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By *ardThrusting OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Rhymney

Are there any single women looking to meet single men ?

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
4 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

I'd have thought so.

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By *9alMan
4 weeks ago

Bridgend


"Are there any single women looking to meet single men ? "

unfortunately there are very few single women on this site who actually meet, good luck with your search

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By *ardThrusting OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Rhymney

Haven’t seen many tbh those that do usually only do clubs or couples

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By *ardThrusting OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Rhymney

Yeah thought as much tbh

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By *ovinglife!40Man
4 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Are there any single women looking to meet single men ? "

Loads.

But they can be very picky.

If you were in the minority, wouldn't you choose the best??

I certainly would.

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Plenty. Unfortunately the number of single men vastly outnumbered all other demographics here, which make single women seem scarce.

In addition, there seems to be be a number of single men on here who behave so deplorably, that some single women have decided it's easier to block single men from.makibg contact, than be subjected to all the shit.

Not saying it's just single men doing this, but a higher percentile due to the disparity of groups.

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By *tkatninetyWoman
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

There are plenty , though I agree with Morphia , the communication and attitude from a lot of men here really is a turn off and so personally I find it best to establish connections on the social scene before meeting intimately.. I know many feel the same way

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By *ischievous ElfWoman
4 weeks ago

here there and everywhere


"There are plenty , though I agree with Morphia , the communication and attitude from a lot of men here really is a turn off and so personally I find it best to establish connections on the social scene before meeting intimately.. I know many feel the same way"

This, single guys who make the effort to attend an organised social event tend to get more opportunities. It shows they are genuinely, and it's give a chance to see if there's a vibe/connection in person

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By *anderingWelshGuyMan
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Search function bud

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By *anderingWelshGuyMan
4 weeks ago

Swansea


"There are plenty , though I agree with Morphia , the communication and attitude from a lot of men here really is a turn off and so personally I find it best to establish connections on the social scene before meeting intimately.. I know many feel the same way"

Hard to disagree, i have been shown some of the messages and guys you need to do better

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By *3xymamaWoman
4 weeks ago

...., Wales


"There are plenty , though I agree with Morphia , the communication and attitude from a lot of men here really is a turn off and so personally I find it best to establish connections on the social scene before meeting intimately.. I know many feel the same way

This, single guys who make the effort to attend an organised social event tend to get more opportunities. It shows they are genuinely, and it's give a chance to see if there's a vibe/connection in person"

Exactly this! It's a long time since I've agreed to meet anyone from just messaging alone. It's nice to meet at social events and clubs. You can be sure of safety and if you've been catfished too ☺️

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By *icked-GameCouple
4 weeks ago

Antarctica

Yes, we've met most at socials and that's the best way to do it

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By *lessing2016Woman
4 weeks ago

Cardiff


"There are plenty , though I agree with Morphia , the communication and attitude from a lot of men here really is a turn off and so personally I find it best to establish connections on the social scene before meeting intimately.. I know many feel the same way"

I'm not single, but we play solo and I agree with the above. It's an unfortunate circumstance of a small group (comparatively given the men:women ratio) spoiling it for the many. I'll chat to single guys, who make it though the filters and respect my boundaries, but in terms of meeting, my safety is more important to me, so organised socials and clubs are the best way to get to know me irl.

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By *hadowSirenWoman
4 weeks ago

Near

As all the other ladies have said, it’s hard being a genuine single male on here and they saturate the pool.

As Blessing said, my safety is my priority and that alongside time wasters is why I very rarely now have 1-1 meetings first - it will usually be at an event or a club as I then at least know they’re serious about actually meeting and aren’t just using the site to get their dick wet. If they’re a no show, you haven’t then wasted your time and still get to enjoy meeting other people/hanging out with friends and generally have a good time.

Those single guys that are keen to prove their worth on here will make the effort to attend social events to stand out above the time wasters and that for me definitely gives extra brownie points

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By *anderingWelshGuyMan
4 weeks ago

Swansea


"As all the other ladies have said, it’s hard being a genuine single male on here and they saturate the pool.

As Blessing said, my safety is my priority and that alongside time wasters is why I very rarely now have 1-1 meetings first - it will usually be at an event or a club as I then at least know they’re serious about actually meeting and aren’t just using the site to get their dick wet. If they’re a no show, you haven’t then wasted your time and still get to enjoy meeting other people/hanging out with friends and generally have a good time.

