||
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"What about having a social in that nudist place wherever that is. then no worries about dress code all the same in birthday suits xxx " if I rolled up to a social in my onsie Id never have a meet again | |||
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"What about having a social in that nudist place wherever that is. then no worries about dress code all the same in birthday suits xxx if I rolled up to a social in my onsie Id never have a meet again" you'd look sexy in a bloody bin bag Jade | |||
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"You should have an 'image concious' themed social, everyone turn up in a burkah (think that's how you spell it. The muslim wife wears it) that'd be hilarious when you're trying to work out who's who" i have a burkka mite wear it 1 social n go around sellin roses n pink hats | |||
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"You should have an 'image concious' themed social, everyone turn up in a burkah (think that's how you spell it. The muslim wife wears it) that'd be hilarious when you're trying to work out who's who i have a burkka mite wear it 1 social n go around sellin roses n pink hats " Yes!! Sounds like a plan! | |||
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"What about having a social in that nudist place wherever that is. then no worries about dress code all the same in birthday suits xxx if I rolled up to a social in my onsie Id never have a meet again you'd look sexy in a bloody bin bag Jade " next social ill wear the onsie, it's leopard print, it's got ears and a face on the hood and its got a tail, the mere site of it will put a stop to any shenanigans | |||
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"We've just had an email from The Management... "We are very grateful for everyone's input on this delicate issue of what is appropriate and acceptable attire to our functions. As there is no consensus, we have decided at the next Social women should wear loose-fitting garments that do not expose the knee (or preferably, the shin), and there should be no arms, cleavage or neck on display. Footwear should be flat unless you have a doctor's note which allows you to wear a surgical shoe due to irregular leg length. Men can continue to wear what they would to 'normal' social events: football shirts, beer/drool stained tank tops, string vests etc. We thank you in advance for your compliance." Blimey! " Hahahahaha!!! | |||
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"We've just had an email from The Management... "We are very grateful for everyone's input on this delicate issue of what is appropriate and acceptable attire to our functions. As there is no consensus, we have decided at the next Social women should wear loose-fitting garments that do not expose the knee (or preferably, the shin), and there should be no arms, cleavage or neck on display. Footwear should be flat unless you have a doctor's note which allows you to wear a surgical shoe due to irregular leg length. Men can continue to wear what they would to 'normal' social events: football shirts, beer/drool stained tank tops, string vests etc. We thank you in advance for your compliance." Blimey! " pmsfl | |||
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"Pmsl can't help but feel that little dig at what I wore to the last one" sorry hun...don't flatter yourself, I thought you looked ok if a little up front..lol | |||
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" sorry hun...don't flatter yourself, I thought you looked ok if a little up front..lol " Lol I was being sarcastic. I wore the outfit for a reason | |||
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"lol I only asked for what people thought about it.....have to say that looking at some comments, some ppl are somewhat paranoid!! at the end of the day you should wear what you are comfortable in and f*** what everyone else thinks...but just bear in mind we are all entitled to our own opinion....and some of us like to exercise that right!! " In which case there was absolutely no point in posting the thread in the first place. If you're now under the belief that people should wear what they're comfortable with then you've contradicted yourself as far as I'm concerned. | |||
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"lol I only asked for what people thought about it.....have to say that looking at some comments, some ppl are somewhat paranoid!! at the end of the day you should wear what you are comfortable in and f*** what everyone else thinks...but just bear in mind we are all entitled to our own opinion....and some of us like to exercise that right!! In which case there was absolutely no point in posting the thread in the first place. If you're now under the belief that people should wear what they're comfortable with then you've contradicted yourself as far as I'm concerned." She was only asking what OTHERS thought of it. Not so much of a contradiction mayn. | |||
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"lol I only asked for what people thought about it.....have to say that looking at some comments, some ppl are somewhat paranoid!! at the end of the day you should wear what you are comfortable in and f*** what everyone else thinks...but just bear in mind we are all entitled to our own opinion....and some of us like to exercise that right!! In which case there was absolutely no point in posting the thread in the first place. If you're now under the belief that people should wear what they're comfortable with then you've contradicted yourself as far as I'm concerned. She was only asking what OTHERS thought of it. Not so much of a contradiction mayn. " | |||
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"What about having a social in that nudist place wherever that is. then no worries about dress code all the same in birthday suits xxx if I rolled up to a social in my onsie Id never have a meet again you'd look sexy in a bloody bin bag Jade next social ill wear the onsie, it's leopard print, it's got ears and a face on the hood and its got a tail, the mere site of it will put a stop to any shenanigans" Yes the way poppy designed it will be sexy .crotchless titless onesy .i look forward to it jade .poppyxx | |||
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" f*** what everyone else thinks...but just bear in mind we are all entitled to our own opinion....and some of us like to exercise that right!! " YEAH! Even about tatto's, right? | |||
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"I love a night out for an excuse to glam up to the max!...I always have something naughty hiding underneath my attire, whether it be a social OR a general night out. So girls, wear what you want, be who you want! Leave a little something to the imagination, and try not to get arrested! xx" you always look delicious mrs campers .mmmmmm .i not been arrested yet by a real policeman but i have been cuffed by one lol.in a bdsm way .bad poppyxx | |||
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"What about having a social in that nudist place wherever that is. then no worries about dress code all the same in birthday suits xxx if I rolled up to a social in my onsie Id never have a meet again you'd look sexy in a bloody bin bag Jade next social ill wear the onsie, it's leopard print, it's got ears and a face on the hood and its got a tail, the mere site of it will put a stop to any shenanigans Yes the way poppy designed it will be sexy .crotchless titless onesy .i look forward to it jade .poppyxx " im not sexing up my onsie , it's to cute!!! | |||
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"What about having a social in that nudist place wherever that is. then no worries about dress code all the same in birthday suits xxx if I rolled up to a social in my onsie Id never have a meet again you'd look sexy in a bloody bin bag Jade next social ill wear the onsie, it's leopard print, it's got ears and a face on the hood and its got a tail, the mere site of it will put a stop to any shenanigans Yes the way poppy designed it will be sexy .crotchless titless onesy .i look forward to it jade .poppyxx im not sexing up my onsie , it's to cute!!! " put a tail on it then?poppyxx | |||
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"Whilst i wouldn't wear revealing Clubwear i did dress in high heels,stockings + a figurehugging short dress commando style to the last social we went to(oct or nov'12)....thats my style in vanilla,too. Thing is for all that'it's just a social talk' it's a social for Swingers + an opportunity to meet Fabsters you might want to play with!!Therefor to dress sexy,is in my own view more than acceptable but in fact desirerable (susie)" | |||
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"Whilst i wouldn't wear revealing Clubwear i did dress in high heels,stockings + a figurehugging short dress commando style to the last social we went to(oct or nov'12)....thats my style in vanilla,too. Thing is for all that'it's just a social talk' it's a social for Swingers + an opportunity to meet Fabsters you might want to play with!!Therefor to dress sexy,is in my own view more than acceptable but in fact desirerable (susie) " Yeah you go girl! | |||
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