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"How do we join Chams been a few times just never become members " Its stated above in the description. | |||
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"Don't like being centre of attent 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 But im sure one night only wouldn't hurt count us in ." Omg you lie like a cheap rug  🤣🤣
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"Are they going to let more new males join for this? We will probably be there regardless " I was wondering this as well xx 😘 | |||
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"Are they going to let more new males join for this? We will probably be there regardless I was wondering this as well xx 😘 " More single males is definitely needed | |||
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"Complain about wanking dead, they're all single men.. Do we really want more of them?? "I think what is meant, more single respectful men who don't run around the place banging on windows/doors, grunting when females walk past them x | |||
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"Seems the club gives the memberships to the wrong men. We've come a cross a few lovely ones that can't get membership so maybe revoke some of the current ones to allow for new ones. An interview could also be the way to go, if they cant hold an English conversation for 5 minutes, they don't get a membership x" I have no control of club entry and can only post what events are on month to month. I do my best with tied hands im afraid x | |||
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"There is a need to review membership I agree but maybe anyone with solid helpful ideas could voice these in an email to chams management? " That would help me as i do try with them, and its no good everyone coming to me. | |||
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"Complain about wanking dead, they're all single men.. Do we really want more of them??
I think what is meant, more single respectful men who don't run around the place banging on windows/doors, grunting when females walk past them x"this is exactly what I meant yeah, ideally a better age spread too | |||
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"It would be really appreciated if management could keep a closer eye on single men gathering in the couples room During our last visit I had to tell several of them repeatedly to give us some space, as they kept edging closer and closer. It really kills the mood when we’re constantly having to manage that instead of relaxing and enjoying ourselves 😔" Single guys are NOT allowed in the couples room unless invited. Next time anyone sees one in there tell them to leave. I try to pop my head round the door from time to time to check and kick them out | |||
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"It would be really appreciated if management could keep a closer eye on single men gathering in the couples room During our last visit I had to tell several of them repeatedly to give us some space, as they kept edging closer and closer. It really kills the mood when we’re constantly having to manage that instead of relaxing and enjoying ourselves 😔" Me and the wife were in there last week, about 6 walked in and I just pointed and said nope out, they all looked so deflated walking out 🤣 | |||
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"It would be really appreciated if management could keep a closer eye on single men gathering in the couples room During our last visit I had to tell several of them repeatedly to give us some space, as they kept edging closer and closer. It really kills the mood when we’re constantly having to manage that instead of relaxing and enjoying ourselves 😔 Me and the wife were in there last week, about 6 walked in and I just pointed and said nope out, they all looked so deflated walking out 🤣" We did the exact same thing last week it's crazy how far they push there luck | |||
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"It would be really appreciated if management could keep a closer eye on single men gathering in the couples room During our last visit I had to tell several of them repeatedly to give us some space, as they kept edging closer and closer. It really kills the mood when we’re constantly having to manage that instead of relaxing and enjoying ourselves 😔 Me and the wife were in there last week, about 6 walked in and I just pointed and said nope out, they all looked so deflated walking out 🤣" thats how i tend to do it, "are you a couple" 😁 | |||
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"We are thinking of coming, but the hotwife deal is not our thing... Just wondered if we should maybe give this one a miss or whether there will likely be others there who are more into couples? " There will be others there for couples I’m sure. | |||
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"We are thinking of coming, but the hotwife deal is not our thing... Just wondered if we should maybe give this one a miss or whether there will likely be others there who are more into couples? " Same here......we'll be there to hopefully play with other couples. | |||
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"It would be really appreciated if management could keep a closer eye on single men gathering in the couples room During our last visit I had to tell several of them repeatedly to give us some space, as they kept edging closer and closer. It really kills the mood when we’re constantly having to manage that instead of relaxing and enjoying ourselves 😔 Me and the wife were in there last week, about 6 walked in and I just pointed and said nope out, they all looked so deflated walking out 🤣" I’ve not been for a few weeks so I can safely say that wasn’t me, but my goodness i cringe at the behaviour I see all too often, I’ve tried to talk to a few but they do seem blinkered and have little or no awareness of their poor behaviour. | |||
