FabSwingers.com forum: 🌈Nerds and Kinksters of Fab, assemble!

By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
33 weeks ago

Roath

The last thread filled up so we are making this new one.

Social Deviants is a group with it's foundations in nerdery, swinging and kink.

We run regular online and in person events.

Going to Greenhouse/Chameleons or another venue and not being alone makes it so much easier to feel at ease, and it's even better when you get to go with a group of fellow nerds.

We also do online hangouts and gaming nights that are always a great laugh.

We are run by LGBTQIA+ people🌈, swingers and/or kinksters who all share the umbrella of nerd.

So if you like to game, play DnD, boardgames, chat about sci fi or horror, paint warhammer, or nerd out over whatever special interest you may have, come and say hi!

Drop us a private message if you'd like more info!

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By *innsMan
33 weeks ago

Swansea

Amazing friendly group come join us

Sinns aka throbbingandgirthy

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Amazing group full of great peaple

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By *irToyCouple
33 weeks ago

Swansea

Can confirm - a good group full of good people!

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By *eddyandbratCouple
33 weeks ago

Swansea

Made some friends on this group, the organisers are an amazing group of people

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By *hiversMan
33 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

It's a great bunch, come join

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By *aarv80Man
33 weeks ago

Crumlin

Though I'm no longer in this server I can confirm there are loads of really nice people in it.

Always better to socialise when you know people

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By *elshguybiMan
33 weeks ago

Carmarthen

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Hi, massive comic book nerd here. Love attending comic cons and cosplaying. I'm ready to assemble! If you think I'd be a good fit in this group then please let me know the info. Thank you.

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By *od2016Man
33 weeks ago

cardiff

Comic and sci fi nerd with a large side of kink 😂

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By *idnightMattMan
33 weeks ago

Llanelli

I have attended 1 social with a few of the members. I can honesty say they are a lovely welcoming bunch of people

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By *ornyHedgehogsCouple
33 weeks ago

Swansea

Ooh do like a board game, Wingspan anyone?

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By *urtfelMan
33 weeks ago

Llandovery

Massive board game and ttrpg nerd. Favourite board games include Res Arcana, Mansions of Madness and Ultimate Railroads. Love roleplaying games, whether I'm a player or running.

Would love more nerd friends

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By *t.jt.jtMan
32 weeks ago

Cardiff

This sounds very in my ballpark, big fan of grand strategy games, casual deck building games like star realms and I've just bought a card based game similar to warhammer fantasy and sold off the minis because the pile of shame was getting a bit much

I'd love an invite.

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
32 weeks ago

Roath

Thank you for all the kind comments!

And thank you for all of the interest,

We've messaged all above folks who are interested with more info

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By *UBSPACE SIRYNTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Llanelli

I love D&D 😊

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By *isterJsWorldMan
32 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Lovely group, very welcoming and friendly to all

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By *eddyandbratCouple
32 weeks ago

Swansea

"Ooh do like a board game, Wingspan anyone?

I have heard good things about Wingspan, is it worth it?

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
32 weeks ago

Roath

"Ooh do like a board game, Wingspan anyone?

I have heard good things about Wingspan, is it worth it?"

It does look interesting.

Though we've been a bit addicted to ARC Raiders recently 😅

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By *layerZeroMan
32 weeks ago

Cardiff Bay

I found it abit overcomplicated for what it needed to be. Also played wyrmspan. The artwork is amazing though

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By *hatsit69Couple
32 weeks ago

Newport

That's sounds like us.

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By *ecca_riotTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Llanelli

Hi, sounds like a good community to get geeky

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By *_92Man
32 weeks ago

Magor

If like more info please 😊

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By *n4funCouple
32 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Sounds interesting we'd love to check this out x

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
32 weeks ago

Roath

Sent you all more info!

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Roath

Looking forward to seeing everyone this weekend! x 😁

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Roath

Greenhouse bi night is finally here! See you all soon! x

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Roath

What a fantastic year irs been.

Looking forward to seeing everyone for the one year anniversary get together!

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By *elshguybiMan
26 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Sorry for everything, hope you’re keeping well

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Roath

Brains not working after Christmas. First I post to the wrong thread, then I forget the date 😅

Looking forward to the 10th.

Let's hope theres extra robes available cos its gonna be a cold one! 🥶

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I'm shit at games because I can't follow the rules, but love the diversity & vibe of your group, when I've bumped into you at at the GH X

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By *elshFunGuy8Man
26 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sounds fun. Lmk please

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Roath

"I'm shit at games because I can't follow the rules, but love the diversity & vibe of your group, when I've bumped into you at at the GH X"

Thank you!

Not all of us are gamers mind. Theres all sorts of nerds

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By *eannaTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

I use to re enact online from the book series of "Black Dagger Brotherhood" it was a collection of books written by J.R. Ward a good 12 to 15 year's ago and I also started D&D when it first started in the 80s and I still have the original game's but I'm very rusty haven't played since the 90s, would this qualify me?

