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By *orneyDragon4Taming OP   Man
over a year ago

Llanelli

Been on here on and off a while,

Llanelli deserves its own social. I will organise it if enough people are interested.

Let me know. If it's just three or thirty, it's possible.

Lets do it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore.

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By *orneyDragon4Taming OP   Man
over a year ago

Llanelli

Taken that remark on board .

Let me know?

Social or More?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore. "

the amount of time we have offerd play meets everyone seems to vanish we have a swing hotel in milford and a meeting place for fun and games in pembroke dock and the odd occasion my house for the brave we even have a play camp site .....where are the so called swingers ....they prefer socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore.

the amount of time we have offerd play meets everyone seems to vanish we have a swing hotel in milford and a meeting place for fun and games in pembroke dock and the odd occasion my house for the brave we even have a play camp site .....where are the so called swingers ....they prefer socials

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i actually do meet and i love the social side of it 2.....so yeah socials are a good thing 4 us swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore.

the amount of time we have offerd play meets everyone seems to vanish we have a swing hotel in milford and a meeting place for fun and games in pembroke dock and the odd occasion my house for the brave we even have a play camp site .....where are the so called swingers ....they prefer socials

i actually do meet and i love the social side of it 2.....so yeah socials are a good thing 4 us swingers "

We ALWAYS insist on meeting (preferably at a social) so we can see if there is a connection. We can chat openly at socials, unlike in a pub or coffee shop so yes, roll out the socials. A few years ago we used to arrange socials in closed venues with the option to play on site....... shame these venues are no longer around but go for it we would be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested

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By *orneyDragon4Taming OP   Man
over a year ago

Llanelli

Some positive there.

I will make a go of it, see where it goes.

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

Like to find out more about swing hotel in milford and place in pembroke please feel free to inbox us the details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be up for it, as you can see from the veris I play, but I absolutely love the social side as well & the socials are the only opportunity I have to socialise with like minded people. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested, as we find socials are an easy way to meet potential play mates.... without feeling bad,if there is no connection....

(our only problem is work commitments )xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the socials just to meet like minded people of all ages but as far as actually playing goes, that goes on in private in my own home. I old fashioned so like to play in private lol socials are good sex is fecking brilliant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore. "

DON'T! DON'T! I SAID THIS A FEW MONTHS AGO AND WAS SHOT DOWN IN FLAMES FOR SAYING IT .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore.

DON'T! DON'T! I SAID THIS A FEW MONTHS AGO AND WAS SHOT DOWN IN FLAMES FOR SAYING IT ."

poor buck you where shot down a bit lol

but we think socials are good things we also love our playtime.

socials are good you get to meet likeminded people and you can put names to faces and see if there is an attraction after all not everybody wants to have fun with anybody we all have our likes and dislikes the days of keys in the fruit bowl are long gone.

plus socials are a good night out and if you can play as well like you could at milford social or the masked ball all the better and as for meeeting to play, a night was trying to be arranged for 27th sept but as had to be cancelled read marts last post in the off the cuff camping weekend thread in forum says it all realy

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

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What do you mean Fire, keys in a bowl are things of the past, I thought that was the norm, has someone been kidding me lol

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By *ickablecoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Glamorgan

Bring on the socials! Meet lovely people then have a sexy meet after, mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet cpls socially but all these social events are a joke.

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over a year ago

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea

You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

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By *avandcharlotteCouple
over a year ago

SWANSEA

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By *avandcharlotteCouple
over a year ago

SWANSEA


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me "

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

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over a year ago


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often"

It takes me nearly two hours to get to Swansea so that in itself is a problem for me to get to these much preached about socials!

But I have to agree with the above two posts. I've spoken to a few on here who've been and with what they've told me and all the comments I've read in the Wales forums on the numerous posts about Socials, it's totally put me off ever attending one!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often"

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

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over a year ago


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation "

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies!

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies! "

I definitely think the way forward is to organise nights out , people feel more comfortable when your on a night out going to different places , but that's just my opinion not everyone would agree but at least if your in a town situation you can leave and go to different pubs or a club and enjoy your night if you don't enjoy the social where as you go to 1 place with everyone in and your kind of limited to stay there really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies! "

Although I live in North Wales, last november I decided to travel down and attent the Cardiff social...and I am so glad I did...got to meet a lot of very nice people and was able to put faces to names and everyone was very welcoming. I was planning to attend the next one next week but due to circs beyond my control am unable to make it and im gutted

but all in all I have to say it was a positive experience for me ...I just wish they had them in north wales!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet cpls socially but all these social events are a joke.

totaly disagree with that statement total poppycock.

the socials are a good night out and has for cliques never seen one, there are those that go together whom have been friends or swung together for a while and i dont see anything wrong in that. some may think that some are cliquey because they sit togehter and dont seem to mingle but ask yourself have you made the effort to go talk to them too?

