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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What was it like?

Did you already know someone there to talk to or did you mingle?

My first on Saturday and I admit I'm bricking it a little

I hope someone chats so I don't look like a wally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will chat to you.if its Cardiff meet us before the social for a pre social drink with a few others.we knew no one there .met some for a drink at a pub before .went over with them.then spent the evening mingling and getting to know people and being a tiny little bit naughty .poppyxc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I won't be arriving till 10 as working beforehand so I think I'll be the the one that comes through the door late that everyone turns to look at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be arriving till 10 as working beforehand so I think I'll be the the one that comes through the door late that everyone turns to look at! "
no lots turn up late .private message me a face pic and i will private message you one tooo.then. I can look out for you.poppyxc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won't be arriving till 10 as working beforehand so I think I'll be the the one that comes through the door late that everyone turns to look at! no lots turn up late .private message me a face pic and i will private message you one tooo.then. I can look out for you.poppyxc"

Thanks hun xx on its way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be arriving till 10 as working beforehand so I think I'll be the the one that comes through the door late that everyone turns to look at! no lots turn up late .private message me a face pic and i will private message you one tooo.then. I can look out for you.poppyxc

Thanks hun xx on its way "
i have sent mine and joes and mobile too if you want to text .if not no worries i look out for you .poppyxc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go and relax, talk to whoever, they don't bite honestly!!

would go ourselves but of to Chams friday, so can get a sitter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go and relax, talk to whoever, they don't bite honestly!!

would go ourselves but of to Chams friday, so can get a sitter "

Thing is im not drinking as driving straight from work, no Dutch courage lol

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By *IXERONEMan
over a year ago

caerphilly

I went with someone but i mingled a bit to much and went home on my own lol xxx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Im going on my own too, and Im not drinking either. Going to keep my wits about me.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, our first one was at Swansea. Hubby literally had to pull me in through the door as I was so nervous lol however he was fine. Then wen I mustered up enough courage to turn my head around and have a peek to see if we knew anyone (which we didn't). Everyone was amazing! At no point did we feel left out or excluded. We love the socials and I'm sure you will. We will look out for your name in the Cardiff one. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE WILL BE THERE COME SAY HI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't keen. I wore ridiculously high stiletto boots and was bored halfway through the night. I wouldn't do one again. However I did enjoy the masked ball loads...in various ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our very first social all those many moons ago we didn't know a soul and to top it off we were having a lift there and back from someone we'd never met either, but we met some lovely people who are still 'around' now and great friends.

Our second social was what is now known as the Swansea social but was then being held in a much smaller location. And lo and behold we walked through the door and met someone we'd both known for years! But it wasn't a problem we were soon made to feel welcome and thoroughly enjoy attending socials

Little was I to know that I would end up being involved in those socials for many years and would recommend them to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went alone to my first social and it was Cardiff. Didn't know anyone. I lived to tell the tale

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Im sure I'll be fine......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im sure I'll be fine......"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went alone to my first social and it was Cardiff. Didn't know anyone. I lived to tell the tale "
we spoke to you too and you didnt run off.lol.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't keen. I wore ridiculously high stiletto boots and was bored halfway through the night. I wouldn't do one again. However I did enjoy the masked ball loads...in various ways "
i was so nervous i got hammered and then proceeded to break lots of rules in a very discrete way .however in my defence it was seasoned socialites that encouraged me to break them.but what fun i hada.bad popppy.never looked back .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my 1st social new all within 2 hours lol then again im not shy pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my 1st social new all within 2 hours lol then again im not shy pmsl "

then again I used to be in chat a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my 1st social new all within 2 hours lol then again im not shy pmsl

then again I used to be in chat a lot "
lol.chelle you love to chat and meet people .your the absolute queen of socials babe .long may you reign .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

socials are exactly what they are socials meeting people off the site nothing to be scared of no ones judging anyone no sexual activity just meeting the cardiff one is very friendly and well worth going to bull shitters soon get wheedled out friendships made and when you go back to the chat room

you know who your talking to and friendships are formed so go with an open mind respect and be respected have a good time bring condoms in case you get to meet someone for an afterparty most of all enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" we spoke to you too and you didnt run off.lol.poppyxx "

Haha I didn't need to run off. You made me feel welcome lol even if you did song my face off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first and only social in swansea-

Arranged to meet up with cj and welshie in my hotel room beforehand. Cj gave nessa and smiffy a lift in too as their car had broken down.

I found the socisl itself daunting, my +1 was d*unk and it made me on edge, spoke briefly with fire n ice and relaxed a little. I didn't feel at ease to mingle because of the +1.

The night ended in a disaster for me but not because of the social itself. Lesson learned, if you are going with a plus one, make sure they are sound!!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* social

( blimmen i phone)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going it alone.. Poppy has kindly offered to chat to me which is fabulous. The nerves are turning to excitement now

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Went to my first social alone and didn't know anyone..i mingled amd now have made lots of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first and only social in swansea-

Arranged to meet up with cj and welshie in my hotel room beforehand. Cj gave nessa and smiffy a lift in too as their car had broken down.

I found the socisl itself daunting, my +1 was d*unk and it made me on edge, spoke briefly with fire n ice and relaxed a little. I didn't feel at ease to mingle because of the +1.

The night ended in a disaster for me but not because of the social itself. Lesson learned, if you are going with a plus one, make sure they are sound!!

X "

omg i remember that night well our car was well and truly fooked and we ended up stopping over at someones house cause we couldnt get home x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We were lucky in that we had been to a party before we went to a social, so we knew a couple of people, plus I (Mart) had been in chat loads.

It's very easy to forget how we felt ourselves on a first social, party, meet etc, and be a little blase about it, but the truth is everyone gets a little nervous, but people are on the whole very welcoming to newbies, and you will soon be chatting away to people like you have known them for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going it alone.. Poppy has kindly offered to chat to me which is fabulous. The nerves are turning to excitement now "
looking forward to meeting you hun.poppycc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't keen. I wore ridiculously high stiletto boots and was bored halfway through the night. I wouldn't do one again. However I did enjoy the masked ball loads...in various ways "

agree

Bored me... no playing..lol

just a few awkward looks from hubbys and most female partners sat with stormy faces??

Left and went to chams..much more fun) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged to go to the social and have a social meet at the same time we had both never been to a social and both booked the same hotel. Needless to say we used one room in the night and had a great time. Lots of friendly people and made some great friends

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