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"Just been told tonight that they will be letting some single guys come in as guests, but new membership is not available as yet. If your a guy wanting to go, you should call the club before hand, as you may not get in on the night." Ooo fresh meat
Any guys who manage to come in as guests… make sure you bring along your best conversation and not just your cocks
Having both will enhance your evening | |||
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"We are thinking of coming, but the hotwife deal is not our thing... Just wondered if we should maybe give this one a miss or whether there will likely be others there who are more into couples? " Always a load of couples on last weekend of month , CJS night we call it
Be usual single males I sure but once you’ve told them not interested they will leave u alone
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"Looks like its going to.be a busy one "I will hold you to that plus I will assist in making it a great night as usual. Also jumping on the 'how to act as a single male' I would always suggest to chat in the social areas to break the ice etc and if you are lucky you maybe invited to the pubic areas. But you have to put the leg work in. Just be yourself and may the stars align for you. | |||
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"100% agree with the comments about some single guys. They are the reason I've not been for months and months. I have spoken to the club about it but to no avail. I'd love to come to this night but honestly single men will read it as a Fanny fest and it will be crawling with the wanking dead ruining it for everyone. Friday nights need more women and couples not even MORE single men. If only it was vetted and secured like Darlaston is instead of these creeps thinking sexual assault is fine because "they have paid to get in and expect sex" This is in no way applicable to the few decent and respectful regular gentlemen who do not do this type of thing 🫶🏻 " I’ve always found less single guys on Fridays than Saturdays due to the membership restrictions. This was one reason I was never keen on a Saturday but my ex partner loved a Saturday until one evening when we had an unlocked door and the room just filled up with about 15 single guys. It was extremely off putting and uncomfortable… that changed his mind and we got a Friday membership. Single guys are fine as long as they’re polite, chatty and respectful of boundaries, but sadly the idiots do ruin it for the genuine ones. Memberships should be increased for them but with stricter criteria which would hopefully then deter the muppets. But good luck getting a reply from the club. I emailed them about 4 months ago about Darleston and I’m still waiting for a reply… | |||
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"100% agree with the comments about some single guys. They are the reason I've not been for months and months. I have spoken to the club about it but to no avail. I'd love to come to this night but honestly single men will read it as a Fanny fest and it will be crawling with the wanking dead ruining it for everyone. Friday nights need more women and couples not even MORE single men. If only it was vetted and secured like Darlaston is instead of these creeps thinking sexual assault is fine because "they have paid to get in and expect sex" This is in no way applicable to the few decent and respectful regular gentlemen who do not do this type of thing 🫶🏻 I’ve always found less single guys on Fridays than Saturdays due to the membership restrictions. This was one reason I was never keen on a Saturday but my ex partner loved a Saturday until one evening when we had an unlocked door and the room just filled up with about 15 single guys. It was extremely off putting and uncomfortable… that changed his mind and we got a Friday membership. Single guys are fine as long as they’re polite, chatty and respectful of boundaries, but sadly the idiots do ruin it for the genuine ones. Memberships should be increased for them but with stricter criteria which would hopefully then deter the muppets. But good luck getting a reply from the club. I emailed them about 4 months ago about Darleston and I’m still waiting for a reply… " | |||
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"We used to go most weeks but it dwindled to maybe once a month now it's more like 2/3 times a year. Sad really as I love the social side and also watching the naughty fun 😈 PS. Love your bio " 😘 | |||
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"Are single guys welcome? What's the dress code?" Give the club a call as they did say they were letting some non members in as guests so get in quick or you won't get in. Dress code is a towel or shorts | |||
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"Is it non members on a Friday and Saturday or is it just for this one event ? " Couples can join on the night | |||
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"Is it non members on a Friday and Saturday or is it just for this one event ? Couples can join on the night "Can single ladies join tonight or can I come as a guest with a couple? X | |||
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"Is it non members on a Friday and Saturday or is it just for this one event ? Couples can join on the night
Can single ladies join tonight or can I come as a guest with a couple?
