FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest Turn Offs

By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

I think its safe to say we all have a type or somwthing we attractive in the opposite sex or same swx depend how you roll, but whats the one thing about a person thats a huge no for you ? Reason ive asked im also on other sites (obviously not allowed to name them) and was having a good convo and a laugh and then she stated she was vegan and wouldnt date a meat eater - so whats yours....

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Bad breath/teeth!

Poor hygiene, doesn't cost a lot to take care of oneself

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
25 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

A woman with no sense of humour is a big no from me unfortunately. You've got to have a laugh together, without that there's nothing. 🤡

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By *gincourt_againMan
25 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain

Very much the above.

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By *yprusdreamWoman
25 weeks ago

Cyprus

"A woman with no sense of humour is a big no from me unfortunately. You've got to have a laugh together, without that there's nothing. 🤡"

Absolutely right. If you can't have a good laugh then there really is no point.

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By *yprusdreamWoman
25 weeks ago

Cyprus

A massive turn off for me ìs a guy asking me what I like, is it not better to set the boundaries then let everything flow naturally with you both instead of feeling like you're working from a tick list. Or maybe that's just the way my mind works 🤣🤣

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By *orphia2003Woman
25 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Online: people who can't be bothered to read my profile or do read it and decide they are an exception to the rule. I just find it off-putting.

People who agree to social only meet, and assume it's going to end in a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Sense of humour goes out da window with so many idiots and pests here!

Especially when profile isn't read and typing the same thing all the time

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
25 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"Sense of humour goes out da window with so many idiots and pests here!

Especially when profile isn't read and typing the same thing all the time

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

Believe it or not i spoke to someone who unknown to me was or is still notorious for asking for money for fags etc - anyway after i declined to send i was told im a stuck up twat and my bio proves it 😂😂

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By *hewankinmanMan
25 weeks ago

wales

Green teeth. I often suggest showering together to cover the possibility of poor hygiene , but I ain’t snogging anyone with a smile like a potato field

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
25 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"Green teeth. I often suggest showering together to cover the possibility of poor hygiene , but I ain’t snogging anyone with a smile like a potato field "

That's 98.6% of the chicks on here 🥔

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By *ubbs-68Woman
25 weeks ago

Hiraeth Cardiff

"Green teeth. I often suggest showering together to cover the possibility of poor hygiene , but I ain’t snogging anyone with a smile like a potato field

That's 98.6% of the chicks on here 🥔"

Must be just the women you guys are meeting

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By *hadowSirenWoman
25 weeks ago

Swindon

"Bad breath/teeth!

Poor hygiene, doesn't cost a lot to take care of oneself

Agree with this one. No excuse for it (unless they’ve just come from work and they’re in a manual messy profession of course - I wouldn’t object to that). I actually had a guy ghost and block me because he invited me to a quick coffee social after I finished work. He knew what I did for work and knew I’d be in uniform as it was short notice. He asked how he’d spot me, so I sent him a pic. Blocked 🤣 literally I get told all the time that my uniform is sexy (I don’t see it personally!)

Guys that ask me if I’m going to dress slutty for them or what lingerie I’m going to wear for them - if we get on you might just get the privilege of seeing what I have on underneath but it’s not your automatic right to see it

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By *inge84Woman
25 weeks ago

RCT

"A massive turn off for me ìs a guy asking me what I like, is it not better to set the boundaries then let everything flow naturally with you both instead of feeling like you're working from a tick list. Or maybe that's just the way my mind works 🤣🤣"

Agree with this!

'So what do you like?'

'What are you into?'

Our profile is there with this information. But yes if a chat moves forward just let it flow.

Had a guy last week eventually gave my number after chatting then boom 5 messages with just questions. I immediately said that was awful we wont be meeting or moving on and blocked him

Also hate filters....especially men with filters and pouting. Awful

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Online: people who can't be bothered to read my profile or do read it and decide they are an exception to the rule. I just find it off-putting.

People who agree to social only meet, and assume it's going to end in a fuck.

Totally this for me, plus those who can't articulate a thought X

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By *3xymamaWoman
25 weeks ago

...., Wales

"Green teeth. I often suggest showering together to cover the possibility of poor hygiene , but I ain’t snogging anyone with a smile like a potato field

That's 98.6% of the chicks on here 🥔"

And they call us chick's because of the worms we pick up...

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
25 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"Green teeth. I often suggest showering together to cover the possibility of poor hygiene , but I ain’t snogging anyone with a smile like a potato field

That's 98.6% of the chicks on here 🥔

And they call us chick's because of the worms we pick up...

🪱

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Arrogance 😫

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By *ed FlameWoman
25 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

Socks.

Messy rooms.

Toilet dick pic's.

Men who think they can fuck my brains out (I wish).

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By *he Dora the explorerWoman
25 weeks ago

neverland

I find people who are all talk tend to be rubbish at actually doing it.

Poor hygiene and teeth are also up there as well as rudeness and arrogance really brings out the bitch in me.

There is a difference between confidence and arrogance

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By *alleys-swingMan
25 weeks ago

Doesn't cost alot, pay £40 a month on beard cleansing products 😅

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By *aisy WamTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Swansea

Crocs .

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Crocs ."

I'm mortally wounded

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
25 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"Crocs ."

Most comfortable footwear I own.

