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Most guys are total timewasters

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By *ewishcouple OP   Couple
17 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Guys arrange to meet , get right upto the day before then decide to ignore, especially when you try to get their address, or they say they can't acom unfortunately, even though they say they do , they have no intention of meeting genuine people, just must be wanking , or they want to meet me , wankers

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By *ingle_professional42Man
17 weeks ago

swansea

I don’t think you can single that out to just men.

There are many single women and couples who will do exactly the same.

Unfortunately it’s a more common theme for the site!

Checking previous verifications may give you some kind of idea of how genuine they may be. But still not a guarantee

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By *od2016Man
17 weeks ago

cardiff

Yea agreed. Completely understandable that occasionally you have to cancel but the number that agree to meet then ghost is huge. If you commit to meeting then meet.

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By *torminnormanMan
17 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Unfortunately, you been having problems with guys on here.

There are plenty of genuine,respectful,guys on here,and I count myself as one of those.

As a single guy,I get plenty of liars and timewasters getting in touch,so fully understand where you are coming from,but there are good uns out there,who are truthful,respectful,and genuine...

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
17 weeks ago

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
17 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

Most guys?!?! So what's the ratio of time wasters to the genuine ones? Just interested in knowing.

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By *hewhorenextdoorCouple
17 weeks ago

south wales

Ratio of guys who actually will meet to guys who just message?

1:250 being generous

Ratio of guys who meet when they say they will to those who talk all week and then stand you up on the day or disappear?

I’d say that’s about 1:30 to 1:40 ish

Guys who are good looking, straight up, easy to deal with, meet for social, fuck like a demon and leave a whore happy after plenty of cum?

That feels like one in a million here nowadays!

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By *ietcoke36ukMan
17 weeks ago

Cardiff

not all of us give me a chance to meet a cpl

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By *avwilkiMan
17 weeks ago

Taffs Well

I agree with most of the comments on here so far, a bit harsh to single out the single blokes.

The amount of profiles on here looking for 'rewards' or money for meets is very high too and that can't be blamed on single males

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By *opamine GoodMan
17 weeks ago

Cardiff

I have taken the time to either host or travel to meet others only for them to never turn up or ghost me when asking for their door number. This kind of behaviour seems like sport to some. If a meet is set I always turn up, but seems that others are a complete waste of time. It would be great if the site added a "meet score". In my mind, probably like others, 1 let down, block, unless a genuine reason

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By *ilffadMan
17 weeks ago

swansea

Rather sweeping statement

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

We post meets on the day we are meeting. And we are very lucky to get a 20% hit ratio of people who message thst want to join the meet and who actually turn up

Pretty much its give address to 5 and 1 will turn up.

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By *ikesfun1Man
17 weeks ago

around and about

Not all of us are that way unfortunately it’s very hard on here and there are lots of time wasters , I find genuine verified people seem to be the best bet !! Read verifications and go with recommendations

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I’ve (male) been on both sides of fence twice as part of couple and twice as single male always I’ve said clubs are best place to go as you know everyone is there for same purpose and not to state obvious they turn up makes females and singles. I also understand the frustration as a genuine single male let down by morons on this site but I’ve been let down by females an couples before , best way to approach is by going to a club lot of guys needed yes and being patient x most important part just be you x

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By *ncleF3st3rMan
17 weeks ago

New Tredegar

I've been ghosted by single women and couples. I'm sure the couples just use it as foreplay.

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By *rhugesMan
15 weeks ago

Cardiff

I don't understand this. As a single guy you have to work so very hard to get a meet, why then after all that hard work would you not turn up????

I have always turn up to meets if I have arrange one , why wouldn't I?

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By *unkmiMan
15 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Obviously not connecting with the right guys

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"I don't understand this. As a single guy you have to work so very hard to get a meet, why then after all that hard work would you not turn up????"

I think part of the problem is that there are a lot of male accounts on fab that are run by total fantasists.

Pic collectors, people who get off knowing you're local, attached men looking to cheat. Or even just for a cheap buzz of validation. They ruin it for the rest of us of course, but it just means we have to take meets seriously.

If someone can't make a meet, I give them the benefit of the doubt the first time. But after that it can become a pattern

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By *inkywelshladMan
15 weeks ago

merthyr tydfil


"I agree with most of the comments on here so far, a bit harsh to single out the single blokes.

The amount of profiles on here looking for 'rewards' or money for meets is very high too and that can't be blamed on single males"

I had one the other day well up for a meet then got told she wanted rewards its ridiculous, blocked and reported too

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By *ardiff_EncountersMan
15 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sadly ghosting seems to be common.

I have only just rejoined the site, but had quite a few last time. Hard to not take it personally lol

As a single guy, the idea of letting someone down when they agree to meet you is crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Most men are usually in a realationship and just get there kicks on here sadly fab has gone down hill for many years

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By *rhugesMan
14 weeks ago

Cardiff

You have to work so damn hard on here to get a meet, if baffles me why you would then not show up

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By *ingle_professional42Man
14 weeks ago

swansea

Had two females cancel on the day in the last couple of weeks alone.

It’s not just guys. There are females and couple timewasters too

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By *aigressMan
14 weeks ago

Cardiff

I think a lot of people on the Internet, use it as a sort of blurred reality... in all its forms.

Once it get "real" it stops.

So i think you just have to connect with people... then make sure your after the same thing.

Annoying / rude / waste of time yes... but thats life.. thats the game.

* I for one planned a social and attended the cardiff social.. incredibly ill *i probably should have cancelled, but sadly I was aware if I did... I might well be lumped in with the above.

** for the record.. very glad I didnt cancel

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By *agicmarcMan
14 weeks ago

tonyrefail


"I don't understand this. As a single guy you have to work so very hard to get a meet, why then after all that hard work would you not turn up????

I have always turn up to meets if I have arrange one , why wouldn't I?"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I travel all over the country and can hand on heart say its worse in south wales. Everywhere else I go, when someone says they will meet, they will but here, there's about 90% chance they wont or will cancel

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By *ixtiesnymphoCouple
14 weeks ago

Caerphilly/Bedwas

We occasionally put up for a meet on the day specified and what time we are free,it's amazing how many single men will say there available the next day or hours after our specified time .But we have also had some good meets ,but it is very hard work and frustrating on times .Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

A lot of men on here just come on for the fantasy of it all, are attached a lot of the time and it is hard work finding the right people. I’ve also had women and couples let me down last minute when time is precious and it’s then really frustrating. As others have mentioned, clubs and socials are good places to meet people and then can arrange future meets as well. Verifications are a very good way of sifting through people!

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