im fortunate cos ive gotta fire pmsl and she's very outgoing and we try to get around and say hello to everbody at socials cples single fems and single males alike its great to put names to faces we chat to in wales chat.

has for robbos suggestion of a night out yep thats good too but at the end of the day that night too is a social of sorts.

weve found the socials a very posative experience and have never met anyone arrogant or rude so all we can suggest is you make the effort to go up to peeps and say hello or if your shy and we are ther grab fire she will take you round and introduce you to peeps pmsl after all we are all there cos we love the swinging lifestyle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet cpls socially but all these social events are a joke.

totaly disagree with that statement total poppycock.

the socials are a good night out and has for cliques never seen one, there are those that go together whom have been friends or swung together for a while and i dont see anything wrong in that. some may think that some are cliquey because they sit togehter and dont seem to mingle but ask yourself have you made the effort to go talk to them too?

im fortunate cos ive gotta fire pmsl and she's very outgoing and we try to get around and say hello to everbody at socials cples single fems and single males alike its great to put names to faces we chat to in wales chat.

has for robbos suggestion of a night out yep thats good too but at the end of the day that night too is a social of sorts.

weve found the socials a very posative experience and have never met anyone arrogant or rude so all we can suggest is you make the effort to go up to peeps and say hello or if your shy and we are ther grab fire she will take you round and introduce you to peeps pmsl after all we are all there cos we love the swinging lifestyle.."

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"We meet cpls socially but all these social events are a joke.

totaly disagree with that statement total poppycock.

the socials are a good night out and has for cliques never seen one, there are those that go together whom have been friends or swung together for a while and i dont see anything wrong in that. some may think that some are cliquey because they sit togehter and dont seem to mingle but ask yourself have you made the effort to go talk to them too?

im fortunate cos ive gotta fire pmsl and she's very outgoing and we try to get around and say hello to everbody at socials cples single fems and single males alike its great to put names to faces we chat to in wales chat.

has for robbos suggestion of a night out yep thats good too but at the end of the day that night too is a social of sorts.

weve found the socials a very posative experience and have never met anyone arrogant or rude so all we can suggest is you make the effort to go up to peeps and say hello or if your shy and we are ther grab fire she will take you round and introduce you to peeps pmsl after all we are all there cos we love the swinging lifestyle.."

The main difference with meeting people on a night out and not a social is that you can do your own thing and still have a good night out with others not just the (swinging ) community I agree meet up at 1 place and stay there for an hour or so but then move on to different places I personally feel its a better more relaxed atmosphere like that and as for the cliques they are most definitely there and the last Social I went to I met probably the most rude unfriendly person I might have possibly ever met and plus the arrogant guys who think they are the king of the swingers so you a in a situation either leave and not have a night out or stay in the same room with these people , but if you had the option to go to a different pub / club with the people you are getting along with I would think it would be a better night all round for everyone , but that's just 1 mans opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a shame that people are so put off the socials they feel unable to attend, we always offer new people to join us & we make every effort to introduce them to others & make the social a truly fun time. As for cliques, yes people do sit together in groups but those groups are generally quite fluid & as the night develops so the groupings change. If anyone has never been to a social but fancies trying but & isn't brave enough you're awkward welcome to join us & our many friends x

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over a year ago


"I think it's a shame that people are so put off the socials they feel unable to attend, we always offer new people to join us & we make every effort to introduce them to others & make the social a truly fun time. As for cliques, yes people do sit together in groups but those groups are generally quite fluid & as the night develops so the groupings change. If anyone has never been to a social but fancies trying but & isn't brave enough you're awkward welcome to join us & our many friends x"

Well that's the nicest post I've seen on a 'social' thread! Usually when someone says anything negative they get shot down.

I've heard a few negative things by speaking to a few people who've been, as well as comments in this and other threads.

I also live right on the west coast so the distance is an off putting factor as well lol

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over a year ago


"I think it's a shame that people are so put off the socials they feel unable to attend, we always offer new people to join us & we make every effort to introduce them to others & make the social a truly fun time. As for cliques, yes people do sit together in groups but those groups are generally que fluid & as the night develops so the groupings change. If anyone has never been to a social but fancies trying but & isn't brave enough you're awkward welcome to join us & our many friends x"
and i try and make people wecome as i was a social virgin once and if anyone wants me 2 hold there hand il go with i 2

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over a year ago


"I think it's a shame that people are so put off the socials they feel unable to attend, we always offer new people to join us & we make every effort to introduce them to others & make the social a truly fun time. As for cliques, yes people do sit together in groups but those groups are generally quite fluid & as the night develops so the groupings change. If anyone has never been to a social but fancies trying but & isn't brave enough you're awkward welcome to join us & our many friends x

Well that's the nicest post I've seen on a 'social' thread! Usually when someone says anything negative they get shot down.