Those single guys that are keen to prove their worth on here will make the effort to attend social events to stand out above the time wasters and that for me definitely gives extra brownie points"

Hope you agree I'm a good dude 😎

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By *hadowSirenWoman
4 weeks ago

Near


"As all the other ladies have said, it’s hard being a genuine single male on here and they saturate the pool.

As Blessing said, my safety is my priority and that alongside time wasters is why I very rarely now have 1-1 meetings first - it will usually be at an event or a club as I then at least know they’re serious about actually meeting and aren’t just using the site to get their dick wet. If they’re a no show, you haven’t then wasted your time and still get to enjoy meeting other people/hanging out with friends and generally have a good time.

Those single guys that are keen to prove their worth on here will make the effort to attend social events to stand out above the time wasters and that for me definitely gives extra brownie points

Hope you agree I'm a good dude 😎"

Goes without saying!

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By *evilWoman16Woman
4 weeks ago

Maesteg

Unfortunately the small minority of men really ruin it for the good ones. The amount of messages I get can be overwhelming but furthermore most of the messages are absolutely vulgar

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
4 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

OP, it's possible to meet single women without going to social events, just don't be a dick when messaging, don't be too pushy and make sure your initial message catches the eye. Good luck.

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By *aleSilverMan
4 weeks ago

Barry


"Are there any single women looking to meet single men ? "

Yes! Be polite, respectful, and your time will come.

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By *hadowSirenWoman
4 weeks ago

Near


"OP, it's possible to meet single women without going to social events, just don't be a dick when messaging, don't be too pushy and make sure your initial message catches the eye. Good luck. "

This. Don’t send us a ‘hi/hey/wanna fuck’ with a million pics of your dick from different angles or alongside various objects to show me how big it is. I’ve seen hundreds of dick pics - the size doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to use it!

Read the profile. Pick up on things in her bio. Find a mutual ground and send a message based on it. If you take the time to write me a message longer than one sentence, especially if you pick up on things in my profile, I’m more inclined to reply, even if it is just to say ‘thanks but you aren’t my type’. Single word messages are most likely going to be deleted without even being read

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By *anderingWelshGuyMan
4 weeks ago

Swansea


"As all the other ladies have said, it’s hard being a genuine single male on here and they saturate the pool.

As Blessing said, my safety is my priority and that alongside time wasters is why I very rarely now have 1-1 meetings first - it will usually be at an event or a club as I then at least know they’re serious about actually meeting and aren’t just using the site to get their dick wet. If they’re a no show, you haven’t then wasted your time and still get to enjoy meeting other people/hanging out with friends and generally have a good time.

Those single guys that are keen to prove their worth on here will make the effort to attend social events to stand out above the time wasters and that for me definitely gives extra brownie points

Hope you agree I'm a good dude 😎

Goes without saying! "
..

Well thank you 😉

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By *ardThrusting OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Rhymney

Thanks for the advice everyone, I have tried being polite, not pushy, banter,read profile specifics usually attach a face pic…

But still usually don’t get replies. I understand women are over loaded with messages regularly. And it can be a challenge to keep up, but thanks everyone hopefully I’ll meet some / most of you at events in future, I think that’s the way to go

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
4 weeks ago

midlands & n wales


"OP, it's possible to meet single women without going to social events, just don't be a dick when messaging, don't be too pushy and make sure your initial message catches the eye. Good luck.

This. Don’t send us a ‘hi/hey/wanna fuck’ with a million pics of your dick from different angles or alongside various objects to show me how big it is. I’ve seen hundreds of dick pics - the size doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to use it!

Read the profile. Pick up on things in her bio. Find a mutual ground and send a message based on it. If you take the time to write me a message longer than one sentence, especially if you pick up on things in my profile, I’m more inclined to reply, even if it is just to say ‘thanks but you aren’t my type’. Single word messages are most likely going to be deleted without even being read"

Great advice here, but even then you have to realise that you just might not get a reply......

Part and parcel of being on fab as a guy.

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By *ayfabMan
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

Mostly they like couple or BBC or female accompanionship.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
4 weeks ago

mystic valley


"As all the other ladies have said, it’s hard being a genuine single male on here and they saturate the pool.