X"Im sure you can come along as quests but give CJ a message to find out | |||
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"Is it non members on a Friday and Saturday or is it just for this one event ? Couples can join on the night
Can single ladies join tonight or can I come as a guest with a couple?
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Im sure you can come along as quests but give CJ a message to find out "Thank you. X | |||
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"I’m popping along with a fwb, I’m an ex wife but surely I still qualify "I’m an ex-wife too! I think we definitely qualify 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I’m popping along with a fwb, I’m an ex wife but surely I still qualify
I’m an ex-wife too! I think we definitely qualify 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"Let’s start our own ex wives club so happy you guys are coming, it’ll be awesome to see you both x | |||
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"I’m popping along with a fwb, I’m an ex wife but surely I still qualify
I’m an ex-wife too! I think we definitely qualify 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Let’s start our own ex wives club so happy you guys are coming, it’ll be awesome to see you both x"I'm an ex wife too 🤣 I won't be there tonight though. I'm working in the morning | |||
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"I’m popping along with a fwb, I’m an ex wife but surely I still qualify
I’m an ex-wife too! I think we definitely qualify 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Let’s start our own ex wives club so happy you guys are coming, it’ll be awesome to see you both x
I'm an ex wife too 🤣 I won't be there tonight though. I'm working in the morning "You can most definitely join our ex wives club lovely x | |||
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"Don't like being centre of attent 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 But im sure one night only wouldn't hurt count us in ." you certainly fit the hot wife description wow x | |||
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"We have been to Darlaston so does that mean we are members here too? " Yes | |||
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"We have been to Darlaston so does that mean we are members here too? Yes "Are we going to be able to join tonight? As a couple? | |||
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"We have been to Darlaston so does that mean we are members here too? Yes
Are we going to be able to join tonight? As a couple?"Yes | |||
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"Hey guys what time does it start tonight? " Club opens at 8 and closes.3am | |||
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"What an absolute amazing night ! Sooo many people! Thank you to everyone that made the night so special. Please, if you have time to leave a club review it would help emensly x CJ" Brilliant night as always | |||
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"I’ve always wanted to go and see what it’s like! However it seems very much like it’s not a welcoming place for single guys to go to! And wouldn’t necessarily want to go somewhere and be uncomfortable! Shame really as not all single guys should be tarred with the same brush! " There were some nice, chatty, polite single guys there & I could see they were very much welcomed by some of the couples & ladies. It all depends on how you conduct yourself, if you're chatty, polite & non pushy there should be no reason why you wouldn't be welcomed. It's just unfortunate they'd no vetting process in place for single guys, so some of the arseholes get through whatever night it is. There's definitely a demand for decent single guys X | |||
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"I’ve always wanted to go and see what it’s like! However it seems very much like it’s not a welcoming place for single guys to go to! And wouldn’t necessarily want to go somewhere and be uncomfortable! Shame really as not all single guys should be tarred with the same brush! " Im guessing you've never attended a club ? Don't make assumptions unless you've actually been there in person. Single men are always welcome at clubs and whatever gave you the opinion they were not ? | |||
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"As said previously Just going on comments that have been made here and the reputation single guys seem to have a bad reputation! Not sure you need to go so defensive. It wasn’t any kind of criticism at you" | |||
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"As said previously Just going on comments that have been made here and the reputation single guys seem to have a bad reputation! Not sure you need to go so defensive. It wasn’t any kind of criticism at you" Oh im not defending me, I couldn't give a rats arse what your opinion of me as a single guy is. My defence is of that of the club and the people who go to it. You cannot make assumptions and it strikes me as if you have no knowledge of the the club scene and I would encourage you to find out for yourself. Without "single men" clubs would not function. Primarily due to the revenue they produce, and the entrant need for male and female interaction for them to function. | |||
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"The single men that get the bad rep are the ones who turn up thinking that are entitled to get laid because they've paid to get in, and have no respect for anyone else there. " 💯 I've met some absolutely lovely single guys at the club, when there as a single and with my partner. So long as you go with the right attitude (just saying generally, not aimed at the single guy who has perceived the club as being unwelcoming for single guys from the comments), make the effort to chat (it's as nerve racking for us women too) then you'll reap the benefits. I attend regularly now, and always have a decent night, even if it's only for social and not play. 😊 | |||
