FabSwingers.com forum: condoms

By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

silly question no. 1.

why does almost every guy (except one) expect me to bring condoms... responsibility should lie on both sides, not just on me... am I wrong?

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
10 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

You're not wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Because they are morons thinking they can con bareback or a condom halfway down their cock that falls off. Probably rubb into your pussy lips and clit before they cover. Stop fucking little boys. Condoma due to sizing and feel, should be the man's job.

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By *ornballs82Man
10 weeks ago

Newport

Some people are probably arrogant enough to think ‘well if she wants me to wear one she can bring em’.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thank you guys😘

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By *ard n readyMan
10 weeks ago

south wales

Your definitely not wrong, I always take my own

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By *idnightMattMan
10 weeks ago

Llanelli

I don't mind either way. Depends on the woman's preference. Boys have an issue. Men will bring their own.

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By *ilffadMan
10 weeks ago

swansea

Definitely need to take responsibility and bring some

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By *3achyBWoman
10 weeks ago

Aberpennar

One of the sexiest starts to a play meet, can be when that confident man puts the condoms on the table & you know it's game on & nothing needed to be said X

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By *exymarvelMan
10 weeks ago

cardiff

"silly question no. 1.

why does almost every guy (except one) expect me to bring condoms... responsibility should lie on both sides, not just on me... am I wrong?"

If he wants to play he needs to be packing

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By *erlin90Couple
10 weeks ago

Brynmawr

You're absolutely right, condoms are a shared responsibility xx

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

No, you're not wrong. If a woman is buying condoms (or not) I won't have any knowledge of it; I always buy my own.

However, usually we've already discussed it over the preceding weeks/months before our date when we've talked about latex allergies, condom preferences etc and, invariably, we know who's buying what.

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By *lackFridayHotTubCouple
10 weeks ago

san portablo

Definitely bring your own manners cost nothing!

Although saying that we tend to put a bowl out when we have a group play it sends a clear message and avoids any embarrassment

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By *rincess_Peach1992Woman
10 weeks ago

Torfaen

Nope condoms are a shared responsibility, neither should be solely responsible for bringing them 🙂

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By *3xymamaWoman
10 weeks ago

...., Wales

I carry condoms, but a guy knows what fits him, size, comfort etc. I've met guys previously who have used the condoms that I carry and then can't perform as it 'doesn't fit' I sometimes think it's just a ploy not to use them

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
10 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"I carry condoms, but a guy knows what fits him, size, comfort etc. I've met guys previously who have used the condoms that I carry and then can't perform as it 'doesn't fit' I sometimes think it's just a ploy not to use them"

To be honest, I'd never bought condoms until about 6 months ago. I had no idea on sizings... I mean, what's regular, large and XL in dunkies? Not a clue. Anyways, I popped into a corner shop and bought a packet of regular sized ones. Later on that night when I tried slipping him on, it was never going to fit. Luckily for me, the lady I was with had XL ones in her bedside cabinet, unluckily for her, they also didn't fit. I've still no idea what size would fit me, there's no try before you buy option (that I'm aware of).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thank you for all 😘

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By *exy but Shy30Couple
10 weeks ago

cardiff

"You're absolutely right, condoms are a shared responsibility xx"

Totally agree xxx

P.s. you have blocked messages from mf couples, even though that's who you are looking for. Just in case it was a mistake and you weren't aware xxx

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By *aarv80Man
10 weeks ago

Crumlin

Absolutely the man's responsibility to bring them....

I insist on bringing my own as I know for sure they haven't been tampered with, that's not directed at anyone in particular.... but you hear the horror stories and it's just not worth it

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By *eekingcoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Ammanford

We carry condoms and femidoms so non of that it dont fit Bullshit. If it aint fitting in the femidom it aint fitting in me. The condoms we do carry yes we have latex free but the ones we carry are for mr size. Ind it aint no king size lmao. If he ever goes and plays on his own he will take the bumbag thats full of what ever he need to have fun. Aint no rooky mistakes here.

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By *hiversMan
10 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

Not wrong, I always bring some.

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By *icked-GameCouple
10 weeks ago

Antarctica

It's a basic requirement for everyone to be prepared, I've always had some ready in wallet

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By *azza26Woman
10 weeks ago

Wrexham

Agreed that it should be a shared responsibility but I always carry a supply of condoms and femidoms (and lube!) if I think a meet is going to be more than just a social.

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By *oppyrose97Couple
10 weeks ago

Swansea

He always carries his own as standard ones don't fit, for any guys we play with, we'd expect them to bring their own but have some available if at home

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By *issing DoryCouple
10 weeks ago

the seaside

We always carry ones that fit Kisses and regular ones for any meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
10 weeks ago

Thank you for all replies 😘

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By *econdSideQuestWoman
10 weeks ago

SWANSEA

Honestly, the amount of guys who have said, oh I don't have one, does it matter, and then they pout slightly when presented with one is ridiculous 🙄

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By *bwBratWoman
10 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

"One of the sexiest starts to a play meet, can be when that confident man puts the condoms on the table & you know it's game on & nothing needed to be said X"

Absolutely agree! The relief and reassurance you feel when you know you're in safe(r) hands ... more relaxed = better play

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By *3xymamaWoman
10 weeks ago

...., Wales

"Honestly, the amount of guys who have said, oh I don't have one, does it matter, and then they pout slightly when presented with one is ridiculous 🙄"

This ^^^ they pout, or say they can't sustain an erection or perform if they have to wear a condom..

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By *3achyBWoman
10 weeks ago

Aberpennar

I do provide my own btw, I'm latex free plus most men don't even know what size they need. Had a conversation last night with a guy, about our 1st meet over 10 years ago, he brought regular with him & they clearly wouldn't fit. I got him a large, he didn't even realise they came in different sizes

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By *ir Rob Bin of CocksleyMan
10 weeks ago

Cwmbran

"Honestly, the amount of guys who have said, oh I don't have one, does it matter, and then they pout slightly when presented with one is ridiculous 🙄

This ^^^ they pout, or say they can't sustain an erection or perform if they have to wear a condom.."
It can be a mood killer sometimes when you put one on so the key is to be prepared with condoms you are familiar with, obvs bring them yourself so you know your own kit and know how to put one on, this may mean you practice, don't leave it to others to suit yourself up!

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By *uckyNineMan
9 weeks ago

prescot

"I do provide my own btw, I'm latex free plus most men don't even know what size they need. Had a conversation last night with a guy, about our 1st meet over 10 years ago, he brought regular with him & they clearly wouldn't fit. I got him a large, he didn't even realise they came in different sizes

Maybe he did but was making sure you knew only large fitted too…

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By *ude Not 2Couple
9 weeks ago

Barry.

‘… dunkies’. Straight outta the ‘80s!

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By *ude Not 2Couple
9 weeks ago

Barry.

I’ve had guys literally shrink in front of me when we stop to use condoms but there’s no other option so it’s back to the beginning - which I don’t mind at all.

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By *ackAgainOutWestMan
9 weeks ago

West Wales

Sad that OP had to post this, and another reason single guys get a bad reputation on here.

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By *3achyBWoman
9 weeks ago

Aberpennar

Maybe he did but was making sure you knew only large fitted too…

Left him wondering why I only had large & XL

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