I've heard a few negative things by speaking to a few people who've been, as well as comments in this and other threads.

I also live right on the west coast so the distance is an off putting factor as well lol "
we arent all bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish the people who've been with us & had positive experiences would join in & support the social debate, it's sad that people feel this way

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over a year ago


"I wish the people who've been with us & had positive experiences would join in & support the social debate, it's sad that people feel this way "
in my opinion u get clicks were ever u go....obviously people are goin 2 sit with who they no as they are goin 2 feel more comfortable......iv never felt left our or uncomfortable at any social ive been 2.....last night was brilliant from the moment we all met in weatherspoons till we all left 2 go our own ways.......socials 4 me are brill and i love going.......i think people should try and make ur own mind up and if u dont like it then ur not forced 2 attend again :-i give a big shout out 2 socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main difference with meeting people on a night out and not a social is that you can do your own thing and still have a good night out with others not just the (swinging ) community I agree meet up at 1 place and stay there for an hour or so but then move on to different places I personally feel its a better more relaxed atmosphere like that and as for the cliques they are most definitely there and the last Social I went to I met probably the most rude unfriendly person I might have possibly ever met and plus the arrogant guys who think they are the king of the swingers so you a in a situation either leave and not have a night out or stay in the same room with these people , but if you had the option to go to a different pub / club with the people you are getting along with I would think it would be a better night all round for everyone , but that's just 1 mans opinion

_emo and holly arrange this the sat night out quite often and move around from pub to pub and they are good

nights, and we as swingers tend to stick as 1 group which is best saves any misunderstanding with the vanillas and when you get to said pub and are meeting different people for the 1st time how do you tell who swings and who doesnt?.

and you can do your own thing at a social the only thing you cant do is play at the venue hence the term social.

not everybody is going to get on with everybody there will always be differences of opinions, but if you respect the fact that you are all there for the same reason there is no reason why you cant enjoy and robbo we are going to make every effort to attend the next social after cdiff cos we are away for that 1 so look up the date of next 1 in forums stick your name down and come say hi and i will introduce you to peeps if your a bit shy cant say fairer than that lol

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

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Thanks Fire and Ice, that's very good of you to say you enjoy our nights out. We did try and arrange one last month, but there was little interest, I think it's cos it's the summer holiday, but we are more than willing to get another one planned if there s enough interest

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

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And I join the supporters of socials, we have a great time.

We always walk away from the rude people and yes we are in a clique,, but everyone I know in that clique is fabulous and we all, always make an effort to talk to other people, especially those new to socials

Happy swinging everyone xxx

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By *aceloverxMan
over a year ago

southwest Wales by the sea

Interesting comments about socials I have made the effort to attend a few Swansea ones (not recent ones due to last minute things getting in the way) travelling over from Pembs. Despite feeling nervous, each time I have got talking to like minded people who were very welcoming of a single male which in turn led on to some sexy meets after that initial meet in a neutral venue and safe environment. Would be interested in PD swing hotel btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I join the supporters of socials, we have a great time.

We always walk away from the rude people and yes we are in a clique,, but everyone I know in that clique is fabulous and we all, always make an effort to talk to other people, especially those new to socials

Happy swinging everyone xxx"

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By *ts_all_gravyMan
over a year ago

Newport

I loved the old ways of dropping keys into a bowl.... I came away with a Bentley and two Mercedes over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I loved the old ways of dropping keys into a bowl.... I came away with a Bentley and two Mercedes over the years "

lucky you, i came away with a fecking idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often"

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies! "

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

I'm gobsmacked!

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over a year ago


"I'm gobsmacked! "

Why?

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Ahh nothing too worrying.....shouldn't have even typed it. Fingers went before my brain lol

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over a year ago

I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things!

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a swansea social about three years ago. I took a single male with me. It was pretty nerve wracking for both of us. I must say a few people made the effort to make us feel welcome, some of which joined us for a drink in our hotel before the social. I do remember fire and ice introducing themselves to us both, but other than that it wasn't a very pleasant experience! Too much drink for my +1 and not enough mingling from my side ( nerves) left me thinking that i would probably not attend another - unless i was in a relationship.

On the hole i think socials are a good idea and there is room for both social and night out on the town.

Perhaps more fuss over the singles that attend would change perceptions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.. On the whole not hole!!!

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over a year ago


"I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things! "

Couldn't agree more xxx

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over a year ago


"Yet another social. Couldn't think of anything worse. Don't people meet to play anymore. "
booooooo .socials are a safe nice way of making friends and meeting new play mates if your lucky,try them .we love them.poppyxx

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over a year ago


"I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things!