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"Well despite what people are saying that's not relevant to the actual post of the Hotwife theme night, we had a great, if short, time. Unfortunately Life meat we couldn't stay as long as we would have liked. But it was nice to see everyone enjoying themselves, single men, single women, couples and any other people included. The 'old me' would be piling in with an opinion on the rest of the conversation but one thing I will say is that CJ does NOT run the club and does NOT have any control over how it functions, whom they let in or any other issue. The simple fact is that he is a highly valued member of the community and spends an awful lot of his own free unpaid time promoting what is the last bastion of swinging clubs in Wales. Because without Chams Newport on a Friday night, we're all screwed if we don't want to drive over the bridge to somewhere else . "Cj is the best to be fair, he does so much for the scene off his own back | |||
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"The single men that get the bad rep are the ones who turn up thinking that are entitled to get laid because they've paid to get in, and have no respect for anyone else there. " Absolutely this. I once went with a partner who didn’t respect me or the environment, and demanded I ‘find someone for him to enjoy’ because of ‘everything I let you do’ the week before. This is the type of attitude that gives single men a bad name. I’ve also seen a single, older guy who goes there regularly. On my first visit he complimented the ‘show’ I put on (I used to always play with an open door because that fed my exhibitionist side). The next time I saw him he’d been watching my ex partner and I and followed me out when we had finished with the comment ‘so I don’t get a go then?!’ I also had a single guy follow me and my ex partner everywhere, invade our personal space and acted exactly as you’ve said - with the attitude of ‘I’ve paid so I’m entitled’. It also didn’t help that that particular night was extremely quiet and I think I was one of 6 women there which didn’t help. Unfortunately, a lot of the time when these types of guys are mentioned and pointed out to club staff, nothing is done, which puts a lot of people off returning because it’s the same offenders over and over again (the above have been mentioned and pointed out yet I still see them frequenting the club). Although to be fair, these incidents happened on Friday night with the ‘guest’ single men, but a lot more happened on the Saturdays than Fridays, because the single guys who have membership are genuinely invested in being a part of the scene as opposed to being entitled to sex because they pay a membership. However, in the single guys corner, I’ve had ‘genuine’ members of the scene that don’t put effort into getting a Friday membership also behave inappropriately and abuse the fact that women (and couples) may not see them as a direct threat simply because they’re ‘regulars’ in the scene and go to socials and are well known. These men can often be worse than the random single guys who don’t interact with the scene, because if you know them because they’re regulars, then you often tend to trust them a bit more because they’re ’well known’ to people | |||
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"Well despite what people are saying that's not relevant to the actual post of the Hotwife theme night, we had a great, if short, time. Unfortunately Life meat we couldn't stay as long as we would have liked. But it was nice to see everyone enjoying themselves, single men, single women, couples and any other people included. The 'old me' would be piling in with an opinion on the rest of the conversation but one thing I will say is that CJ does NOT run the club and does NOT have any control over how it functions, whom they let in or any other issue. The simple fact is that he is a highly valued member of the community and spends an awful lot of his own free unpaid time promoting what is the last bastion of swinging clubs in Wales. Because without Chams Newport on a Friday night, we're all screwed if we don't want to drive over the bridge to somewhere else . "Thank you | |||
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"Well despite what people are saying that's not relevant to the actual post of the Hotwife theme night, we had a great, if short, time. Unfortunately Life meat we couldn't stay as long as we would have liked. But it was nice to see everyone enjoying themselves, single men, single women, couples and any other people included. The 'old me' would be piling in with an opinion on the rest of the conversation but one thing I will say is that CJ does NOT run the club and does NOT have any control over how it functions, whom they let in or any other issue. The simple fact is that he is a highly valued member of the community and spends an awful lot of his own free unpaid time promoting what is the last bastion of swinging clubs in Wales. Because without Chams Newport on a Friday night, we're all screwed if we don't want to drive over the bridge to somewhere else . "100 % agree with you | |||
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"Well despite what people are saying that's not relevant to the actual post of the Hotwife theme night, we had a great, if short, time. Unfortunately Life meat we couldn't stay as long as we would have liked. But it was nice to see everyone enjoying themselves, single men, single women, couples and any other people included. The 'old me' would be piling in with an opinion on the rest of the conversation but one thing I will say is that CJ does NOT run the club and does NOT have any control over how it functions, whom they let in or any other issue. The simple fact is that he is a highly valued member of the community and spends an awful lot of his own free unpaid time promoting what is the last bastion of swinging clubs in Wales. Because without Chams Newport on a Friday night, we're all screwed if we don't want to drive over the bridge to somewhere else .