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Roath

"I use to re enact online from the book series of "Black Dagger Brotherhood" it was a collection of books written by J.R. Ward a good 12 to 15 year's ago and I also started D&D when it first started in the 80s and I still have the original game's but I'm very rusty haven't played since the 90s, would this qualify me?

Of course!

We have people into gaming, tech, audio, history, movies, trainspotting, all sorts of nerdery

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
26 weeks ago

Wrexham

I love roleplay, board and table top games...sadly I am miles away from anyone who enjoys crossdressers too

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I would love more information please xx I have private inbox you too

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
25 weeks ago

Roath

Inboxed those above!

Very much looking forward to Saturday 😁

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By *eelingflirtycouple8487Couple
25 weeks ago

south wales

K’s not a massive nerd but nerdy enough 😈 this group sounds fun!

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By *econdSideQuestWoman
25 weeks ago

SWANSEA

"K’s not a massive nerd but nerdy enough 😈 this group sounds fun! "

There's no minimum requirement! 😁

Hope you'll come join us!

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
25 weeks ago

Roath

"K’s not a massive nerd but nerdy enough 😈 this group sounds fun! "

Messaged you both with more info

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By *atLikeThiefMan
25 weeks ago

crosshands

Total sci-fi fantasy nerd here, this very much sounds like something I’d enjoy being involved in! Glad to see people like yourselves creating a space for people with similar interests. It’s beautiful!

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
25 weeks ago

Roath

Sent you some more info.

On another note,

Can't wait for Saturday!

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By *eannaTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

Not long now hopefully the snow will stay away

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
25 weeks ago

Roath

"Not long now hopefully the snow will stay away

Weather seems to be suggesting as much so far. We will have to wait and see!

Always the option to huddle like penguins if it's too cold 😄

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By *elshguybiMan
25 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Don’t mess with this group they are very supportive and fun

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By *apphireandSteelxxxCouple
24 weeks ago

Porthcawl

MTG, Pokemon & a little Lorcana here

-Steel

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By *yl and NyxCouple
24 weeks ago

Caerphilly

We would be interested in finding out more please, hubby's a nerd and I'm a neurospicy ball of anxiety so a group to attend events with sounds great!!

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Roath

Have messaged above with more info.

Looking forward to seeing everyone next week! x

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Roath

Thank you to everyone who came along last night. We will be sure to have games with higher player limits next time. 😅

You all made it into such a great night! 💙

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

warhammer mini painter in the making here

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By *elshguybiMan
22 weeks ago

Carmarthen

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By *rJasieMan
22 weeks ago

Barry

I'm interested in joining please 🙂

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Roath

"I'm interested in joining please 🙂"

Hiya, was going to message with more info but your filters don't allow us to message you.

Drop us a message if you're still interested

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Roath

Looking forward to seeing everyone later! Going to be a great night x

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By *elshguybiMan
21 weeks ago

Carmarthen

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By *elshguybiMan
21 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Anyone into Pokemon

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By *rown bummerMan
21 weeks ago

yours

Meee

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
18 weeks ago

Roath

Can't wait to see everyone again soon! x

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
17 weeks ago

Roath

What a great night last night!

It was lovely to see everyone again and meet lots of new people for the first time too.

Thank you all for coming along and making it a lovely time x

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By *elshguybiMan
16 weeks ago

Carmarthen

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Roath

Next in person event is the beginning of next month.

Next online event is this Saturday

We are looking forward to both! x

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By *portyDUOCouple
16 weeks ago

Mountain Ash

Us please x

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Roath

Sent you some more info x

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By *ixFoot4andBack4MoreMan
15 weeks ago

South Wales

Oh cool!

Is this open to sad single guys who will bore people to death with their nerd talk?

Asking for a friend, obviously.

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Roath

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People aren't bored by nerd talk when you're amongst other nerds 😅

We'll send you some more info

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By *ixFoot4andBack4MoreMan
15 weeks ago

South Wales

"Reply to forum post "🌈Nerds and Kinksters of Fab, assemble!"

People aren't bored by nerd talk when you're amongst other nerds 😅

We'll send you some more info"

Thanks!...and I accept that as a challenge

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By *elshguybiMan
15 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Could I please rejoin?

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Roath

Can't wait for the next online games night and especially looking forward to the next in person meet at Greenhouse Bi night 😁 x

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By *elshguybiMan
14 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Guess not

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By *eardAndKitsuneCouple
14 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Nerdyness and sex positive vibes...sign us up.

Would love if a club did a nerdy/geek night, would very much be our style.

Plus cosplaying again would be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Could I join?

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Interested in an online game night

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Roath

Messaged those above with more details x

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By *elshguybiMan
13 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Could you give me another chance?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

O o O oo

"Could you give me another chance?"

It looks like that could be a no, please don't keep asking

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By *oneydipsCouple
13 weeks ago

streatham

This sounds great

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By *rgyfunfunfunMan
13 weeks ago

Treforest

This sounds amazing… I’m a big old nerd and want to get more into gaming (none of my friends are really interested) only ever had a couple of one shot games of D&D… would love to do more though. ☺️

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By *vaRoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Ooh do like a board game, Wingspan anyone?