Couldn't agree more xxx"
stop clogging them up with negative responses then.lol.they are for positive people really . A negative outlook is never good in life or anywhere else ter one you might be surprised .poppyxxxx

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over a year ago


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings

and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli

lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques

and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a

club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies! "
iwe have yet to attend one we haven't met and played after but thats not the point really .i think . There are no cliques and new people are always welcome . I think you get out of it what you bring along.we were nervous and attended and totally enjoyed meeting like minded people .you should just turn up with a positive attitude and see where it goes if you go to a pub in a vanilla situation with a negative attitude thats all your going to exude . Go have fun,chat dance,we wish we done them years ago.we intend on going to many many more .poppyxx

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over a year ago


"And I join the supporters of socials, we have a great time.

We always walk away from the rude people and yes we are in a clique,, but everyone I know in that clique is fabulous and we all, always make an effort to talk to other people, especially those new to socials

Happy swinging everyone xxx"
i don't think your in a clique .you always talk to new people and make them feel welcome.so you give every one a fair chance .poppyxx

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over a year ago


"I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things!

Couldn't agree more xxxstop clogging them up with negative responses then.lol.they are for positive people really . A negative outlook is never good in life or anywhere else ter one you might be surprised .poppyxxxx"

Forums are not just here for positive people. Everyone is entitled to air their views be that positive OR negative!

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over a year ago


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings

and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli

lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques

and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a

club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies! iwe have yet to attend one we haven't met and played after but thats not the point really .i think . There are no cliques and new people are always welcome . I think you get out of it what you bring along.we were nervous and attended and totally enjoyed meeting like minded people .you should just turn up with a positive attitude and see where it goes if you go to a pub in a vanilla situation with a negative attitude thats all your going to exude . Go have fun,chat dance,we wish we done them years ago.we intend on going to many many more .poppyxx "

You say there are no cliques, yet everyone else who's attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are!

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over a year ago


" You say there are no cliques, yet everyone else who's attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are! "

Others that should be not everyone!

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over a year ago

There are no cliques, just groups of friends who know each other, who do their best to integrate and mingle with newbies. I am new to swinging, I've been on here 8 months and I organise the Bridgend social, people have been more than kind to me!!! I've attended Newport and Swansea social, and nobody has been ignorant or rude to me, quite the contrary!!!

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over a year ago

You say there are no cliques, yet everyone else who's attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are!

that depends on your definition of cliques, i think jade put it perfectly they are groups of friends who meet up at a social and do, do thier best to mingle and intergrate with newbies a clique is a group of people who stick entirely to temselves and dont bother with anyone else and i have never seen this at a social.

furthermore if you are not going to go onto people and say hello or introduce yourselves then you have nobody but yourself to blame if you feel isolated or left out its a two way street.

We always make an effort to go round everybody and say hello after all we are all there for the same reason so theres no need to be shy lol.

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over a year ago


"I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things!

Couldn't agree more xxxstop clogging them up with negative responses then.lol.they are for positive people really . A negative outlook is never good in life or anywhere else ter one you might be surprised .poppyxxxx"

We have attended one and it was dreadful. We all have different views and a forum is a place to display both positive and negative views.

You have a positive view on the socials which suits you and that's great but others see them as the same old faces biging themselves up and preaching to everyone how great the socials are.

It's always the same on here, if you don't agree with the preachers your expected to keep your mouth shut. I wouldn't recommend the socials to my worst enemy because it was shit but you would and that's fine by us. Just allow us to express our view as we do yours.

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over a year ago


"Some positive there.

I will make a go of it, see where it goes. "

Any news or update of your llanelli social/ play?

( since this thread turned into pros and cons of socials instead of who would like one in llanelli !)

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"You'd be better off arranging a night out around the town meet up somewhere and just all go out for the night , I find you can have a more relaxed drink and have a laugh that way I've not really had good experiences at the socials I find a few of the people arrogant especially if they have been (swinging or on the scene ) for a few years they think they invented having sex it's quite pathetic really and you see all the little clicks in the socials the same old ones who party and play together all the time and think they are the kings

and queens of the swinging world trust me organise yourself a good night out on a Saturday in Swansea as let's face it its better than Llanelli

lol and see how many you can get to come , I'm in and I'll bring a few like minded people with me

have to agree with this post, far too many cliques

and very much a closed shop, we have been on the scene 10 years but have very limited time to play so socials with no playing involved are the last thing we want, we would rather just go to a

club. We are experienced and know a lot of ppl on the scene but still feel the cliques are unwelcoming to newbies or ppl who don't meet very often

but dont you know the playing that goes on straight after the social its a two for one night. early hours getting to know people later hours at the parties playing its a win win situation

I think you're missing the point about the cliques that seem to attend and take over making it seem unwelcome to newbies! iwe have yet to attend one we haven't met and played after but thats not the point really .i think . There are no cliques and new people are always welcome . I think you get out of it what you bring along.we were nervous and attended and totally enjoyed meeting like minded people .you should just turn up with a positive attitude and see where it goes if you go to a pub in a vanilla situation with a negative attitude thats all your going to exude . Go have fun,chat dance,we wish we done them years ago.we intend on going to many many more .poppyxx

You say there are no cliques, yet everyone else who's attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are! "
hence I was gobsmacked...... although some have commented that there ISNT any when they have said to my face there is.

