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Older women want younger men??

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By *ranquilabyss OP   Man
16 weeks ago

Llanelli

I am 28, always wanted to sleep with an older woman.. Something about they have more experience and crave attention. My question is, do they like younger guys and are older women are feral/sexual compared to when they were younger? Either way, that is my next goal. Llanelli, 28

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By *orphia2003Woman
16 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Maybe you should start by realising you can't group all older women into the same category, assume they all like the same things or behave in the same way.

Furthermore, we are people, not commodities.

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By *lessing2016Woman
16 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Crave attention" - you may want to rethink this phrasing. Sounds patronising and like you're doing them a favour by giving them your attention when chances are, they have all the attention they want/need.

Yes, some like younger men and others don't. The same was you like older women and some 28 year olds don't.

In terms of sexual appetite, you are asking a lot of broad questions, especially when everyone is individual and different.

I'm sure all the older women is S.Wales will be giddy at the idea of being your next 'goal'.

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By *erald 1999Man
15 weeks ago

carmarthen

Thats the trouble with being young ? You sound a little selfish if im honest , it seems like its all about your needs , my advice if you are seeking an older woman talk to her find out what she likes , and after all she has to actually like you ?

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By *ornyhubbyhornywifeCouple
15 weeks ago

Near Neath

I will meet younger guys but definitely ain't craving attention. Most older women ain't

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By *leasureQueenWoman
15 weeks ago

Wales

This post made my laugh harder than it should have.

As a more mature woman who unequivocally and unashamedly owns her preference for younger men and women I would definitely not entertain being someone’s “goal”.

As for craving attention, good lord you are so wrong. Personally, I don’t need validation or attention, I’m happy in my own skin and know my worth.

If and when I indulge with younger playmates, those people have treated me with respect and like a human being, not a fetish or something to tick off their fuck it list.

Back to the drawing board for you I think young man, but good luck with your endeavours

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By *3xymamaWoman
15 weeks ago

...., Wales


"This post made my laugh harder than it should have.

As a more mature woman who unequivocally and unashamedly owns her preference for younger men and women I would definitely not entertain being someone’s “goal”.

As for craving attention, good lord you are so wrong. Personally, I don’t need validation or attention, I’m happy in my own skin and know my worth.

If and when I indulge with younger playmates, those people have treated me with respect and like a human being, not a fetish or something to tick off their fuck it list.

Back to the drawing board for you I think young man, but good luck with your endeavours

"

Well said PQ...I couldn't have put it any better

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By *RR2021Couple
15 weeks ago

Cardiff or Dubai

Sometimes people's versions of "older woman" varies. So when I turned 37 some younger boys started talking to me in that way, oh I love the older woman! But that isn't my kink or horn and I didn't think 37 classified me as an older woman. Obviously I was older than the guy but he was only around 30!! I was thinking he meant women in their 60s for example!

Perhaps yes, for some you will be great for but perhaps take time to get to know the person and if it's their kink too.

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By *hadowSirenWoman
15 weeks ago

Near

I personally prefer younger guys and ironically, I preferred older guys when I was younger myself. However, I am not a goal nor a trophy to be achieved. Everyone is different. You may be young, but if you cannot hold a conversation or bring a bit of banter to the table, then I simply won’t even entertain you. That applies to people of any age or gender.

Everyone is different. Just because we’re ‘older’ doesn’t mean we’re desperate for attention or need a ‘boost’ from a younger man to bolster our self confidence

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By *inge84Woman
15 weeks ago

RCT

His only veri is younger than him too

Haha

I love a younger guy, but not an arrogant one lol

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
15 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

My preference was to meet older ladies, as I believed they'd have a more mature mindset. Being on here and chatting to/meeting older ladies has proved my theory wrong.

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By *rankie22Man
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

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By *rankie22Man
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Classy and looking for a few hours of chat and fun to build up starting off with kissing and light teasing...say hi

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By *ranquilabyss OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Llanelli

In hindsight, I feel like I have worded it wrong. I am always respectful and listen to women. Speak about kinks, turn ons and offs. Women are not objects or a goal, I worded it wrong. There needs to be a connection and attraction, communication and trust. I am new to this so I apologise for the wording. I realise that there is attraction to younger men as I am attracted to older women

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By *ike933Man
15 weeks ago

Wrexham

I love my older woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Younger guy here , love older women

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Younger guy here, would love to chat to a mature woman ☺️ please send me a message if interested. More than happy to send face pics etc xx

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By *icetohaveMan
14 weeks ago

Dunvant

I think you have your statement the wrong way around.

It's you young men who crave older ladies attention.

All women are sexy as hell but some of them don't realize how sexy they actually are.

Don't make the mistake of disrespecting them by saying they crave your attention, because believe me they don't.

You've heard the saying there's a million fish in the see, your just a small one starting out in life

Learn quick as you'll end up being a lonely old man with an attitude like your

Sorry to be blunt but I'm trying to give you some needed advice here.

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By *lessing2016Woman
14 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I think you have your statement the wrong way around.

It's you young men who crave older ladies attention.

All women are sexy as hell but some of them don't realize how sexy they actually are.

Don't make the mistake of disrespecting them by saying they crave your attention, because believe me they don't.

You've heard the saying there's a million fish in the see, your just a small one starting out in life

Learn quick as you'll end up being a lonely old man with an attitude like your

Sorry to be blunt but I'm trying to give you some needed advice here. "

He's posted above that he's seen the comments and acknowledged he's worded things poorly and been a little short sighted. All we can hope is that people learn from feedback 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

He looked for advice and got slaughtered 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"In hindsight, I feel like I have worded it wrong. I am always respectful and listen to women. Speak about kinks, turn ons and offs. Women are not objects or a goal, I worded it wrong. There needs to be a connection and attraction, communication and trust. I am new to this so I apologise for the wording. I realise that there is attraction to younger men as I am attracted to older women "

Big respect for this

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By *oobie76Man
14 weeks ago

Cardiff

I just came here for the comments .

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"He looked for advice and got slaughtered 😂"
he did !!!!! Say hi to us , meeting again soon

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By *ubbs-68Woman
14 weeks ago

Hiraeth


"In hindsight, I feel like I have worded it wrong. I am always respectful and listen to women. Speak about kinks, turn ons and offs. Women are not objects or a goal, I worded it wrong. There needs to be a connection and attraction, communication and trust. I am new to this so I apologise for the wording. I realise that there is attraction to younger men as I am attracted to older women

Big respect for this "

I agree . He’s new to the site and finding his way around Fab . Remember we were all new once . Be kind

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By *coutDWoman
14 weeks ago

Pontypridd


"He looked for advice and got slaughtered 😂"

posts like this are great for helping us see who isn't a kind person though

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