As Blessing said, my safety is my priority and that alongside time wasters is why I very rarely now have 1-1 meetings first - it will usually be at an event or a club as I then at least know they’re serious about actually meeting and aren’t just using the site to get their dick wet. If they’re a no show, you haven’t then wasted your time and still get to enjoy meeting other people/hanging out with friends and generally have a good time.

Those single guys that are keen to prove their worth on here will make the effort to attend social events to stand out above the time wasters and that for me definitely gives extra brownie points"

Its very rare I message single women here now, as the best way to meet them is via socials and events.

95% of single guys dont attend them as they simply dont put any effort in.

Its the same old case of you get out what you put in, and its always worked for me

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By *iketomeetuWoman
4 weeks ago

Swansea

I consider myself extremely lucky that the single men I’ve met through messaging alone have been a pleasure.

I always try to respond, but it’s not always possible, and my profile states what I need in order to meet a gent, so reading a ladies profile is always helpful I think.

Genuine open friendly conversation is what attracts me, and that can be lacking. Understanding what fab is like from a ladies perspective is important I think also.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
4 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

It's possible to meet without attending clubs/social events. Of the 8 verifications I've displayed, only 2 have been from an organised social, and 1 of those was off the hosts. A word of warning to the single guys, a social event isn't an easy way to meet women. You've still got to put in the leg work, and if you think being rejected on here is a kick in the nuts, wait until it happens face to face. The social events are great for those who know everyone. I'm pretty sure some will disagree with me on this, but it's an open forum where people can air their own thoughts and findings. I'm not knocking the organised socials in any way shape or form, everyone involved in putting them together do an amazing job.

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By *ischievous ElfWoman
4 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

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By *ischievous ElfWoman
4 weeks ago

here there and everywhere


"It's possible to meet without attending clubs/social events. Of the 8 verifications I've displayed, only 2 have been from an organised social, and 1 of those was off the hosts. A word of warning to the single guys, a social event isn't an easy way to meet women. You've still got to put in the leg work, and if you think being rejected on here is a kick in the nuts, wait until it happens face to face. The social events are great for those who know everyone. I'm pretty sure some will disagree with me on this, but it's an open forum where people can air their own thoughts and findings. I'm not knocking the organised socials in any way shape or form, everyone involved in putting them together do an amazing job. "

While you are entitled to your opinion, ill disagree with the comment that they are for those who know everyone. As a host myself, events are set up to be AS welcoming to those new to the scene/or socials, as well as seasoned veterans, and I know this is the case for other hosts.

The whole reason I DO know everyone, was because the welcome I got in the socials when I was new and quiet (Don't laugh!) And didn't know anyone

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
4 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)


"It's possible to meet without attending clubs/social events. Of the 8 verifications I've displayed, only 2 have been from an organised social, and 1 of those was off the hosts. A word of warning to the single guys, a social event isn't an easy way to meet women. You've still got to put in the leg work, and if you think being rejected on here is a kick in the nuts, wait until it happens face to face. The social events are great for those who know everyone. I'm pretty sure some will disagree with me on this, but it's an open forum where people can air their own thoughts and findings. I'm not knocking the organised socials in any way shape or form, everyone involved in putting them together do an amazing job.

While you are entitled to your opinion, ill disagree with the comment that they are for those who know everyone. As a host myself, events are set up to be AS welcoming to those new to the scene/or socials, as well as seasoned veterans, and I know this is the case for other hosts.

The whole reason I DO know everyone, was because the welcome I got in the socials when I was new and quiet (Don't laugh!) And didn't know anyone"

Disagreement/agreements and explanations are the reasons forums should exist. I get your point about hosts being welcoming, and I agree with you. As I said, I think they do a brilliant job in the organising and the help they offer. From my personal experience I found one social event quite daunting. Despite my efforts to engage in chats, nothing materialised into a conversation. My point in all this, is that it's equally as difficult to strike up a conversation in person as it is on here.

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By *ischievous ElfWoman
4 weeks ago

here there and everywhere


"It's possible to meet without attending clubs/social events. Of the 8 verifications I've displayed, only 2 have been from an organised social, and 1 of those was off the hosts. A word of warning to the single guys, a social event isn't an easy way to meet women. You've still got to put in the leg work, and if you think being rejected on here is a kick in the nuts, wait until it happens face to face. The social events are great for those who know everyone. I'm pretty sure some will disagree with me on this, but it's an open forum where people can air their own thoughts and findings. I'm not knocking the organised socials in any way shape or form, everyone involved in putting them together do an amazing job.