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" You say there are no cliques, yet some who've attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are! hence I was gobsmacked...... although some have commented that there ISNT any when they have said to my face there is. "

There seems to be and always will be a divided opinion on socials. I have to admit that as a single woman, all the negative comments [plus distance] have put me off ever attending one. Some people on here think they are the best thing since sliced bread and that's their opinion BUT the rest of us are entitled to voice our opinion too, even if they're negative. We can't all agree on everything!

What does annoy me though is the constant harping on about them as if they are the solution to every question raised in swinging land. Not everyone lives within reasonable travelling distance to a social - Wales extends beyond the end of the M4! and not everyone has the desire or inclination to attend one. Telling people to attend in order to get verified/more meets/get yourself known is not always the answer! Location. cost and time is a factor for some of us!

I luv the Forums and frequently post in the Lounge and a few of the others but I have to admit I don't come into the Wales Forum very often as it always seems to be full of threads about Socials. Each to his own but surely ONE thread per social is more than enough?

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" You say there are no cliques, yet some who've attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are! hence I was gobsmacked...... although some have commented that there ISNT any when they have said to my face there is.

There seems to be and always will be a divided opinion on socials. I have to admit that as a single woman, all the negative comments [plus distance] have put me off ever attending one. Some people on here think they are the best thing since sliced bread and that's their opinion BUT the rest of us are entitled to voice our opinion too, even if they're negative. We can't all agree on everything!

What does annoy me though is the constant harping on about them as if they are the solution to every question raised in swinging land. Not everyone lives within reasonable travelling distance to a social - Wales extends beyond the end of the M4! and not everyone has the desire or inclination to attend one. Telling people to attend in order to get verified/more meets/get yourself known is not always the answer! Location. cost and time is a factor for some of us!

I luv the Forums and frequently post in the Lounge and a few of the others but I have to admit I don't come into the Wales Forum very often as it always seems to be full of threads about Socials. Each to his own but surely ONE thread per social is more than enough? "

Can I just say you've put that perfectly

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" There seems to be and always will be a divided opinion on socials. I have to admit that as a single woman, all the negative comments [plus distance] have put me off ever attending one. Some people on here think they are the best thing since sliced bread and that's their opinion BUT the rest of us are entitled to voice our opinion too, even if they're negative. We can't all agree on everything!

What does annoy me though is the constant harping on about them as if they are the solution to every question raised in swinging land. Not everyone lives within reasonable travelling distance to a social - Wales extends beyond the end of the M4! and not everyone has the desire or inclination to attend one. Telling people to attend in order to get verified/more meets/get yourself known is not always the answer! Location. cost and time is a factor for some of us!

I luv the Forums and frequently post in the Lounge and a few of the others but I have to admit I don't come into the Wales Forum very often as it always seems to be full of threads about Socials. Each to his own but surely ONE thread per social is more than enough?

Can I just say you've put that perfectly "

Well thank you I do try sometimes lol

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


" There seems to be and always will be a divided opinion on socials. I have to admit that as a single woman, all the negative comments [plus distance] have put me off ever attending one. Some people on here think they are the best thing since sliced bread and that's their opinion BUT the rest of us are entitled to voice our opinion too, even if they're negative. We can't all agree on everything!

What does annoy me though is the constant harping on about them as if they are the solution to every question raised in swinging land. Not everyone lives within reasonable travelling distance to a social - Wales extends beyond the end of the M4! and not everyone has the desire or inclination to attend one. Telling people to attend in order to get verified/more meets/get yourself known is not always the answer! Location. cost and time is a factor for some of us!

I luv the Forums and frequently post in the Lounge and a few of the others but I have to admit I don't come into the Wales Forum very often as it always seems to be full of threads about Socials. Each to his own but surely ONE thread per social is more than enough?

Can I just say you've put that perfectly

Well thank you I do try sometimes lol"

Very well said, there are alot on here who think they are the bee's knee's and I'm for one along with a few others who cringe when they read on forums how they have managed to cram 3 dicks in every oraface possible and how if you have done one thing they have done it... but better. Anyways I digress,

There are cliques and by christ you go against the grain well...thats you out.

Anyways we ain't sheep and I for one don't need to be accepted by anyone.... you like me great ....you don't well just let it be.

This is meant to be about fun and frolics. Enjoy people.

