FabSwingers.com forum: Women Dislikes and Switch-off List

By *RTHURXXL OP Man
11 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

Some Educational/Teaching Question for all the Women here:

What pharases , questions, words a Man message you that really switch you of and you really Dislike/Hate

( Beside Sending or Requesting Genitals Photo)

We (Men) would really appreciate your answers as that will bring huge benifit for US and maybe will make your time here more interesting rather than annoyin.

PS: personal preferences Varies.

Thank you all .

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
11 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

I've discovered that women don't like being called "chicks" on here. Avoid that word if possible.

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

I am not wine or cheese so please don't call me mature, I am in fact quite childish

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By *ngry IngridWoman
11 weeks ago

Cardigan

My boss called me a woman of age last week. He said it was a compliment. I said I was offended!

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By *RTHURXXL OP Man
11 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

A reply from a lovely lady who unfortunately Can not post on the forum:

"Pics of you with other women is an ick for me, makes me not want to meet.

Asking me how’s my day is going, I get asked this every day about 10 times. Repeatedly answering I find exhausting.

Through questioning you prove that you’ve not read my profile"

End of quote

Note: She did not mean Me in the "you" above...

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By *evilWoman16Woman
11 weeks ago

Maesteg

Saying things like * any females looking to play tonight*.

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By *3xymamaWoman
11 weeks ago

...., Wales

Meet now?

I'm in the area for work.

My reply is usually "I'm not a tourist attraction or a drive through"

Fancy a fuck?

Pictures of men hanging out of other women

Men in women's underwear

Videos of guys w*nking, especially if they have dirty fingernails.. no chance in those filthy hands getting near me.

There are lots of things 😂 I'm just a grumpy old woman 😂

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By *rincessArielWoman
11 weeks ago

The bottom of the Ocean

"Meet now?

I'm in the area for work.

My reply is usually "I'm not a tourist attraction or a drive through"

I am so pinching this! 😂😂😂

I hate being called derogatory names during sex. Like "dirty little slut" it's a complete turn off and I just don't want to continue once it's been said.

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

"Meet now?

I'm in the area for work.

My reply is usually "I'm not a tourist attraction or a drive through"

I am so pinching this! 😂😂😂

I hate being called derogatory names during sex. Like "dirty little slut" it's a complete turn off and I just don't want to continue once it's been said. "

This is why this thread is potentially redundant, we all like different things, I love being called a dirty slut and would probably not want to continue if someone whispered sweet nothings in my ear.

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By *3achyBWoman
11 weeks ago

Aberpennar

"Meet now?

I'm in the area for work.

My reply is usually "I'm not a tourist attraction or a drive through"

I am so pinching this! 😂😂😂

I hate being called derogatory names during sex. Like "dirty little slut" it's a complete turn off and I just don't want to continue once it's been said.

This is why this thread is potentially redundant, we all like different things, I love being called a dirty slut and would probably not want to continue if someone whispered sweet nothings in my ear. "

& I quite like the pics of men involved in other activities. I want proof that they're sexually active. Much prefer a cock to be hidden than up front in a pic on its own X

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

"They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉"

What?

Harlot is such a good word!

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By *rincessArielWoman
11 weeks ago

The bottom of the Ocean

"They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉

What?

Harlot is such a good word! "

And my profile is literally a mermaid! 😂

Siren is perfectly fine with me Nero.

Just maybe not a Gorgon

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉

What?

Harlot is such a good word! "

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I love "harlot", but one has to tread carefully here. 🙂

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉

What?

Harlot is such a good word!

And my profile is literally a mermaid! 😂

Siren is perfectly fine with me Nero.

Just maybe not a Gorgon

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Duly noted, dear Sírén! 💌

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By *evilWoman16Woman
11 weeks ago

Maesteg

Sending the same ten messages in a row then asking* no interest?*

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By *lower SergeMan
11 weeks ago

cardiff

I’ve found that when I call a woman Colin or Alan she gets really annoyed

“Thanks for the fuck Colin!”

Immediate anger

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

Just called everyone Dave, League of Gentlemen style.

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By *ancardiff7Man
11 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

"Just called everyone Dave, League of Gentlemen style. "

You're my wife now! 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I really don't like:

- when guys offer me money for sex... and they offer it every day.

- when they send me 20 messages in 10 minutes and then get offended because I didn't reply right away.

- when they ask if I'm available for fuck now, or if I'll give him a BJ.

- when guys about twenty years younger try to convince me they'd be good FWBs.

- when a guy constantly meets up with a different woman, saying he's here to taste every single one.

- I've been lucky to have met some nice guys here recently... not just for sex, but also for spending quality time together. So there are pros and cons to being on fab.

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

[Removed by poster at 27/02/26 08:33:22]

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

"They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉"

If I was meeting someone called Nero, I'd have to be careful not to refer to them as a fiddler

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"They like to be called Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Baroness or Viscountess. Do not call them sirens, harlots or gorgons. 😉

If I was meeting someone called Nero, I'd have to be careful not to refer to them as a fiddler "

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By *issing DoryCouple
11 weeks ago

the seaside

I dont like:

Being referred to as female, I am a woman.

"Fuck now, meet now, Im working in your area" messages.

Single guys messaging leaving Kisses out of the conversation. We are a couple ffs.

Being sent dick pics, if we want to see what you got then we will ask.

Our profile being ignored.

Empty compliments like beautiful, sexy etc when you dont know what we look like.

Pushy messages.

Dory x

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By *izandpaulCouple
11 weeks ago

merseyside

Loads of words but mainly in the sphere of babe, hun, darling etc

Describing themselves as Alpha Male, generally means delusional under achiever.

Describing yourself as hot, great lover, handsome etc.,

Surely that's for the lady to ascertain.

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By *izandpaulCouple
11 weeks ago

merseyside

"I’ve found that when I call a woman Colin or Alan she gets really annoyed

“Thanks for the fuck Colin!”

Immediate anger "

Coughed out my tea with laughter.

Very clever, very good.

Liz (colin). Xx 🤣🤣🤣

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