While you are entitled to your opinion, ill disagree with the comment that they are for those who know everyone. As a host myself, events are set up to be AS welcoming to those new to the scene/or socials, as well as seasoned veterans, and I know this is the case for other hosts.

The whole reason I DO know everyone, was because the welcome I got in the socials when I was new and quiet (Don't laugh!) And didn't know anyone

Disagreement/agreements and explanations are the reasons forums should exist. I get your point about hosts being welcoming, and I agree with you. As I said, I think they do a brilliant job in the organising and the help they offer. From my personal experience I found one social event quite daunting. Despite my efforts to engage in chats, nothing materialised into a conversation. My point in all this, is that it's equally as difficult to strike up a conversation in person as it is on here. "

Can be difficult, I don't think equally so. For every 1 decent guy on my inbox, there's 50 dickheads,and the likelihood is that 1, will get lost in the sea. That wouldn't happen at a social.

While I respect you say that isn't the setting for you (although I've seen you put your name down for some haven't I!?) I do think it's worth people trying to attend one to see how they find it

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
4 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)


"It's possible to meet without attending clubs/social events. Of the 8 verifications I've displayed, only 2 have been from an organised social, and 1 of those was off the hosts. A word of warning to the single guys, a social event isn't an easy way to meet women. You've still got to put in the leg work, and if you think being rejected on here is a kick in the nuts, wait until it happens face to face. The social events are great for those who know everyone. I'm pretty sure some will disagree with me on this, but it's an open forum where people can air their own thoughts and findings. I'm not knocking the organised socials in any way shape or form, everyone involved in putting them together do an amazing job.

While you are entitled to your opinion, ill disagree with the comment that they are for those who know everyone. As a host myself, events are set up to be AS welcoming to those new to the scene/or socials, as well as seasoned veterans, and I know this is the case for other hosts.

The whole reason I DO know everyone, was because the welcome I got in the socials when I was new and quiet (Don't laugh!) And didn't know anyone

Disagreement/agreements and explanations are the reasons forums should exist. I get your point about hosts being welcoming, and I agree with you. As I said, I think they do a brilliant job in the organising and the help they offer. From my personal experience I found one social event quite daunting. Despite my efforts to engage in chats, nothing materialised into a conversation. My point in all this, is that it's equally as difficult to strike up a conversation in person as it is on here.

Can be difficult, I don't think equally so. For every 1 decent guy on my inbox, there's 50 dickheads,and the likelihood is that 1, will get lost in the sea. That wouldn't happen at a social.

While I respect you say that isn't the setting for you (although I've seen you put your name down for some haven't I!?) I do think it's worth people trying to attend one to see how they find it"

Definitely, everyone should at least go to 1 organised event to see if they're for them. I have indeed put my name down as a maybe for the Cardiff social. Just waiting to see if someone will accompany me.

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By *iketomeetuWoman
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Socials are a great way to get your face seen. And the social side is lovely when you feel you are around ‘your people’.

I think it’s worth a shot trying socials, not going with too much expectation, just being happy to take up space in a room and seeing what happens. There are quite a few sub groups here also like geeks groups, gamers groups etc and they tend to fit well with some of the more introverted people sometimes. and of course there’s the kink scene to dip your toes into.

Maybe a bit off topic but there’s ways to open doors to find what suits

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By *elshsupriseMan
4 weeks ago

swansea

There wa an academic paper a few years (pre covid) that found for every single woman on a main stream dating website, there are 17 men where it’s closer to 1 in 75 on dating sites

At this very moment 301 are publishing they are meeting atm where 19 women are meeting. Some women will be looking for women (and men often use the fabguys for m4a meets so some meets will be f4f) so is about 1 female to 15 guys

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By *es9292xWoman
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Single men here so far making me choose staying Single and even starting doubting if I even like them anymore 🤣🤣🤣

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By *elshsupriseMan
4 weeks ago

swansea


"Single men here so far making me choose staying Single and even starting doubting if I even like them anymore 🤣🤣🤣"

Honestly hearing horror stories from my female friends I don’t blame you 😂

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