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over a year ago

I reckon Jade summed it up beautifully, a social does comprise of groups of friends & this is reflected in all walks of life, we sit with those we know but we also mingle which isn't quite what a clique is. I also take on board some of the other negative comments about socials, there are odd individuals who seem to sirens their time trying to intimidate & bully others & try to spoil their night, I have experienced this at several socials now & you know what, I say fuck em & I enjoy the friends I have around me & they are many x

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" there are odd individuals who seem to sirens their time trying to intimidate & bully others & try to spoil their night, I have experienced this at several socials now & you know what, I say fuck em & I enjoy the friends I have around me & they are many x"

And that's great but you can understand why it could be off putting to newcomers who don't have those friends around them and be faced with those intimidating and bullying individuals!

As I said earlier, Socials will be the bees knees for some and a definite no go for others. And if ever I decide to attend I'll start a thread about it lol [and that's a tongue in cheek comment before anyone says anything]

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" there are odd individuals who seem to sirens their time trying to intimidate & bully others & try to spoil their night, I have experienced this at several socials now & you know what, I say fuck em & I enjoy the friends I have around me & they are many x

And that's great but you can understand why it could be off putting to newcomers who don't have those friends around them and be faced with those intimidating and bullying individuals!

As I said earlier, Socials will be the bees knees for some and a definite no go for others. And if ever I decide to attend I'll start a thread about it lol [and that's a tongue in cheek comment before anyone says anything]"
we were all new comers at one point

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" there are odd individuals who seem to sirens their time trying to intimidate & bully others & try to spoil their night, I have experienced this at several socials now & you know what, I say fuck em & I enjoy the friends I have around me & they are many x

And that's great but you can understand why it could be off putting to newcomers who don't have those friends around them and be faced with those intimidating and bullying individuals!

As I said earlier, Socials will be the bees knees for some and a definite no go for others. And if ever I decide to attend I'll start a thread about it lol [and that's a tongue in cheek comment before anyone says anything]"

I just don't see why the nasty, small minded, jealous few should get away with it. Enough said or I'll be repeating myself x

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over a year ago

Feel a bit sorry for the poor guy who started this thread as it has certainly wandered off topic. However, as it has developed into opinions on socials, just figured we would give ours.

In a word we found it educational.

We started swinging to broaden our horizons by extended our sex life to involve others.

We had read endless comments and been given lots of advice that when starting out, an organised social was a good place to meet like minded people.

We only ever attended one!

We are not shy people. We chatted extensively. There was certainly no sign of bullying and we met some friendly people. At no point did we feel excluded.

However, we didn't meet a single couple that we clicked with. Now that could be down to us of course but irrespective of the reasons the whole night from our point of view was a complete waste of time.

We have an extensive circle of vanilla friends we socialise with.

We swing to find friends to fuck.

There were very few like minded people at the event.

We were educated to the fact that this lifestyle provides a lot of different things to a lot of different people.

Just socials are not one of the things that will ever provide us with what we are looking for. xx

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

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South Wales has more than it's fair share of socials and they won't suit everybody.

There was a time when we would try never to miss a social, now however, with less free time and babysitters being thin on the ground we choose more wisely which ones to attend as we have found that every social (location) offers something different and there are some we prefer more than others.

As for cliques, well that depends on what your opinion of a clique is, there are people at socials we know and who's company we enjoy so we spend a lot of the evening with them but not to the detriment of everyone else. I like to think we are friendly and try and chat to as many people as possible.

I have no problems with people who have tried socials and don't enjoy them being negative about them but like all things I think you have to experience them for yourself (preferably more than one at the different locations)before you can write them off rather than taking somebody else's word for it.

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"South Wales has more than it's fair share of socials and they won't suit everybody.

There was a time when we would try never to miss a social, now however, with less free time and babysitters being thin on the ground we choose more wisely which ones to attend as we have found that every social (location) offers something different and there are some we prefer more than others.

As for cliques, well that depends on what your opinion of a clique is, there are people at socials we know and who's company we enjoy so we spend a lot of the evening with them but not to the detriment of everyone else. I like to think we are friendly and try and chat to as many people as possible.

I have no problems with people who have tried socials and don't enjoy them being negative about them but like all things I think you have to experience them for yourself (preferably more than one at the different locations)before you can write them off rather than taking somebody else's word for it."

could not have put it better

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"I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things!

Couldn't agree more xxxstop clogging them up with negative responses then.lol.they are for positive people really . A negative outlook is never good in life or anywhere else ter one you might be surprised .poppyxxxx

Forums are not just here for positive people. Everyone is entitled to air their views be that

positive OR negative! "
i think a negative response is a wasted response . xxx

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"I don't attend them so couldn't give a toss either way, I just wish the forums weren't so clogged up with the endless posts about the bastard things!

Couldn't agree more xxxstop clogging them up with negative responses then.lol.they are for positive people really . A negative outlook is never good in life or anywhere else ter one you might be surprised .poppyxxxx

Forums are not just here for positive people. Everyone is entitled to air their views be that

positive OR negative! i think a negative response is a wasted response . xxx"

How is it wasted? Life is full of positive and negative things. Really don't mean to offend you but that's the daftest things said on here so far.

