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"Hello 👋🏻 Does there need to be a label for it? Can you not be a couple that are looking for a Bi woman for a fun evening? Not shade or disrespect intended, I just think we worry about labels so much and in reality, we're all here to have a good, safe time 😁😁 " Thank you blessing no slight taken and yeah we see your point. We have tried that approach though and found it difficult. The problem for us is that 'we' see so many different shades of bi. Understand many may disagree just how we see it as what ladies who identify as curious or bi seem to want can be very wide and varied. Our experience in reality is that maybe the urge for either F or M alone overpowers the bi thing towards us. So we thought maybe we'd get more engagement if we tried to spell out what we are looking for  | |||
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"Polite answers please... so we have decided we'd like a Gay or Bi Woman to take total control of both of us at a play meet. with me only being allowed to touch the Mrs if permitted. I must be there though." So do you want her to take control sexually or BDSM wise or both? Do you want to play with the lady as well or just your wife if permitted? It sounds like you are looking for a fully bisexual Domme or at least a fully bisexual Switch. I think you need to explain more what you are looking for rather than labeling yourself. Xx | |||
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"Hello 👋🏻 Does there need to be a label for it? Can you not be a couple that are looking for a Bi woman for a fun evening? Not shade or disrespect intended, I just think we worry about labels so much and in reality, we're all here to have a good, safe time 😁😁 Thank you blessing no slight taken and yeah we see your point. We have tried that approach though and found it difficult. The problem for us is that 'we' see so many different shades of bi. Understand many may disagree just how we see it as what ladies who identify as curious or bi seem to want can be very wide and varied. Our experience in reality is that maybe the urge for either F or M alone overpowers the bi thing towards us. So we thought maybe we'd get more engagement if we tried to spell out what we are looking for "Spelling it out is absolutely the right way to go as transparency is key so I agree you've done the right thing. I may have misunderstood the post as it had question marks in the subject so wasn't sure if you were looking for opinions, advice, guidance, so apologies if I've misunderstood 😁 | |||
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"Hello 👋🏻 Does there need to be a label for it? Can you not be a couple that are looking for a Bi woman for a fun evening? Not shade or disrespect intended, I just think we worry about labels so much and in reality, we're all here to have a good, safe time 😁😁 " This is spot on , why label anything as long as you feel comfortable with the situation. If you're not then it's a conversation you have with your partner. It's not easy for men to relinquish control to another in these situations so make sure you're not putting yourself in a regrettable situation. Communication is key in a relationship whatever you're doing. | |||
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"Hello 👋🏻 Does there need to be a label for it? Can you not be a couple that are looking for a Bi woman for a fun evening? Not shade or disrespect intended, I just think we worry about labels so much and in reality, we're all here to have a good, safe time 😁😁 Thank you blessing no slight taken and yeah we see your point. We have tried that approach though and found it difficult. The problem for us is that 'we' see so many different shades of bi. Understand many may disagree just how we see it as what ladies who identify as curious or bi seem to want can be very wide and varied. Our experience in reality is that maybe the urge for either F or M alone overpowers the bi thing towards us. So we thought maybe we'd get more engagement if we tried to spell out what we are looking for
Spelling it out is absolutely the right way to go as transparency is key so I agree you've done the right thing.
I may have misunderstood the post as it had question marks in the subject so wasn't sure if you were looking for opinions, advice, guidance, so apologies if I've misunderstood 😁"Thank you  I guess we just wanted to start a discussion really to get dome views about our dynamic. And its definitely giving us food for thought- will add more to the thread when we've chewed it over a bit | |||
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