Oooh one of my favourite games

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By *r.ZeusMan
13 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

That's sounds like me

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By *rgyfunfunfunMan
13 weeks ago

Treforest

A Discworld Fan!!!!

Yay 🥳

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
13 weeks ago

Roath

"Could you give me another chance?

It looks like that could be a no, please don't keep asking"

Thank you

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
13 weeks ago

Roath

We have messaged those above with more info.

Also, can't wait for the weekend! Be great to see everyone again and meet some new people too x

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By *ubergenieWoman
13 weeks ago

Neath

Hello, sounds like a lovely group! Do you mainly meet in Cardiff?

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By *espectfully FilthMan
13 weeks ago

glossop

I’d be interested in finding out more on this

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By *ahspberryMan
13 weeks ago

Cardiff and London

Can I join your gang too please? My kind of awesome x

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
13 weeks ago

Roath

"Hello, sounds like a lovely group! Do you mainly meet in Cardiff? "

Cardiff, Newport and Swansea are the most common places. Newport for the Greenhouse meets.

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
13 weeks ago

RCT/Cardiff

I'm a big sci fi nerd, also love old console games (still have my Sega Master System) big book and film fan. Am I nerdy enough to join?!

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By *ubergenieWoman
13 weeks ago

Neath

"Hello, sounds like a lovely group! Do you mainly meet in Cardiff?

Cardiff, Newport and Swansea are the most common places. Newport for the Greenhouse meets. "

Amazing! Could I have more info on this please? I'm a big horror fan

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
13 weeks ago

Roath

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
13 weeks ago

Roath

"Hello, sounds like a lovely group! Do you mainly meet in Cardiff?

Cardiff, Newport and Swansea are the most common places. Newport for the Greenhouse meets.

Amazing! Could I have more info on this please? I'm a big horror fan

We can definitely send you more info, but we would need you to message us first due to the filters

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Roath

Absolutely fantastic to see everyone on Saturday, such a great night

Can't wait for next time! x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Hello guys!

J loves frogs, bees, super Mario, chill gaming, good music and baking ☺️

S is a motorhead, bike loving, Wallace and grommet nerd and comedy 🎭

Hope we might be welcome in the group? We’re looking to meet new friends! 🫶🏻

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Roath

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Roath

"Hello guys!

J loves frogs, bees, super Mario, chill gaming, good music and baking ☺️

S is a motorhead, bike loving, Wallace and grommet nerd and comedy 🎭

Hope we might be welcome in the group? We’re looking to meet new friends! 🫶🏻"

You would both be very welcome in the group. The main focus is building a social community of fellow kinksters and swingers for group events online and in person within the South Wales area.

We have sent you some more info

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Is the group still open to new members? Id be quite keen on joining and the socials

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By *AZTASTICMan
12 weeks ago

Barry

Hi guys

Not sure if im geek but I do love classic horror x

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By *heyenne69Woman
12 weeks ago

near cardiff

Hi, is this group still open to new people? Sounds so fun. I’m a huge horror and sci-fi buff 😊

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By *iketomeetuWoman
12 weeks ago

Swansea

Could I join please? Love indie horror, retro games and sci fi.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I am far too nerdy for the everyday "normal" people, but nowhere near geeky enough for the nerds...

Deffo ND though..

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By *olyjamorousMan
11 weeks ago

Wrexham

I regard myself as "nerd" even though i don't really do DnD or the likes.

I do like indie PlayStation games. The Life is Strange series is great.

I am super nerdy about music though. Been on popmaster. Won a board game. 3 in 10 was Suzi Quatro was just about before my time.

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By *328Man
11 weeks ago

the Valleys

Howdy, is there room for one more please?

Massive horror and sci-fi nerd, enjoy going to comic cons and used to play D&D back in the day.

Thanks in advance 🤘🏻😎

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By *328Man
11 weeks ago

the Valleys

"Howdy, is there room for one more please?

Massive horror and sci-fi nerd, enjoy going to comic cons and used to play D&D back in the day.

Thanks in advance 🤘🏻😎"

Oh also a massive gamer (ps5)

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
11 weeks ago

Roath

Thanks for all the interest!

We've sent more info to everyone above

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By *rgyfunfunfunMan
10 weeks ago

Treforest

Anyone here read The Wandering Inn series? ☺️

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By *eannaTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

Can someone please tell me when and where is your next meeting please?

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
5 weeks ago

Roath

"Anyone here read The Wandering Inn series? ☺️"

I haven't but it sounds interesting. Currently reading the Zoey Ashe series by David Wong (Author of the John Dies at the End series)

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By *rMrsBiCardiff OP Couple
5 weeks ago

Roath

"Can someone please tell me when and where is your next meeting please?

Most of the meetings don't get posted publicly.

Typically we were doing them monthly but have had a hiatus on organising the in person meets for a bit due to some changes in family life.

We are looking to get the in person meets going again before Christmas though.

In the meantime, we've been keeping in touch with everyone online

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By *otoro79Man
3 weeks ago

hebburn

I fit into this, big gaming both console and wargaming on tabletop

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