You have to be objective in life. If only the constant positive driffle

was allowed on here then new swingers would be in for a hell of a shock when they arrive at a social.

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" You say there are no cliques, yet some who've attended and commented on this thread have admitted there are! hence I was gobsmacked...... although some have commented that there ISNT any when they have said to my face there is.

There seems to be and always will be a divided opinion on socials. I have to admit that as a single woman, all the negative comments [plus distance]

have put me off ever attending one. Some people on here think they are the best thing since sliced bread and that's their opinion BUT the rest of us are entitled to voice our opinion too, even if they're negative. We can't all agree on everything!

What does annoy me though is the constant

harping on about them as if they are the solution to every question raised in swinging land. Not everyone lives within reasonable travelling distance to a social - Wales extends beyond the end of the M4! and not everyone has the desire or inclination to attend one. Telling people

to attend in order to get verified/more meets/get yourself known is not always the answer! Location. cost and time is a factor for some of us!

I luv the Forums and frequently post in the Lounge and a few of the others but I have to admit I don't come into the Wales Forum very often as it always seems to be full of threads

about Socials. Each to his own but surely ONE thread per social is more than enough? "
but your commenting on a thread that is suggesting one ? Asking for one in a particular area where there isn't one ? And they entitled to voice their opinion too.if you don't like them just don't come to them.if you did though you might be pleasantly surprised we never went for seven years .i find it hard to think you can have an opinion on something if you have never experienced one as you only got others experiences to colour your perception of what it might be like .poppyxx

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over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???"

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

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We used to attend socials but got pissed off with all the bitching and back stabbing that goes on, people slagging off their friends behind their backs, it made us wonder what the hell have they been saying about us ? So we distanced ourselves from them and lo and behold here came the death threats and abuse like bloody kids in a playground , and YES if your not in the clique your cast aside like lepers and before anyone else jumps on the band wagon and says they don't exist we have been attending socials for over 10 years when they used to be fun so I think we are in a informed position

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over a year ago

socials are what you make them .If you are a outgoing person and walk around chatting to people and flirting(which by the way I NEVER DO )its great fun .

IF you are a newbie and also happen to be nervous and shy to mingle maybe go with another couple who can introduce you to others..in short it all depends on your personality.

all this said we still would rather attend a party lol xxxlove you all Buck

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"We used to attend socials but got pissed off with all the bitching and back stabbing that goes on, people slagging off their friends behind their backs, it made us wonder what the hell have they been saying about us ? So we distanced ourselves from them and lo and behold here came the death threats and abuse like bloody kids in a playground , and YES if your not in the clique your cast aside like lepers and before anyone else jumps on the band wagon and says

they don't exist we have been attending socials for over 10 years when they used to be fun so I think we are in a informed position "
death threats from not attending .surely none is that popular that not attending something they get their lives threatened ?if so and you had them then surely the police is the way to go.we just turn up and chat to everyone .we are no clique or refuse to be part of any if anyone wants to form one or invite so to it we not Interested we are just us.we remain positive in life and in swinging ing and laugh in the face of adversity but death threats god thats not on.had a stalker or two but dealt with them appropriately .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so good that we all have a CHOICE to go or not to go whichever suits each and every one of us. Hell if we all liked the same thing it would be a boring site he he.

Personally I am just glad to be alive to be able to have the choice

Have a great week people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"socials are what you make them .If you are a outgoing person and walk around chatting to people and flirting(which by the way I NEVER DO )its great fun .

IF you are a newbie and also happen to be nervous and shy to mingle maybe go with another couple who can introduce you to others..in short it all depends on your personality.

all this said we still would rather attend a party lol xxxlove you all Buck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to attend socials but got pissed off with all the bitching and back stabbing that goes on, people slagging off their friends behind their backs, it made us wonder what the hell have they been saying about us ? So we distanced ourselves from them and lo and behold here came the death threats and abuse like bloody kids in a playground , and YES if your not in the clique your cast aside like lepers and before anyone else jumps on the band wagon and says

they don't exist we have been attending socials for over 10 years when they used to be fun so I think we are in a informed position death threats from not attending .surely none is that popular that not attending something they get their lives threatened ?if so and you had them then surely the police is the way to go.we just turn up and chat to everyone .we are no clique or refuse to be part of any if anyone wants to form one or invite so to it we not Interested we are just us.we remain positive in life and in swinging ing and laugh in the face of adversity but death threats god thats not on.had a stalker or two but dealt with them appropriately .poppyxx "

i didnt say we had death threats from not attending did i ? we had the threats because we wouldnt get caught up in there silly childish little games, and we are far from popular ask anyone we didnt join the site to gain brownie points and be the most popular out spoken people on here and to attend every social cause apparently thats the way to meet people we joined for sex pure and simple xxxx bad nessa