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By *obbymacMan
25 weeks ago

cardiff

Hate turning up and house is dirty smelly and very untidy.

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By *elNRoobsCouple
24 weeks ago

Swansea

A new one that’s happened twice recently is where they’ve had a FWB setup previously and all they do is talk about that person constantly. Comes across as a little creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Many turnoffs..

Toilet pics

Needing dr*gs/alcohol to enjoy themselves

Telling me what they're going to do to me in the first message..

The daftest one:

Being from Rhyl/Prestatyn.. 🤣

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
24 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"Many turnoffs..

Toilet pics

Needing dr*gs/alcohol to enjoy themselves

Telling me what they're going to do to me in the first message..

The daftest one:

Being from Rhyl/Prestatyn.. 🤣

I've got a toilet pic ☺️

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Lack of effort

In messaging

In profile

In appearance when meeting

In home if it gets that far

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
24 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"Lack of effort

In messaging ✔️

In profile ✔️

In appearance when meeting ✔️

In home if it gets that far"
🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *VSindy1971TV/TS
24 weeks ago

Brynmawr

Men who are “straight” messaging me

I know why they put straight

“Because others won’t talk if I say I’m Bi”

Well that’s not my fking problem

I don’t like liars

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By *rick or treatCouple
24 weeks ago

land of the rising sun

Just deleted 3 messages from men privately claiming to be bi. Their bullshit directly results in or lack of trust in anything they say

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By *spire2writeandEnjoyMan
24 weeks ago

Pontypridd

"Just deleted 3 messages from men privately claiming to be bi. Their bullshit directly results in or lack of trust in anything they say"

It makes as to why anyone would falsely claim to be a sexuality they’re not.

I mean they actually get a meet with you, or another couple that wants a bi guy, then what? Then it becomes quite clear they’re not into guys. Can’t imagine the sheer awkwardness then.

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By *VSindy1971TV/TS
24 weeks ago

Brynmawr

"Just deleted 3 messages from men privately claiming to be bi. Their bullshit directly results in or lack of trust in anything they say"

Who was sat in bed gobbling ?

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By *VSindy1971TV/TS
24 weeks ago

Brynmawr

People that can’t put where they are

Wales

Or local

Run along

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
24 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

Blank profiles, no info, no pics,

Pushy folks who fail to read the profile,

sending unrequired dick pics,

inbox messages saying Hi and nothing else,

asking for the things we are not into,

generally thinking of themselves and not us

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By *rick or treatCouple
24 weeks ago

land of the rising sun

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By *oxyred9Couple
24 weeks ago

South Wales (Mr Devon mid-week)

Directing (unsolicited) messages to Mrs whilst ignoring Mr and everything in our profile.

If you cant follow a few instructions online how can we trust you in the bedroom...

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Being a bi guy, I get contact from couples now and again.

I'm always happy to meet socially first, but I want to meet both people in a couple. It's an instant turn off when the guy insists on meeting me alone, and then pushes for a quick suck etc. It's hideous, I never meet alone, ever, yet still they push.

Yuck.

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By *ocksWoman
24 weeks ago

Cardiff

People (mostly men) presuming that I'm an object for them to use.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
24 weeks ago

bluebell woods

Guys that you meet that turn into some giddy teenager guy’s get a grip just why do it it’s my biggest turn off

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
24 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

Women who fart in bed, especially when you're about to finger their pooh-pipe.

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By *unnybunsWoman
24 weeks ago

Between here and over there

"A new one that’s happened twice recently is where they’ve had a FWB setup previously and all they do is talk about that person constantly. Comes across as a little creepy

Yeh or just talk about themselves, how amazing they are, what they earn and how many people they have fucked ICK

Bore off dude ! Turned out the sex was average at best.

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By *ancardiff7Man
24 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

"Guys that you meet that turn into some giddy teenager guy’s get a grip just why do it it’s my biggest turn off "

Is this a humble brag that you turn men weak at the knees?

(I know it's not.)

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By *ancardiff7Man
24 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

My biggest turn offs are overly gratuitous pictures, no sense of humour and arrogance.

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By *ilky69Couple
24 weeks ago

cardiff

My biggest turn off happened just recently in Comeback bar PDI, chatting to a good looking fella,I'm Sat in-between him and my husband, getting a bit hot and bothered and thinking, time to get to secrets for some mfm fun.. Then he started telling me how many women fall at his feet and what he's done to them..

Ahh, nope, game over!!

Otherwise people who dont make an effort to be clean and smell nice..

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
24 weeks ago

Heads of the Valleys

"A woman with no sense of humour is a big no from me unfortunately. You've got to have a laugh together, without that there's nothing. 🤡"

Amen to this brother

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
24 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

"A woman with no sense of humour is a big no from me unfortunately. You've got to have a laugh together, without that there's nothing. 🤡

Amen to this brother "

Unfortunately, there are way too many women on the site who have no sense of humour.

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By *untingGroundsUKMan
24 weeks ago

Swansea

"Crocs ."

I will say I still despise the way they look. However I was gifted some for my birthday and can confirm that they are exceptionally comfy. Especially when getting out of the water or after spending the day in the HGV and heavy boots.

Unwashed, and heavy BO. If I walk in and my head flinches/or nose wrinkles. It's a no for me. I mean gym meets are different.

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