Thank you "We all know this. It’s not Chams without CJ and his mug! 😘 | |||
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"I think you are misreading it This is about expressing an opinion based on comments made. ‘The wanking dead’, ‘People banging on windows’, ‘entering uninvited’ etc! It doesn’t sound like a welcoming place that as a single guy you want to be associated with. That is the messsge here and not at any individual! Feel free to correct me if the comments made are ill informed! Can only comment on what’s been said previously but also many more have fantastic times so it doesn’t bother them! But all single guys are seeming to be looked at the same which is also unfair. And that’s from someone who is doing their own bit to try and enhance the scene! " I don't understand, are you saying that people complaining about men acting inappropriately is unwelcoming? Should we perhaps keep our mouths shut instead? | |||
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"I think you are misreading it This is about expressing an opinion based on comments made. ‘The wanking dead’, ‘People banging on windows’, ‘entering uninvited’ etc! It doesn’t sound like a welcoming place that as a single guy you want to be associated with. That is the messsge here and not at any individual! Feel free to correct me if the comments made are ill informed! Can only comment on what’s been said previously but also many more have fantastic times so it doesn’t bother them! But all single guys are seeming to be looked at the same which is also unfair. And that’s from someone who is doing their own bit to try and enhance the scene! I don't understand, are you saying that people complaining about men acting inappropriately is unwelcoming? Should we perhaps keep our mouths shut instead?" No not at all. At no point have I said any comments are unwelcome or anyone should keep their mouths shut! I’ve expressed how the comments of how some behave puts me off going, as don’t want to a) be seen in that light and b) be made to feel uncomfortable while attending because that’s how males are viewed! The comments have been reassuring in thst if you do behave appropriately, of which I know I will, then the welcome will be fine and you’ll have a great time Thst is reassuring to know, and when I do get the opportunity to go, I look forward to being then able to make that judgement solely for myself! | |||
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"I find the conversation of single men not being made welcome ironic after the many comments above wanting more decent single men! As all the comments have said, it’s the quality of *some men attending which, if you know you hold yourself to a good standard then you’ll be very welcome and do just fine! If you ever decide to come to any club you’ll soon realise the type of man labelled wanking dead which is across all clubs even abroad and not just Newport. You’ll also see the amount of men breaking the simplest of etiquettes. There are however many many single men I’ve crossed paths with over the years who are undeniably good characters and get a whole lot of fun out of the evenings " The number of good single men do outweigh the bad. It’s just a shame that memberships are so limited to these guys because of the amount of the wanking dead and the single guys that are just entitled with the attitude of ‘I’ve paid so I get’. It’s also a shame these guys are concerned about going because of the way a lot single men are perceived because of the bad ones. It’s frustrating the club (and members) can’t come up with a way of obtaining more single male memberships, getting the good ones in but with a way of putting off the bad ones. I think that’s why a lot of the good ones sign up for couples memberships, and I don’t think it’s fair the female can use it to go solo, but the guys can’t. Maybe that’s something that could change which would encourage more couples memberships where single men are treated as equals to the single ladies on their couples membership? | |||
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