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over a year ago


"We used to attend socials but got pissed off with all the bitching and back stabbing that goes on, people slagging off their friends behind their backs, it made us wonder what the hell have they been saying about us ? So we distanced ourselves from them and lo and behold here came the death threats and abuse like bloody kids in a playground , and YES if your not in the clique your cast aside like lepers and before

anyone else jumps on the band wagon and says

they don't exist we have been attending socials for over 10 years when they used to be fun so I think we are in a informed position death threats from not attending .surely none is that

popular that not attending something they get their lives threatened ?if so and you had them then surely the police is the way to go.we just turn up and chat to everyone .we are no clique or refuse to be part of any if anyone wants to form one or invite so to it we not Interested we are just

us.we remain positive in life and in swinging ing and laugh in the face of adversity but death threats god thats not on.had a stalker or two but dealt with them appropriately .poppyxx

i didnt say we had death threats from not attending did i ? we had the threats because we

wouldnt get caught up in there silly childish little games, and we are far from popular ask anyone we didnt join the site to gain brownie points and be the most popular out spoken people on here and to attend every social cause apparently thats the way to meet people we joined for sex pure

and simple xxxx bad nessa "
we only attended them in the last year .so we joined for sex too .but we like friendships and find socials re a good way of meeting people and gauging their personality and what they look like in a safe environment rather than them turning up on your door step and realise their pics are fifteen years old or worse you drive to their place for two hours and find the same .and yes people do still put out of date pics on here and think its ok to do that.poppyxx

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"bad nessa "

THAT made me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here on and off a while,

Llanelli deserves its own social. I will organise it if enough people are interested.

Let me know. If it's just three or thirty, it's possible.

Lets do it. X "

so ummmmm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

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Because so many single men attend lol.

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over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

Because so many single men attend lol."
lol.actually they are in minority if you attend them.lol.mainly couples or single fems .lol.

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over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

Because so many single men attend lol."

I must be going to the wrong socials cos mostly couples and the single men are usually in the minority

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over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

Because so many single men attend lol.lol.actually they are in minority if you attend them.lol.mainly couples or single fems .lol. "

snap poppy i typed mine before i read yours lol

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"The main difference with meeting people on a night out and not a social is that you can do your own thing and still have a good night out with others not just the (swinging ) community I agree meet up at 1 place and stay there for an hour or so but then move on to different places I personally feel its a better more relaxed atmosphere like that and as for the cliques they are most definitely there and the last Social I went to I met probably the most rude unfriendly person I might have possibly ever met and plus the arrogant guys who think they are the king of the swingers so you a in a situation either leave and not have a night out or stay in the same room with these people , but if you had the option to go to a different pub / club with the people you are getting along with I would think it would be a better night all round for everyone , but that's just 1 mans opinion

_emo and holly arrange this the sat night out quite often and move around from pub to pub and they are good

nights, and we as swingers tend to stick as 1 group which is best saves any misunderstanding with the vanillas and when you get to said pub and are meeting different people for the 1st time how do you tell who swings and who doesnt?.

and you can do your own thing at a social the only thing you cant do is play at the venue hence the term social.

not everybody is going to get on with everybody there will always be differences of opinions, but if you respect the fact that you are all there for the same reason there is no reason why you cant enjoy and robbo we are going to make every effort to attend the next social after cdiff cos we are away for that 1 so look up the date of next 1 in forums stick your name down and come say hi and i will introduce you to peeps if your a bit shy cant say fairer than that lol

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That's very kind of you to say but I'm a very outgoing person and not very shy but if I ever do attend another social I will come introduce myself

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

Because so many single men attend 'lol.lol.actually they are in minority if you attend them.lol.mainly couples or single fems .lol. "

Thats certainly not represented in the lists posted in these threads but I stand corrected.

As stated we have attended and hated the experience as it was a shadow of the social nights we attended on a different site.

Dont really give a hoot about them to be honest, just fed up of threads preaching their the best thing since sliced bread. And then to be told you shouldn't put negative views about them in the forums is a step too far x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are to many socials, why are they all so full???

you make a very valid point my lovely girl xxxx

Because so many single men attend lol."
actually only five single men attended Bridgend social, the venue holds 70 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our own views so think this one is best left.....feel sorry 4 the guy who only out it up 2 sort a social out..... :-

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over a year ago


"We all have our own views so think this one is best left.....feel sorry 4 the guy who only out it up 2 sort a social out..... :- "
me tooo that was the whole point of the thread not to debate socials and give negative views to those that go to them .however as usual thats what a thread like this turns into .which is why my original view was it was to be a more positive organisational thread than a debate of socials Perse .however even that got outed as being a negative opinion. poppy .good luck if you do get one off the ground .let us know.poppyxc

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and Im closing this now

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